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BBWLOVER:
this is real rape case. not all those oloshos going to guys house to spread smelling toto and when they guy Bleep ther smellig toto and see that it is really smelling and sends them out, they blackmail him by saying he raped them. these are the rapist that should be traced and brought to book

Because she is dead, assuming she survived and happen to tell her story, you will still call her names. I pray you don't get lynched falsely without getting help. I hope your helpers will locate you when you are alive.

pocohantas:
Naso. You can’t defend this one because she is dead na. Toor!

One of their female enabler is asking for investigation while promoting it on family section. Collecting of gift from a man according to her is an excuse for rape.

How old are your kids? Leaving children with strangers this days can be dangerous. Be sure your health and kids welfare comes first before career.

KingAzubuike:
You dey Offa not ilorin.. moreover Offa is known to be dominated by Ayes. Ilorin post office, taiwo road down to oke -oyi is dominated by eyes. No wonder two of una dey hail una self yet you calim you're not a member that you only know their slangs. Biodun damilare abi weytin be that your name again, I will ruin your life.

Hmm, it's getting more interesting!!!

Please and please, ladies and gentlemen, kindly ignore trolls and bitter souls. I expect this horrible individuals promoting and encouraging cultism to go to southern kaduna and deliver helpless villagers from killers herdsmen, but as usual, their meaning of oppression is wasting their fellow youth in the name of supremacy. I don't know how you can look at your mother and father and still remain a cultist. Look at how most parents are suffering, in a country without welfare even for aged parents yet you want your parents to enter grave with sorrow. No wonder Buhari called youth lazy. I hope you will be proud to recruit your sons and daughters into cultism,so that your generation will continue to enjoy the goodies in cultism.

May we not be found at the right place in a wrong time, may useless police officers not be on our case and finally may genuine helpers of destiny arrive speedily.

Satan is truly wicked!!! I can't believe what I am reading, to think some people still see good in disaster.

holusormi:
I swear !! - I felt very angry reading the post - imagine the fuckery!!! - he didn’t blame his useless father and LovePeddler mother , rather chose to blame a man who helped him despite not being indebted to him in any way at all -

@CharlesELIKIBA, you are an ungrateful soul , and I hope all you have is taken from you as quick as it was given to you , I Hope you loose it all in a freak accident because you clearly don’t deserve the mercies you’ve been given. God punish you bro !!!! - Fucking entitled cunt son of a LovePeddler mother !!!!

You are a bitter soul, may all you wish the op happen to you in a hundred fold.

How about the billions use to search for oil in Chad basin and north east? You mean it's not development?

I just read about Navy nabbing some young men during initiation, those looking for constitutional backing, ask Navy.

Op, watch how Nairaland perfect human beings will only blame you for trying to say how you felt towards your childhood. You are even lucky to be successful, they would have called you lazy and the normal story of nobody owes you would have been everywhere. Just don't bother trying to explain yourself, you will read more of such. I wish your mom did better by not giving you out. Meanwhile, concerning your dreams, don't see it as a big deal. Like a chaff thrown to the wind, learn to do so with negative dreams. If you are a Christian, plead the blood of Jesus. You don't allow such to weigh you down or be a concern.

It is well sir, I hope you are not the cause of this constant malice. I hardly keep malice, I don't know how people do it but I think it also depends on your partner. One gift of the Holy Spirit is love, it comes with ability to let go immediately. I am very grateful for such grace, please kindly pray for your wife, she needs to die to self. You can add fasting and midnight prayers. Keep declaring the word of God on her, remember you are the priest of your family. It is well.

Sharp1112:
that's what you think, some cultist dey wey u get mind pass, dey can fear die. the ones that do the killing and the ones that accept govt work like rigging elections and all those nonsense, those are the evil ones, I know cultist wey Neva slap person before. Those of you wishing deaths on all cultists,know that if all the cultist were to die at once, there is a 50% chance that someone u know and like will be among them, no one is to dull or too smart to join a cult. may God help us all, make man dey kill him fellow man for pleasure, even animals no dey do am

Akuko uwa, why did the person join? You know cultist wey never slap person. Weldone.

Jostoman:
If you compare the way they force Christian to sit at home during Easter period and the way the northerners celebrate their sallah then you will know the kind of man that is rullig Nigeria

Is it their fault? Is it not so many fake Christians and kids from failed Christian parents that have been insulting pastors and Christianity all in the name of sounding woke? They even go as far as claiming we don't need church to pray. I don't blame muslims and our leaders at all, they know majority of Christians are fake and don't believe in eternity. Muslims are dogged when it comes to their belief. Many rev fathers and pastors were busy insulting other pastors for asking the government to open church. How can a house divided by itself stand? Whatever you are doing that is not populating heaven, you are populating hell. No middle ground.

Sirjendon:
Beware of Igbo's anywhere, only make friends to them on a casual level, nothing more than that.
They don't help only to exploit ppu.
they make money only to use to compete with themselves.

You are wrong.

oldtruth:
When she was abusing him, did she did it privately? What David said was, "tell her to call me". He doesn't have her number and he shouldn't be begging to search for it.

If she likes, she called. If not, goodluck to her.


and to you seeking private blessing, you better prayed that both public and private blessing don't pass you by

Chai, may both public and private blessings locate me in Jesus name. I have learnt another prayer point. Thanks sir!!!

The gate of hell shall not prevail!!!

Op be very vigilant, newbies coming here shine your eyes.

tenderjunkie:
OP, a quite touching experience you've shared. Unfortunately I have a relative battling addiction as well

The truth is, drug addiction is messy and it's best not to even start.
A study once revealed that a rat will rather die being hooked to cocaine than go in search of food.
It's bad enough to be hooked on drugs, but our society has made it almost impossible for addicts to overcome the addiction.
Our churches have failed woefully in this regard.
You complain of addiction and they hook you on prayers, as though prayer is the end result.
Prayer is only a tool to get to the end result.
Aside prayer the churches have failed to set up establishments to fully rehabilitate drug addicts.

I'm not talking of rehabs were you go and spend sometime then when you're out you relapse.

I'm talking of complete rehabilitation in the mind, body and spirit. A rehab center were as you're taking time off drugs, you're introduced to vocations, life changing principles, truths about life. Even when you get out, you're monitored and you're actively engaged in something of purpose.
Who better to implement this than the church?
After all we are the light of the world and the salt of the earth.
Church is not only to collect tithe and build cathedrals. They should have a meaningful impact on the society as well.

OP, concerning your brother's case, so called big men of God won't work any miracle. Your brother will have to find God for himself

Be waiting for church, in America many churches are doing it yet people are dying. If you like don't take responsibility for your actions, you want church to clean your mess. When you can't even obey Bible by fleeing from all appearances of the devil.You use your hands to invite infested wood with insect and you are not expecting lizard to visit. No need to even preach heaven and hell, just live anyhow you want so that the church can rehabilitate you. Use your body for all manner and heap the blame on church. Some Parents are failing to raise sound kids all in the name of civilisation, Some kids with sound upbringing are jumping into all manner of stupidity yet we need to blame the church.

Congratulations dear, may God bless you and your family. Your present husband is a proof that good men exist. All the best!!!

Hmmmmmm, another career and marriage thread, this one is even practical from a man. I hope the alpha Nairaland wannabe and the perfect women association will read and learn. Real life experiences are different, claiming a woman shouldn't desire career but just marriage is funny, what gives people fulfilment is different. Here the op wife left almighty US, degrees and marriage just to chase her dreams.

Ndi oso chi egbu, carry your cross.

Climatology100:
This life is so euphemiral though full of twist and turns.
Firstly, I do appreciate all your concerted advices as well as the insults, I must admit no man is an island of knowledge.
I traveled and the DNA test was done, I was especting a quick result like 2hrs but the doctor told us it will take 5days to a week before the result will be out.
I'm in deeper mess, I saw my daughter today for the first time and no doubt she's mine but I will come back to that later as what happened today between I and my ex is I don't know.
When I first saw her, the rage in her is shocking as I've never see her in that mood before as I was so scared to move closer to her and when I do I received barrage of slaps and beatings, she cried profusely and strange enough my parents were just looking at us as I was left to calm her down on my own.
The situation took a twist when we reach home as the way she and my parents were doing look strange, just like the old days when she was younger, the gists and the friendship and despite trying to avoid her, we ran into each other twice and it wasn't funny as she can't look straight into my eyes, she was breathing heavily as the closeness is just too much believe me I don't know how we got kissing in the first place, thank God for my mum footsteps and the second was in her car when she was about leaving, we had a lengthy discussion where she told me she know I will be back and that she only marry her husband just to despise me, she also told me they have been living a separate life for over 3years after a physical attack by the husband after he won't pay back the money she loaned him to support his business.
Again, I can't explain how we end up kissing passionately again and all this is known to my dad as he told me he's being watching us especially what he saw us doing in her car.
I'm 37years of age and this thing? It's getting too much for me to handle.
My daughter is just like my mirror, the way we quickly bond together is amazing, she was so free with me and my parents and I kissing my ex twice? God help me.

Hmmmmmmmm,another hmmmmmmmmm. You are gathering infested wood, see you see lizard.

Climatology100:
Seriously I really can't say if the husband knows but she wasn't cheating while we were together.
There's a huge development today as she told my sister that I'm the father but I will travel down south tomorrow to get a DNA test done just for clarity purpose but all this will be done behind her husband.
This is a very descreet move known only to my parents and sis.
I will give an update ASAP.
Thanks ma for your inputs, God bless.

OK, I wish you well. I hope it works out fine.

Does her present husband know about the real father of the child? Was she cheating on you while you guys were dating?

Confusedwomsn:
Thank you for pointing out the hypocrisy of his post, please let it go. Silence is golden.

No qualms, wishing you well.

The usual attention seeker, can't waste my data on you. You can try harder.

Nitah1:
This here betrayed your unnecessary support for the useless and confused woman.



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I am a graduate of Mechanical Engineering from FUTMinna, since 2006. My current city of residence is Abuja. I worked as a sales rep and workshop supervisor in an Automobile Servicing Company. I am versatile and I am ready to learn new things. Please help!!! The burden is much on hubby and I am tired of staying at home. Have been at home since October 2012. I actually resigned due to childbearing. Had issues medically and needed to rest. Thanks.

What has this got to do with anything? To start with, I am sure you didn't check the date of my post. Meanwhile, what has my post got to do with you terming men that helps their wives as slave whereas, you are doing same in your house?

Nitah1:
Madam,i ur journey on this planet,u will never have a husband like me...i love my wife and trying to portray me as a slave by helping her won't change a thing lady...pls dnt quote me again.

I have just quoted you. You are a slave simple. You are washing your own clothes, cooking and maybe providing money for family upkeep. Oga, you are a slave, you said it yourself. Any husband that does that is a slave of which you are Chief of them. Abi you be boyfriend?

Confusedwomsn:
Thank you and your opinion has been noted.

Just a simple question, would you wish your daughter to be the breadwinner of s home were the man is not jobless and earns better thsn her and also be burden with all the responsibilities of the home.

How can s grown man in this century be trapped into marriage with pregnancy, there are thousands of baby msms out there.

I'm a terrible woman and human being, what is stopping him from leaving.

I am surprise you are asking that confused man for his opinion, such men will use religion to destroy you. Look at everything he is claiming you are doing wrong in asking your husband to do for you, it's the same he is doing in his house. It's nairaland, I know how they roll. You can never be right as long as you are a woman. He is taking bullshit from his own wife and he is here claiming otherwise. Stop giving this people your attention.

Nitah1:
Look at you,did you sleep at home last night at all,when have you become op spokesperson?
Where in my comment i said is a boyfriend that washes his clothes?
I said you can not ask you husband to wash his cloths as if he is your boyfriend.
And just as you know,my wife is perfect.....she cannot ask me to wash my cloths,she cannot come online to call me slow,she cannot come online to advertise her self how she takes care of everything at home and axpect me to worship her...that's what your friend does.
Just you know,you jump in here cos i never quotes you anywhere,i quoted the op but since you has a running tap called mouth and a very bad upbringing,you don't know how to maintain your lane.



Passing shot��,my wife never imposed pregnancy on me as yardstick to keep her as wife.



Go get a life.



Respect your man or get ready to move like herdsman.

This is public forum, I have every right to quote you. Maybe you need to go back and see what you wrote about washing, slavery and boyfriend. You claim your wife is perfect, you wish. Isn't obvious you are the slave trying to please your perfect wife. Hypocrites like you go about bragging about how you don't take shit from your wives meanwhile you are pure slave. For you to see op husband washing his own clothes as slavery meanwhile you are happily answering slave in your house shows how wonderful you are. It's too early for you to know if your wife imposed pregnancy on you, don't be in a hurry. Oh, as per getting a life, worry not, I don't need your kind of life.

Nitah1:
Madam park well pls....my wife never expect me to do it as the op to her husband ok.
How can u ask your husband to wash his clothes cos you guys are having issues in marriage?
Because the man cannot bend,the wife too remains adamant,between the two who do you think ought to b more submissive ?
Look,your friend isva terrible woman,you cannot compete with man in marriage ok...this is Africa.

You are already shouting because your hypocrisy is oozing. I don't need to descend low like you in your assumptions. You jumped into this thread, crucifying the op, claiming it's boyfriend that washes his clothes yet in your house, you are that slave you are claiming the op wants to turn her husband to. You do it happily because according to you, you love your wife. I truly pity those who go to you for counsel. I am very sure your wife is also perfect.