tommy589:
The system has failed. This is not about parenting gone wrong, but one of many symptoms of leadership/authority that is no longer respected or feared in Nigeria anymore.
Principal is not wrong inviting police but crowd most times vent their bitterness on police,they are the physical representative of the protected leadership that impoverish them.
So much hunger and anger in the land.

I can’t agree less with you brov, the monsters they made actually. Our leaders have really failed us all. SO so sad!

If you find out another man has bleeped your wife I hope you will also find a place in your heart to forgive her. The deed has been done, telling your wife or her husband will only add salt to injuries. Just desist from such abominable act. With little time you’ll get over your guilt.

GodIsBiafran:
But when did DJ witch spread fake news that resulted in the burning down of properties worth hundreds of billions of naira? In a sane society, DJ witch will be in prison. The laws of Zoogeria are a huge joke. That is why someone like DJ witch can make up lies, heat up the polity and caused billions in damages and still allowed to escape to Europe for a soft landing. Anyone that tries this kind of nonsense in Biafra will face a firing squad. We will not take nonsense.

Mumu Biafra in your next life.

APC die die die die... die by fire � die by fire �!

Malory:
No sensible thing will make sense to a Gaybrel with a leaking ass

I no be gay, I love pussy die! But the she guy is stating nothing but facts. Accept it or not..

How do they really feel when they go to these countries and see how their leaders have turned their fortunes around, then coming back home to our shithole of a country! Our leaders are truly heartless though.

envoymedia:
Housewife Arrested For Murder After Setting Husband's Married Side Chic Ablaze In Ogun (Photos)



https://www.instagram.com/p/CXB1jc8NVkD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See their bleached irritating skin like who bath inside chemical. Evil woman!

ahnie:
Pls how much do I need to budget in acquiring a Nigerian passport and how do I go about it and how long will I have to wait?

Pls do well to answer my question.

Legitly you shouldn’t spend much, and it depends on the state you are. Did mine in FCT with less than 35k and though as at then there was shortage in the production of booklet so I had to wait for a month plus before it eventually came out.

Aufbauh:
I can't factor why people who are supposed to be carriers of good news, hope and bright future has turned their selves to doomsday preachers & naysayers.
May Nigeria succeed.

Na people like you dey rely on; “one day e go better” instead of you to face the reality like the cardinal is doing. May Nigeria succeed my ass’ what are you doing from your ends to make her succeed? Do you even have a pvc to start with ?

Ogbuefi2020:
Buhari will destroy APC before leaving office

Point of correction, destroy Nigeria before leaving office..

pmoye:
This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.

Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.

I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.

The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.

Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.

If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.

Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.

Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.

You are a Mumu man stop spewing gibberish here!

At the end of the day, a groomed appearance without a well groomed character na groomless.

chikeorji123:


Live the innocent Man alone..
I suggest you apply for baby mama.. since it's your idea of one child..but be careful ..

The best option for her is surrogacy after all she’s not really interested in relationship according to her.

Mercychen:


Thats why Ive stopped picking his calls. Let him look for someone that will give him battalion.



What was it they talked about. Just brief me. I would have gone to YouTube to watch it but right now I'm too tired to watch anything or reason straight.

I'm really stressed.

Why are you suffering the poor dude? Why not tell him straight up to move on instead of avoiding his calls? Na wao women sha! Ur own problem really dey ur body

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

How can you convince a man to have just one child and still suggest the surgical be done on him and not you! Damn don’t be so self centered Ms. having just a child is like having none, especially when you know you are very capable of having more. Think about future unforeseen circumstances!. Truth is deep down his heart he wants more than a child and if you don’t want that then just be blunt about it and let him find his way. The earlier the better.

The North are never to be trusted when it comes to politics. They know how to play the game.

Classy Tems, she’s got her self pride not to be pulled up in front of a crowd like a baby by Oga big wiz. lol the tin sweet me for eyes sha

FreeStuffsNG:


I did sir. It's vacuous and evasive. He definitely has case to answer for not being truthful and will eventually face disciplinary committee to defend the unethical conduct he is being alleged of perpetuating by inserting falsehoods into the report. This issue won't end with a white paper.

Conscience is an open wound, only Truth can heal it( Uthman Dan Fodio).

Kudos to the Lagos State Government for the dedication and transparency. This is a classic example of how Government towered over folks like Mr Ebun Adegboruwa in terms of character and truth. It's clear who the liars are.

Now is the time to investigate how those fictitious names and falsehoods got into the Lekkilies EndSars report. Mr Jelili Ownonikoko already reported that it was inserted by Mr Ebun Adegboruwa but we need to find out.

How can an individual who faced a panel to tell the panel members that his brother was not killed at Lekki end up with him and his dead brother both declared killed at Lekki ? shocked
We really need to investigate who compromised or sabotaged the panel's report. LASG, FG, EFCC,ICPC, NA, LAHA and the panel members must unravel this mystery; this is a national embarrassment. It's completely unacceptable.

Ignorance and gullibility at its peak. Weldone sir you are doing well!

Nemere2020:

https://www.channelstv.com/2021/12/01/20-dead-as-boat-carrying-schoolchildren-others-capsizes-in-kano/

Ignorance and carelessness in the north is damn too massive

I’ve said it before and I will say it again, the woes of APC is just getting started.

AmazonTopaz:


I am sure they also warned you about 5G too,if only you know how many conspiracy theories have been dispelled over time you won't be believing that gullible human and yourself.

Conspiracy theorist are confusionist who lie to deceive fools and make profits

Your own headache o..

DemMannaScam:
Just see how the masses are being fooled by PLANdemic agents aka vaccine terrorists

All these things you are now hearing were designed long time ago... As time goes by they will be unveiling more one after the other...

Even this so called "omicron" was created and named long time ago. There are still others they will unveil in due course...


Omicron sounds like a variation of the name of the president of france. Maybe they will remix biden's name for the next variant they will announce... FOOLS!!!



Their game plan is mind control. They will instill fear, issue directives & enforce compliance...
They will also recruit public figures, celebrities, influencers to promote their agenda...

Their final goal is getting everyone in the world "chipped" aka vaccinated. Meanwhile vaccinated people still contract covid 19, fall ill (and die too).
NO BE JUJU BE THAT?

These vaccine terrorists are hell-bent on launching the beast system that will be used in these last days...

The people in the western world who created awareness & started warning the world many years ago about these developments we are seeing today, were called conspiracy theorists.

Mandatory vaccine passports that western governments are now planning to enforce, was exposed many years ago by "conspiracy theorists"

I'm reminded of Noah in the bible. When he gave warnings, they laughed at him, they mocked him. They didn't believe him until it began to rain...

Doubt or believe whatever you like, it changes nothing.

My brother you are very correct jare. The Conspiracy Theorist warned us before now, how they were going to usher in A Totalitarian new world order. Well here it is before our very own eyes.
Those that have eyes and ears let them use it to see and hear respectively. A word is enough for the wise.

Most of these leaders where either dropouts or didn’t even go to school afterall., yet they won’t create an enabling environment for credible and certified graduates to practice and exercise their academic skills. They aren’t even worthy to be called leaders. Such Daft, corrupt, selfish, greedy and incompetent set of old manipulative generation we have as leaders.
Tueeh!

Megatrix:

You expect me to accept that trash from that quack source?

You are a Mumu child, or kid or let me manage and call u boy.. that’s how you will be arguing in public, disgracing yourself over what you have no idea about.. can you pls show us your own quack source debunking this you’ve been shown.
I think Seun should add the underage policy on this platform where children like you will not be allowed to post or comment rubbish from your premature brain.

Spaxon:
SO even after all the jump ship and all that.
he's still a criminal.

i thought joining APC made you a saint.


but in other news tho, i really feel these politicians just make up stories an events to keep us thinking they're actually working or serious. THEY'RE ALL THE SAME THIEVES PLAYING WITH OUR SENSES

Are you just realizing that

flokii:


Once a curfew is declared by a sitting executive governor of a state or the c-in-c, it's a signal for the Military and Joint task force to move in and restore peace and order in the state. or region.

So your accusation that someone called army to secure thier investment holds no water. There are laws guiding our society and if any group violates the law, they must be held accountable.

When you say held accountable do you mean by shooting and killing of unarmed citizens ?

Rexwalters1:
Comprehension Mr Man, there was a curfew in effect, those people @ the Toll gate had disobeyed it, the curfew was declared to avoid the event that happened @ the Lekki tollgate, breakdown of law & order.

Mr comprehension just be deceiving yourself. One day you or your loved one will be a victim that day you will realize that no matter the breakdown of law and order a government is not suppose to shoot or kill her own citizen.

Oceemo:
He said a peaceful work stop miss interpreting people's words for your selfish interest Op

Can also be referred or regarded as a peaceful protest my dear

Malory:
Watch as Lai Muhammed will claim it as one of the conditions the FG gave twitter before agreeing to lift twitter ban

Of course it is.

Coly2012:
Electoral Act Amendments: Buhari writes INEC, seeks advice on direct primaries, others

https://punchng.com/electoral-act-amendments-buhari-writes-inec-seeks-advice-on-direct-primaries-others/?amp

As long as he’s going to seek Malami and his other brainless goon’s consent, He will not sign it..

Azeemokoya:


https://newsroundtheclock.com/pfn-kick-against-payment-of-n5k/

You’ve spoken well Mr Oke. Indeed the drivers of GMB Apc led administration are so incompetent, incoherent and incognizant in running the affairs of governance.. they’ve rendered this country totally useless!

See the groom be like bouncer hehe Money is good.. meanwhile I can’t help but admire Pete Edochie