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Useless father, drunk, can't provide food, flirt.

Bringing the prostitute to his house before the children and wife.

I blame your mom, she is a weak woman, no self esteem. Women like her encourages young women to endure rubbish in the name of marriage. Your mother self esteem is horrible. Your mother has ended up destroying you and your siblings because of her selfishness. What is keeping her in such a demonic marriage?

You are not under any curse, you are a victim. Your father deserve not just beating but abandoning. A shame of a man.

Ignore those calling you names and claiming that you are under a curse, they are exactly like your father. They were raised by men like your father and to them it's normal. Anyone that sees cheating as normal and even cheating on matrimonial bed as OK, just because Africa men are polygamous in nature is under a curse.

A father who can't provide for his household is worse than an infidel.

Ndi REDPILLER won't sleep tonight. Watch as they will open many thread to console themselves.

Odiegwu oh, osi no wife snatcher?

Reality is different from online.

Nna, fight for your marriage, enter midnight prayers, remember you are the priest of your home.

How have you been dressing, okeke dressing won't cut it, get up and start wearing designers. Body odor and mouth odor could be the cause.

Nna, how is your bedroom strength? You need to upgrade, learn different styles and buy her gifts.

Papa don't give up, marriage is for better for worse, remember God hates divorce. You can also involve your pastor. Please try by all means to make your marriage work.

Peace.

Ndi uchu, they can't believe that their fellow man is shielding his cheating wife.

Real life is different from online life.

Where is the husband of this evil? Useless men that are being controlled by pussy. Zero percent care about those living under their roof. Shameless idiots, you hardly see them at home let alone paying attention. Little wonder they die early.

As for this idiot, her end will be brutal.

Useless propaganda, you want us to forget about jos, Benue and NDA killings.

You can't confuse us with your fake profits. Na who dey alive dey talk about money. Heartless beings!

Imagine if it was the wife that came to post this story, you will hear things like pray for him, get something doing, a good wife builds her home, look sexy, cook for him, pamper him, get something doing bla bla bla.

Some "submissive " women will even tag her feminist.

Ndi oso Chi egbu.

Poster you are a good man, thanks for standing up for a helpless and naive woman with her kids.

Asi na afia suo, ozua na odu, kindly leave that car with your brother, let him continue to remit your balance to you.

Meanwhile, help the wife and kids to get out of the house. You can be giving her the money he is remitting pending when you will decide on how you guys can establish her.

It's not easy, but just do your best.

You keep using stupid economic achievement to cover up killings by Fulani terrorist.

Shame on you guys, blood sucking demons.

How about omotala and oshiomole gist? Any new info? Omotola sue gistlove? Abeg gist us.

Scary movie.

Rip loading.

You even lied to the police woman that he is your husband. How many lies you don dey tell those people wey dey beg you?

Na so dem advice world bank worker for gwagwalada make she leave her genuine husband, husband wey pay bride price and do wedding but she decide to be prayer warrior.

My sister d koko be say, the horseband drive the woman car, drag her from gate to another people gate.

Hmmmmm, she die oh, my sister she die, she never wake. Dem Don beri am. Her children no get mama again, her mama no get her again, even her prayers no get answer, her money she no enjoy, her husband dey alive.


Use your head!!!

Thank God because the region who are very good in tech, are those who gave us this government.

Let's enjoy our CHANGE!

Doradorwa:
She always cut the discussion of me knowing him off. Sometimes she accuse me of been ungrateful. She's actually trying hard for me to have a good life. Sometimes I believe she just want to have all the glory to herself like single handedly raising me. I'm in my finals in EKSU now and she's already talking of Msc. She just want to have all the glory to herself. It's something she has done for so long that she can not think of stopping now.

If this quote is not enough for single parents to think twice while bearing the burden alone in the absence of their living partner, what more can?

I beg you in the name of God, don't suffer alone. Besides what is the joy in saying I did it alone? You are cutting off from the relationship but not from the product.

Even if that child refuse to look for the other parent, will it give you any satisfaction?

This is it, any single mom that will not allow her sperm donor access to her child is joking. That child must look for her dad. Stop suffering alone, involve your sperm donor in child upbringing. I have been attacked by so many women here when I suggested that a woman should leave her child for the man. As long as it's not rape, give the child to the father.

Poster you are doing well, Anambra men hardly leave their kids outside, go to his village and ask questions.

I can be your friend but kurudu is far from life camp.

Please kindly take those kids back to their father or your father. How can your father disown you when he can't help your situation?

Why are you in hurry to state relationship with a man? Why are you having the impression that you need a man to be financially stable?

Send those kids to where they will be secured and start huzzling.

No good police officer in Nigeria, in fact, if you dare to be different, your colleagues will waste you.

Another invictus.

America, there is no much difference between Trump and Biden, the only difference is the media.

While Trump was open in his hostility towards China, Biden is doing his through proxy.

People should learn that America policies favours only Americans. (white)

To think the people he is fighting for are not even seeing what he is saying. You can never see me type rip for bandit and bh victims up north.

They love buhari regime to death, nothing else matters. Buhari can never be wrong, in fact he is their saviour.

Those sports people attacking him are only interested in their allowances, they know they won't even go far in the game. It's about stomach infrastructure.
Shame on some Nigerian youths.

At the end what matters is, weldone my good and faithful servant. Be sure you are one.

As for me, concerning this Matter, I blame buhari, our president is not ready to sanitize the church. Issues like this should be investigated, government needs to introduce CAMA like yesterday. Churches needs to pay tax and since they are claiming to be NGO, we need to see and know where the morning is going. In fact, it's an error for these pastors to be flying jets as NGO. You write living Faith Church but registered it as bishop Oyedepo ministry, who are you deceiving?

President Muhammadu Buhari, why are you not paying attention to this scamming going on in Christendom? Can pastors try this in US, UK or Russia? Many so called big pastors have served their sentences in those countries due to working system.

How about the slapping saga? What did the court do?

Oyedepo did not obey covid19 rule in Nigeria until he was called out whereas his son Isaac obeyed diligently in US.

Adeboye handed over Redeem to someone else when he taught you were serious with CAMA, now he has nicodemously gone back to becoming Daddy G. O.

Most of them are using money and fear to control the narratives.

Use your good office to regulate church. Thanks.

How about the catapault? Why didn't they obey the governor?

She caused her death, imagine collecting beating always and being poured water on to come back alive.

When you allow religious fanatics, blind women and failed nairaland urchins to tell you "to endure, it's for better and for worse, God hates divorce, stay for your children, pray for him, dress sexy "bla bla, you will always end up like this.

How many of us know our bp reading? Good for her, she died as MRS, leaving behind children and her horseband.

Good news

SSARS:
This happened yesterday evening in Lagos. Heard he was lured out by a friend and he was immediately surrounded by rivals. His so called cult brothers couldn't give him the protection they promised. How long will our youths keep killing themselves over stupid issues. As for the killers, the long arm of the law will definitely catch up with them.

Horrible

May God bless the Op, you are doing God's work. Women have been praying for cheating husbands since forever. Don't mind nairaland alpha males, men who cheat with impunity. Jesus didn't die and forgives only male cheaters, he forgives all. Heaven will not welcome alduterer because he is a man. All alduterers will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Op, it's possible you are her prophet Hosea, but the bad news about Hosea case was that she kept going back to prostitution. You both should involve the great high priest in your therapy.

Speechless, He is in a better place. The soldiers of Islam are fulfilling Jesus prophecy. Brethren be on alert, don't die for nothing.

Useless parents

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted that maybe it’s true you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know? That was one day holyspirit made you admit...so you knew you had the issue all this while but you would be shouting I am the person arguing (I never knew different opinions was argument. I heard it first from you).
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
When you were trying to win me and I was saying no no I didn’t want, leave me and you were ever persistent didn’t I tell you I am scared the depth of what you feel is more of obsessive not love?
Then I should to shout I would say cause am not a lier that you should leave me, is it by force etc etc which u refer to today and I do tell you then your pressure was too much and I didn’t like you which is normal to any woman who didn’t initially like a man that kept pressuring her...knocking her gate over and over on different occasions etc.

The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building because we had started the seperate building plans before we started dating?

And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do. I know men can have extended family responsibilities but women too have and it’s still ideal to plan inclusive of extended family.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding which is high (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my part.

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?

Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means once in a while but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?

Did you tell them when your mum came I told you on phone that I don’t think you should but extra mattress that I am not at home and you aren’t home and that the kids that joined could stay with your sister in her room and mummy use our bed? Or viceversal since they won’t stay for long? How have I made u spend or I have cautioned you instead in spendings and it has been insults or I am arguing?

When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me, and I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onions etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%.

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of buying some thing like good blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. Since the former cheap one spoilt, The cheap juicer bought spoilt first day. Even for my father house like 5 spoilt blender dey and from experience we realised blenders spoil easily and more expensive one last more?

Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?

Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use your car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

Did u tell them I said we shouldn’t keep this house n let me go back to my empty house because I kuku get were I dey live na him welcome me come ooo. I didn’t even use to want to visit him initially just so purity is maintained. since you moved to new location. Did I contribute to the rent or not and you said you can’t or won’t receive the contribution so I won’t come and say I contributed to rent in future? Have you paid any extra rent other than the one you paid which covers the year you were present also? Is it that I don’t currently have a place I am staying or that I do and it was empty since I was with you?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover. The days rain was so much and it drenched, we carried out the gen outside to air.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care at least and would appreciate that I am blessing and a good woman and not the typical African woman wen I also take up things at home. Simple

You have a problem, serious problems.

Barywhyte:
Hey bro. I read your previous message about @TheNoble007 pointing people to himself or something. I have not seen any of his messages pointing people to put their focus on him or something else other than Christ. He has consistently told people to seek God daily and be alive in spirit to God (in other words, crucify your flesh to the cross). I found your message very confusing (intentionally confusion), a very big instrument that still works today in the hands of Satan. God is not an author of confusion.

Go back and read exactly what I wrote. Because you are in a hurry to defend him, you are not seeing that I am a different poster. Besides, I am she and not him. I post based on my observation.

TheNoble007:
HAD I KNOWN ( BASED ON MY REVELATION)

Many people come to this Earth and don't know that this life is just a glimpse of the next life. We live our lives anyhow, no difference between worldliness and the church today. Prosperity Gospel is the preaching of today. The present Church has become a den for thieves, members like their pastors. People are running for miracles of their bodies and not miracle of their soul man to be delivered from the fires of Hell.

My people, HELL FIRE IS REAL. The torture of that place is unimaginable. As a genuine prophet of God, I am bringing this to you. Please follow God with all sincerity. What is that besetting sin that you cannot give up? What is that spiritual sin, that spiritual pride? The torture of Hell is real. I beg you, please save your soul. I beg you please. Are you an atheist? Please save your soul? Are you a born again Christian and you feel that you have arrived? Please save your soul. It is the end that matters. Self- righteousness is very dangerous.

I cried. I wailed. The torture of hell is fiery. In imaginable. Ah, God is a consuming fire. The first thought that will come to anyone who dies without making Heaven is - HAD I KNOWN.
. By then it is late. The torture of Hell is not for five years. It is not for 50 years. It is not for 50 million years. It is forever and ever. Please think about this.

No one will ever make Heaven if the Lord Jesus does not guide your hands. It doesn't matter the title you carry. Hell has no respect for anybody. There are many pot holes. So many. The pots holes now, are more than it was in the days of the early apostles. If you think that you can achieve eternity by your strength, by how energetic you are, you are on your own. The path to Heaven is for weak men and not for strong men. The Lord Jesus only guides weak men. Those who realise that they are unable. Those who cry out to Him daily for help. Ah, having seen what I beheld, I cried out to the Lord Jesus for help.

HEAR ME- If you don't cry out to the Lord daily for help, you are finished. He alone knows those things that you have neglected, that you think they are not sins. He alone will bring them forth, for them to be crucified..

I cried. What is that thing that is about to make you backslide. Yes I am talking to you. Is it a job, childbearing, house, money, name them. Would you take your eyes off them now? One of the reasons those good things have been delayed is because your eyes are still on them. That's why you have been praying for long on one particular topic. Take your eyes off them now and fix your eyes on Jesus. Fix your eyes on Him for Mercy. Please fix your eyes on Heaven. As you do this, those other things you seek, will be attracted to you automatically. I am a living witness.


Save your soul I beg you please. Save your soul. Cry out to the Lord daily please. I am begging you please. Serve God personally. There are many so called men of God you see today, they are not what they seem to be. Run to the Lord daily and ask Him to hold your hands and never let go. There are big pot holes on the way. Please I beg you. Stop being foolish. Stop living a prayer-less life. You feed your body everyday, and you don't feed your soul. You can only feed your soul by daily communion with God. Eat the bread of life and find rest.

Ah... Please think about your end. It is not about the beginning but the end that matters. Many started well with God, but at the end, they derailed. They felt they have arrived. They were deceived by the Devil, disregarded the warnings of the HolyGhost, and before they realized, Devil cut short their lives prematurely. Had I known is the wailing of the lost. Had I known, is the constant wailing in Hell. Please, let this wailing not be your portion.


Let the world be still. Let all voices cease. Lord Jesus, you alone speak to me. Make this your heart cry, not tomorrow, but today.


Shalom.

Is good you are beginning to point people to Christ.
Do well to start preaching balance scripture that is void of fear.

Abagworo say something.

cchub:
He wasn't Selina confirmed, rip thoughh

Another lost soul on his way to the slaughter.

Even native doctor dey fall, shrine attendant dey fall. America soldiers with the best of weapon dey fall on top Taliban matter.

When your cup full, e go throway.

Try school to see if you can get a job. Start working even without his consent. Start from there, then make up your mind if the marriage is worth it.

I don't know why your family will be comfortable with a man that doesn't want you to work and he is not taking care of you.

Please tell his family your truth, record it for posterity sake.