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whitelexi:
I know someone else wrote it, but i don't think its somehow true
Knowing the law and knowing the culture are 2 different things.
If she feels all naija girls were raised up properly before they came abroad, then why do some know how to cook and others don't? Why can some dance that fire dance that others can't? Why can some speak the same language that others can't?

The difference between most girls at home and most naija girls abroad can be compared to pure palm oil and the chaff that was removed from it in the first place. A man can never mistake one for the other.

Even identical twins born of the same mother from the same womb, can never be the same if one is raised abroad and the other at home. That is food for thought, have a nice weekend

wow

well, good question.

lol

michelin89:
@ topic

After so much reflection I have come to realize that men don't refuse to cook because they feel too superior but because they think it's just part of how a woman shows she cares for her man.

My boyfriend cooks and I don't look at him as being inferior. On the contrary I am flattered that he is ready to satisfy my whim to eat a particular meal. I know the "woman should do this and that" can sometimes derive from a sexist mindset but often it can also be part of a healthy way of dating.

Don't you want a partner who cares and is prepared for any type of situation? A man has the right to want a good cook just like a woman also has the right to want a man who can fend for the family.

Why must every man's demand be seen as sexist, while the woman's is a sign of emancipation? Aren't we a little bit prejudicial?

I agree with some of what you have said here girl.

onyinye2:
Gini!!! Tufiakwa. Chukwu mere I ebere. As if you can't cook for yourself.

Iwe na ewe'm.

Kedu Nne, ogini? If the man wants good food from his wife let him have it, biko.

i've talked to an akata and it was
horrible

ChinenyeN:
No. It wouldn't work out for me, unless she is willing to learn to cook before we are married. If she isn't willing to learn, then I will find another wife-to-be. I like food, alot (I'm not a fan of eating out. I was raised on home-cooked meals, and I will die on home-cooked meals). I can cook pretty well myself though, but I won't marry a woman that cannot cook as good, if not better than me.

yeah i can't do fast food.

omega25 is right

ladies shave your mustache

somebody has vexed toyinrayo

The thing go hard small

Don't force it.