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platinumnk:
@h202- it was fun scattering grey brain matter, must do again soon, so few ppl can think to your depth

lol you've got issues

Lol maybe if they grew up around men who were raised in the boonies they would know better.

MzDarkSkin:
@H20 i will not deny some men are definitely real and respect women only to NOT get it in return, however I am going to be bold enough to say that ALOT of men are for the most part the reason why alot of money hungry and fake women behave the way they do. How? you get a woman based on her looks, you may not necessarily love her and you know she doesnt love you however she "looks good on your arm". Her friends see her going shopping, driving the latest cars, and being pampered and as a woman do NOT think she wont brag about it, so her SHALLOW friends want a peice of the pie! Do you think it will be hard for them to find some loser cruising in his range rover with jewelry waiting for the next "jumpoff/ trophy girl"?

It's not the man's fault. He's only playing to their weaknesses and to his strengths. He realizes how to bait them, because most women are gullible in that area. He uses her for as long as he can and later upgrades to the n ext one once she expires. That's not love those women are out for. Just materialistic people motivated by greed and material items, seeking comfort and contentment in materialism. Hence the reason things are so fuxored up now.

TewMuch:
TewMuch on Yesterday at 11:41:00 PMI know comprehension is a challenge for you. It is people like you that end up with women that lie and pretend to you. What about being judgmental and open as a man dont you understand? You want your wife to pretend to you like she is perfect? well she will give you what you so desire, a very imperfect woman behaving perfectly. Besides a real man will not dwell on the past, but focus on the future. You say Tolerate as if you are her father.lol. You are partners, its not a father-daughter relationship. It is also a fact that when a person is open and understanding, people trust and respect you so much more with their deepest secrets.I hope this break down of words is enough for you.

still making no sense. ninny. continue typing essays. real man koh fake teddy bear ni.
it's your fault that you married a dimwit that deceived her way into a marriage. real man indeed. more like a fool.

TewMuch:
Well if you were open with her, and were not someone to judge she wouldn't hide her past from you. You are obviously someone concerned about such or you would not be here looking for solutions. The past is the past, focus on who you have come to know now and who you love. Just be more open and less judgmental , so that in the future she can confide in you.

makes no damn sense whatsoever.

ngbo poster be open to rubbish (even tolerate rubbish sef) so that she can always confide in you.

Did she really talk about how "good" it would be? Did she mention the "good" that will come out of it and how long it will take? Building and stabilizing an infrastructure? Resources and things?

She should have thought about that before she blinded you into marrying her.

I'm in search of an oil cooler.

I got too much ish to do. i'm tired

Haba how can you compare halle berry and genev what an insult

Good God in heaven what have I done

i love payback

another one has bitten the dust

It's not a "guy thing" sophy. It just stems from missing what they had. Now that it's gone the absence has made the heart grow fonder. Just ignore him or something ehn.

MzDarkSkin:
a REAL WOMAN offers support, affection, care, understanding and a motherly-like love from the soul. She may not be perfect but she is willing to do for her man. Whether or not men can do the same is the REAL question lol.

@ Eldee you are a GENIUS for that breakdown that was cute.

It's quite clear that men already do those things and then some.

A woman wouldn't marry a man that can't care for her or that she doesn't feel secure with. Most women won't go after men that are not financially stable or rich so that addresses the support part. Understanding is subjective so is affection, which we provide in form of sex lol. Obviously we can't give you the motherly love because we ain't women so . . . .

Face the fact and take action. I agree.

The hell we do. The flunk ima do with a fatsopuff. Abeg speak for yourself.

Try to do your homework before marrying her. If you were unable to dig up the dirt until after marriage then you have every right to be pissed. IF you were deceived into marrying her then by all means, depending on the enormity of the past itself I just might advise you to terminate the darn marriage. Marriage built on a foundation of deceit is no marriage at all and was never built to last to begin with.

Yeah yeah everyone has a past, but that shouldn't have been a reason for her to pretend and cheat her way into a ring. Every action has its reaction (or maybe even call it consequence) so be wise with the everyday decisions you make.

Women are their own worst enemies. A bunch of selfish individuals.
Imagine them wrecking families and destroying lives by going out with married men for the spoils.

sick

Is it a crime for your partner to ask for sexual pleasure from you, or would you prefer it if he gets that elsewhere?
If you're not ready then tell him no. . . just don't be shocked if he cheats on you when you don't give it up.

why not. Its the same way MOST of you think merely being female entitles you to royal treatment by men (buy me this, buy me that, make me laugh, cure my menstrual cramp! etc). Nothing given in return.

lmao what a funny black man.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=394470.msg5699281#msg5699281 date=1268682779]Marrying a Virgin man?
That would be ridiculous.[/quote]because?

What is the greatest intimacy object of all time

rhetorical . . . kind of lol

hey you know it sis

It depends on the type of wife I marry.

If I end up with the pea-brained one whose life is dominated by feminism then she better go get her own bread.

I keep wondering what my epitaph will be.

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trash talk

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Niggaaaa

Hehe do u write poems?

I could, damsel, I just never bother.

Pweety4me:
_{Hmmm sweet memories but they never did last 4 2 long awww d moments. . .hehe}

pweety4me rofl what are you on about? Lol

Funny thing is I probably haven't seen the creature yet.  I'm only fiddling with my imaginations.

My heart is often in disagreement with what I'm thinking in my head

I really am allergic to homers.