₦airaland Forum

SLAVERY FROM GIRL FRIENDS: Some people attract unneccesary bills because of their girl friend, some even stay in a bigger appartments when they are not even ready to marry just to tell them (girls) ''i stay alone here''. Get a responsible girl give her money for her upkeep and stop unneccesary financial burden. These ways u 'll be relieved from financial desperation. tnx

SLAVERY FROM PARENTS: Some parents believe their child/children are surpose to be money making machines, making refference to other people without considering that ''all fingers are not equal'' you are surpose to know how much you earn and decide how much you will give them without involving yourself into unneccesary pressure. that way you will live a stress free life.

SLAVERY TO YOUR PASTOR: You are surpose to worship God drop your offering and any other thing you feel like. When you subject yourself to all kinds of contributions, vows, seeds e.t.c you put yourself into unneccesary financial pressure this will sink you more in poverty instead of bringing you out.

First step: Remove yourself from all form of slavery. (1) slavery to your landlord (2) slavery to your pastors (3) slavery to your parents (4) slavery to your girl friend. SLAVERY TO LANDLORDS: Why stay in a house where you will need to pay all your annual savings to the landlord? instead get a small accomodation u can comfortably afford without stress. That way u wont be desperate looking for money.

UPDATE BY UPDATE. Over 60percent of Nigerian citizens are poor, now problem is not how to come out of poverty but how to manage things/life and be happy pending when God will remember you. Don't be deceived by things u hear from the Alter dont presurize God just manage yourself relax everything will be fine.

Epositive:
I saw your other thread

kk tnx.

newyorks:
Bro i dnt think ur case is pure introvert but is related to.
introverts attend social gatherings but are not outspoken.

Thanks bro.

RadicallyBlunt:
You been a core introvert is ur parents mistake and negligence. You must have been showing the tendency since childhood and they ignored it. Now they're complaining. Some parents sef.

Better stay back in d country you are where marriage is not overrated than coming to Nigeria to face the pressure of marriage.

I think u are right cos it's not like i'm not happy with myself. tnx

Epositive:
Are you by any chance suffering from social anxiety? Or maybe depression?

How will i know? i think so cos i don't attend social gathering. That's why i opened this thread i want to know if i'm ok or not, i also want to know who's wrong among us.

Presently where am now. I'm really suffering cos i left my job left everything, i'm just doing a menial job here. Iam worried should i go home or stay here? I am really confused pls advice me nairalanders. I'm worried why can't i live my life the way i want?

That's the decision i made and i'm ok with it i plan to adopt when the time is due, so because my mom is a control freak she has reported me to everyone (community, church, friends) e.t.c it became talk of the town cos i'm 33 now. When i couldn't bear the pressure i left Nigeria for another country.

I'm a core introvert, infact i wish to be indoor for the rest of my life and that makes me happy but my Mom and family are so uncomfortable with my life style. I was working in Nigeria have atleast a good place to stay but lately mom and people around me wants me to marry and personally i don't want to marry for the rest of my life. DETAILS SHORTLY

stilldoingokay:
do you leave in abuja or when was the last time you visit


the city has become something else plz

It's the same the whole africa, go to Johanessburg SA and see how it looks now e.t.c they are all geting dirtier now.

Only few people said the truth here. i 've been to 5 West African countries and 4 South African countries. The only problem in Nigeria is electricity and the citizens should obey the rule of law. U 'll make more money in Nigerian than all of them. apart from infastructural aspect in some major countries and beautiful women (jst few of them) ''no african country should be compared to Nigeria''. Business e.t.c

LeSudAfricaine:
leave our country alone or find a hobby

U and i know these people (black South Africans) are ''bunch of brainwashed'', the Boers must knw if they keep facing them against us Nigerians/Africans one day we 'll also face them against u. Then the consequence 'll be hell against u (Boers).

Jayceon:
this one should close this useless thread. ..DAMN

I feel sory for u, we are trying to deliver u from ''white spel'' we just wish u knew.

LeSudAfricaine:
A south African can't afford a car?

Pls leave me alone i dont want to spit fire.

LeSudAfricaine:
he he. not nearly as dumb as you. you are full of contradictions, lmao. SA is a miserable place and yet you flock like flies daily, it doesn't add up don't you think? no matter how bad our country might be you'll never find us drowning in oceans trying to flee, you stupid Flatt head you're not even aware that Libyans have been selling you punks as slaves just recently, lol South African economy and media is controlled by South Africans, lol,. we are lazy but we build new roads, hospitals, expland electricity plants etc, what do you do with all your industriousness? flee to ready made countries and ufck them up coz that's all you know how to do, you are known all over the world for cutting corners for easy money stupid asss lazy ufcks. south Africa even introduced you ufcks to retail all you knew was street vendors, lol. and oh yes we ufck a lot down here , what can you do when you're surrounded by a bevy of beauties? it's not our fault that your women are fugly only good at selling pusssy in Italy

Come u Boer i know they plant u here like a Statue so that u don't let us tell those lazy fools (black south africans) the truth. U came here (Africa) to farm but u don't wnt to go again. I blame Mandela who couldn't chase u guys out like Robert Mugabe did.

Stevengerd:
Everyday shagging.....

Na only God knw how ur waist go take be....

hahahahaha talkative, i don giv up o. i look like corpse now, i surpose write this since on 18th but no energy again.

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I'm a young man with very high sexual demand ( sex addict ) this has affected me in alot of ways, i can't save money, infact i don't want to marry now becos i know i won't be faithful to the woman. So i plan to control this situation so that i can save. so.............. details shortly.

LeSudAfricaine:
actually no one needs you in those villages since you turn anything into slums, lol

Hahahahahahaaha!...... WENA

LeSudAfricaine:
and yet you flock flies to the land of the lazy because you're too lazy to improve your own zoo

We are not coming to ur shithole villages ( Mpumulanga ) we only stay in towns places developed by whites.

Joemtu:
They have been sold into slavery in libya but they refuse to accept their ills,they have been sentenced to death in Malaysia and indonesia but they cant see their ills.their daughters are prostituting in europe..but they dont see their shortcomin.they are hated for selling drugs in south africa..but they refuse to change.In their country they import wat they have and they export to neighbouring nation wat they dont have..but they dont see their ills..

U lazy brainwashed goat can u tel usl what any black South African has ever achieved so far? if not being lazy and silly

LeSudAfricaine:
Jeezus this convo is running in circles. dude black south Africans were allowed to work in the city wether in the factories, manufacturing etc, they were the labour force required to build those cities in the first place they were not allowed to have permanent residence in those places. I do not recall saying everything was ok

It's ok bye

Jayceon:
Thanks...at least you know how important we are to Africa

Disgrace i meant. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Jayceon:
Yet in 2018 Nigerian ethnic groups are slaughtering each for land in Lagos

It's better to trial and fail than running away from your responsibility. South Africans are still under slavery. A South African can't afford a car but will lend same car and keep paying for it till death. U GUYS ARE GRACE TO ENTIRE AFRICA.

LeSudAfricaine:
seems you have comprehension issues are you talking past tense or present? you said we were not allowed to go the city before 94 , I asked you then as to where did black people worked then, you then tell me how black people supposedly travel to work and I rightly told you that black south Africans travel to work in different ways, no you're shifting the goalposts and asking me about freedom, lol. get you shht together

I said if u were working proper, driving e.t.c everything was ok. tell us the reason why u wanted freedom if everything was ok. i said u where not allowed in towns and u said i was lieing.

LeSudAfricaine:
black south Africans , take trains , buses, taxis, drive their own cars to work so ultimately your point is as useless as a used condom

Ok if u were doing all these, what was the freedm u wanted for? freedom to do what actually?

That is why u can sit ur lazy Ass and talk now. Do u know what Zimbabeans, Libyan's and Nigerians are facing in the hands of these manipulators?.

Jayceon:
No need for that,rather open a thread and explain how Indonesia will never stop hanging your bros over there and also explain why the Mediterranean Sea is swallowing your youth everyday

Until illegal immigrants take a heed that they are not wanted in SA xenophobia will always be there,IT WILL NEVER STOP

Their are alot u don't know my friend. South Africa is the only country in Africa that never askd for independent they only asked for ''freedom'' freedom to do what? ''freedom to talk, use internet, and go to their towns'' hence u guys don't know whites are manipulation u against all ur African brothers. Continue u have freedom now cos u know before now if u talk or go to town u 'll be killed.

LeSudAfricaine:
that's actually a lie. so before 94 where did black south Africans work? lol

Black South African usually take train to town and do menial jobs like foreigners and they must leave town before 4pm. u laughed because u know i'm not telling lies.