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I need to find people to dash these clothes to. We have paid like a month in advance for the hall. Thunder gbawa love. I can't think straight now

dingbang:
welcome to the congregation of tired singles . We usually have meeting every saturday on club house. Hope to see you soon. Send me a pm to add you to the club.

Lol. This made me smile

Toks2008:
Very very sad.

Please move on and thank GOD for the expose, cos you for just enter one chance.

To find husband no easy o

Thank you. That road is rough and full of tears and disappointment.

Hndrrxxx:
Don Quixote?? That's Donflamingo (Joker) he's probably a One Piece fan and a real nigga

Don't know, don't fuxking care

Iykenuwa:
Read your comment again and tell us if it's coherent.

Get yourself engaged to a lesbian and see if you will be coherent after you discover. Please don't let me transfer aggression on you

Zizizi:
Can we connect

No

alexola20:
Hey babygurl,why still protecting the idiat’s name,just call him out already.
If you can pls drop his insta,bird’s,fb and snap handles,we go help you confuse am the more since your father already knows that he’s a confused SH!t.

NB.
Sorry for your loss but not all men are scum.
I am a good man myself and I know few good guys as well that are not confused or hiding in the rainbow closet.
We will dig everything out of your juicy hole and will never be tired of working hard on and for you.
You gerrit?If you don’t gerrit,forget abourit

There is one popular guy on TikTok that people call 'uncle'. He is not a Nigerian, I think. This skinny jeans guy acts exactly like Uncle, even down to the dancing part. Uncle likes one trending song by Arya Star

Psoul:
I don't know why I'm finding it very difficult to believe this story.
I see this piece as something a woman put together as a revenge for bad stories men have been telling about women.

Somebody should sit down and analyze this story.
I don't believe this. I can give you some lines in this story that gave you away

Oya give me lines in the story that 'gave me away' , as you claim

Blakjewelry:
@the bolded got me laughing hard. You see bold gender get their own fare share of wahala, but I don't take it out on all of em. Can I dm you?

No please. I'd rather not

Willie2015:
Life is spiritual....
U need to work on ur spiritual intelligence...
2yrs relationship... ..No dream......No vision...No sixth sense...
Jah really loves you....
Pls learn to take cogent decision like marriage to God in prayers...

Is anyone among you afflicted (ill-treated, suffering evil)? He should pray. James 5, 13

I learned the nasty truth at the last minute, so yes, I am fortunate

joyousever:
Be thankful that you discovered on time. Try as much as you can to move on. I understand it's not that easy after two years of commitment and wedding expenses/ invites. Cry as much as you can to help ease the pain. And I tell you, in a matter of time, he'll be a distant memory!!

At the very right time, God will bring the right and manly man into your world and every tear you ever shed on this " one" will be a thing of the past.

Cheer up and be glad that you dodged a bullet of misery. There's more to life than pain. Wishing you a quick rebound and happiness. Remember God loves you.

Thanks. It's so hard

If you are gay, why do you want to ruin an innocent woman's life?

They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

Please we deny them, they are not one of us. They have Nigerian parents. Daz all

chatinent:
Killed.

Killed what?

Nigeria, my Nigeria

Sorry, they didn't teach us summary in school

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Aye yi ti baje ke. See who is calling someone else a 'thing'. This one that would have have been dragged outside the city Gates and stoned to death if we were in the Old Testament era.

Oloriburuku omo ale. Born troway. I don't know why we are condoning this man

adisabarber:
Rich people buy "the brand" not "the quality". It is poor people that think of how long a cloth will last before paying. Rich people just buy because of the name

Then the rich people are superficial and full of shit_

Later they will come here to start forming superiority. We Nigerians better wake up

KOPT33:
What makes you think that there will be a repeat of that fairy tale here?

Wake up dear.

And what makes you think there won't be a repeat? Stop being so negative

KOPT33:
On what account?

There are countless testimonies of who met and fell in love on the orc first dates, and till date are still going on strong.

KOPT33:
Love is a sacred phenomenon that does not manifest after three dates, or two quotes for that matter.

You are so wrong

KOPT33:
Thank you for your contribution but I want you to consider something: how would you feel if you had a sister who got married, but you heard about the marriage from a stranger after six months, how would you feel?

The point is I was treated disdainfully and there was no excuse for that.

Is it the same sister who can't cook?

KOPT33:
What love? There is no such thing as love, dear brother.

Don't be too quick to start professing love. Never say I love you first. If you do, you will lose a good chunk of your emotional capital.

Go on your date, tell her sweet things, create analogies, create stories, lie if you have to but just ensure your mouth is sweet. However, make no mention of love because love is a sacred thing that does not manifest after three dates.

You have serious issues

CryptoClub2018:
I swear, I love ceecee like shit. I hate mumu girlz

So you love excreta?

Nairaland has gone to the dogs

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The ideal candidate should have the following qualities-
Very strong numeric skills

Must be IT savvy (Must be familiar with MS Excel, Word and Outlook)

Customer care experience

Ability to work under intense pressure

Must not be greedy or a thief

Duties-
Directly report to the Lagos Office Head

Office administration

Responding to customer inquiries and complaints

Preparing financial and management reports. This could involve liaising with transport, subcontractors, airline and customers.

Good time management skills. Freight managers work on tight deadlines. You will receive Airfreight shipment at the warehouse and take accurate records of items received.

Liaise and negotiate with customers and suppliers.

Develop business by gaining new contracts, analyzing logistical problems and producing new solutions.

Location: Lagos. Proximity to Ikeja is an added advantage.

Salary- Negotiable

Interviews start without delay and the successful candidate will resume immediately. If you think you are the ideal candidate, PM me or send your application and CV to ebeawelendi@gmail.com

dayjeee:
Any vacancy for fresh graduate?

Not at this time