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If you want to marry a Nigerian shine your eyes well well. Really look before you leap.

Well I could say that for any type of marriage at all.

Subject him to every possibly known test to confirm faithfulness and preparedness.
If possible hack him and read his chats and messages,e-mails.

Once confirmed go ahead & leave the rest to luck.

Lolz. Why did they dare call it "heaven".

Na them find trouble.

Na joke ohh!!

I have pity cos its someone's hard earned money, but being that its a night club its hard to say sorry cos I know say evil things for happen there tire.

tossie101:
He was right tho.

Right about what exactly?

LecciGucci:
Kikikikiki
Ur u'v got a weak mind bro.
U are easily frustrated.

Confirmed nairaland Christmas lunatic. Look at all your replies on this thread and see insanity displayed. No single logic.

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All these ignorant fellows that read negative meanings into everything.

Even when you raise your two fingers to greet with the peace sign, they call it a satanic and anti-christ sign.

The way you talk, walk, eat or sleep or abbreviate words can all be categorized as being satanic in different ways.

Illiterate & ignorant Nigerians are mostly buying it.

That his wife too like to snap.

Muafrika2:
Oh my

If Being a lawyer did not teach her to protect her rights nothing will.

Infact you've said it all. Abeg give me chance let me faint.

Three different record breaking degrees and someone will still be behaving like a zombie.

I mean give me those 3 degrees and I will confidenly boast of a world class executive job that will earn me nothing less than half a million Naira in a month.

That lady simply doesn't know her worth.

When ladies are hunting men by baring their body, they rashly defend it with words like "slaying" , fashion, "my body my business".

But when they marry and become victims of other ladies hunting their men by baring their body,they call it satanic dressing, they slut shame her and snap her picture and call her prostitute.

Different shades of hypocrisy.

LecciGucci:
"When u are trying so hard to get 'likes' from everybody".

hey bro!!.. u can only choose one comment.
U cant make urs and also make another person's comment.


Since u know ur second paragraph is pointing against u... therez no need making d first.

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I've actually mentioned it earlier. Their lives and songs contradict their religious lyrics.

But I can also say in the same vein that both the lady and myself are probably also not fit to speak for God.

All the things you listed points to one thing and one thing mainly:

Your husband has developed chronic dislike for you.

Finding out the cause is now left for you.

If its possible to ask a girl of 12 for marriage, then its possible to also ask a 1 year old suckling baby for marriage.

Its only a very corrupt, cursed, abominable lunatic pedophile that will ask this kind of question or even think such thoughts

Na today? This has been happening in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh far too long and nobody cares to notice.

Christians are killed, raped, robbed over very unjust and inhuman reasons.

fweshy:
I have never begged a man for sex but that doesn't mean there are no women out there who do that

In this case, I'm not referring to just but a married man
Fine, so many married men begged me for sex but none ever forced me. What does a woman expect wen she follows a married man to his house or hotel? Old don't misunderstand me but If u don't need anything from him, u shouldn't paz boundaries. Do men forcefully sex women on the road, social media etc? It's only went u pass your boundaries

Thanks for confirming what I just said. Do you know how many months or even years these ladies continue to say no and yet these men continue to bombard them with different methods of deceptive lies, money and gifts before they finally bow to pressure.

Some of these men tell such lies that their wife is a devil and they're about to divorce her and they love the lady and will marry her afterwards.

Who's to blame here, the lady that followed him to hotel or the man that decieved her with convincing lies and showered her with gifts and begging after months of telling him no.

Some even point blank lie to the ladies that they're single.

Be objective and say the truth. Not just because you never were a victim of deceiving men.

fweshy:
From your response, u seem to be a lady. In case u don't know, most women beg for it and if a man bugs u day and night, u still have an option. Why would a man force you into a sexual act if reject his gifts. My dear, that's no good response

I'm a man and tell you what I've observed from experience and from different men and friends I know over the years when I used to be irresponsible.

To put you to test and to confirm this truth, tell me if you've ever begged a man for sex whether married or married.

But I bet you can't even count the droves of men that have used different methods to beg to sleep with you from your childhood till even now that you're married.

You be the judge.

nwaanambra1:
madam let me tell u one hard secret - u may not accept it but believe me thats the secret to ur happiness in marriage.

STOP MONITORING YOUR HUSBAND. STOP CHECKING ON WHO HE IS WITH. DOING THESE THINGS WILL LEAD TO A SAD BROKEN HOME OR WORST TO YOUR EARLY GRAVE.

LEARN TO ACCEPT HIM AS YOUR HUSBAND ONLY WHEN HE IS HOME WITH YOU. GIVE HIM YOUR BEST OF CARE AND LEAVE THE REST. LEARN NOT TO GIVE A FUK ABOUT WHAT HE DOES OUT THERE - BELIEVE ME ITS A WAR YOU CANT FIGHT. FOR YOUR OWN GOOD AND THE GOOD OF YOUR CHILDREN, PLS LEARN TO LET HIM BE NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS.

ITS NOT EASY ON MEN NOW - ESPECIALLY MEN WHO ARE A LITTLE BIT COMFORTABLE. GIRLS ARE SO DESPERATE NOW AND SEEMS TO PREFER MARRIED MEN TO SINGLE GUYS - I CAN CONFIDENTLY TELL YOU THAT 70% OF SINGLE GIRLS OUT THERE HAVE HAD ONE THING OR THE OTHER WITH A MARRIED MAN - MAY BE EVEN YOU ONCE HAD IT WITH A MARRIED MAN WHEN YOU WERE SINGLE.

checking on your husbands life and what he does outside is like dipping your finger in the anus - you will find either shit or mess or both and you will agree with me that none of them is pleasant to smell.

THE HONEST TRUTH IS - NO MAN HOLY PASS - SOME HOW WE ARE ALL HE-GOATS - SOME ARE JUST GOOD AT HIDING THEIR HE-GOAT SMELL OR DOESN'T HAVE THE MONEY TO FUND THEIR 'HE-GOATNESS'!

I'll advice a married woman to take this your advice, if and only if the husband is not physically abusing her and if he's taking good care of her and her children while keeping his droves of mistresses outside.

But as is usually the case, most men that keep ladies outside their marriage usually don't have much left to bring back home and take care of their wife and kids. Also they usually physically abuse their wives.

In such case I'll advise the woman to find her way.

fweshy:
Good evening all.. I'm a 24 yr old mother of 1: expecting my second baby in less than 3mnths. I reside in uyo.
I've bn married for a year and 10mnths. I've been thru a lot as a young mom: of course it happens in most homes.

It's heart wrenching to know my husband is having affairs with 80% of single ladies on his facebook page and I've tried my best to talk him out of such lifestyle all to no avail. Just within 2wks of our marriage last yr, he had already taken 3 to a guest house. 3months after, one of them added me up on facebook, I accepted D request n asked her if I know her but she said no. And I asked her if she added me up to tell me how she shamelessly opened her legs 4 my husband.. Hmmmm this girl insulted D hell out of me. Was I supposed to pretend I knew nothing?

Now, he's going out with a serving Corp member in my town and I need to let him know I'm not a fool.
Would reporting the Corp member to NYSC make me a wicked person? If no, how do I go about it?
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You women always pick up a fight with the lady or woman your husband is sleeping with.

You easily forget that no lady goes about begging men to sleep with her. It's these same men that approach them and keep bugging them day and night sending them gifts for months till they are finally left with no option than to give in to the man.

Some even say no and yet these married men force them into the sexual act.

If your husband is sleeping with your househelp or a lady outside, the person to confront is your husband and not the innocent lady that has used every means to say no and the evil man persists.

Ladies are now compelled to say yes at public proposal even if they never intended to.

It takes a lady with courage to say no when all eyes are looking.

At best say yes to cheer the crowd for that moment but when alone with the guy you tell him no.

Looking for flimsy reasons to equate buhari with God

How do you know it belongs to him.

Unimaginable wickedness happening everyday in this country.

What? Didn't she have relatives or couldn't she beg a lawyer for help?

Story doesn't quite add up because she committed no crime.

Na lie, good girls are getting married too.

Infact there's hardly any left cos they're all married off.

They marry faster than slay queens.

Get your facts right.

We've all been there in this failed union called 9ja. You feel so lost when this happens.

Just forbear and live.One day someone will arise thay'll purge this country of evil.

The baby be like, "kissing is boring".

blackmann:
So r u saying he shouldn't sleep with her if the opportunity presents itself? If it were me, I would grab it with both hands and give her a shagging she won't forget in a hurry. Me thinks OP is just hurt nothing came out of all his efforts and I don't blame him. These modern era girls are like that.

@Op, if the girl offers herself to u, pls no dull urself.

The girl is playing him big time and eating him raw and he's falling mugu.

Since he stopped playing ball, the girl probably wants to sleep with him again to get him throwing in the cash once more.

Op, I don't want to say that you are slowpoke number one of 9ja. A lady that plainly told you she doesn't love you anymore, she even has a boyfriend and you continue to spend on her and mess with her.

Now you're even contemplating visiting her on Xmas to sleep with her in absence of her boyfriend?

You're mumu never do?

Infact, you need Charlie boy

adetayo234:
Lolz. Imagine what a so-called Christian has reduced to? I wonder what your Saviour would be thinking about you when he saw this your comment.

Or maybe whatever Jesus thinks doesn't matter, provided your pastors accept it, right? You guys are just sinking deeper.

Satan get behind me.

if e pepper you too much, locate 3rd mainland bridge, stand on the edge, say your last prayers and do the needful.

sinaj:
If pretty girl like this dey hustle for bf, wetin worwor gelz like us go do nau

She's not hustling for bf cos Bleep boys full everywhere. She's looking for a reliable life partner. A man that's made and well behaved. That's what every real lady should seek.

You'll agree with me those are scarce.

adetayo234:
No biblical evidence? What an empty so-called Christian.

if e pepper you too much, locate 3rd mainland bridge, stand on the edge, say your last prayers and do the needful.