₦airaland Forum

Snow87:
So house wife ministry still dey exist for this buhari government, the Lord is ur muscle my brother.

Hahahahaha FUNNY.

stupidity:
Sounds like my girlfriend. Whenever I’m far away from her. She gets hostile towards me, pick quarrels at every little thing I say.

I noticed whenever she’s missing me, she can’t help but get mad at everyone around her including when on phone with me. But the very day I get back to see her, immediately we step inside the room, she go lock door bang my life to 8%. Lol.

Exactly what is happening here, just learn from my situation now.

RadicallyBlunt:
Sounds like the girl I just broke up with. Emotionally unstable.

The fact is I've not asked her for a date yet but she's all over me like we're married. Demands reassurance all d time. Sometimes I call like 5 times a day...long calls for dat matter like 20min and above. She said she was going abroad in 1yr time and we can keep chatting online while shes there. Abeg tell me how dat is possible..to be waiting for 3 yrs depending online. She tenderly gives herself to me dat I struggled strongly against having sex with her. Thank God I didn't.

She travelled from where she stays in lagos to be with her sister in ota who just gave birth and she just suddenly changed telling me all she want is friendship and boldly said some things that she normally wouldn't say to my face when we're together. Now she's quitted. I can't explain d emotional trauma I'm going thru now but I thank God it happened, at least we're not married yet. We've parted for good.

Was just planning to pay her a surprise visit to officially ask her for a date and then take her to my aunt's place on eid-el-fitri celebration cus my aunt is a Muslim. I wanted her to meet my family and I know they'll like her esp cus she's from my state.

If I had engaged her and she goes abroad, this is how she would have placed me on emotional hang over.

Hahahahaha exactly, i think the problem starts from all these Indian, Telemudo e.t.c they are always watching.

Pearl05:
You are the husband. Please talk her into getting a job or learn a craft. People work not just for the money. Job gives sense of identity and it must be what she has passion for.

Let her minimize watch telemundo , zee
Word and others.

Thank u dear, u really know her, she's watching alot of ''Indian love'' movies.

Shugavee:
lol she aint immature or whatever!!! At Least I know she allows u do ur work,after work u go to the house n be with her especially if u know she is alone!! Its for bettee for worse so u cant tell her to give u breathing space!!! The only thing I think u should do is get her busy!! Let her meet new friends, a job, a business!! So she has where to go to as well!!!

Yea, the father doesn't want her to work, they do pay all of them from their family business. But i 'll tell her to go look for job. Lol!!!!!!!!

DeadRat:
seems Your Marriage Is Fresh

Yea...... friend.

MhizzAJ:
She's so insecure
What kind of a wife behaves like that

Let her give you breathing space biko else she will choke you

Hahahahahaha ''my wena'' who thought u ''biko''?.

hajoke2000:
maybe she is feeling insecure.......there are many slay queens(husband hunter ) out there ........

Hahahahahahaa maybe o!

AlexCk:
she a stay-home mum?
let her a job or biz to get her mind off things i guess.

Exactly tnx.

tee59:
A baby wife in adult's body.Your wife is not matured enough. She always think otherwise when you are out of sight, may be with anoda lady if not why all this childish behaviour. Insecurity in marriage is a big problem.

Now i see what the problem is ''immatured adult''

medexico:
She loves you too much and cannot stay without you. you better be happy.

Am friend. Thank you

I can't help but ''laugh out loud'' at the comments so far!.

I observed that each time i'm out of her sight she 'll put up a fight but when we meet physically she 'll be laughing and wont bring our previous fight issue up. When i'm around everything goes fine. But let me just step out: uncountable rude sms and calls immediately i return home you won't hear any of those, it 'll be new topic and laughter. I'm just confused.

whitegirl21:
To be honest I don't expect anything serious.

I expect like 1% chance I find John

And for the rest I just hope to have fun chatting here.

Ohh and maybe 1% chance finding the love of my life :-)

OK, Nigeria is about 170millions of people, people named ''John'' are more than 900 in the country scattered in different locations. It's hard to know who u are looking for unless if he is registerd on this forum and sees your post. let's hope so. Thanks

whitegirl21:
I don't mind PMs

But most of all I wish to find John. But I know it's a long shot.

And I'm not a religious leader :-)

Hello pls don't expect any thing serious from these guys/forum pls just get more details about him and search him on facebook. Thanks

Please i want to know, are they protesting on the street or just our usuall ''tweeter protest''?.

following.

EXCELLENT @ op

Stallion93:
True, what I've noticed is adults now(the majority) give birth just to ascertain their fertility status or to fulfil Traditional/religious beliefs or the need for a particular gender or for some sick reason. They never think about the Unsolicited Life they alone decided to birth into this wicked world worst of all Nigeria

It's just so painful. We have messed up, i'm worried friend cos alot has gone wrong. E.g, their are rules and procedures in everything like handshake, table manner, relationship infact everything but we don't follow any, so if we can't follow simple procedures like those, what about major once?. But God 'll help us.

Xcelinteriors:
Am not a Muslim but I support that, Friday is their day of worship and should be respected

They should approach National Assembly for ammendment until then WAEC should keep on what they are doing.

I think the problem starts from us (our believe) we believe in having more children that we can't take care of, hence we go to school dis-organized and struggling in the end, the whole years in school will be wasted years without learning anything. How can someone who is not sure of his next meal concentrate in class/book?. My friend alot has gone wrong.

donstan18:
Your wife's mum and sisters are the problem you are facing, accept your wife and desist from them for the main time.


Inlaws should learn how to respect and stay clear from a man's home and management, I don't know why they find it hard to mind their business and allow their sons and daughters to enjoy their marriage.

Take this advice also dont ask or take anything from your sister inlaw henceforth. Above all please i repeat please ''man up''

marvin906:
if you sit down and observe NL a lot..
your gonna notice that fake peeps are way too much here

Not only Nairaland but the whole Nigeria, we 've got it all wrong until we heed to parents advice atleast 60percent, and take education serious and first thing before wealth, eduacation i'm talking about is not just going to school alone but also to learn else we are heading to eternal damnation.

mzHANA:
I have my work am doing

Am a fashionist

Before I use to think that man is not my problem that I should chase money first and I can say that by God grace am financially OK

But I don't have anyone to call my man

I 'll advice u take some reasonable advices here ignore some comments here that reeks desperation. From the day u discovered/made this decision please give yourself time everything will fall in place, don't allow yourself to be pressurized by the society or any one. Thanks

ameri9ja:
I'm at the top of my game and it is not lonely at all. It is not always about money.
As they say, if u developed the best mouse trap (the top), the world will beat a path to your door.

Point

ameri9ja:
Great OPPORTUNITY rarely comes at a convenient time. There are usually other things needing to be done first. And it is usually somehow camouflaged. And it usually knocks very faintly, so that if you are not aware you'll miss it. And it usually comes indirectly. WHY IS IT LIKE THIS?!

Now you are talking.

ameri9ja:
Actually it is not lonely at the top at all.
Am at the top. Everybody wants to be your friend. The problem is keeping them out.

How top are you? do u think earning below N500,000 is the top?. My brother it's empty their! just own 1 billion and come back and tell me. *Experienced*

Op, if u dont want to assist the girl please tell her and stop twisting stories here.

LeSudAfricaine:
what do you mean by sub-standard? Norway has the best standard of living on the planet FYI

Wena where have u been, i 've been looking for you and ur ''sharp mouth''.