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FMK:
i cant forgive her  if she  refuses to give me   

    o-boy don't marry a woman with low sex drive o

GL:
okay, here it comes:
i can't forgive a guy who despoils anyone, because i'd begin to fear for my kids' safety.
i can't forgive a guy who kills intentionally except in self defense.
i can't forgive a guy who gives me STDs.
i can't forgive a guy who abuses me or my kids repeatedly (it would even be difficult to forgive the first instance).
i can't forgive a guy who intentionally embarrasses me in public repeatedly.
i can't forgive a guy who repeatedly shows a lack of respect for me.
i can't forgive a guy who cheats on me with a maid, anyone in my employment, or my relative.
i would find it very hard to forgive a guy who cheats on me and lies when i ask about it (but i might be able to forgive eventually).

Now we're getting somewhere.  That's the spirit!

i can't forgive a guy who is so jealous/obsessive he tries to control my life (but we won't even go beyond a few dates)

Yeah controlling freaks who use their insecurities to smother you are a turn off.  Although I must say that the woman should avoid putting herself in situations that would trigger such a behavior.  There are some women who do consciously make their spouses feel restless.

INFIDELITY - I can't overcome the betrayal of trust. Also makes me feel like our commitment was vain. Even if I maybe forgive you, I won't be able to forget and that alone will cripple our relationship because I will hound you about it.

No need to apologize either. I won't wait for an apology.
Most apologies are done to relieve a bogged down conscience or out of compulsion and not necessarily out of sincerity. Even if you tender a heartfelt apology, I would be too disgusted by your presence to continue to live with you or be around you. Moreover, I won't be able to forgive myself if I forgive you and it happens again. Fooled once shame on me, fooled twice the joke's on me.

Awesome topic.  I can't wait to add more.

OgidiBoy:
I can never forgive my spouse if she disrespect my mom in my house.

That's a good one.  I can forgive it once but not twice LOL. Something about us Naija dudes and our moms.  My mom should not humiliate my wife either.

ancel:
@H2O2: Like Samson and Delilah?

That's an exceptional example.  Even God warned us severally and consistently about deceitful women- vis-a-vis.

If you kill except in self defense or accidentally I can never forgive you enough to take you back




if you, my spouse, intentionally cause me physical harm i can't forgive you. you will make me paranoid everytime i am around you.  I cannot trust you.

Nothing? You guys must be kidding or you must be gods or something.


Anything that leaves me direly vulnerable and betrayed.

sjeezy8:


why would any sensible guy want his babe to feel inferior?

yup good question.

I agree with @ GL.

I know man, something about me and IM-speak . . this Lol in particular.

LOL ROTFL LMFAO SMH and so on

Lol

mohawkchic:
~Aaaw! Thank God for you & your family!I tell you what! Its a miracle in itself giving birth!

~I had similar experience w/ the vomitting during my First & second trimester. . .no incidents w/ me tho. . Thank God! The smell of of certain Foods was a real turnoff for me. . .an advert showing KFC chicken will have my gag reflex going not to talk of the smell. . however the spitting took the biscuit!!Tiswas the most depressing for me. . .walking around w/ scented bottles to spit in. .urghh!

~My Hubby missed my sons' birth too. . we've been holed up in hospital the whole day. . my contractions were sharp & fast but i was stuck on 2cm dilation. . .My waters have broken with thick Meconium ie {a green liquid}:in lay mans term,it means that the baby has had a bowel movement during labor & pooed in my tummy & it is a sign that the baby possibly is,or has been in distress, OR that the baby's gut is mature. Unfortunately it can be hard to tell which reason applies. . .whatever the case,if meconium is present,it is standard practice to be very cautious for if baby swallows the feces its not good!!


~That caused a whole lot of panic. . .Baby could up w/ Meconium Aspiration Syndrome !!SoOooo the immediate concern was to check if baby's heart rate is showing signs of distress!! In the blink of an eye there were doctors crowded in the room. . .machines strapped on my tummy to monitor baby's heartbeat. . .everytime the contraction came,the belt that was strapped on my tummy became tighter. . me twitching to bawl over didnt help either. . .caused the machine to misread baby's heartbeat. . .stirred another comotion w/ doctors coming in,reading the sheets. . .checking,re-checking


~I was still 2 cm dilated -I've been 2 cm since the day before when i checked in & was sent back home. . .In hindsight,i dont think there was immmediate danger otherwise they could have done a C-section,but my mind was doing all sorts. . .the contraction didnt help either!! I opted for Pethadine instead of the Gas & Mask,i had two shots of that when it seemed one wasnt helping & i was adamant i didnt want Epidural!!


~At about 12:30AM,finally 4 cm dilated,the nurses have given up on me actually having baby till the PM so they sent hubby home to get some shut eye bet they were tired of him wearing the floor out w/ his paces!!

~I gave birth some 20/30 mins later. . .they had to call him to come back. . .It was 12:57 on a Sunday!! He was 6lbs 6 oz. . .I didnt get a chance to hold him as they had to immediately check if he swallowed the poop! Thank God he hadnt!! I finally got to hold him & count all his fingers & toes. . .i didnt even mind his Cone head https://www.labnol.org/assets/images/YahooSmileys/smileys4.gif YET!! Had it moulded in no time. . He's going to be 8 in a 3 weeks! And i'm one proud Mama!!

Awya what a proud mommy. Your story was a joy to read. Congrats and happy birthday to baby

Nna see as spikey they ogle at abela

Lol yea you can't break our spirits

It's tougher when girls ask me out. I have a hard time turning them down.

Yeah God help us all

rofl to what
satan does self servicing?

chamotex:
I won't have s e x until my wedding day

Seconded i try

Mitchel where are your own several stories?
Did you cum?  Video evidence?

I  don't buy Chris Henry's fiancee's story.  Fishy

spikedcylinder:
No. Satan.

must be the most loving satan ever then


michelin already told me that once.

Happy New Year to you too Jesoul.

LeSPN tried to pull a Kobe last night against the Bobcats so he can get LeSlurped by BSPN but he LeClanked.
I Leloled.

ibkaye:
Where have you been living? Under a rock?

@topic
Lol, the bird is the word.

lol good gracious, i just stopped eating as much fruits after leaving nigeria.
and when i do it's banana

@ love is the force

Oh come off it! What do you take me for, a man-ho?

michelin89:
Heeeeeeeeeeeey see wetin I nor go read for NL ooo. Even Satan is now a born again!

ME? God forgive you.

easy come easy go is not appealing to me

I'm munching on tangerine.
Haven't had one of those in over 5 - 8 years.

puskin:
Will anybody ever agree to doing one nite stands.!!!!

Yes sir, they do.  It's different strokes for different folks.  It's more about opinions and how comfortable you feel.
I can't bulldoze my way into a stranger looking for a quick fix.

I need the intimacy and the emotional closeness.

I don't do one night stands.