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Dorwadora:
Excuse me but what exposure are you talking about?

The way we Africans are trying so hard to be Westernized is quite alarming . In the general history of the Europeans and Americans Flowers can be call a culture there. It's a general way of expressing emotions.... Even emotions that are not close to Romance.

And in the history of Nigeria/Africa culture..... I've never heard anytime our ancestors went to the bush to gather a bunch of fine plant and present them as a token of love. Gifts that are more worthy were given. Hunted game meat, clothes, jewelry and likes of those were the norms. Not Flowers.

It even seem that some people hate their black skin because the things I'm reading on this thread is disturbing.


While Flowers is to the West and Europe.... Coffee is the way romance is showed at Turkey. A wife can divorce her husband if he refuse to serve her coffee at Turkey. So according to you now, Since girls here lack exposure.... are you suggesting that Nigerians should start to present Coffee as a token of love. Or they should not because the Americans wokeness is more superior.

okay you want to go back to the ways of our forefathers abi,hope you will not be angry if your husband choose to Yul Edochie you by marrying more than one wife or wives as the case may be.The world is being westernised and that's the way to go .

Icebreeze:
Most of the ladies out there are into some relationship because of the benefits attached to it.

Couple of weeks ago I meant this lady that I do talk to Sha not that we have anything going on between us.
Just causal friends.

I was at her place when her phone was busy ringing for almost 4 times all she could do is to silent her phone, and urge me to continue with the gist.
I was a bit uncomfortable and ask her to pick the call and I am fine with it.

She told me not to worry about it and I had to ask her if she was having issues with him they should settle it amicably.

And boom there she goes saying
Some people because they have money they think they can treat you anyhow bla bla bla.... Is not as if I am not working that he thinks I am relying on his financial help. Bla bla bla.....

I asked her if he is her boyfriend and she told mm-hmm something of such that she is having him around just in case if she will be ask to bring her boyfriend she could have someone to present.
That he needs her attention on bed and she is not ready for that tonight and besides she called it off with him the last time they were together.
And she went further to tell me that is not like she love him self.

I was shocked and confused like if you don't love someone why playing with his emotions just because of what you have to gain in the relationship.

In Nigeria most of the relationships are not based on true love.Most girls just want to get married because they see their friends getting married too even if they don't even like the guy so far he has money to take care of them.you will ask them what are you doing now,they will tell you I am married now.That is the mentality and its really appaling.

Cutehector:
shuo.. Man go expensive store go buy flowers deliver to lady, lady no sabi interior decor, see flower carry am dump .... No be lack of exposure be that? She come say no be flower wey she go chop, no be hunger be that?


Behave

lol no be small thing

votixis:
England will play their scheduled Killik Cup match against the Barbarians at Twickenham on Sunday. Watch England vs Barbarians rugby online

Rugby not a fan

Cutehector:
Poverty dey cause am..

sort of but there is more to it.

sollolucci77:
It doesnt matter what you give Nigerian ladies they are always ungrateful...take a look at the little brats showing their entitled selves in the thread as proof

It is good the Nigerian girls mentality is changed.They should know that they can work hard and have all they want for themselves instead of being dependent on others.

Goldbw122:
Everybody need the root of all evil to survive, so that is life.

for real,somehow true but there are more significant things than money in life.

shantti:
Imagine giving flower to a girl wey never chop for 2 days. She go carry am wipe u for head

why she no go neva chop,she should work and get paid and eat.

Dorwadora:
I said Culture bro... Not tradition..... Either way I am what I am... While I will appreciate the flowers when given to me.... I don't know what to do with them afterwards.

put them in one corner in your room and cherish them forever

Goldbw122:
That one only happen in America foreign country not in Nigeria, when you visit Nigeria make sure that you give your love ones money and your girlfriend more money or else they will not be happy for you . ... Money is love in Nigeria

money is the root of all evil and can never be love

Dorwadora:
All those flower nonsense .... I really don't get it. Nah American and European culture. Not for us in Africa here.... Though some Africa women jump in delight and cradle flowers like a new born baby nowadays.


Ugwu is even better than flower to me.... At least I can use Ugwu to cook soup

If you say tradition,will you traditionally serve the gods of your forefathers?definitely no.so one has to evolve from those traditions not favourable

Uniquetani1:
Romance ko
What happened to wrist watch, perfume ...

flowers have more life than those other things.They are lifeless.Just inhale the scent of a flower and see your life sparking the more

Uniquetani1:
Flowers for what? To make egusi soup?

flower for romance

Sweet passion

BoredBerry:
Definitely! It's thoughtful...

Many Nigerian men would never offer a girl flowers, so...

Even birthday gifts... They just take you out... Never give you something you would treasure like a good book... If you like someone, you try to know them... And what you offer suits their likes... It's simple...

Nice one

I think there needs to be a reorientation,money is not everything,flower signifies more than money.It signifies love ,endurance and passion.

Dorwadora:
I don't really know... I remember I was once sick and my baby got me flowers.... I swear I did not know what to do with them.

Told him Thank you and left the flowers to rot away in my kitchen

ah for real lol

Down in the states,most white girls and black American girls prefer flowers as gifts than money.I keep wondering is there any Nigerian girl that prefers flowers to monetary gifts.just pondering.

BigYash:
You gorrit clear

lol

Nigeria 2 Ivory Coast 1,Nigeria u20 qualifies for the African championship

Full time 1 1.Extra time now on

Nigeria 1ivoryciast 1

Nigeria under 20 leading by a lone goal

christianjoy:
from my point of view you were talking about you and your son

forcaster take it easy aha lol

christianjoy:
Proverbs about it sir

yeso just a food for thought

Someone told me that a punter father and the six years old son were in a car and the dad was driving.The dad was monitoring one of his betting ticket with the last game which was suppose to yield 500,000 naira.The dad was monitoring the ticket as other games have played while driving his car with the son in the front seat.Then suddenly in the 65th minute of the match,the team that the dad wanted to win went a goal down and the dad shouted Jesus,then the son asked his dad what is it the dad told the son nothing and kept on driving then in the 79th minute another goal was scored by the other team again making it two zero then the dad was sweating and shouted oh my God then the son said daddy what and the dad explained to the son that he wanted the other team to win but now they are down by two zero and he showed the son the phone and the son started laughing and the dad joined the son in laughing too.Moral lesson don't monitor your games on phone with your son because e fit no funny.

Internet in Nigeria is a whole beehive of activities,if you start reading comments of people you will laugh and laugh.There was one comment I saw online the guy was like his ex girlfriends name is Glory and now his present girlfriends name is also called Glory which means he is moving from Glory to glory.when I saw this comment I couldn't stop laughing.

SirbobbyDgreat:
Omo na dey hot for this group ooo,please you guys should drop your games on time also please tag me so I can always get notified of your games.

Also how can I join your vip and what the success rate.

I don too lose money for betting so if I fit see sure 2 odd dey put 5k everyday I go get joy

join my telegram group guobepredictz,I don't think we are doing badly over there.

Combination draws win

christianjoy:
congrats sir

thanks christianjoy

WhrightJr:
Congrats boss
Show love o

lol

Just a quick predict this morning,all green