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Dump her and marry another wife. Please hurry up after all women are everywhere begging to be married. Just go ahead, this time check the gene of the new girl. How can your wife grow fat after watching her weight during pregnancy? You need a banging body my doctor, please make sure you get it before the year runs out. Why should you be frustrated when you are with both the yam and the knife. Enjoy your life jare. I hope young girls and single girls are reading this, a man that told you he hates fat women, you still went ahead to marry him thinking he will change his mind. Until we learn how to respect people's feelings and emotions, marriage will continue to be difficult for some people.

You can imagine, he wanted to marry your sister in order to waste her. Thank God for her, you knew the man has such tendencies and you are yet to alert your family members about his lifestyle. Why is he interested in your family? Please avoid him completely and watch out for your brother.

Oh hmmmmmmm, this one is far more than state or federal government donation. Ndi anambra na emesi ife ike.

Medunah:
You definately have no iota of sense or even basic human empathy!! If you have nothing meaningful to say, shut up already and move along!

I don't blame you, I blame Op for even replying to the garbage you spewed.

What is wrong with a 24yr old staying over at her supposed bf place? Someone she is considering marriage with? Someone her parents even know?
Yes, I admit she did wrong by still staying there after the first failed attempt BUT it doesn't justify the fact that the guy raped her, even gagged and tied her. Rape is rape regardless of the situation it happened in.

I know nothing I have said will make no sense to you cos pple like you are RAPIST enablers.

Don't learn to take responsibility for your actions. You think the world revolves around you, you expect me to have empathy after she escaped from first attempt. You are truly wise. Stop looking for my attention and grow up, leave rapist.

This is the circle I am talking about, because you grew up in such a home, you will raise your daughter to be like your mom while treating your wife like your father did.

soulbroken761:
I don't live in my parents house. I live close to the school where I'm doing my masters and working. My parents know who I'm dating. I don't think I was wrong to trust my "lover" not to rapè me under any circumstances. I only trusted the wrong person. I'm 24 and educated. I'm not a baby. I know how to not get pregnant. I didn't ask for advice. I will not be blamed more than necessary.

Since your parents knows your rapist lover, I think it will be good to get them involve. You are 24 and so, he attempted raping you in the afternoon, you remained till he came back at night. What a wise decision, weldone. You can enjoy those that are petting you and claiming that he raped you, I can't be one of them. Since you couldn't use your head to leave his house when he attempted and failed despite your biting him, enjoy your day.

soulbroken761:
I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.

I don't think you are ready to learn from your mistakes, you didn't just go to his house, you were staying for days. Will you advise your daughter to do same?

Where were your parents when you were camping with a man in this lock down season? You went to stay with a man that is not your brother and because you are a virgin, you can arouse him and then seal it up with its painful. You enabled the rape, you people should have regards for your bodies. Meanwhile go to the hospital to treat yourself and prevent pregnancy, don't come here with I was raped and pregnant and I don't know what to do story.

Go back to that uncle pastor that joined you, tell him your package refuse to change. People pretend before marriage and change in marriage, but yours showed herself but you decided to enter. Secondary, kindly move out of the house if it is a rented apartment, if you built it, tell her to leave while you keep praying from a distance. It's better to live in a roof top than to put fire under your bosom. Get your sanity back, may be she might start reasoning well. Emotional abuse is horrible. Her parents are begging because they know the truth.

Marriage is not for everybody, some are eunuch by themselves, some by men. It's better you discover where you belong. Marriage is honorable when you get it right, when you are in the wrong marriage, it's death. Better to be single and happy than to be married and sad.

Billionsclub:
The right thing done in the wrong way is wrong. U did the right thing in a wrong way. U could have taken both your wife,kids and niece together to buy the things. When you get there , tell everyone to pick, you don't have to give your wife the money. After they pick, you pay directly. Next time please do this. Just apologise to her.

Didnt you read where he said he took them for shoping and asked them to pick? Please op, send that girl home. Please. Your wife will see to it that she is frustrated, I am very sure she might even seize those things you bought.

princessConfy:
I'm working and I do support him. I'm not asking for money for myself. money to buy stuffs for his kitchen. I don't live with him, i dont make money except my salary and it is small. due to this lockdown my expense at home increased. He knows all this. I have never asked him money for myself. He wants me to visit from Monday to Sunday and I work from Monday to Saturday. the least I expect is T.p. cos he invited. I've not gone there on my own without his IV.

I hope what I am reading is not true. Madam, read what you wrote by yourself and see if you can allow your daughter date a such man. This man is not even pretending and you are there hoping he will change. Continue.

Please op, start looking out for yourself. Don't blame yourself for not choosing right according to our nairaland perfect home owners. Jesus himself taught he chose right when he told his father in the book of revelation that he will come and rescue man but when the time came, at the garden of Gethsemane, he began to have double mind. He kept asking the father to take away the cup but he had no choice than to yield to the Father's will. My sister people change, the only person that is unchangeable is God. Read through the scripture, you will understand more. Kindly make up your mind to give it to Jesus, allow the perfect high priest who went through it all to see you through. As per bp, start your day with four glasses of warm water, detoxify yourself thrice a week with lemon, turmeric and honey. Learn to listen to music that will lift you up. Engage in chewing moringa seeds or drink the tea. Finally sister, whatever good, sweet, holy, if it has any virtue ponder on them. Decide to ignore negative thoughts, you can do it.

Poorboy:
one guy that wanted to come back from Ghana one time like that in 2018 to marry one girl that was my close friend use to send enough money to her.

Till she add billion to his name, he once called and said his friends stole his 11 million in his house I was there when he called the girl not that the girl lied to me. After the call I told the girl you're dealing with a Yahoo boy.


But they later got married Sha hahhahhaahha. So hearing 11 million here. Lol

Some women no send oh, including mothers. It is truly well.

Poorboy:
I no no oooo

It is well oh!!!

Poorboy:
That kind thing wey give the money them no dey talk for public...... I doubt if he can say it here...... Lol

hahaha, that means comma dey.

phorget:
Hustle wey give person 11.4m that one make sense nah.

Not so true oh, ask invictus.

Poorboy:
lol send op pm na

No,its better he says it here. I sure say many people dey wey want know.

phorget:
Any hustle nah hustle o. If u wan hustle make u talk.

Haaa,huzzle get level, I want know if na huzzle wey make sense.

Poorboy:
you wan hustle

Let me know the type first.

Which kind huzzle give you that money?

It's obvious Ada have good heart and believes pleasing people makes one a better person. Tell her to wake up!!! She should stand her ground in removing negative energy from her present family. She should stop trying to gain their love, people give only what they have. How come the mother's sweet son wasn't the one going to the hospital? Why is he not taking care of the mother? She needs to start using her head. If I were her, I will not even pick their calls.

Abba Kyari thought he will live forever, when he died, they started telling us or reminding us of how everybody will die. Reading some people comment on how wike will be dealt with, have you forgotten so soon? Are you now saying you have the power to determine when you will die? Oh foolish man, you are but a fading flower, you can be pluck tonight. You don't have power over next minute. Be humble!!!

TrollPolice001:
The one you'll be abusing physically while your husband abuse her sexually.
God punish satan, na poverty cause wey pikin no dey with him mama.

I dey tell you.

It wasn't the pastor's fault, Paul warned Timothy concerning women like your mom, 2Timothy 3v6. He even called them silly women. I hope you will learn from her mistakes.

Please allow your sister, she enjoys receiving slap. You can imagine after the slap, they go into the room to finish work. Please it's their bonding pattern. Face your front.

I pray other young women will read this and learn.

This story might be fake but something like this almost happened to my younger brother. The lies from this Abuja chick, she lied about age, she was 38 claiming 30, lied about tribe, from mbaise claiming Delta, she lied about Educational qualifications. My foolish brother was even having S x with her all in the name of friendship. When you warn boys to desist from sexual immorality, they won't hear. Madam woke up one day and claimed she was pregnant, the pressure started, I can't be a baby mama. Pastor called my brother to do sharp marriage inside office and court marriage, my brother refused. That was when they remembered me, hmmmm. Ada ejiejemba, mbanu, taa. I told pastor to remove himself, both of them are adults. Madam was placed on monthly salary only for her to wake up that she needs house rent of 300k.I have to ask for her number from my brother, after schooling her, madam jaapa. I told her she can not use pregnancy as office, give birth then we will do DNA. Madam stopped calling, pastor stopped disturbing. The last time my brother called to ask of pregnancy or baby madam told him never to call her again. Show spoil, if only youth of this days will be vigilant and keep their body, most of this destiny killers will be far. You think Satan have time for games, he is not your friend. Flee from sexual immorality. Be wise!!!

sweetyinks:
I appreciate your advise and you won't believe it worked just yesterday. I will continue the effort

You are welcome.

This is painful, what is your mother saying?

It's obvious you are married to yourself. Kindly give him space while praying from a distance. Allow your brother to set up the business for you, with time he will surely come to his senses. While I am against divorce, I am also conscious of the fact that most people don't know their bp reading, don't risk your life while answering married.