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yinkeys:
Did you play draw
Arsenal will win @ Emirates

I went for draw in my forecast

Cocony:
Chelsea to win and over 3.5
BET9JA BOOKING CODE: 3R3YX5F

Quite risky

Kalulu44:
You still didn't answer my question. How do you know he's doing well

His sibling chatted with him on socials recently.
He is now a Doctor in Russia.

Offpoint1:
You're wasting your time responding to this trying to justify bad behavior.

I'm suspecting he's the guy in this story or he's doing same thing.

Their reactions shows that they will do same to their parents too.
A parent that fed you when you were a baby,you suckled your mum crying, flight to the abroad was also paid by your parents and you went abroad and say they are now bad people.
How pathetic can one be.

yinkeys:
Hes been brainwashed
They should move on without him
The earth has a way of spinning around
Africans don’t fully cut off their immediate family like whites do
Maybe he’s really struggling over there too, Shame no gree make he talk
Russia is not USA, Canada, Australia or Western Europe o

They have long moved on.
Even his younger siblings are doing very well too with one in the USA and two others in other European countries

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PepeXKermit:
doing well? how many Nigerians are doing well in Russia... lol. maybe una don over tax the guy and now he just realized that he needs to focus on himself and his family over there. how much is minimum wage in the country? e no pass 1k dollars.

You are missing the point, he broke off communication completely with the home front.
Nobody is talking about billing here.
Someone that cut off communication na billing you wan come bill am.you reason am na.

Kalulu44:
Do his counterparts tell you they have seen him and doing well

He is okay,he just wants to dissociate himself from his immediate family.

HallahGeisher:
The first thing is to be sure he is alive or has been roasted by the Ukrainian firepower. Putin can do the unthinkable, European leaders says he is unstable and irrational

He is alive and has been in Russia for ages.

themanderon:
Are you people sure he is still alive?

He is alive.its been there for so many years.
His dad was layed to rest today.

kayusely70:
Maybe the parents had committed some grievous offences against him which he doesn't want to disclose!

They didn't,to me the guy is pure evil 😈.

Mattswaggz:
Stop using disdainful words to describe a situation you know little or nothing about.... people react to things differently and not everyone must be like you.

Are you taking to his path already by abandoning your parents too?
Even if your parents offended you,did your siblings also offend you too.

bluefilm:
How did someone studying medicine switched to engineering?

I think that's the beginning of his problem, if at all, this story is true

Someone studying Medicine and Engineering have little or no difference as they are all science students.
Infact in my 100 level studying Engineering in the university, we did almost thesame courses with medical students.

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Bluntemperor:
OP, great and Beautiful Story indeed!
You see this life,some people are like that,they try to be funny but intricately Karma is waiting for such.
First,the excommunicate everyone - Worse - their Parents and Siblings,for no just reason!
They will soon becomes ' THE LOST GENERATIONS ' and their story is like Kunta- Kinte' - for they Don't Fit In Again!
Marrying A Russian Is Not An Excuse,he is lost it!

The exact word the sibling told me that there is karma.
Thanks.

budaatum:
So parents can rape their children, but the children should not cut off off completely?

Why?

I didn't mention parents raping here as that is extreme.

yinkeys:
It’s doable
But there’s no way Nigerian politicians will waste money on nanotechnology when they need it for babariga & their bellies

Lol pathetic

1144AK:
Did this sibling ask him why he did what he did? What was his response?

Some individuals may harbor feelings of dislike for their own family, but in many cases, major troubles prompt them to reach out to their family for support. This is because, in many instances, only family members will stand by you during challenging times, unless it's a dysfunctional family that fails to support one another. This lack of familial support may even be the root cause of the initial issue.

The sibling told me he went bunkas when they chatted as in he was not making sense.

Toktee:
That guy might be manure in the eastern Ukraine 🇺🇦 by now.

No he is alive and didn't even show a single interest as his dad just passed away

mmsen:
A lot of Nigerians abuse their own children. You are downplaying the problem.

It does not warrant cutting off completely even to your younger ones.haba check am na

Lekby25:
That is one of the mysteries of life that is difficult to understand

Quite mysterious

zinaunreal:
If he's still alive I can make him come back. That's if there's still any need

His parents are dead already, who is he coming to meet.

[quote author=yinkeys post=137627843]You must play Chelsea to win in all your games
Then I’d believe your statements
Pls show us your games before Sunday
I think it’s X2 if we look at the past 5 EPL games based on H2H data
[/quote
Lol Are you an Arsenal fan?

Brendaniel:
Do you think this present government is interested in fighting insecurity?

It seems so my brother.

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FarahAideed:
The problem I have with most of you is that you don't understand what is even going on in Nigeria ....first and foremost the bandits are not hiding ,they maintain location and the govt knows all their location and even have contact with many of them ...how do you think families of the victims are able to find them to deliver ransom , sometimes these people even collect motorcycles as Ransome .... What you are witnessing is brazen islamist who believe they have the fire power and numbers to fight their way out of any situation and they are not wrong

You made a very valid point. So sad what we have now found ourselves in.
In a saner climate this type of thing won't occur.
It is well.

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hslbroker2:
It will be very nice, it will be easy to track bandits and terrorists just even a note that can be trace back to them will be nice.

Exactly my point.
It's possible and countries are already exploring it and may start implementing it.
Nigeria should key into it for urgent implementation.

helinues:
You don't even need to fact check anything. We would have read about it if there is a country who is doing that

Some countries have already started testing it and Nigeria should quickly key into it for implementation.

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helinues:
Even the advanced countries are yet to try that

Are you sure?I will fact check but we can start it before them if they are not able to.

Is it possible to have a currency which has a chip implanted which can be traced by the authorities at any given time and this can be used to stop ransom being paid to bandits and terrorists.
The IT people should be in a better position to advice on this.
Technology is the way to go to fight banditry and kidnapping taking place in Nigeria but alas the reverse is the case.
I may be wrong but I have never seen the Nigerian police force making use of drones in their operation while these terrorists have sophisticated drones.
We have a long way to go in Nigeria.

It was so so close .Better luck next time,flex would have given you something back.

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MemoriesAndMe:
That's not a way to measure people's success overseas, everyone's situation is different.
I know of a childhood friend based in Russia that had problems with his Russian wife. They had done some deals together and he ended up getting locked up in prison for 5 years.

When he got out was when he contacted all of his childhood friends for support. He couldn't even get a good job as a felon and said his passports were taken from him as part of his sentencing, so he couldn't leave Russia when we spoke. He had a Russian passport and a Nigerian passport,his Russian passport was taken from him and his Nigerian passport wouldn't take him to other European countries he wanted to try without a visa.

Someone like that is struggling with getting his life back, so its not entirely his fault that he got lost in Russia.

On this scenario, the sibling told me he is not doing badly abroad in Russia and that he is even a Doctor over there.
If he is having issues he should communicate and not cut off from his family.
It has been decades now since this occurrence

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ViceGovernor:
Chelsea will cut arsenal to size...... overgrown babies thinking they're adults in football.

It doesn't matter whether you are in form, we will make it null and void and arsenal will be without form by the end of 90minutes just as the earth was in the beginning.

I am with you on this, Arsenal are naturally bottlers and will be kept in the bottle this weekend with Eze deported to calabar.lol

Came4amod:
People who are un grounded can change at any point in life .. that's why you must be formed well identity crisis is the number one cause of his problem .. he snapped out of who they taught he was

Yes he got carried away and this was very rampant for kids that went abroad in the 80s.
I know of someone that got lost too that travelled abroad in the 80s and had to be remotely controlled spiritually to Nigeria after a very long time abroad.

budaatum:
Yes it does, or at least, could add up..

I have a 90 year old friend from Uganda who's son has broken off from her for over 20 years.

The last time he called her she told me he was rambling and she felt he sounded drunk as he was known to, so she told him to call her when he was sobber, and he has not called her since.

On further talking to her - we go for coffee twice a month after I've given her driving lessons on the mobility vehicle her daughter bought for her - she told me he came home from school one day with bruises and she asked what he'd done to get beaten up so. She now regrets blaming him instead of asking what had happened first, because he never told her anything after that day when he was 14 years old. Only many years later did she hear from her daughter that he was protecting her and his other 2 younger siblings from bullies that day, and got beat up.

Now, some might not react that way, but the mother has told me at least 2 other things similar to the above that "add up" and that even she now regrets and thinks are what has blighted their relationship.

She is heartbroken and now blaming herself when she is actually not the problem.
Alot of us as kids passed through worst things from our parents but still we didn't hold the grudges against them.
A kid that holds a grudge against their parents even to the grave is evil