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Osiris12:
drop game for us abeg oga

Predictor3:
From your mouth?
E be like say Dem don show you shege 🤣

Cocony:
Chelsea to win and over 1.5 to redeem their image and keep their title chase hopes alive.

Cocony:
Continue the good work.

lukasa:
Good one guobe.Consistency has been the issues with you.

SpencerForbes:
Honestly, no business hustle should ever stop one of you from dropping off and picking up the kid until they're old enough. I mean, only school trips should take them that far—not running out to buy stuff. Just picture a four-year-old girl running right up to a kidnapper to hold their hand? That's just too easy for them.

You could take your child to school as early as 5 or 6 AM and arrange for someone totally trustworthy and accountable to handle their pickup. Anything you need that isn't right near your place should be bought in bulk or saved for when a parent goes to the mall. It's just too risky having kids out on the roads, especially in this country.

SpencerForbes:
It's totally fine to hold the hand of an adult you know, but definitely not a stranger's hand. Also, a kid should really be over 12 before you let them cross the road by themselves. By that age, they should be smart enough to ask someone nearby for help or just wait for other people so they can cross safely with the crowd.

Predictor3:
When trying to cross the road, don't stand behind a parked vehicle which might block your clear view of the road

lilyheaven:
Since he can’t perform his duty in the other room, he should pay someone to do it.

lilyheaven:
Personal ke 😆
They are legally married, that’s why he will keep paying the bills 🤓

lilyheaven:
Yes , she won’t have sex with her husband again, he is old and disgusting. She will continue with her new young fresh boy, who gives her pleasure.
While her husband continues to pay the bills.

SixSeven:
Christianity

Sexual abandonment violates marital duty (1 Cor. 7:3–5).
Depending on denomination, it may be grounds for separation or divorce.
➡ Marriage may be considered broken because of HIS neglect.
Well spoken, the man should have ended the marriage instead of negotiating the wife for several months.


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Islam

If a husband withholds sex for an extended period, the wife may request khulʿ or judicial divorce. Scholars consider long-term sexual abandonment a valid reason.
➡ Marriage can be dissolved because of HIS neglect.


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Summary

In Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, a husband’s long-term sexual abandonment is recognized as a serious marital violation that can justify ending the marriage.


Traditional African Religions

Across most African traditional systems:

✅ Sexual neglect by a husband is a serious violation of marital duty.

A woman is expected to be cared for emotionally, sexually, and materially.

✅ If the husband fails to fulfil conjugal obligations, elders or family councils intervene.

If he does not change:

➡ The marriage can be dissolved, and the woman is free to leave or remarry.

Some traditions even require the husband to pay compensation for neglect.

Summary:

In traditional African religions, long-term sexual neglect is legitimate grounds to end the marriage.

SouthSouth1914:
Women and sex eh! Just leave am.., seems as the times fly by, their urge skyrockets!

duduade:
So OP for now what is the message you are trying to pass across

kiddaz:
Them go soon catch you like thief and give you j-justice... Continue giving her 10g ++

henrimoto:
Guobe, The true life story teller.

Do, complete the story, we plenty dey wait for the gist

Weldone Baba.

EmmyMaestro:
The next one she will collect is helicopter style, after that one there is no going back

dollytino4real:
i no folo 4 ur continuation

dollytino4real:
Women and fork these days be like 5 & 6, especially married women ,

OneCandleAway:
This thread is for those who wish to travel long distance during the December/ January holidays. We are aware that things are hard and most people have limited funds now so these tips below are necessary to take note of.

1. Try to use flight if you can. As we all know it's the safest means of transportation at the moment.

2. If you can't afford flight, enter a sedan 7 seater car, plus driver making 8. I've noticed that those type don't usually have kidnap issues. It's the 14 seater they seem to target.

3. Travel during the day. No night journey for now please.

4. Enter bus from a recognized park, so that there will be some sort of monitoring of the driver by the company . Recognized travel companies preferably. They will cost more but then your business will be monitored by the company. Don't stand by the road looking for a bus going to your talravel destination because you want to cut cost.

5. Be on alert. Don't go and sleep off in the car. Monitor the journey and the road along with the driver.

6. Save some funds in an account that you can't easily transfer. Maybe open and deposit some funds in an online bank app but delete the app from your phone especially during travel. Or have funds in your dollar account.

Please feel free to add yours below.


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