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Bluntemperor:
OP, great and Beautiful Story indeed!
You see this life,some people are like that,they try to be funny but intricately Karma is waiting for such.
First,the excommunicate everyone - Worse - their Parents and Siblings,for no just reason!
They will soon becomes ' THE LOST GENERATIONS ' and their story is like Kunta- Kinte' - for they Don't Fit In Again!
Marrying A Russian Is Not An Excuse,he is lost it!

The exact word the sibling told me that there is karma.
Thanks.

budaatum:
So parents can rape their children, but the children should not cut off off completely?

Why?

I didn't mention parents raping here as that is extreme.

yinkeys:
It’s doable
But there’s no way Nigerian politicians will waste money on nanotechnology when they need it for babariga & their bellies

Lol pathetic

1144AK:
Did this sibling ask him why he did what he did? What was his response?

Some individuals may harbor feelings of dislike for their own family, but in many cases, major troubles prompt them to reach out to their family for support. This is because, in many instances, only family members will stand by you during challenging times, unless it's a dysfunctional family that fails to support one another. This lack of familial support may even be the root cause of the initial issue.

The sibling told me he went bunkas when they chatted as in he was not making sense.

Toktee:
That guy might be manure in the eastern Ukraine 🇺🇦 by now.

No he is alive and didn't even show a single interest as his dad just passed away

mmsen:
A lot of Nigerians abuse their own children. You are downplaying the problem.

It does not warrant cutting off completely even to your younger ones.haba check am na

Lekby25:
That is one of the mysteries of life that is difficult to understand

Quite mysterious

zinaunreal:
If he's still alive I can make him come back. That's if there's still any need

His parents are dead already, who is he coming to meet.

[quote author=yinkeys post=137627843]You must play Chelsea to win in all your games
Then I’d believe your statements
Pls show us your games before Sunday
I think it’s X2 if we look at the past 5 EPL games based on H2H data
[/quote
Lol Are you an Arsenal fan?

Brendaniel:
Do you think this present government is interested in fighting insecurity?

It seems so my brother.

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FarahAideed:
The problem I have with most of you is that you don't understand what is even going on in Nigeria ....first and foremost the bandits are not hiding ,they maintain location and the govt knows all their location and even have contact with many of them ...how do you think families of the victims are able to find them to deliver ransom , sometimes these people even collect motorcycles as Ransome .... What you are witnessing is brazen islamist who believe they have the fire power and numbers to fight their way out of any situation and they are not wrong

You made a very valid point. So sad what we have now found ourselves in.
In a saner climate this type of thing won't occur.
It is well.

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hslbroker2:
It will be very nice, it will be easy to track bandits and terrorists just even a note that can be trace back to them will be nice.

Exactly my point.
It's possible and countries are already exploring it and may start implementing it.
Nigeria should key into it for urgent implementation.

helinues:
You don't even need to fact check anything. We would have read about it if there is a country who is doing that

Some countries have already started testing it and Nigeria should quickly key into it for implementation.

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helinues:
Even the advanced countries are yet to try that

Are you sure?I will fact check but we can start it before them if they are not able to.

Is it possible to have a currency which has a chip implanted which can be traced by the authorities at any given time and this can be used to stop ransom being paid to bandits and terrorists.
The IT people should be in a better position to advice on this.
Technology is the way to go to fight banditry and kidnapping taking place in Nigeria but alas the reverse is the case.
I may be wrong but I have never seen the Nigerian police force making use of drones in their operation while these terrorists have sophisticated drones.
We have a long way to go in Nigeria.

It was so so close .Better luck next time,flex would have given you something back.

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MemoriesAndMe:
That's not a way to measure people's success overseas, everyone's situation is different.
I know of a childhood friend based in Russia that had problems with his Russian wife. They had done some deals together and he ended up getting locked up in prison for 5 years.

When he got out was when he contacted all of his childhood friends for support. He couldn't even get a good job as a felon and said his passports were taken from him as part of his sentencing, so he couldn't leave Russia when we spoke. He had a Russian passport and a Nigerian passport,his Russian passport was taken from him and his Nigerian passport wouldn't take him to other European countries he wanted to try without a visa.

Someone like that is struggling with getting his life back, so its not entirely his fault that he got lost in Russia.

On this scenario, the sibling told me he is not doing badly abroad in Russia and that he is even a Doctor over there.
If he is having issues he should communicate and not cut off from his family.
It has been decades now since this occurrence

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ViceGovernor:
Chelsea will cut arsenal to size...... overgrown babies thinking they're adults in football.

It doesn't matter whether you are in form, we will make it null and void and arsenal will be without form by the end of 90minutes just as the earth was in the beginning.

I am with you on this, Arsenal are naturally bottlers and will be kept in the bottle this weekend with Eze deported to calabar.lol

Came4amod:
People who are un grounded can change at any point in life .. that's why you must be formed well identity crisis is the number one cause of his problem .. he snapped out of who they taught he was

Yes he got carried away and this was very rampant for kids that went abroad in the 80s.
I know of someone that got lost too that travelled abroad in the 80s and had to be remotely controlled spiritually to Nigeria after a very long time abroad.

budaatum:
Yes it does, or at least, could add up..

I have a 90 year old friend from Uganda who's son has broken off from her for over 20 years.

The last time he called her she told me he was rambling and she felt he sounded drunk as he was known to, so she told him to call her when he was sobber, and he has not called her since.

On further talking to her - we go for coffee twice a month after I've given her driving lessons on the mobility vehicle her daughter bought for her - she told me he came home from school one day with bruises and she asked what he'd done to get beaten up so. She now regrets blaming him instead of asking what had happened first, because he never told her anything after that day when he was 14 years old. Only many years later did she hear from her daughter that he was protecting her and his other 2 younger siblings from bullies that day, and got beat up.

Now, some might not react that way, but the mother has told me at least 2 other things similar to the above that "add up" and that even she now regrets and thinks are what has blighted their relationship.

She is heartbroken and now blaming herself when she is actually not the problem.
Alot of us as kids passed through worst things from our parents but still we didn't hold the grudges against them.
A kid that holds a grudge against their parents even to the grave is evil

favour32:
Current statistics shows that Arsenal is a very formidable team.

Yes true though as they are being tipped to win the league this season and even the champions league.

Kobojunkie:
It won't add up to someone whose idea of life is riddled with fairy tales and little of reality. Yes, your parents are not gods nsd you will be shocked that they are just as bad as those other vile people out there in the world outside. And yes, lots of people end going up going no contact with their parents.

Your thoughts are the fairy tale here as less than 1 percent of parents have evil intentions towards the kids they brought to the world.

budaatum:
It is very possible that he is the problem, but in that case, him being the problem is the reason for his breakaway, and would likely come under my "mentally damaged and mad like those you see walking around naked and lost in some of our markets and far away from family".

The mentally damaged do after all not see that they may be the toxic fault.

So true, it's been decades and he has gone AWOL.

Kobojunkie:
From your story, what is clear is that you were not an insider to this family and as such do not know the real reason behind why the man decided to go no contact with his parents after he left Nigeria. I suggest you focus your energy on finding out the truth, and stop going around telling these tales by moonlight that Nigerian airheads are notorious for.

Children who go no contact with their parents do so for very reasonable reasons, and most times, things are never as you think they seem.

Even to parents?it does not add up.

budaatum:
No it is not "absolutely absurd"! And you better be grateful if you have not got reason to break off from your parents and siblings, because, some might choose to break off from their siblings and family because their family is toxic, or because the breakee himself is mentally damaged and mad like those you see walking around naked and lost in some of our markets and far away from family.

If he sees everyone in his family as toxic then he should be the problem and not the family.

favour32:
Arsenal wins or the match ends in stalemate.

It seems we have alot of Arsenal fans lol but Chelsea are world champions so watch out.

Caaz:
Maybe hes busy investing in his russian wife's pussybank.

The sibling I spoke with told me he thought the wife was the cause but when he spoke with him he realised she was not as he acted on his own from their chat.

budaatum:
One thing I've learnt is, siblings can assume they all got the same good treatment, when the truth might be that some are not treated as well as some. And though some may claim someone "was well treated as a kid", they don't know how the kid felt about its treatment.

I say the above to add rationality to the actions of this "kid". It is also possible that the kid's action might be irrational, and that he truly was treated well as a kid and now just does not care about his parent's no more, or it can be that his new location has its on hardships that have caused issues for him so his thinking is bent.

If we don't walk in his shoes we'd never know his journey, basically, and any judgement might be ill informed and hasty, and is definitely a "million dollar question", and "life".

For one to completely break off from the parents and siblings just like that no matter what is absolutely absurd.

Caaz:
The big question is....
1...Is the guy still ALIVE?
2...Are things okay with him over there?

He is alive and doing very well over there.
His counterparts that got same scholarship do come to Nigeria and go back.

In my former neighbourhood, there was this young man that was studying medicine in the university, a very brilliant chap and doing very well in his academics.

Though the parents were struggling financially, they made sure all his needs were met.

An opportunity came
then with the Nigerian Government giving scholarship to scholars to school in Russia and this guy was successful as he got a scholarship to study Engineering in Russia .

That was it ,he married a Russian woman and broke communication with his parents and siblings in Nigeria .

The parents were heart broken especially the mum as it made her fall ill and she never recovered from it.
She died and the son didn't come to Nigeria for final farewell.

The dad just died and still no show from him.
Just got chatting with one of his siblings and he said he is yet to fathom why he acted this way as he was well treated as a kid before he went to Russia.
What could have really made him to act this way is a million dollar question.
Life.

OluwaJohn77:
Arsenal win or Draw
and Goal Goal is sure

Okay lovely

A blockbuster match awaits us this weekend in the English Premier league.
Two flying London clubs clash in what will be a clash of the titans.