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When I remember my youthful days, how I would have been ifeoma, I scream GRACE!!!

Those promoting cultism, kindly open your thread to show us advantages, I am yet to see.

Mercychen:
You noticed it while dating and went ahead. because of free sex you lost your sense of reasoning then. Now you suddenly realize she's causing a mess and wanna quit? Whatever rocks your boat.

Now I believe what they say about marriage being an eye opener. It has opened your eyes to the fact that she's not what you want even though you blindly went into it because of the initial free offer of sex. What sex will do to a lot of men of this generation, Hm.

You should have left her for a men who likes such women instead of trapping her in only to divorce her later.

What I see in this squirting thing is, it's women who are sex freak that experience it. As in women who lack self control.

Correct me if I'm wrong.

Madam self control. Oga madam rigid, welldone.

Please my darling Vivian, I know how you might have felt, the ridicule, the pains, the disappointment from his people, the maltreatment from your bro and the humiliation from your ex husband.

My sister forget, allow the kids to see him but don't go alone, in fact choose the location.

I am happy for Austin Agada, the young man don suffer. Time to pay Daniel Onjeh for his selfishness. Austin may God guide you. Use your head!

Childofaking:
Please compare that to wherever you are and see, we are much better. That crate of egg at N1800 is still less than $4
Can you buy a whole crate of egg at $4 in the us ?

i just google it. it cost about $15 in the USA (about N8,850)

You mean those in US earn in naira? You mean to make 4dollar in US is same amount for a labourer daily pay in Nigeria? Proper sense should tell you that 4dollar to the person living in US is different.

I know of a Jos man here in Abuja, former MD in a bank, his daughter became sick and died. Only for the wife to accuse him that he was occultic. This woman went all the way to the village, her shop, neighbors everywhere to tell people that her husband killed their daughter.

The man almost ran mad, how do you prove that you are not occultic in Nigeria? He will beg, even asked her to see a therapist but madam refused.

It got so bad that the man asked her to leave, in his words, how can I be an occultic man and you are still here. Madam packed and left her two kids with "occultic" man.

Wetin fake prophets don do for naija eh? Fast forward to last year, after more than five years, madam came back to beg occultic man to forgive her.

She said her fellow market women and pastor deceived her.

As we speak, "occultic" man no gree collect her back.

Some of my gender believe so much in nollywood and fake prophets.

You are the problem, you know the type of woman you need yet you went for her. Stop putting her under pressure, hbp in pregnancy is deadly. You said she does supply for a supermarket yet she is lazy.

Oga, allow her to run the business, let her hire sales girl and also pay for the sales girl. That's why I don't buy the idea of husbands opening businesses for their wives.

What do they swear about during induction?

After destroying many families with his doctrine of hate and judgement, he is bringing in change due to his "not holy" sons that will take over.

He started showing himself when he married one year after his wife demise and watching his son wed his Jamaican wife with worldly gown.

Keep following men, Mr righteous left deeper life to chosen, tomorrow when chosen change, he will change again.

William, Mouka, Oyedepo, Adeboye etc. Are all men, they can only understand in part. Go to your bible and Holy spirit for proper guidance.

Mr I don't care for your fairy tale book met madam fairy tale book herself. What am I even saying?

No human life should be cut short because of their beliefs, and sexual orientation. Horrible!

If someone can kill this beautiful soul because of money, if expertise can lie about autopsy because of money, if karen can be raped and abandoned for death without the government fighting for her because of money, then unrighteousness mammon is real.

Beloveth, we are in dangerous time. Dead conscience everywhere.

When you see the amount of money this people make in the name of offerings and tithes and the little they give out, you will be pushed to question eternity.

Most of them don't believe in heaven or hell. They live for their belly, bible calls them merchandise of the gospel. They have perfected the act of arranging testimonies to deceive many.

Buhari failed in enforcing CAMA. You would have been amazed.

The goodnews is that Jesus is coming, be prepared. Your own might be death or you will witness rapture, just be prepared.

This characters didn't die for you, Jesus did. Looking up to Jesus, not charlatans. Fix your eyes on Jesus and study your Bible. Jesus is more than enough.

These charlatans should not be your picture of Jesus. Jesus loves you beyond your giving.

Please forgive the small girl, she is afraid. Your mother will be watching her back now even your dad, they know you are not through with them yet. Just start looking for evidence, put memory card in your small phone and record her abuse.

Don't give up, this might even be your destiny.

How can a healthy woman deny her husband sex for one month? Very bad, you hate sex yet you marry. Ndi uchu.

Oga, it is possible that you irritate her, your smell, eating habits, laughter or your sex style. It's possible she is yet to experience orgasms from you perhaps, she experiences pain.

Meanwhile, you have been a rapist, this is not your first time. She must be wondering how many women you might have raped before.
For you to go ahead despite her bleeding mouth, cry, tears to rape her and ejaculate means you are a pro.

She will forgive you with time.

DrMrsFunmi:
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TheGidRedpiller
Denreledave
Ubunja
Martinez39s
why is it that when ladies help they will always be quick to remind you how they saved your miserable ass even if the assistance they rendered was 20 years ago?
see a typical example is this quote that I've tagged you guys

This is sad, it's not a gender thing. Some humans derive joy in mentioning their givings and using it as an excuse to ridicule the receiver.

I see such people as eye service givers. Give only what you can forget.

Meanwhile, we have so many idiots on nairaland who derive joy in ridiculing women. Fools who wakes up in the morning having a sister, mother or even a wife and finds it OK to insult women.

Does satan have free gift? Come to new site Dei Dei and see something.

Op, marrying and taking care of your family is an achievement. Having children is an achievement.

Don't bother arguing with those that wants to sound woke. That a mad woman have a child and sees it as nothing doesn't mean the same for everyone. People ideas about achievements differ.

Some people don't see sky crappers as achievements while some see village hut as achievement.

My brother your children and family is an achievement for you. Many people are aborting theirs, denying them and even humiliating them.

If you care to know, stroll into any IVF clinic and see the number of people queuing for children. Don't allow nairaland oso chi egbu group deny you of the peace you get from seeing your children.

You have done so much for yourself, so many people are even praying to be where you are.

When you find yourself in a society that worship money like ours, you need to stand your ground in celebrating your OWN achievements per time.

Shalom.

Timmi:
And these “And almost all things are by the law purged with blood; and without shedding of blood is no remission. so Christ was once offered to bear the sins of many; and unto them that look for him shall he appear the second time without sin unto salvation.”
‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭9:22, 28‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Are you new here? Kindly save your breathe. Happy new year.

I want to thank Seun Osewa for allowing this thread to be active. Thanks sir, Happy new year!

Nonsense.

UCHIHAmask:
I don't care much about the OP's story but your statement got me....
Your wife cooks and you clean the kitchen,is she pregnant?do you leave outside Nigeria?do you watch lots of Hollywood?
That isn't a way to play romance or show your care,it's a bit unmanly if you do it for reasons outside the one I mentioned, believe it or not,you are spurning subconscious negativity in her,there are things we see as meaningless that might have subtle implications in a long run(psychology)..
I tell you,no normal woman in this world wants her man to be unmanly,you should help out only when situation calls......
Liking cleanliness isn't a thing,some wifes wouldn't even allow you do it,I love cooking and I do it for my roommate whom I 'm far older than but when I go home I don't cook for my own junior siblings because,you know why!! and when I do cook,I mockingly let them know that It just for fun,yet I'm the best brother in the world..

Mothers failed God and humanity. To think Rebecca son Esau could cook but her most beloved deceiver son Jacob couldn't. Since then, many mothers have been destroying their sons.

Just imagine reasoning and we have more mothers applauding this.

Cleaning your kitchen unmanly? What won't I read.

It means we only have manly men in Nigeria. Every western, Asia and European men are unmanly.

Ndi owa December, useless set of human beings. A society that sees nothing in evil and promotes same. Go to the east and weep for these people, mothers, fathers, religious leaders praising drug barons and yahoo people. Tueh.

lexy2014:
1. is it by qualifications ALONE that nigerians are given appointments?

2. I dont need to read the thread again. am asking you. what is the thread about and what success does the thread say oladapo achieved?

3. why does buhari take his medical treatment abroad?

4. its not my interpretation. its what it is. you are getting emotional cos i dont see how what u said has anything to do with d discussion. pls check section 14 (2b) of the nigerian constitution and tell me how your response relates with d discussion.

5. how is "Nigerians and their entitlement mentality" not a generalisation?

6. I didnt ask u whether u spent 37 years in the US by choice or not. why did u spend 37years in the US? why didnt u spend those 37years in nigeria? why didnt you come and work and raise a family in nigeria?

7. cant you make a choice to get treatment in nigeria? cant your medical records be transfered to nigeria?

Thank you Lexy, thanks. Old men are mostly the problem of Nigeria. Imagine this Timmi or whatever will not be less than 50years yet full of deceit. Thank you for exposing lies.

Most of them remember Nigeria when they have accumulated money and needs where to avoid tax in order to continue to milk the system. He is still strong to be running to America in the name of medical history, when he will be face to face with real emergency, Nigeria hospital and doctors will be waiting for him. We wait.

One woman on nairaland do pass you op, she kept ridiculing women to get kudos from nairaland boys. Not until her atheist partner not even husband chased her and her baby to sleep inside uncompleted building. We are here.

All these generals bushmeats, behaving like the animals that they are.

Too many scammers on nairaland, most of them will always support their members. Don't expect them to be reasonable, you can't give what you don't have.

Klass99:
Lol , so you know the character I am talking about?

He actually commented on Page 1 of this thread. I can't help but shake my head, they live very stinking and lousy lives offline but come online to constantly bash/insult strangers, women in particular.

I saw a post where he called a female user midnight newspaper and said something about her lack of a husband. In my own case he said I am a bitter woman who can't find a man to settle with, if his kind were the last set of men on earth I would rather hug a transformer.

My deduction - People with truly crappy/shitty lives offline are the ones who come online to spread their misery and nastiness to others.

Apt!!!

He is not alone, just keep observing, you will be amazed by their stupidity.

Klass99:
Please where is Eazzy? Something interesting happened I thought I should share with you based on the bolded parts of your post.

In 2020 an individual from here quoted me on a thread and said please can we talk privately I have sent you a PM. I quoted him back and said we couldn't have anything to talk about, as he had been previously rude and insulting towards me without any provocation on my part.

I ignored him/the PM, wasn't interested in anything he had to say because he has a Nairaland history of nastiness, insulting and demeaning female users (again without any provocation on their part)

Last night on a trending front page thread, I saw the baba say he has 3 kids from 3 different women and he doesn't give a damn about his baby mamas

I thought to myself what sane, decent and well put together female will not care about his sexual history or will want to hook up/marry this kind of person with all his baggage? Tufiakwa

This is not just his history, it is his present continuous future tense - as we say in English language (I don't think I got it right) but you sha get my drift na? Baby boy we care o and we worry about ending up with community preeks. By we, I mean the sort of woman I
described above.

I am very sure he is already here, deceiving himself with grammar. I just knew something was always amiss with the individual. Uchu superstar.

The worst is in marriage, you will see a woman casting all her family members, telling the husband all the details of their past and when yawa gas, the horseband will use it to ridicule her for life.

All these team we don't keep anything from each other, una still dey learn work.

Tomorrow when she commits suicide, alot of our fake Christians will judge her for killing herself. How people are comfortable with blackmailing shows the deep rooted hatred you have for women. As for the efulefu man....