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Take a stroll to the nearest soccer pitch / field in ur 'area' and/or to the nearest soccer viewing center in town! As e kom b say u be 'f'.... you go sell wella!

Everyday I pray, I always ask God to keep them alive..... long enough for them to eat and enjoy the fruits of their labours!

OP,(If unmarried)kindly speak / vouch for thyself!
Married folks can/may speak for their spouses and themselves (If they have sufficient evidence)..

Ironically, most e-voters ain't going to cast their votes 'physically' on election day!
On same note,most e-politicians and / or e-warriors will be 'warring' with and on their phones and/or laptops on election day! Infact, they would cast their votes on their laptops or phones in/from the comfort of their homes! People could be funny !

olrotimi:
why do Nigerians have a problem with comprehension? Didn't you see his call up number to be 13C, do you have to be spoon fed all the time? You should be able to make simple deductions

Am (sure) you can 'spoon feed' him without (any) iota of superiority or inferiority embedded in your post! I just can't help But wonder out loud the kinda researching you've done to posit the bolded !

sonOfLucifer:
There is no truth except this truth.

Am sorry! Pardon My shortsightedness! I can't find the 'truth' ua referring to! Please do me a favour and 'show'/point it out to me!

Tiwa Salvage....Most celebrated

Hope nobody's original documents got burnt!

Merlissa:
A lovely guy.. Am bringing ideas for US to start a business..

Am very hard working!
I believe we can grow as one

Who is a "lovely" guy?
Could you please....... kindly..n.. .. discreetly describe such a person?

What is your definition of "good?"
n what are u bringing to the table?

So what 'truth' has lucifer told u?

✔You could die in your sin. (If unmarried ).

✔Disobedience to God. (If unmarried).

✔It's a spiritual catastrophe. Intimacy is the union of two spirits. You could inherit spiritual problems that will manifest physically. While and after sex,you and your sex partner becomes 'one flesh' . Gen 2 vs 23-24

✔Satan is the ultimate lawyer and will use any disobedience to God's commandments to request permission of God to attack people, especially Christians, and bring them under bondage or possession. ECCLESIASTES 10:8

✔And here resides the crux of the whole premarital sex issue. As an unmarried man and woman become "one flesh", the demons in either party have now legal access to both parties, thereby bringing both people under bondage to Satan, as they are now both one in body and spirit. So if one person who is free of demonic infestation has sex outside of marriage with a demon-infested person, the demons have a legal right to enter the clean person due to their bonding and their disobedience of God's commandments. And if both are clean, Satan has access to both of them because of the same disobedience. The hedge has been breached.
Shalom!!!

Pls i wish to know if God truly matchmakes.

If you know how to hear from God and if you know his voice! Definitely, God can "match" you to a prudent woman as a wife!
Proverbs 19 vs 14

If truely God match makes, is it only by dreams one can know?

Surely the Lord GOD will do nothing, but he revealeth his secret unto his servants the prophets.
✔Dreams (Joseph)
✔Prayer n Fasting (Daniel)
✔Through a man or prophet of God (Your pastor, etc )

Is it possible dat satan can influence ones
dream

Satan often appears deceptively as an angel of light. He uses counterfeit ministers who appear genuine, but are actually fraudulent deceivers. ( 2Corinthians 11:13–15 ). But if you know the truth, it'll definitely set you free. (John 8 vs 32).

No smoke without fire!

Be cool. They mean well for you,but obviously not going about it ideally!

@ 26, you should be totally responsible for your life! Abi are u irresponsible

Perhaps (he believes) you've picked up (or picking up) an old (unhealthy) habit of his (ur father).
You should have a heart to heart talk with your dad!

NairaLand don do some peeps strong thing o!

We are not sad, we are happy.

Stay alive and re-live the memories!
That's happiness!

Tim Lahaye ,author of "why you act the way do" believes that no one is 100% Phlegmatic, I believe this too! He also posited that no temperament is more desirable than another. Each has its vital strenghts and makes it's worthwhile contribution to life.
Identify your secondary temperament, if you haven't so u'd be able to tap from the strenghts of that temperament.
Find the book I quoted up there, it will definitely help!

jmoore: And she is also entitled to pension if she quits the relationship.

Ahbeg helep me ask o

Yea,but it's 50/50!
Women also have / make their own money too! So it's definitely going to be a "contributory" situation for me and my household! Moreover, I really fancy independent ladies! Ladies that always pay their own bills!

It's a function of (misplaced) priority!
Atleast,some still have the grace to carry on till after school!
Tradition and religion has and is still playing a pivotal role on the psyche of our women in this part of the world! These two forces have (almost) relegated women to 'mediocrity'. They find nothing wrong in what op is saying! The kind of education our educationists are propagating is not helping matters too!
Traditional, Religious and Educational stakeholders should change their sublime message (that women are mere helpers or inferior to men ).... Because the problem (to me) is kind of mental/psychological...

This line isn't new per se!
A possibility here is that she appreciates your "straightforwardness" and that she finds it attractive in a way! Your straightforwardness might actually be a reason why she's still with you! In other words, if you continue in that fashion, you would simply become irresistible (to her). If you change course and start playing with your "straightforwardness",she might simply find a replacement!

Or maybe, just maybe you ain't kind enough with your choice of words when/while conversing with her!

obongproff: Ur rite! I havnt met most naija babes. In fact, I will edit d topic from most to some. Tanx.

I believe you've been told a zillion times not to exaggerate

obongproff: Ur rite! I havnt met most naija babes. In fact, I will edit d topic from most to some. Tanx.

I believe you've been told a zillion times not to exaggerate

Fine post! ✔✔✔✔✔
Most of the problems are caused by keeping / maintaining bad companies!
If you avoid some certain class of company in your day to day life, you'll certainly overcome most of these challenges!

Very true!
The ish (to me) isn't about disappointing oneself, but the embarrassment one might become to one's enemies, friends, family and the society at large!!
Well,I just try to always maintain an healthy and a (very) positive mental (outlook) / picture of the kind of success I wish to be associated with.
Hardwork + Grace gives me the assurance that ALL shall be well!
Am a firm believer in the doctrine of 'Grace and Hustle!!!'
Watch it, because it's ought to be 'Grace' before 'Hustle'! not the other way around!
May God bless and crown our Hustles early!

Quit and run for your dear life!
He does not even like you!
Why would he sing for u? is he wizkid
He must be a player! A serious runs guy!
He introduced you to his family? He's just pulling your legs! Do you know how many girls he has introduced to his family? Please ask him,am sure he must have lost counts!
Chai, hope my advice is sound?
Please run as fast as your legs can carry you!
Am sure you would find "true" n "real" love in Jupiter!

Am very sure that you've met most Nigerian girls!

How and why u go beat pikin kom still tell amm not to cry
Dem work, u no gree pay, thereby "beating" them! Dem cry via protest or asking for their pay, u burgled them outta their 'homes' (thereby asking them not to cry)... E no Good na! If u beat pikin, manage give amm space make imm cry! Haba!!! Maj-Gen Nkado, na how u reason the matter fr ground nau

syta: Jesus I know this man,I think I beleiv the story am based in awka he slept with my girlfriend and dumped her

What were u thinking
After saying that you know him in ur first post,u turn around to shout "Jesus, I know this man" Oh... u tink say na ur other account u carry log in

I like your simplicity... permit me to go straight to the point...

Ground Zero
Becoming a Christian begins with a prayer. You have to repair your relationship With God. Please say this prayer, sincerely!

"Dear God,
I know that I have not lived as you want me to. I have not loved you as I ought nor loved the people who live around me. I am sorry and want to change.Thank you for Jesus.Thank you that he lived and died for me and rose again and is now the Lord. Please forgive me and help me to live as you want me to. Amen. "


Ground One
✔ Read your Bible daily,
✔Pray at least twice a day,
✔Need to identify with a church,
✔Serving at church (Usher, Engineer, Sunday school ) , in a nutshell, U need to get involved! Just volunteer to serv in any area you can in church!
✔Be of service to others
✔Tithing..

These are all great activities for Christians,but they are not what the Christian life is all about.
"A Christian is someone who has been made new in Christ ( 2 Corinthians 5:17 ) and restored to relationship with God. The Christian life is about getting to know God,enjoying Him and bringing Him glory (Isaiah 43:7 ; 2 Corinthians 3:18 ; John 17:1–5 , 22). "

Ground Two
✔Conquer Your Doubts.
At times you may doubt that you really are a Christian. Perhaps you have failed or surrendered repeatedly to temptation.Remember, you were not saved because of how good of a person you are, but by putting your trust in what Christ has already done for you.
✔ Live One Day at a Time.
Too often we become anxious about what might happen tomorrow. The Bible promises that God will meet our needs, if only we will seek first His righteousness (see Matthew 6:33-34). God’s grace will be sufficient to meet the challenges that each new day brings.
✔ Learn How to Deal with Temptation.
Temptation is a part of life. It was an issue before you became a Christian, it still will be. Be prepared to take advantage of God’s “way out” of temptation, whether it means that you “flee” the scene of temptation (I Timothy 6:11), or that you stay on the scene and “resist” it (James 4:7; I Peter 5:8-9).

Ground Three
Tell Others About Jesus.
Sharing with others about your new life in Jesus--by word or by action--will certainly help build your confidence, the Bible encourages us to always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have (I Peter 3:15).
CONGRATULATIONS, YOU MADE IT! SHALOM!!!

Does he hate his mom that much
Just joking sha! But we are all animals na
Even though you are reading this on a sophisticated electronic device, you are an animal.

1. Who is a God-fearing person?... Who is a God-fearing man or woman?

Proverbs 8:13
The fear of the LORD is to hate evil; Pride and arrogance and the evil way And the perverse mouth I hate.

#2....How do you recognize a God-fearing
individual?... What are the characters
of a God-fearing man or woman?

These are some of the characters of a God fearing person... He/she would always do the following.... .

#1. STEP UP: Lead.Initiate. Be a man of action.Assume it is your job and your moment. Hate
apathy. Reject passivity.

#2 SPEAK OUT: Silence in the midst of sin is a sin. Be courageous. Fear God not man.Speak the truth in love.

#3. STAND STRONG: Don’t give in when you are challenged, attacked or criticized.

#4. STAY HUMBLE: Be vigilant against pride. Get the log out of your eye. Don’t think less of yourself, think of yourself less.

#5. SERVE THE KING: Seek first His
Kingdom, His glory, His righteousness. Hope in the eternal. Live for a greater reward.

3. How do these characters or if at all a God fearing individual shape your decision in selecting a spouse?

Well,it all boils down to what you want from your partner! If some of the God-fearing characters I listed out is in anyway desirable, good, If not.... still ok... But mind you, lots of persons out there believe that PROFESSING love and/or fear of God is akin to an actual fear of God. This hypothesis is not only disgraceful, it is also very hypocritical!
Shalom!!!