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lastclaire4:
You are being smart. Are you saying when the woman is working she should go ahead to enslave herself l?

So when is doing simple house chores that your mom did now slavery, or are you calling your mom a slave

lastclaire4:
Read his write up and answer this question.

How many men can take care of the home singlehandedly?

Did you read my post, did i say anything about single handedly.

Men-work money
Women-care for kids and chores

DexterousOne:
That's fine by me

Ok

No there is a man for six women at once, all the cute ones, the ugly ones should go and die.
Men are born to have harems

DexterousOne:
From your response to my comment

It gives away a lot about you

I dont give a shit about what you think

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XiaomiFanBoy:
Zee world should teach you to be a player. Not teach you to prime your field for another man to reap.

Nah, zee world teaches you to be a hopeless romantic, while life teaches you to be a real man and never take shit from ladies

bodybuilder:
Never out of pity. Hypergamy doesn't care

Thats why i put highly unlikely

XiaomiFanBoy:
Your speech was and is fantabulously stoopid.

Ok am going to get a bear, it was a long shot though, too much telenovelas have gotten to me

illicit:
lol

with a cat or a fish

Cat na, i saw the sex tape, correct 30min straight, i didnt know cats could last that long

FamousMonk:
Read my post again.
I love the girl,I want to marry her.
I still wanna be her first.
Not doing it now puts me at risk of losing that.

I probably cant give an advise cause ........

But if you love her you would do whats best for her, not by your own greed, there is a high chance she will leave you and loose it to another man, she is 18 after all, but love means doing whats best even if you dont end uo with her take her welfare into consideration, dont disvirgin her.

how was my speech

WoundedLamb:
The grown up man who goes around deflowering teens is not a hoe. Only the young girl is called names.

#SayNoToSexism

They were not forced

Petyprincess:
Please pay her bride price b4 taking someone's daughter virginity!!! If you dnt end up together then you not meant to be!!
Dnt take her innocence all in the name of i dnt wanna loose out!!
I doubt that girl is 18 she's probably underage.

He isnt taking it, shes offering it to him?

illicit:
Why catfish dey black nko

cause its mom had an affair

Toks2008:
You have no idea.

I am aware, but its by majourity we make judge on

vivsravine:
Change ur mindset even you.. U are not same with others

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I just dont stoop low to peoplez feets just cause i want to make them think good of me, i lay out the facts

tayooluwole:
You're slowpoke,,,what about those ladies that leave their comfort zone to hustle to bring comfort to her home... OP is right,,, you must have been a perpetual slave bf you are called a good wife in Nigeria...i feel for Nigeria women sha

I didnt insult you and i wont cause i dont have your time. How many ladies work and bring home, look at your street and count, and exclude the families without a man in them, cause if there was he would be the sole figure

ceeceeuwa:
Women these days are equally bread winners. They provide for their homes in one way or the other, either by engaging in trade or they are professionals in various fields.

Do you know what breadwining is, can you compare 100 to 10 cause thats the ratio of money working women put into the family compared to men

placeofallure:
The arrangement is fair enough if:

1. I won't have to lift a finger and earn any income for the family, and I will have enough to spend to meet all of my "reasonable" needs. Then,
2. If he will go out there and work his ass out to earn every penny that we will need to live in comfort.

But No! Nigerian men, you want slaves in the house who run double shifts. Domestic duties and Breadwinning duties. I've seen on many threads here how guys bash ladies who don't work and depend on men. You can't have your cake and eat it, it's either we're your house slaves and you're the sole breadwinners or we both win bread and slave it out. The truth is always bitter.

Yes but he isnt working for you, hes working for the family, your mothers did this without lifting a finger and they didnt complain cause its not hard. its not slavery, you ladies just have high ego cause of feminism, you think doing chores will hurt your ego, well then again its a fair deal, if you think its slavery, you are the one declaring yourself a slave

ademijuwonlo:
Most women that provide for the family won't come and tell you cos they don't want the world to think less of their husbands.

If it was common it would be known, nothing stays hidden, that means it rarely happens

DexterousOne:
I'll tell you this

Millions of women across the length and breadth of this country are either CO BREADWINNERS or SOLE BREADWINNER
It's what I see out there everyday

From the market women, to the bankers, doctors; food sellers and restaurants owners, etc.

Maybe in your small world, all you see are dependent housewives, just maybe.

But in the broad society
The women are really filling in on a lot of financial responsibility

N.B.
Slay mamas are not included
And not every woman is a slay mama

Shut up which kind millions, its one in a hundred in africa

Dew04:
And excessive fear is anxiety which is a psychological disorder.

Anxiety is a gift, i dont consider it a disorder, human beings are scared of what they dont understand.
Anxiety is extreme caution and fear which is needed in the world we live in anyone can become anything in the right conditions so be cautious of everyone including close friends and family. For every person you meet, that person has a 70% chance of harming you, its never good to trust or think a person can ever be nice

paul100:
Hashtagged is like my friend aunty husband
The woman after studying engineering for 5yrs and she get a job in a company,her husband told her to quit the job that he will supply all her needs though he is rich but why will you destroy someone dream life to be an engineer because you married her.If na me be this woman,we go discuss all things before we get marry.BEING A WIFE DOES NOT TURN YOU INTO A HOUSE-HELP

I wouldnt really care if my wife is working, a nanny would come in handy

NerdyRudeGyal:
I agree with you, OP. People say that to deceive others but it's absolutely false

What of people who want a harem/reverse harem everyone has freedom

Girls have their fun between 18-26 when they have the iption of choice, at 30 they are expired, and choice is up to the guys who wont still choose the but rather go for younger ones

FahBuLous:
Because your girlfriends have been leaving you doesn't mean you can come here and put fear and aparthy in people....
There are still loyal girls out there....

Fear is being cautious.
Apathy is a divine gift

Dew04:
These sort of threads seem to be borne of insecurities and fear of being hurt by a woman...

But you know its true the reason ladies stay in a relationship is cause

1) no better options available

2) the guy is rich/ no richer guys available

3) out of pity(highly unlikely)

It wont hurt to say the truth, no one has any right to judge you