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Some girls will never permit you to physically touch any part of their body on a first date! Not because they don't want you or something, It's just that It's the first date,and they don't want to appear cheap!

Its obvious that the world
ends everyday for a woman who the
society frowns at with disdain and
scorn like she decided how her life
should be.

Physically / emotionally abused wife and/or divorced Widowed

Her kids don't fare any better,they
miss the love and attention a father
would have showered them with.

Divorced, separated..... death

In the neighbourhood they are labelled
as inferior

The kids are discriminated against or they actually are suffering from low self esteem

and their mom lives in her
shadow trying to forge ahead despite
the gnawing scars inflicted on her..

Physical and/or emotional scars

Whats the way forward for her?

Confirmation and/or clarification is the way forward.....

Coldfaya: May ur wife give birth to twins!!
Kai nigerians always complain about empty lyrics but never patronise meaningful artistes. Iyanya is a classical eg. He used to beg for shows back then even when his songs were dope, azin very clean n meaningful lyrics. Yet he earned next to nothing. Bt since him enter kukere now, story change

May your wife give birth to triplets
You see the problem? People don't practice what they preach I bet he didn't know of Inyanya before "kukere" !!! Stick to what makes "sense" to you and allow or should I say permit others to wallow in their esteemed state of "uselessness!" Shalom!!!

Stick to what you like! When Inyanya was doing good music, few Nigerians knew or patronized him! He did kukure n all of a sudden he blew! I get ur point, But It's business and they call it commercial music!

A person that is under a spell would not know or admit that (s)he is under a spell!
Your/her problem obviously lies inside of u! Look inwards and you would be surprised that You're the chief architect of your misfortunes!

Anyways, somethings can't be undone by praying only, you need to add fasting to your prayers! Fast n pray by yourself for yourself!! Don't contract it out to any man of God or any prayer house!

Walk into any (at least,five) bank in Enugu and get first hand information on the subject matter,It's usually free at this level!
I wouldn't advice you to "put" all ur "eggs" in one basket ( banks),It's always a high risk venture! They might end up "claiming your hotel".....Try partnership or look for investors or entrepreneurs. Bros,If that "hotel project" is all you've got,Please do not go to any bank !

This is obviously a 'thread abuse!'

A red card would be absolutely disastrous!

Penalty against Nigeria!
NFF is seriously celebrating right now!

May the better team win! Ahbeg, I can't shout!

The Automated Teller Machine installed @ the boys quarters of one of my mansions in Banana island just developed a little problem, although I've called the M.D of zenith bank to carry some cash to my residence @ VI -he mistakenly took the cash to my other mansion in the Pacific ocean! So Please bear with cos am on a spaceship to Mars for a friends wedding anniversary! I would've called u,but u don't have a phone that can take calls from Mars!

Obviously, you can't take all these alone! Your parents should be in the know! Involve your family! He's trying to break your spirit! If he succeeds, am afraid ,cos of ur suicidal tendencies! YOUR FAMILY (PARENTS) SHOULD BE FULLY AWARE! DO NOT HIDE ANYTHING FROM THEM!

Interesting

Resilience: He could speak out his mind cos he is rich and not looking up to anyone for favors or his take home pay.Simpleee.Truth hurts

You're definitely not living up to your moniker....

caramelflava: So true about his fiancée. The probation period seems smart but I don't have the patience. I'm just going to end contact with him.

Seems your mind's made up! But give him the benefit of a "talk" . Let him know ua done with him..... then you disappear like you've hinted! If you truly felt anything for him in the first place, then I believe he deserves a "talk!" Shalom!!!

If you ask her, how would you then 'test' her 'love' fr u? Even If you dont ask her, your 'parameter' for 'testing' love is totally biased!

It's possible there are other reasons that could possibly explain your attraction towards him n vice versa , but all I see (from ur post) is the 'sexual attraction' only. Eliminate the 'sex' (3-6 months) and see how it goes .
BTW: If he's engaged, what would happen to his fiancee even If you continue with him? Iron all these out btw the 3-6 months sex probation period! Good luck!

"Honesty is the best policy"
Na our anthem fr my primary school !

met her on my way to the present!

LSE!!!
Low self esteem!

Your sis needs to understand that you mean well for her, even If she doesn't understand now, she will later do! Tell your dad and step mum,pastor / imam, anyone she has respect for about it, even If you feel that she will be 'insulted' .

At 19,you can't do much by merely talking / advising her. Since she stays mostly at home, your physical activities (your friends, your calls, how u dress, etc ) and how go about them would definitely influence her in a way. Actions speak louder than words!

If your dad is actually influencing her (negatively), Please do not send her to him! Help her! You're her big sis, If you abandon her now, you may not forgive yourself later!

Obviously, you Don't know her friends. Get close enough to your sis! Know her friends and the kind of persons they are. She might have a BF, get to know this person! Don't try talking her out of her relationship before getting to know him! Like it or not, she's an adult and her Guy might be of help!

Do you know the kind of movie she likes watching? get interested in her and show genuine concern . Don't belittle her why correcting her! Don't kill her spirit!

This is so "foreign" and ""funny" !
Wish you the very best of luck!
Who would want to settle with / for a "liability?" .....Anyways, It's just a moniker!
Men! This girl get mind sha! Kudos for daring to be different! lotta guts!

Parents (FG) Listen to your children (students)!
We're the leaders of (unending) tomorrow!
Try to pay our school fees (stipends)!
and give us a better education(overseas)!


Budgeting process for over 8 months?
THIS IS PURE , UNADULTERATED WICKEDNESS OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!

The budgeting processes has not delayed your salary for a single month!

I Don't discriminate! I talk to everyone in like manner! Talk to them like you would a guy! It makes it a lot easier and surprisingly, girls appreciate amm o!!

priscaoge: One guy I met in a bus really made me cracked my ribs . After all his grammar and forming Yankee dude,he end up telling me that he want to change my surname . He forgot that I was there when a lady brought him to the park,bought ticket for him and gave him some money

E fit b the mum,aunt, sis or a friend of the family! E fit b d Guy giv d "lady" some "change" bt d lady was kind enough to return some token as t.fare etc...

I approach them by not actually (Verbally) approaching them! It works like magic!

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Omexonomy: Their is this people from benue state who are having a very funny culture. A man who is a member of the family is alow to have s.ex with all other females being married into the family. To them a woman is being married into a family and not neccesary the property of the man only. A man can use his wife to entertain his visitors or brother

Oga kindly tell us where (as precise as possible ) in Benue state or hold ur peace!

destino24: RIP to the dead.

let's be clear on one thing, IT WAS NOT AN ACCIDENT

Conspiratorially! No facts! Just typing / talking! Because He was once a president nd now a presidential hopeful, accident no fit happen to im