Emmydarsy:
I met this friend of mine, Ayo during our school days in one of the schools in ondo state, that was in 2005. Infact, we got along with eachother immediately we met when doing our course registration, since we were admitted into same Accounting dept. Afterwards, we got so closed to a point where we had to share the same room till our final year. So, while in 200l, I was dating a 100l girl, which happened to be the only babe I was dating in school, even though I had one other I was dating in Lagos before I got admission. There was much love between us that almost everyone on campus knew about our relationship. It was just like we were married. I dated this babe till our first semester, 400l before I began to observe some changes about her which I never knew and understood the cause till we finished from school, went for service and all go out different ways. Ay, on the other hand used to be those serious type that would read and study on their own after lectures, spend most times in the library, which made his social life bored, that he only managed to have only one particular girl and their relationship never seems to last. But that never changed the fact that we were good friends who helped eachother in all manners of ways, financially, spiritually, educationally all through our stay in school, and even till present. Now, here is the point....After school, I lost contact with this said girl and she became the past but Ay has been there as my usual friend, even though we base in a different state. We are used to travelling to attend any special occasion of ours. I'm married with kids and he is married too with kids, and life has been fair to us, atleast.
But last month, this my ex sent me a request on FB and we got each other's contact, so after so much conversation thereafter, there was a confession and revelation from her about my friend. In a nutshell, Ay told her about the girl I was dating in Lagos, that each time, I say I want to travel to Lagos to go see my parent and fetch some money, it's a lie, that it's my Lagos gf I was missing and going to check upon. Well, which was truely part of the reason I do travel then, as I will always tell my friend about my Lagos gf. That he further told her I never loved her and was playing on her. And this my babe was always comfortable staying and sleeping in our room then even when am away as she is just so fond of our side. Laslas Sha, that my Friend took advantage of her n they bleeped. That it was because of that she gave me and "us" distance, as she couldn't look both of us in the face, that she was ashamed of herself. Lol, A scene of over 15years got fresh in my memory and got me wondered. She asked abt him, that do we still talk? I told her Yes! And she begged me not to tell him, that I should just forget it, since we all are happily married now. Cos she is married too with her own kids. I had to call Ay and ask because, he was and still a good friend to the best of my knowledge. To my surprise, even before I asked him, he already had a hint of what I wanted to ask him, because I first asked him if he remember her(mentioned her name) and he said yes, that did I come across her somewhere, I said yes, that she reveal some things to me, lol. He immediately start begging that it's been long he had wanted to tell me himself and apologized. I told him it's okay....that I genuinely forgive him, just that i was surprise and never believe. Even, If he had deny that she lied against him, I might probably be forced to believe him. So I told him it's cool, that have forgiven him. But the question is, till date, if he has any business in Lagos, he still come to my house to pass the night, even when am on night shift. Is it advisable to still trust him 100%? Note: Aside this stain, Ay is a nice guy and would do anything within his capacity for me as a friend!!!

Good afternoon Sir.
I know I'm not in a position to give someone like you advise cos I'm not married and I have zero knowledge concerning relationships but I have a few things I'd like to say.
Sincerely, I see no reason why you should get cautious around your friend now cos of the few things you heard he did in the past, you said he begged you about it and pleaded that you forgive him, everyone needs a second chance, don't you think?
Moreover, I see no reason why your Ex should have brought up the issue in the first place, you said it yourself, she's married and even with kids so why now? Why did she have to ask if you're still in touch with Mr AY before revealing what happened in the past to you?
Sir, it takes two to tango. Inasmuch as what Mr AY did was wrong, she could have said "no" if she wanted to but still she went ahead with it and started feeling guilty afterwards - “the post-coital dysphoria.”
Notwithstanding, you also have a fault of your own. I'm guessing you wanted to eat your cake and have it. Having two ladies home and away. Lol!
You know whom you married, just outrightly tell your wife about it. There's a better chance at avoiding some particular stories that touch when there's a perfect level of understanding between both partners. And if you still feel like you're not comfortable with his presence, always trust your guts Sir. Then he should find alternative accommodation whenever he's in Lagos.
But according to what I've read, Mr AY is now like a friend turned brother, "a nice guy who would do anything within his capacity for you as a friend" these are your words, not mine. So please don't lose a good guy cos of his misdeeds 15years ago.
Have a lovely day ahead Boss!

The Bible says, "Thou shalt not follow a multitude to do evil - Exo 23:2".
I hope your friends who had pressured you into committing sexual acts will raise money for your baby showers and during your baby's birth.
It's just barely 5 months since you made this post about being a virgin. Now you're about to be a Dad. Congratulations boss!

Nice post sir.

Kriss216:
Buhari happened, my brother.

Even Salah meat wey I dey see collect from my former landlord before, I no dey see any meat again.

Buhari's incompetence reach every sector for this country.

Lol!!! E be things.

It's yet another season to celebrate Christmas.

Growing up we all remember the joys we felt when this period approaches. We always look forward to spending time with family, friends and loved ones.
And there was also this tradition when we shared food items (mostly cooked food) with neighbors but that tradition seems non-existent.

Sometimes I wonder what could be the cause of the decline.
Could it be the fact that the economy has been harsh on everyone and we all feel the need to conserve the little we have or could it be tendencies of been overly religious and always thinking our neighbors might have added some spiritual sediments in order to harm us?

Well, as for you guys do you still share food during the Christmas period and do you still accept food shared during this period?

JustStupidity:
Pics or I don't believe it

Edit: Pics seen.
Anyway, Annie Idibia should ask that her husband, what he's doing in the hotel in the first place. Also she should be careful so that he won't infect her with disease.

I don't know what is wrong with that man called 2face. Maybe he wants to destroy his marriage.

You should've just read through patiently before commenting but you decided to just type sh*t and embarrass yourself in a public forum with unnecessary comments.
Anyways, your moniker says it all.

Na degea go lose

Goalie sef go play penalties.

This penalty shoot out na die ooh. Everyone just dey maintain.

Funny thing is that the pks are towards the same direction.

Threemg:
These Villarreal guys dey tidy penalty shoot sha. Nice PK so far.

Inside reports has it that they spent almost all week training on penalties.

tonididdy:
This villareal goalie na basket

Cos that is their second choice goalie.

Rash go miss

Why this game con dey gimme shivers laidis?

FASTCHOW:
0097339022 Union bank

Oga what is it with you and the account number you just posted? Shey na your money the guy use stake?

Goall. Moreno Goall. Mata

I'm just glad I didn't place my stakes on man utd.

newdawnlive:
mumu calling yourself a millionaire, do you know the value of that in dollars all your 7 millions is a mere $14,000 @ 24 I have more than that in my account, and I don't make noice, come to Lagos to see how 18 years guys gifted theirs girlfriends motors that worth more than your savings plus investment, work more and sound less if u want to be prosper.

Wahala for who no be millionaire yet ooh.
At least we still fit construct simple sentence unlike these wannabes we keep seeing.
Nairaland na cruise shaa. Lmao!!!

decatalyst:
Even if the marriage wasn't worth it anymore, this is shameful.




And look at the league of divorcee

The Old Cargoes League. Lol!!!

SpecialAdviser:
Rohr is afraid of being kidnapped in Nigeria. Someone more courageous should be hired.

Again let me use this opportunity to express my disappointment on Ahmed Musa.

I hope Musa will not end up in the hand of terrorists or bandits since he has made himself a good target.
With absolutely no security in Nigeria its embarrassing for him despite his money to come and play in Nigerian league.
Patriotism is not by force. The money he has made should be enough for good investment instead of such embarrassed move.

To add salt to injury he might be benched in some matches. LOL. In Nigeria a bag of rice can fix match.
Hope he wont cry when a referee award penalty when someone is brought down in the mid field.

You all hating my comment, patriotism is not by force. The eye is married to good things. If our useless leaders make our country look good,
we will all become patriotic. Our stadiums till now cannot afford ordinary digital advert board that every small shops in Europe now have.
No good video coverage. Not good officiating. No good jersey. Ahmed Musa even got an okirika jersey. chaiiii

I heard he won't be available for any away games except if he'll be going by flight as he won't want to risk the uncertainties of road travel.
But he'll be available for all home games.

Bro have u found the two workers you're in need of already?

Righteousness2:

Get wisdom! In all thy Gettings, get Understanding!

Wahala for pesin wey dey quote Senior Pastor Righteousness2. This guy has subtle ways of throwing savage responses.

Biyonce:
Broke ass behaviour

Another lazy ass spotted. I'm sure this one too is hoping for a guy to cash out on.

Xenry:
Nice step. Please remember to keep us updated on what will happen later!
Those girls must pay!
If she comes to beg you, make sure you fvck her very much and dump her sorry ass.

"Bleep her very much"?
Oga, your English get as e be.

The5DME:
Back then in secondary school, we use to do that number 2 sha

Please expatiate.
You mean u girls do those things on purpose?

GreatResearcher:
The aim of this thread is to know why Africans see winning Grammy as everything

I want to believe that Burna album winning the Grammy has a lot to do with Diddy co-producing that album.

Also Wizkid Grammy win has a lot to do with Beyonce featuring in the song.

Abeg stop saying Wizkid won a Grammy award. The award no dey hin house. He's only just enjoying the privilege of someone who featured him.

inverseparanoia:
Open a laundry shop ( if you ar willing to work) and make over 170,000.00 per month...

Na so e easy abi?
Abeggi swerve.

Fakelondonboi:
AM A GRADUATE TOO,ANY JOB WILL HELP PLS

I WAN HUSTLE, SECURITY ,HOTEL WORK AM TIRED OF SEARCHING FOR GRADUATE JOB MAKE I DROP KPALI ABEG

Security work keh?
Bro, shey e don reach that level?

Exciting:


That's the sad truth

I stay alone

Left home to look for something better yet, I can only be optimistic. I don't want to say otherwise

Awwwn.
Sincerely I feel your plight.
But pity isn't gonna help anything sha.

Well, you've already mentioned you're into wigs. Are u also into something else? Maybe something that can be purchased by males too cos I think maybe if there's one other thing you do sell that's not "solely feminine" then maybe a few of us here too might be interested.

Also, please make a lil design or picture of ur wigs, prices and post them on comment sections.
I believe something good will come out of that.

Yustash001:
Brother I'll advise you to be managing it till you get a better offer...

I started with 12k then, immediately after NYSC.... I did that for two month before I got a better job where I'm currently working.....

I'm being paid 33k, plus free accommodation....

You can use your free time to engage in skill learning...it really pays in the end

Bro are u an agriculturist?
E get why I ask sha.

Exciting:
.

I wish I could focus on my trade. But I don't have capital and I decided on getting a job to raise funds yet, nothing substantial is coming

I hope you're not staying or living alone cos if u are how then do u manage to pay for rent, feed and still transport yourself to work with that amount?