makydebbie:
There shouldn't be gender war, that's what you all here keep promoting. There's nothing like, 'without men is paradise'. We need men, men needs us. We need each other in one way or the other. The redefinition of feminism has caused gender war. Some ladies are feminists because they hate men or got heartbroken. But feminism is about empowering women. And allowing gender equality.

Well said,however you should note there is a difference between equity and equality. Equality would mean sending for example sending both men and women to face boko haram and Isis or some other hard jobs while equity would make sure both genders are serve gender-appropriate roles but with the same rights

Shugavee:
oh I wish all men will even agree with that!!

And I wish women too will realize they can't be equal with men.

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


Dude they will never reason with you. I gave up on them a longtime ago. Most especially this Shugavee.

Most of them are not capable of having a logical argument. What pisses me off is seeing them whine all day and bash men. If they feel cheated, fine, do something about it instead of crying on nairaland all day.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Hippolyta has decided to go back to politics section where she belongs so no further comments on romance section.

In that case,good riddance then.

Shugavee:
firstly we dont rant but i know u see it as rant since it does not uplift ur ego,and who says nothing is changing, why do u think men are now so bothered n bitter abt feminism!!! That's why I said u men r the ones who cant take the bitter pill!!

No man gives two bleeps about what you people brand as feminism,and how else do you define complaining bout men all day.smh

Ladyhippolyta88:
Sis stop wasting your time arguing with romanceland guys some of them are pained.They have a wrong view of feminism but they will be the first to tell you that you know nothing about the movement.Everyone would always claim they are right.

Read your last statement,isn't that paradoxical?

Shugavee:
men n women r equal, i think u men are the ones that can't take the bitter pill, women are making names for themselves n moving higher n u men just wanna stick with the backward mentality just to build ur ego!! Even if u know deep down we are equal!!!

Simple grammar,that they are not equal does not mean one is superior. Women can do what men can't and vice versa. If you were logical enough,you'd understand my statement.

Shugavee:
thats ur reasoning, most nairaland men think women hv to enhance their ego!!! Feminism, though it benefits men, its women's movement!!! There is still continuous maltreatment n inequality to women, so defending n speaking abt it, is bashing to u guys !!! So why should I be bothered!! I am not obligated to understand the way ur brain chooses to understand any information passed by feminist

Calm down ma'am,be realistic,so what have you achieved by ranting online,you can keep complaining from today till tomorrow and nothing would change.

Shugavee:
amarabae is very correct, men invented more cause they had access to education b4 us!! They were given opportunities to expand their thinking, women were mostly abt giving birth to children n marriage!!!! So for the poster claiming men invent n do all the hard job is totally wrong, men hv just choosen to dominate that sector n bully any lady that comes close!!! Yes bully!!!! If there was a world with out men women would do just fine!!! Cause they have the opportunity to expand their reasoning, produce stuffs , n excel!! Without thinking abt men acceptance or recognition

Men and women are not equal and that's always a hard pill to swallow for feminists.

Shugavee:
even by reading the comment, men hv this ideology that u hv to recongnice them n honour them in ur feminst roots 4 them to regrad u a feminist!! Feminist never say men r useless cause atleast they produce sperm!! Her write up is not 100% with me, like it or not some white feminist will not Agree with her as well especially socialist n radical feminist!!! But this is her view n i respect it!!!! It's no big deal to me that u guys like her write up!! It's normal!!! Another thing is, trust me in other issues it might not be as appeasing!

Have you sampled all the opinions of all the men before generalizing?. And why do feminists especially nairaland feminists always feel so pained and cheated by men? Why do most of them think bashing men and ranting all day automatically makes them a feminist

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


I try not to contribute to these feminism arguments anymore as it's never ending. No side wants to reason with the other and it just goes on and on and on

I like your statement about Equity and Equality

I like that pic. Well said bro

Shugavee:
Lol so because she spoke well abt men today she is a real feminist!!! Hv u had a proper discussion with her abt gender issues Yes we need each other to survive!!! But i find it really funny that men think its always abt them!! Well i dont blame them I bLame patriarchy!!

And how do men think it's always bout them?

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:

What the confused creatures don't know is that men and women are not equal though none is superior. What they should be fighting for is equity and not equality instead of ranting online.

All these e-pseudo feminists should please find one place to sit jare. Ranting and ranting all day

Amarabae:
She is very stupid and dumb.
Yes there are men who invented stuffs but is that olodo trying to tell us that women invented nothing?
Education helps people to invent and create,
And education is one thing that was denied from many women back in those days in some cultures,
Even now in some places, some take training a girl in school as waste of resources.

She should shut up.

A world without men will be paradise.
Men invented war, bloodshed, killings, crimes, rape, homosexuality, etc.

Men are important in their own way,
So are women!

Where did she say women don't invent,even with education and all that there are still some things too strenuous for women and are typically done by men. I'm not against women clamouring for their rights but hating on men is shit.
And a world without men will be paradise? Joke of the century

daviesblaze:
came across this on quora. this was her view about a world without women.
her answer pretty make a lot of sense

We would be well and truly f*cked.

Putting aside the obvious issue of repopulation, our daily lives would grind to a halt.

Our entire infrastructure is pretty much thought up by men, built by men, managed and maintained by men.

Roads, bridges, factories, cars, petrol stations, sewer systems, nuclear plants, houses etc.

Who’s doing the farming that supplies food to the grocery stores? Who’s driving most of the trucks that deliver the goods to the grocery stores? Who built the grocery stores? Who designed the trucks that deliver the goods? Who built the factory that built the trucks? And so on.

Sure, women could engineer or design things, but would women alone be able to physically build a great big, Bleep-off bridge that’s miles long?

A woman could most certainly survive without a man in her own life. But, in today’s context, women would struggle without men in their world.

I am so grateful for the contributions of men in our daily lives. Don’t go. We need you. :-)

EDIT: I’ve made an interesting observation about the responses to this answer. With the exception of three women, all the upvotes have been from men. Yesterday, one woman actually accused me of hating other women and being part of the reason women are held back. Held back? As far as I know, there’s no law stopping her from applying for construction jobs. She could design and build all the bridges she wants all her live long days. I’d tip my hat to her.

All of this does make me wonder: Are women nowadays that afraid of praising men for all they do and all they are? Does admitting that men contribute enormously make women inferior? And if that’s the thinking, then why? One has nothing to do with the other. There are millions of people in the world who are better than I am at some things, but it doesn’t make me shit, or less valuable. This answer need not be a contest. I have many views on a world without women too. The words ‘black, empty void’ spring to mind :-) Just a thought. Carry on.
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jejely waiting for some lambasting from some confused b*tch with a pretty f*cked up concept about feminism

This is the difference between a typical nairaland comment and comments on quora and the difference between confused men-haters and actual feminists.

On point

Wow,this is dope

Cool facts

what is your weakness? - just bring out an index card from your pocket that says "i over prepare"

emvico:

pls write this scripture down for future references.
deut 22:5 , 22:11
1peter 3:2-5
1timothy 2:9-10
1cor 11:4-7

if you listen to white preachers,hav e you ever heard them preaching doctrines like this,do we now have a different holy spirit?

emvico:

pls write this scripture down for future references.
deut 22:5 , 22:11
1peter 3:2-5
1timothy 2:9-10
1cor 11:4-7

lol,when people talk about women wearing men's clothes,their minds leads straight to trousers,that means if a ladt should wear shirts designed for men,thats hell fire then

BlindAngel:

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Man u are way backward go read the book of leveticus and see for your self.

the same book that gives guidelines for sacrifices, besides why are we eating prohibited animals in the old testament.
if you choose to abide by the law,u are only wasting jesus' efforts,why did he die then.
the holy spirit is the yardstick for knowing right and wrong.for example some ppl have been given specific orders by the holy spirit which if they fail to do becomes a sin whereas it may not be a sin for other people

emvico:

bring your bible quotation and i will prove to you that you are leading people astray

kindly give me a bible verse against what i said, we blacks are just trying to fix culture into religion

dumb people,why do some ppl believe that whatever looks good is a sin. Na english dey worry dem,attachment is anything you add to your hair be it rubber or thread or whatever. Same with the people who believe a woman must not wear anything pertaining to a man,so what about those wearing cardigans or jackets made for men. Nigerians just likre twisting thr bible to fit in to culture.
Like if you agree

Sandoski and smellymouth

jenigurl:
Where are you from?

ife

jenigurl:
I am so in love with him I will marry someone from ife
Kabiyesi mi Olori mi Ife mi

will you marry me?

jenigurl:
I am so in love with him
I will marry someone from ife

Kabiyesi mi
Olori mi
Ife mi

will you marry me?