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Dear Tyler,

You haven't been trying to upset Angela, but you did it anyway. You made her feel scared and under threat. She can't relax and let you do what she hired you to do — she is too fearful.

You know what you're doing at work, and Angela doesn't. She wants to supervise you closely in part to learn your job and in part to feel that she's making a contribution — but the main reason she hovers over you is so that you'll know who is in charge! She is trying to exert her puny, petty power over you.

Can you help Angela rise to a higher level of altitude, accept you as the talented colleague you are and stop smothering you? I doubt it. Why would you want to invest the time and energy it would take to find out?

Angela is in fear. We all get that way at times, but some people spend their whole lives in fear — doing damage to people around them in the process. Even if you did want to help ease Angela's fear by coaching and counseling her from below, you'd need a backup plan in case she freaked out at any point and fired you.

You may as well get your job-search plans together. If Angela hasn't gotten used to you and your level of expertise after a year, I don't think she ever will.

People get fearful, and they take it out on people like you. It's not always a boss who gets fearful around you. It could just as easily be a coworker or even a friend or family member.

Here are ten ways people will try to hold you back — if you let them:

1. They will pick at you over tiny or imaginary infractions or slights — to keep you off guard and doubting yourself.

2. They will tell you that your aspirations are too grand. They will tell you that you ought to be more humble and set less ambitious goals.

3. They will remind you of your faults.

4. They will criticize your ideas and plans even when they are not knowledgeable about the subject matter.

5. They will say negative things about you to other people.

6. They will marginalize you and discount your accomplishments.

7. They will ignore you in hopes that you'll get the message and dim your own flame.

8. They will send you messages that you're upsetting them — leaving you out of communication loops, praising other people but not you, and generally dissing you whenever they get the chance.

9. They will outright attack you and/or your ideas through a smear campaign.

10. They will try to get you fired, or try to prevent you from being hired.

t is shocking and hurtful when your boss, your teammate or your friend turns into an enemy, but it is important to understand why it happens. It happens because you singed that person with your growing flame.

In your life you will work for good and bad bosses.

You will have true friends and fake friends at work and elsewhere, and you will run into frenemies who pretend to be your friend so they can get close enough to stab you in the ribs. It's hurtful and discouraging to run into barking dogs on your path, but it's good learning too.

You will say goodbye to many people like Angela during your life.

You will learn something every time you step away from a person who is trying to tear you down and hold you back. In fact, learning to walk away from unhealthy relationships is a critical part of your evolution as a person.

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OEPHIUS:
With the reported return of the leader of IPOB, Nnamdi Kanu, some questions arise like if he will still preach hatred and still continue his disdain for Yorubas and Hausa/Fulanis.

The video below is just one example where he said Igbos should not attend Yoruba churches or churches headed by Yorubas.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1y3yR-NMSvg

posting this rubbish to the front page is trabalistic cus is coming from an afonja

ViaGist:
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NaijaCelebNews:
American Superstar Rapper Kanye West was recently seen seriously grooving to Wizkid and Mystro’s new song “Immediately”. Click link to Watch Full Video:
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WawaIPODJew:
Go beg your mama to tell you who your real father is

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WawaIPODJew:
This one too have been influenced by Fani-Kayode to start spewing trash . Lmao .
Buhari can make Dangote lose half of his money overnight if he wants to .
PMB has been making so many policies that is aimed to solely favour Dangote .

I can hear ur father shouting, I told u to go to sch u refuse, u use the sch fees for kalokalo and igbo

SolutionMee:

Please add Graphics. That's why I don't support alien visitation to earth. Most aliens are nocturnal creatures and are aggressive at night. The lady shouldn't have seduced them with her seductive body. Oglimataxic aliens are holy and murderous in nature. The question is that why is it that she was the only one killed in the town? Why her and not others? She must have done something hidden to have exited earth in such an awful way. Decency, morality and vigilance has a way of prolonging human lives.

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Kirikiri/kpanti is knocking on the dumb buyer

Tiwa mumu sha, na normal tin for old woman wey de follow small pikin

eezeribe:
Nigerians and hypocrisy... Can't people be allowed to express and enjoy their sexuality?
All those police officers parading them must have raped a poor girl at some point in their lives.

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While it's perfectly natural for your hoo-ha to have some sort of aroma, certain vaginal odors can indicate a serious infection — particularly when accompanied by a change in color, amount, or consistency of vaginal
discharge, according to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG)
.
Here are the smells you should look out for to assess
whether your scent is super normal, or soured and in
need of medical treatment, according to women's health expert Jennifer Wider, M.D.

1. Musky
When your vagina is healthy, its scent can vary based on your activity level. For instance, after a super-intense spin class, you may notice a stronger, muskier smell due to moisture released by sweat glands in the surrounding region, according to Dr. Wider. While this tends to be 100 percent normal, any scent that bothers you enough to want to cover it up warrants a call to your doctor just in case something more serious is up, since an out-of-the-ordinary or intolerable change could signal an infection, according to ACOG.

2. Fishy
If your vagina gives off a strong, fishy odor that smells
foul, chances are you're suffering from an infection,
according to ACOG. If the odor increases right after sex, or it's accompanied by an increase in discharge, it could be bacterial vaginosis, a condition marked by an
overgrowth of bacteria that upsets the vagina's delicate
PH balance, which can be cleared up with antibiotics. Or, if you notice green discharge, vaginal itching, and pain when you pee, you could have trichomoniasis, a
common and treatable sexually transmitted disease.
Either way, you'll want to see your doctor for treatment — and never resort to douching, since the practice has been linked to hormonal disruptions, chronic disease, and reproductive and developmental problems as well as heightened risk of ovarian cancer.

3. Bleachy
Dr. Wider says lubricants or condoms can contribute to this this smell, which most women liken to chlorine or bleach, she says. Luckily, it's nothing to be worried about — just restock your sex drawer if these scents bother you.

4. Yeasty
While there's normally a small amount of yeast present
inside your vagina, yeast infections occur when there's
an overgrowth due to lubrications, spermicides,
antibiotic use, or even pregnancy, according to ACOG.
You'll know something's up if you notice a faint, bread-
like smell along with cottage cheese-like discharge. While you should inform your doctor to confirm this diagnosis, most yeast infections can be cured with OTC anti-fungal medications, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC).

5. Tinny
If your vagina seems to smell a bit off or vaguely metallic when you get your period, don't sound the alarms. See, when you have your period, the blood can mix with the natural state of a healthy vagina and give off a different — but typically normal — smell, according to Dr. Wider.

6. Sweet
Anecdotally, your diet can affect the taste and scent of
your vagina. For instance, citrus fruits like oranges,
pineapple, and grapefruit have been known to sweeten
the smell and taste of vaginal fluids, according to Dr.
Wider. On the other hand, onions, garlic, broccoli, and
asparagus can cause what some describe as an
"unpleasant" odor and taste, she says. Hey, to each their own!

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1. Try

2. Try again

3. Try once more

4. Try it a little different

5. Try it again tomorrow

6. Try and ask for help

7. Try to find someone who's done it

8. Try to determine what is not working

9. Try to determine what is working

10. Just keep trying

NOTE: This steps is not for gamblers, it is for determined hard working people and people with creative ideas, so u won't blame me for ur loss.

Do have a wonderful sunday

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Hyinkar97:
You bloggers suddenly know XXXtentacion now that he’s dead?
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SolexxBarry:
This daddy freeze is just bitter at everything christian related,why bring in religion into everything

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