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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Date Of Birth, You Might Find A Match by Harvigh(m): 5:20am On Jun 09, 2016
March 14 here
Romance / Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Harvigh(m): 6:44am On May 24, 2016
This is surely the best way to begin another day, great write up @op. I just suffered from that recently and am yet to heal from the heart ache. Some girls would rather tell you 'nothing' when you ask them what they think should be addressed in the relationship whereas they know they aren't cool with some things in the relationship. Its so damn painful when you get sucker punched by someone who claims to love you when you think everything is going on very well because she told you so not knowing she's got grudges inside of her.
Toks2008:
COMMUNICATION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK OF ANY LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Communication is a simple word yet very vital in the lives of every living thing.

A school of taught defined communication as an exchange and flow of information and ideas from one person to another; it involves a sender transmitting an idea, information, or feeling to a receiver.

In maintaining a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, effective communication is very vital.

Many relationships fail today because there is a break down of effective communication. Effective communication occurs only if the receiver understands the exact information or idea that the sender intended to transmit but anything short of this will usuallylead to disaster In the relationship.

Many courtships and marriages have broken down today because each party assumes the other person to be a mind reader or expects the other party to understand issues in a magical manner.

Have you wondered why some divorcées usually use words like "irreconcilable difference". But the truth of the matter is that it was lack of effective communication that led to the break up.

In any serious affair or marriage, two different people must merge to understand each other and this can only be done by having a no holds bar communication with each other on every aspect from the craziest issue to the most important.

Many people tend to condole behavioral patterns they are not happy with and by so doing building up resentment over the years just to explode when the other partner least expects it and by then it may be too late for both parties to repair the damage.

No matter what the case may be, don’t hold back your feelings and learn to communicate with the other party in a very serious manner and not with mediocrity hence you just might be taking for granted.

It may be the way you want to be touched or the way you want your egg fried. It may be just anything that may sound stupid or unimportant but please discuss this and you will be happy at the outcome.

Nothing is too sacred to discuss...

-If you want mouth action from your spouse,discuss it
-If you dont like the way he or she snores,discuss it.
-If you hate his or hygiene,discuss it
-If he or she is too boring in bed,discuss it.
-If you feel you are not getting enough attention please discuss it and don't ever stomach or condole things that gets you mad cos a day will come when it will burst out of you and you tend to overreact so discuss it in a timely,humbly,and romantic manner and be at peace

If we all learn to communicate effectively with our partners , I bet the rate of break ups will be greatly reduced.

Divorce and broken relationship is the greatest delight of the devil because this is the only institution GOD takes so much pride in because he instituted it right from the beginning of the world so Lets learn to communicate any and every issue that bothers us with our partners and you will remain happy and also know where you are heading in your relationship in a timely manner.

Hope this helps.

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Crime / Re: EFCC Arraigns Yahoo Boy Over $9,200 Scam by Harvigh(m): 2:22pm On May 04, 2016
Category1:

[size=13pt]handsome man, make we see ur pink lips and handsome face na undecided

To the topic :

This is what efcc are very sharp in.
If they should see young guys dupe people in one way or the other, sharp sharp dem don arrest the person.
If na politicians na, u go dey here:
He doesn't wanna come, he locked the door of his house, he's not around. Etc...

Not supporting these criminals thou.
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My guy na ur papa born u jare.
Politics / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attack Enugu Again by Harvigh(m): 5:03pm On Apr 27, 2016
trueconscience:
hahahahahah another "WOLF CRY"!

Truth be told, I personally find it hard believing ALL this FULANI herdsmen stories. WHY?

The IPOB have been very poor in their propaganda. Whenever they have an issue with police or security officials, they are quick to say FULANI soldiers, FULANI police just to incite and create hatred of the Fulani ( because PMB is Fulani?). So, whenever I read stories of FULANI did this or FULANI did that, I am sceptical about swallowing it hook line and sinker!

The IPOB should be careful about crying wolf falsely because IF the wolf eventually shows up, it will be hard for people to believe them

My 20 cents!

Dude just shut the f up abeg....u are more useful when silent.
Celebrities / Re: Toolz Smoked Like A Chimney In Night Club Yesterday (photos) by Harvigh(m): 6:50pm On Apr 23, 2016
@OP you have taken up a career minding other people's business now abi. SMH for u.... undecided
Politics / Re: Amaechi Was Spotted In Maitama Driving A Range Rover By Himself by Harvigh(m): 1:58pm On Apr 19, 2016
Nigerian youths sha.....we don't even want to apply our brains and ask intelligent questions anymore. There's absolutely no sign of Amaechi from this pic am seeing from the op...people are already praising him and calling him names for driving. Warped mentality indeed!
Family / Re: Kids Kissing And Smooching In Church In Lagos - Photos by Harvigh(m): 2:39pm On Apr 18, 2016
And some idiot took photograph of them while they ignorantly did this? Who's more guilty here, the kids that are not aware that they shouldn't be doing this at such tender age or the old agbaya that obviously enjoyed taking pictures rather than caution the kids? We humans are the problem of this world.
Crime / Re: Man Raped By A Fake Police Officer In Delta by Harvigh(m): 5:46pm On Apr 14, 2016
Icon4s:
Very irritating News. angry
So damn irritating
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Omawumi's 34th Birthday Party In Lekki (photos) by Harvigh(m): 5:41pm On Apr 14, 2016
Deepfreezer:
Omawumi you ain't fine, its ok. atleast try to look neat.

Oga u well so?
Education / Re: My Worst Experience Being Broke As A Student - #14 by Harvigh(m): 5:27pm On Apr 14, 2016
Opistorincos:
@op u knw nthn abt being broke... for the past two weeks I have been eating mango for bfast,lunch and dinner but iffa mention my sch u wnt believe me.
And there are a lot of students that are going through such or even worse experience. Jehovah is your strength.
Education / Re: My Worst Experience Being Broke As A Student - #14 by Harvigh(m): 5:24pm On Apr 14, 2016
Op, nice story you got there. Student gets broke during the sojourn through school days but I think yours compared to what someone like myself and some others who's gone through university suffered is quite a bit soft. In my case I had nothing like allowance yet you had that but it wasn't enough for you probably because you spent it unwisely. I have no parents and the only support I seldom got was from my elder brothers. That support was so inconsistent to the point that all through my final year in school, I got just 20k once in first semester from them. With all the project expenses, God just saw me through anyhow. I lost count of the number of times I stayed without meal for a full day and tried my best to read; for those that has tried that, you know the sort of torture that is. Thank God yours didn't affect your studies but mine sure did as i got out with a 2.2. I thank God all the same.

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Jokes Etc / Re: Hillarious Chat Between An Mtn Customer Care And An Angry Mtn User (pic Included by Harvigh(m): 1:11pm On Apr 13, 2016
@OP, whatever happened to lying with sense?
Career / Re: 10 Most Popular Careers For Students In 2016 by Harvigh(m): 1:04pm On Apr 13, 2016
@OP you could have been more creative rather just do copy and paste from a website. You didn't even take the societal difference between USA and Nigeria into consideration.
Education / Re: No Student Was Killed During Uniport Protest - Police by Harvigh(m): 7:30am On Apr 13, 2016
Our police force is a joke. The next thing they will say now is that the guy that was shot wasn't a student. Final year accounting student o....school authorities are trying to cover it up by denying him being a student...#iWeep4naija
Phones / Re: Latest Cheapest Call Tarrif Plan & Migration For MTN, Airtel, Glo And Etisalat by Harvigh(m): 1:18pm On Mar 28, 2016
donbugy:
Nice one.... This guys are really trying...





I got fresh webmail.
Waddup dude...i added u on ym. Inbox me ur whatsapp number pls
Politics / Re: 7 Things Abubakar Shekau Said In New Video by Harvigh(m): 8:47pm On Mar 24, 2016
Did someone say surrender? Hell no, he isn't surrendering...i feel he's only trying to be deceptive and cow our armed forces into believing he's piping down. I hope we don't let this dirty coward fool us as a nation.
Politics / Re: Blessing Agbomhere: Oshiomhole Will Land In Jail If I Become Governor by Harvigh(m): 8:47am On Mar 23, 2016
ckmayoca:
Lol. This guy want support, see campaign strategy. APC na APC make una forget that thing.

Broda, tell them o. They are letting this guy fool them just like Buhari fooled them.
Celebrities / Re: Yemi Alade Poses With Yvonne Chakachaka by Harvigh(m): 4:54pm On Mar 19, 2016
pyyxxaro:


Let me answer ur question my daughter

Yvonne Chakachaka was the lady that disvirgined BULL-HARI two thousand years ago

She was the first person that gave him Obukwokwo tongue

My guy u no well oo...lol grin grin grin grin

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: .. by Harvigh(m): 5:45am On Mar 12, 2016
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Business / Re: URGENT!!! Was I Scammed??? by Harvigh(m): 11:01pm On Mar 11, 2016
David0:


This wud hv bn the case if the amounts involved were same, like he said, they are not same #1040 & #20000. Also, the transactions wud be in same location and not Ibadan n ikeja.

Am thinking the #20,000 transaction may be either an online or a transaction with a late debit alert due to poor mobile network reception.

That was why i said she should get her card locked ASAP because the whole thing doesn't add up at all
Business / Re: URGENT!!! Was I Scammed??? by Harvigh(m): 10:30pm On Mar 11, 2016
Before the payment was approved, was there anytime during payment that a network glitch occurred? Reason for the question being that due to poor network reception, the transaction might not go through yet your money will be deducted...banks normally return the money withing 24hours depending on your choice of bank.
Where u watching the attendant as he entered the amount?
I would advice you get ur card blocked ASAP and wait for maybe 24hours, if its an error from your bank they will definitely refund you if not, run there first thing on monday morning. Jah bless!
Politics / Re: Protest In Abuja For The Expulsion Of Saeed-Koozechi Iranian Ambassador by Harvigh(m): 6:07pm On Mar 03, 2016
Who are these bloody idiots? How much were they paid? They should get themselves educated and stop displaying their ignorance

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Politics / Re: No Bomb Blast Or Attack By Boko Haram In FEBRUARY. by Harvigh(m): 4:32pm On Mar 03, 2016
In as much as i so much want our great country to win this war and let our gallant sons, daughters and fathers to return to their families, i think it is grossly wrong for anyone to be spreading propaganda all in the name of news. Our media is being gagged and they now prefer telling us about so called celebrities that are either beefing themselves or getting engaged in other controversies. The link below shows how boko haram slaughtered people in the month of FEBRUARY! Don't fall for the lies of our politicians please. Thank u!
http://edition.cnn.com/2016/02/13/africa/boko-haram-attack-nigeria/
Travel / Re: Three Die In Lagos Bus Explosion (photo) by Harvigh(m): 4:10am On Mar 02, 2016
RIP to the dead.......
But wait o, which sane person would fill a bus in Lagos with 50 kegs of Petrol shocked undecided, 50 kegs! With all the hold up and mad danfo drivers we have here this sort of thing is bound to happen. Let the living learn from the mistakes of the dead.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Arsenal (3 - 2) On 28th February 2016 by Harvigh(m): 4:36pm On Feb 28, 2016
Be calm guys, we are winning this one...#GUNNERS!!!
Celebrities / Re: Akpororo's Church Outfit In This Hot Weather (Photos) by Harvigh(m): 3:00pm On Feb 28, 2016
kestolove95:
La boi la ugly sha
lol grin grin grin
Sports / Re: BREAKING NEWS: New FIFA President Has Just Been Elected! by Harvigh(m): 7:10pm On Feb 26, 2016
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Sports / BREAKING NEWS: New FIFA President Has Just Been Elected! by Harvigh(m): 6:20pm On Feb 26, 2016
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Gianni Infantino has won Fifa's election for a new president, it has been announced.

Uefa's general secretary secured 115 votes in the second round of polls, beating off favourite Salman Bin Ibrahim al-Khalifa into second while Prince Ali bin Hussein finished third.

Infantino succeeds the dethroned Sepp Blatter, who was suspended from all football activities for eight years - later reduced to six - along with ex-Uefa president Michel Platini for corruption.

"I cannot express my feelings in this moment," he said after hearing the result.

"I told you I went through an exceptional journey, which made me meet many fantastic people, who live and breathe football, and many people deserve to see Fifa is highly respected.

"Everyone in the world will applaud us for what we will do. Everyone will be proud of what we will do.

“I want to work with you to establish a new era in which we can put football at the centre stage.

!We need to implement the reforms, but we also need to have respect, the respect that the entire world owes to football, and make sure that finally, once again, we can focus on this wonderful world that is football. I am too moved - let us work together for this.”

http://m.goal.com/s/en-ng/news/4055/main/2016/02/26/20744992/infantino-elected-new-fifa-president

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Politics / Re: Why I Won’t Resign As Senate President’ – Bukola Saraki by Harvigh(m): 5:31pm On Feb 26, 2016
This isn't good @mods, one story making fp at the same time.....are there no better stories to be put there?

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Career / Re: Deadly Habits That Will Make You Unsuccessful And Struggle Eternally by Harvigh(m): 5:29pm On Feb 26, 2016
VickyRotex:


You're welcome!











Oh! A lady, i didn't notice....am sorry.

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