Romance › Re: Girls Are Not Rocket Science! Build Up Your Boldness Oh Ye Single Guy! by hartson: 10:40am On Oct 12, 2019 |
24kmagic: All these stress for what, pussy?
One thing I ve come to know about this game is that there's no formula. Any girl you find attractive, just walk up to her and express yourself. How you do it doesn't matter, just make your point known to her. The main thing be say you tell am say you like am.
Yes, most girls will reject you because of your lack of wooing skills but never relent. Continue doing your thing. One day, you'll meet a girl as timid as you are and everything will go well for you.
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Start with the ugly girls to build confidence. Those ones that know you"d be doing them a favour been in a relationship with them. Just use them for as long as you feel you are ready to upgrade.
Last last if you have a self contain apartment with a flat screen TV, go to the nearest higher institution around you and form student, you must see numbers collect, then you take it up from there. If she visits you once and see your crib, you don get wife be that. talk is cheap.when an undergraduate who you know isn't working start to make life miserable for you then your eyes go clear. |
Politics › Re: Senate Probes Secret Recruitment In FIRS, NASDRA , NDLEA, Others by hartson: 10:19am On Oct 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Good. That was how someone asked me to pay 3m for ndlea job! Like really, if I get million for account I go come use am pay for govt job? lOkotorigba!!!  3m to secure job ?dat amount fit establish person for life in business. |
Romance › Re: American Lady Plays Hard-to-get With Nigerian Guy, Learns The Hard Way by hartson: 9:58am On Oct 08, 2019 |
vingeophysicist: Really, ladies find it very hard to think with their brain when numerous guys give them attention. That is why they spend so much time decorating their looks instead of brain. decorating their looks everyday to look the same.  |
Politics › Re: Man Climbs Glo Mast In Kebbi, Says He Won't Come Down Until Buhari Steps Down by hartson: 12:52pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Noting wey musa no go see for gate. |
Romance › Re: Why Men Cheat by hartson: 2:16pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
Sandra8: why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.
Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.
P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.
Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).
Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.
I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.
Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method. This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one. A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.
And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you. With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you). So here is how to not get played by men.
Stay tuned for more.
Cc Funmmyastic Guest007 Seun Arrant Nonsense. |
Romance › Re: What It Takes To Be A Better Husband /couple Goals by hartson: 4:38pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
puresaint: That Patient part is very important....
I know how me and my wife started but now we understand each other very well.
Women are beautiful creature!!! The only creature that have spoken one on one with the devil in the garden of eden. |
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 12:46pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
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Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 3:59pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Hello,The glo network connection isn't working on my techno camon 10 but mtn is working.I prefer using glo network for internet activities. What could be the cause? |
Romance › Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by hartson: 10:19pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by hartson: 10:12am On Sep 18, 2019 |
gracechellar: Ok. I had your number before but misplaced it. Gracechellar@yahoo.com is OK.08037951958 or 08140794937 are numbers. |
Business › Re: 5 Banks In Nigeria With High Savings Interest Rates Account by hartson: 5:33pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
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Business › Re: 5 Banks In Nigeria With High Savings Interest Rates Account by hartson: 2:34pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
presleYzzi: What about the normal savings account were they tap into your cash like Palm wine tappers  some banks have zero interest for savings account.so if first bank gives you interest for savings account then rejoice. |
Business › Re: 5 Banks In Nigeria With High Savings Interest Rates Account by hartson: 2:19pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
presleYzzi:

Thank God you did not include those thieves called first bank Bros,why you dey vex like this na? First Bank gives me 6% over N500,000 FD which GT is giving @ mere 3%. |
Romance › Re: I'm In Need Of A Man In Diaspora by hartson: 1:42pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
gracechellar: No. Thanka Hi, My email isn't working at the moment. How may I assist you? Hartson. |
Career › Re: Nigerian Female Lawyers Should Be Allowed To Wear Trousers In Court by hartson: 2:16pm On Sep 13, 2019 |
I want to hire a lawyer. |
Travel › Re: New Zealand Skilled Worker Category by hartson: 12:31pm On Sep 02, 2019 |
jmakinde: Hi Guys, i just got wind of this forum even though i had earlier proceeded with my own process without any help or assistance. See highlights of what i have done so far and where i am presently:
1. Did my assessment and found out i had 165 points.
2. Applied to NZQA for PRE for my Msc qualification only being the highest qualification i am claiming point for and also sat for my IELTS exams. 3. Submitted my EOI on 18th January 2019.
4. Got selected and got my ITA on 23rd of january 2019.
5. I was giving 4 months to submit full applications along with supporting documents.
6. Applied to NZQA for my full qualification assessment for both my Bsc and Msc which took some time due to transcript issues with our Nigeria universities.
7. Applied to NZQA for my wife's qualification assessment too since am claiming points for that also.
8. Did my medicals along with my entire family. Note you only have 2 recommended hospitals in nigeria one in abuja and the other in Lagos.
9. Did my Police clearance at alagbon in Ikoyi. You will get your report same day.
10. Gathered all relevant employment references from all the places i have worked before since am claiming points for over 10 years in my EOI.
11. Marriage certificate.
12. I also have to proof i own my wife using my house address number you both receive correspondences together or individually. photos of important events in your marriage life, Air tickets and Hotels reservation of vacation trip you both went for etc.
13. All other documents as requested in the ITA letter.
14. The document gathering process has eaten deep into the 4 months giving to me but eventually i got everything ready at the nip of time.
15. Submitted my application via DHL on April 25th 2019.
16. My application got to the processing center in Manukau Auckland after the 3rd day.
17. My Application was vetted and lodged into their system on 2nd May 2019.
18. My original IELTS results along with 6 photos were returned back to me by mail. Please note any document you are sending and is not the original must be notarized page by page and not just the front page only.
19. I am currently on queue awaiting my application to be assigned to a Case Officer (CO) which depends on so many factors that is currently responsible for the current delay in visa assignment backlogs issues they are facing now.
The initial process was that it takes up to 4 months before the co will be allocated but i guess am already 4 months today from when my application was lodged. However it could take up to 6 months or more. It obvious many nigerians are not taking up this route but instead using student visa which is still a good option.
Quest to seek others in my situation from nigeria led me to this thread even though i have been in Nairaland forum long enough. I hope my experience so far can inspire others too willing to take my route to start early by taking the first step. Nothing Good comes so easy and i would advise @Hartson not to give up his dream and still give it a chance for the passion to be ignited once again.
Thank and best Regards. I will keep the house updated as i progress further. wow,congratulations in advance.I bet you in no distance time you will come out victorious. Thanks immensely for your encouragment.keep it up.cheers |
Travel › Re: New Zealand Skilled Worker Category by hartson: 11:28pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
yogun: so what is your next relocation plans? Rural & Northern Canada Immigration is taking off later this year, look it up. A time comes when the zeal or quest to achieve something in life dies but we are always encouraged never to give up but the zeal is dead already.So my quest to move isn't as it use to be in the past.I committed resources & lots of effort yet to no avail.So I decided to melow down.Thanks anyway for the info about urban & rural migration to Canada. |
Travel › Re: New Zealand Skilled Worker Category by hartson: 12:38pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
yogun: @hartson
so good to read from you after so long. I was about to embark on the NZ PR journey with 100 points score when I started reading this thread. Sadly, there's no one who has been selected from here how much less my humble score.
Were you able to scale through? what are your plans peradventure this route failed. nice to hear from you.I gave up along the road,cos the process wasn't so easy as I taught earlier before.Thank you |
Phones › Re: NEW Tecno Camon C10/CX Discussion Thread by hartson: 11:16pm On May 24, 2019 |
CarlcareOpebi: Hi @Fatimah1123 Have you been able to rectify this issue yet? hi,good evening.plz help with me calcarre service center at PH.want to my tech canon CX there for service.thank you |
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 4:56pm On May 21, 2019 |
princemillla: Clean whatsapp cache if that doesn't work. Back up n format that fone. It dhud b up n running normal Don't be offended how do I clean WhatsApp cache cos I assessed the phone master app and saw clean WhatsApp but a warning was attached that photos,videos,whatapp messages will not be recovered if I click on clean WhatsApp. |
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 4:44pm On May 21, 2019 |
princemillla: Clean whatsapp cache if that doesn't work. Back up n format that fone. It dhud b up n running normal thanks for your response but my problem is that I want OEM HIOS (Android Nougat 7.0 )installed so all original apps and tools will be restored in case I intend to go for a format |
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 9:42am On May 21, 2019 |
princemillla: Av answered u sir Hi friend,plz I need your advise sir Good morning My Techno CX phone started freezing after opening an article to read on WhatsApp.it started generating commands on its own.After a while it stopped but the problem I have now is that If I sippin my thumb finger down from the top of the screen to show all those phone tools like network, Bluetooth, torch,screenshot etc it will not respond.infact,all funtions at top surface of the phone screen isnt working anymore.what will be the likely cause?Virus I guess?what will I do ? |
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by hartson: 3:19pm On May 20, 2019 |
Hello guys help !!!! My Techno CX phone started freezing after opening an article to read on WhatsApp.it started generating commands on its own.After a while it stopped but the problem I have now is that If I sippin my thumb finger down from the top of the screen to show all those phone tools like network, Bluetooth, torch,screenshot etc it will not respond.infact,all funtions at top surface of the phone screen isnt working anymore.what will be the likely cause?Virus I guess?what will I do ? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by hartson: 2:34am On May 08, 2019 |
Here to view reactions shikina |
Romance › Re: Why Is It That Women In Their 30s Claim No Sex Till Marriage? by hartson: 1:27pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Lol |
Romance › Re: Gladys Lasila Weds Ian: 50-Year-Old Nigerian Woman Set To Marry White Man by hartson: 11:09pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
KingLennon: See the people above me calculating her age like they know her . Is it your 50 years? don't mind them,so one can' be 50 yrs old in peace. |
Travel › Re: Did They Suddenly Become Greener? by hartson: 5:34pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
sichri: In recent times, a lot of doctors, bankers and other professionals have fled the shores of Nigeria for greener pastures in Canada, Australia and other parts of the world.
No doubts, Nigeria is a tough place to live, judging by such indices as life expectancy, poverty ratio, social justice, etc. But in the midst of all these woes lies huge opportunities waiting to be tapped for personal and societal good. Sadly, while our people are seeking ways to leave the country, the Chinese and Indians are moving in to harness the opportunities the gap in health, transportation, food, construction, just to mention a few sectors have offered.
It is never a bad idea to look for better opportunities and a better life elsewhere. However, the question is, did those lands and their grasses just became greener by default? No! They are watered by deliberate efforts of citizens. People who: speak up against bad government, press for good governance through protest, and at times with their blood. At other times, citizens make sacrifices they may not directly benefit from, but for the good of future generations. We have the likes of Martin Luther King Jr, Nelson Mandela, etc who stood and fought for what many people are enjoying today.
We all owe this beloved country and future generations a duty to develop this nation.
This is the land of my birth, and I will never run away! story story.When I return from diaspora and I drive pass you inside my G wagon machine don't grumble oo.  |
Romance › Re: I Have Just 200k In My Account And My Parents Are Forcing Me To Marry by hartson: 11:03am On Apr 03, 2019 |
Acidosis: Well it depends on your age. If 200k is all you've saved at 40, I would advise you go ahead and get laid married. Marriage doesn't mean retirement. It is not a place you go to spend your life savings. As a matter of fact, couples work more than single men and women, so I don't see how marriage interrupts hustle. Those who use hustle as an excuse to avoid marriage do not have any hustle to start with. Save all you want before marriage, it won't sustain you unless you get your ar.se off the bed to work daily.
Just have an apartment, a stable source or multiple streams of income and you're good to go. The amount you've saved or make monthly would only matter when we consider your lifestyle and that of your spouse. Like food and water, marriage is meant for the poor, the middle-class and the rich. Forget whatever you've been told. I have an apartment and reliable source of income.The big issue is to get a nice lady who is cool headed.Finding a wife is daunting task bro.If I see a nice,well behaved mature lady I won't hesitate to take her as a wife. |
Romance › Re: I Have Just 200k In My Account And My Parents Are Forcing Me To Marry by hartson: 9:08am On Apr 03, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: - He who finds a wife has found a good thing and obtained favor from the Lord in the past when women are real not thesedays we have wolves in sheep clothing. |
Travel › Re: Everything You Should Know About The “black Box” Of An Airplane by hartson: 11:22am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Topmaike007: that's where parashoot came in is parachute not parashoot. |
Family › Re: Lawyers Advise Women To Drop Maiden Name After Marriage by hartson: 4:59pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
may320: I disagree! Women should use their maiden name alongside their husband's name. I always believed it should be dropped until experience from some women made me change my orientation on it. so tell us what happened that made you think otherwise |
Travel › Re: New Zealand Skilled Worker Category by hartson: 3:53pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
kennedychinedu: Please i would need your assistance about this EOI skilled migration app, is there a link for it. and please how do i go about the education pre assesment. thank you I haven't been on that thread for a very long time.Plz every information you need is outlined in the 1st ten pages of the thread by me or another contributor.I can't say much about the EOI especially the skilled migration there may have been lots of change in policies which I am not acquitted to.you can as well google most of the links.thank you. |