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Penguin2:
Not classy to me

that is what he can afford and he likes the house. If you like dont like it

MistarT:
You see my brother, the issue the world is having about marriage(s) is that "people marry who they want not who they need" God is not interested in wants (especially when it comes to key life issues like marriage) He is interested in NEEDS.

Philippians 4
[19]And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.

should good sex matter in Christian marriages?

Reminderz:
it sounds like it does, like your life depends on it.

ok sir. Na your wahala be that

Reminderz:
in case you don't know... porn is even the main reason why people develop strange sexual fetishes nowadays ..leemao..nor worry.. even if e affect you... you nor go talk.. this one wey you dey defend porn like say na your life and breath.... ahh Omo people dey oo

keep jerking off to porn... happy jerking

the way you are just vexing lol. Pele

Reminderz:
leemao.. see mumu mentality oo

so when porn wasn't available in the past, sexual life wasn't intereating leemao... says someone who don make porn occupy all hin brain... ...

defending porn does not mean that is the only thing that occupies my brain.

MistarT:
You're welcome.

I hope others would defend their stance as you did. Cos it is not a joke. Sex is a big issue in marriages

Itohanmiwa:
OP I laugh at you in kafanchan. Well I already made a vow to correct anyone outside my immediate family this year. But for crying out loud, just a week into the new year and you brought up this? Well I will resist the urge to tell you porn is bad. But what I will tell you is "when the time is right them nor dey tell person". Enjoy yourself.

this thread is since April 2016. Learn to read

MistarT:
Romans
1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents
1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that THEY WHICH COMMIT SUCH THINGS ARE WORTHY OF DEATH, NOT ONLY DO THE SAME, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.


Watching porn is having pleasure in lawlessness and obscenity and that's a very grievous offence before The Heavenly Father, if a man or woman has an inept sexual capacity he or she should meet the originator of sex (God himself) the devil is too daft to instigate such supernatural process (sex) so go back to the manufacturer because all the organs used are created by Him

God is The Supreme Deity and the world will begin to see another great dimension of Him.

thanks for your contribution. So it is a sin. And you have given good reasons why Christians even married should not watch porn for any reason

hakeem4:
As a sane and normal person, it is not a sin cause it does not harm anybody.
But why is sex seen as sacred to religion?

as a sane person, sins dont exist only crimes

CAPSLOCKED:
WHY VISIT XVIDEOS WHEN YOU CAN VISIT A CHURCH AND PRAY TO IMPROVE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP?
THERE'S NOTHING THAT PRAYER DOESN'T SOLVE. IN FACT, FOR OVER 3 MONTHS I HAVEN'T SEEN MY PHONE OR ANYTHING. I JUST SAY SOME PRAYERS AND THESE THOUGHTS APPEAR ON NAIRALAND IN WRITING.
GOD IS THE GREATEST.

ok sir. That is one solution

I remember a pastor back then saying married people should try and watch porn once a while so that their marriage would be interesting. He claims sex is one of the issues in marriage and you need to work on it to make the relationship work.

So it is ok for married people to watch porn in order to improve their sexual relationship?

If you dont watch porn. Your sexual life can NEVER be interesting especially if you are married.

I opened this thread in 2016. It is 2022 now almost 6 years later and yet I dont have any of the issues people claim masturbating causes.

You can see that my op and advice are true. 2016 till now, I have sex without any issues. I last well.

I dont love women too much as some people claim. I love women the way a normal healthy man should. But I dont behave like a goat.

Masturbating can help you calm down sexually , if you dont relief the tension, you will just see that you would go any length for a woman to have sex with you, but the moment you masturbate your body go calm down you will think straight and see that it is konji that is making you to think you like a girl

Lordedifice1:
It's a sin
It doesn't have side effects
The only side effects is that you can only last long in 2mins time
You are polluting mind that is why woman that pass around you, you begin to stare at her backside
So guys disregard this OP misleading information

not true. I know a lot of womanizer that dont masturbate. Mastubating does not make you always think about sex. We all think about sex naturally (normal people sha) but some people think about it too much because their hormones are high not because they are masturbating or watching porn. Within some months of watching porn, it wont freak you any more. You wont even lose your mind when a woman is naked in front of you because you have seen enough

bukky1994:
Op your post is misleading, please everything is wrong with masturbation, it doesn't depict moral excellence in anyway as the word of God says

religion again. That is the only thing that makes masturbating wrong. Use good lube and masturbate you will never have any issues.

Reminderz:
leemao.. people keep bringing stupid reasons to justify their actions.. leemao do so moderately.. do so moderately till you become hooked to it and you don't have anything to think about again only porn.. every addiction started with the stupid myth "do so moderately"..

gamblers too go talk say do so moderately.. smokers the same thing..drug addicts too untill dey get hooked. .. some go even talk say smoking dey give them inspiration.. leemao... well na so black people dey think sha... keep giving you and your supporters something to keep them busy... leemao... benefits of porn and masturbation.. ahh I can't stop laughing shaa.. the main reason why you masturbate is that useless thing you watch... use the time to watch something far more beneficial... porn wasn't introduced in the ancient times and they live fine and they had even more control over themselves than now and everything was good... porn is very bad... even a two and three year olds will be exposed to porn and want to try it out... porn actually increases your sexual urge and you having the need to masturbate or do something special everytime not reduce it...

check out this link maybe you go change this your mentality.

https://www.nairaland.com/4451325/how-masturbation-pornography-almost-ruined

nor let wetin you read online decieve you.. you better find something better to change your life.... nor be only porn na blue film... why can't it be benefit of watching an educational movie, or benefits of learning a skill through youtube videos.. why porn? wetin you dey gain for there leemao.. na one of the things wey spoil life reach like this if you nor know... it even makes the young people now think about sex and sexual scenes, or thoughts everytime ..

big fat lie.
I have been masturbating for over 10 years now and never had any so called issues people claim. Most white guys masturbate even the married ones and it helps them not to cheat when they have the urge and their wife not in the mood. Even my girlfriend knows I masturbate cos she cant be available everytime I am Hot.

Life is not hard, we make it hard for ourselves. I am 100% sure it is your religious believes that makes you speak against it.

You say people have problem with masturbating l, do you know that ordinary food is big problem in the United states and more than 60% of their population are over feeding?

Even being religious can be a problem. I know a lady that went mad because she was always seeing demons in everything.

complexBoss12:
I am not sure I understand you Sir, I was thinking that for something to be venomous means it contains poison, or it's poisonous??

you can swallow snake venom and not die or get hurt but poison would still harm u if swallowed

anthropizzy:
Good clarification

I thought snakes lay eggs

https://oddlycutepets.com/snakes-with-live-babies/
Not all of them. Check link above for more information

FamilyAdviser:
Puff Adder tail is very poisonous. Do not be deceived or decieve others. Get your facts right

will you stop typing nonsense

HacheNoire:
So where do you generate your own news from? Make it up and jump into conclusion?

That is not how to constructively approach issues. You cannot be making stories to suit yourself and conclude on that. He is the No 1 man and needs to talk before you jump into conclusions

He has far more experts working with him, than were you get news from, He is more internationally aligned than where you manufacture news from. So he deserves to be listened to.

I dont need to generate any news. Buhari is a politician hence a liar. He has nothing to say that is different from the useless things he has always said. He has never made any sense

FamilyAdviser:
Safety Measures For Cooking Delicious Snake Pepper Soup

Yesterday we caught big Puff Addy snake and used it for pepper soup. ( SEE PREVIOUS THREAD
https://www.nairaland.com/6923837/first-time-killing-eating-snake) To be candid, it was my first of eating snake and I thought I will die but guess what ? I woke up very healthy and even stronger with nourishing skin.

Well after my Junior brother finished preparing the snake meat I begged him to list the Measures which he just did and I thought it wise to share it to my fellow Nairalanders.

Preparing snake especially poisonous ones like Puff Addy required skills else you may end up poisoning your self lol...

Firstly, when hunting for snake like Puff Addy, target the head and avoid the tail from touching u.

Secondly, after a successful hunting, cut off the head and the tails before roasting it. The poisonous venom of Puff Addy is in the head and the tails, if you didn't cut it off the venom may spill to the body and you may end up getting yourself killed.

Thirdly, it is very pertinent to roast the snake before cutting it open because if it is pregnant the little ones may bite you, roasting it will kill whatever may be inside of it.
Fourthly, remove all the instestines although some people do eat it but it safe to remove it. Aftrr slicing it to your taste, use Maggie,salt,saint leaves, spicity, ginger and add enough pepper to it.

Finally, it is safe to prepare and eat snake if only you have done it before. Don't just assume you can do it, always seek for help of snake eaters if you cut any or you follow this guidelines I listed above. Snake meat is best when you eat with your family,friends and loved ones. I can't wait to eat another snake.

lalasticlala or which ever mod pushed this to front page is not serious at all. Who told you there is poison in the tail of a snake ?

1. You are wrong. There is no poison in the tail of any snake. Snakes are not scorpions that have stingers on their tails. Though snakes can use their tails to sort of pinch anyone holding their head. This is only if you are holding the snake while alive and the pinching is from dried scales at the end of the tail not like it is venomous at the tail it is just like a rat using its claws to scratch you it has no venom.

2. You are right about the babies biting. Even new born vipers can deliver deadly bites.

3. You did not remove the skin of the snake. Which is disgusting.

4. Poisonous animals are animals with toxins in their body delivered from touching or eating them. Venomous animals are those that sting or bite. Snakes are venomous not poisonous

HacheNoire:
So I have no right to listen to the President of my Nation? Even If I have to criticize, shouldn't I listen to know where and how to criticize?

This is the problems with most Nigerians. They feed more on hearsay than facts.

and buhari is there to give you facts. You need buhari to tell you the state of nigeria that you are in?

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ole
Shey people still fall for all these scams

HacheNoire:
So eager to hear from His Excellence, President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR) on the situation of things.

lol. God I just tire, must you turn everything to joke

Ayinke93:
Whenever I need a good laugh, I just come to this thread

happy new year o.

Senomi:
Y are y'all blaming the girl? She must have dated this guy for long thinking he's a good guy before he eventually decided to use her for money rituals, most times it's not the girls fault abeg, y'all should hold the males accountable for suddenly becoming too money conscious,you fit date guy for 3yrs he can just decide one day to kill and use you. Men better stop this rubbish they're all doing just for the sake of nonsense money, it's not worth it atall

if I tell u that money ritual does not work, you will start arguing with me. It is people like you that believe that money ritual works that caused this problem. As far as you keep talking about it, some one will one day try it and the circle continues because nigerians believe all this spiritual nonsense

chocboi78:
Pocohantas , where did you school? ( state and country )

funny I wanted to ask her a question too... but let me reserve it

Plantiff:
Macaroni can keep playing to the gallery and it would not stop rational observers from rating him as a partisan activist.

The Vice President invited him for an open discussion to understand the plight of the youth yet he refused. He didn't refuse quietly but subtly thrash-talked other comedians who went. It seems as though he won the hearts of his uninformed sheeps and emotional herd who subscribe to cancel culture

Let's face it, the Adelekes have been in the Nigerian political scene even when VP. OSinbajo was just a lecturer at the University of Lagos.

Isiaka Adeleke, Davido's Uncle, was the Governor of Osun State back in 1992. In 2007 the Ex Governor was elected into the Nigerian Senate. In 2017 , sadly, he kicked the bucket and guess who replaced him at the Nigerian Senate? His brother , Ademola Adeleke, who will be contesting to become Governor of Osun later this year. Why are the Tinubus, Desmond Eliots, newcomers like Sanwo Olu the ones that the Macaronis of Nigeria criticize?

Like Buhari, Ademola Adeleke's WAEC certificate is questionable and has gone to the court. Why do the Macaronis of Nigeria drag Buhari and not Davido's Uncle for a not having the basic educational qualification but is an elected representative?

Do you know why?

Just like in the United States where Hollywood is for the "liberal party" and hate anything Republican, Nigerian celebrities covertly support the PDP and hate anything APC. There's no activism, just hate for APC. (Note, I think the ideology of APC is stupid too but PDP isn't different).

I'll deactivate my account if at least 5 popular Nigerian celebrities question (during election period) what the Adeleke's have done in Osun despite their decades of mainstream political involvement in the State or why Ademola Adeleke's basic educational qualification is questionable.

sir. ADEMOLA ADELAKE HAS GONE BACK TO SCHOOL AFTER THAT LAST ELECTION. unlike buhari he accepted his wrong and corrected it

comedian2019 are a joke or the joker

Gazzuz at what age did you buy your first car and at what age did you start tinkering with vehicles

Mosdi do you have a girlfriend and is she nigerian?