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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 5:12am On Feb 21, 2023
They're selective before but now they can't be selected.
Romance › Re: How A Sex-worker Embarrassed Me In Front Of My Compound People. by Haydens: 12:01am On Feb 21, 2023
Jennyclay:
Ntooooor!! That serves you right.

Agreement is agreement. Next time you'll learn to stick to your side of the agreement no matter what.

I blame the girl for not collecting her full payment before any other thing.

Broke men everywhere!! Shior!!
😂😂😂 Abeg you are too bitter and Extremely toxic
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 6:43am On Feb 20, 2023
princekami:
I hope this helps
There has been records of men making great achievements due to the influence of love, sex and romance of a woman. The image below describes the authors view on why many men seldom succeed before the age of forty.
I hope the image below also shed a little light on why you should get your hands off your penis
This should be Napoleon hill's book
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Leicester City (3 - 0) On 19th February 2023 by Haydens: 4:22pm On Feb 19, 2023
Another one

Sancho!!!!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Leicester City (3 - 0) On 19th February 2023 by Haydens: 4:18pm On Feb 19, 2023
Another one from nwachukwu Rashford !!!
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 4:11pm On Feb 19, 2023
Herbworks:
I see a lot online here. Old ladies with fat tummy looking for 6 packs. If you can’t have a flat tummy as a lady then you don’t deserve a guy with a 6 pack
😂😂 No mind dem entitled bitxhes. After working my a$$ off to chisel my body big belle lady will be feeling entitled to enjoy my labour.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Leicester City (3 - 0) On 19th February 2023 by Haydens: 4:04pm On Feb 19, 2023
Rashford dey give me joy Abeg.

Them consis10th here art thou;
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 1:40pm On Feb 19, 2023
Pukkalolo:
I saw the Masturbators Vs Non Masturbators debate going... here's my take on it.

Please, read with an open mind so you'll understand my point and learn from this.

Do you know women hate it when guys watch porn and jerk off? This is not because they care about your well being. Far from that. It's actually because they think watching porn and satisfying yourself sexually all by yourself actually prevent you from giving women attention. That's just their thinking.

Because apart from work environment or other important stuff, women know that the possibility of sex is the top one reason why many men socially interact with women.

Remove the possibility of getting pussy, suddenly you realize that most men won't be inspired to hangout socially with a women.

This is not rocket science. This is just the simple fact.

Another reason why they hate it when guys watch porn is because women hate it to see other women giving up the pussy for free just like that.

In most porn movie, the men doesn't take the woman to expensive restaurant or shower the woman with financial gift. In the porn movie, the men don't act like well mannered simping nice guy...but still they get the pussy.

The Women have programed to believe that a man is supposed to praise her, spend huge money on her, treat her with materialistic gift... in exchange for her pussy.

But in porn, men do none of that, but they still get the pussy. This is annoying to most women. This is why they hate it when men watch porn.

Think of it. If the government make a new law and order all men to stop seeking women for sexual satisfaction and only jerk off to porn and ignore women... Forget it, women will go insane. They will come out on mass riot and protest against it.
This is because women need the attention of men, but never want to admit.

Ok, let's move on....

The thing is, just like prostitution, jerking off has been around for longer than humanity... Masturbation didn't start with this generation.

And we often make the mistake of thinking jerking off is just for frustrated, miserable and lonely fellas....but you are wrong.
Many of the world’s respected celebs and top figures have admitted to masturbation.... The likes of Eva Longoria, Dustin Hoffman, John Mayer, 50 CENT, Tailor Momsen, AMBER ROSE, Rihanna, AUBREY O’DAY, ROBERT DOWNEY JR, KANYE WEST and many others have reveal the fact that they sexually play with themselves and jerk off from time to time.

Some even say they do it all the time...for example, AMBER ROSE said in an interview that she masturbate all the time. Infact she said she masturbate at least once a day....

JOHN MAYER once said, Jerking off has save him from petty issues, he even said
"I have masturbated myself out of serious problems in my life"

Kanye west is your standard example of a successful guy... He got game. He's goes to the gym. He lives an exciting life. He's confident.. he's doesn't give a Bleep. He's a famous. He's a billionaire. He's a ....Whatever.

But guess what'shuh he once reveal in an interview that he jerk off to pornography times without number. He reveal that he's even addicted to it.

So it doesn't make sense to associate porn and jerking off to being a loser.



It's funny how people blame porn and jerking for lack of progress and lack of success.

Few months ago, a former student of mine called me and reveal to me that he's addicted to porn and jerking off, and he's thinking of how to stop it because he believes it's negatively affecting his life.

I asked him "how is it negatively affecting your life?"

He's said, he's lonely, broke and still living in his mum basement... He said his addiction to porn is the CAUSE of the problem.

I told him that, porn and jerking off is only the side effects of a deeper issue....not the cause"

I went on to say, "worrying about the fact that you are jerking off to porn only shows you actually don't have 'more important' things to worry about...... And that's actually the problem."

I asked him,

"Do you want to make porn & jerking off problem go away?"

He said, "Yes!"

I said, "Then, just stop believing that porn and jerking off is the problem."

I told him, we should take our focus out of porn for now, because there are more hidden problems locked in. We'll identify them gradually.

I asked him, what are the things he love.

He said, he loves sports. He said can argue about football from morning till night. He's said he also loves writing...

I said, "Good! That's a good place to start."
Then I told to start a blog and write about sport news.

That was when his real problems started to crop out. He started giving excuses on why it isn't a good idea because he can't build a blog website.

I told him, "you think porn and jerking off is the reason why you are broke and lonely, but no...your problem is that YOU LOVE MAKING EXCUSES."

To tackle his excuses, I offered to build a simple website for him for free and even show him out to operate it... He can pay me for my service later anytime he gets on his feet financially.

Soon he came up with another excuse that there are lots of bloggers out and the competition is high...

I managed to neutralize the excuse and convinced him.

12 more excuses later....

Then finally he decided to start the blog website. This all happened few months ago.

Few days earlier, I asked him on his progress. We discussed lengthy on it.... He seem more happier and productive now. He said his sports website is doing great, and along the line, he has realized he also love celebrity gist. He's start blogging about it too.. He even open a YouTube channel for it...

Then I asked him, what about your porn and jerking off problem.

He laughed and said... "Bro, that isn't my problem for now... although I find himself jerking off once in a while...but generally I have very much reduce engaging in the act.

He said "jerking off isn't my problem now."

This because he now have better problems to worry about. Problems like, getting more views and suscribers for his channels, Improve his website Site's Ranking, getting more engagement...

That goes to show that watching porn and jerking off wasn't the reason why he was lonely and broke. It's quite the opposite. Being lonely and broke was the reason why he was jerking off and watching porn.


I also know a guy who is a chronic masturbator..he jerk off at least twice a day. Then soon he got a job at the island, but he lives on mainland. He had to wake 4am to prepare for work and he got back home late by 10pm or 11pm. From Monday to Friday.

During the weekend, he get busy with other important activities that he had to postpone for weekend.

I ask him, if he still jerk off regular. He said, he doesn't even have time to jerk off.

I laugh when people say they are struggling with porn. The real issues here is that they don't have better problems to struggle with.

The problem of Porn and masturbation will naturally take care of itself when you start focusing on better and more useful problems.
Tyson fury once said that jerking off has helped him to win most of his matches. Some people channel positive energy in jerking off some have channeled negative energy towards it.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 11:29pm On Feb 17, 2023
luminouz:
Lol..would you want us to be abusing each other and derailing the thread?

I just gave you Potassium to calm you down!! cheesy grin
😂😂😂.
You nailed it.
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actress, Debbie Shokoya Gets Engaged On Valentine’s Day (Video) by Haydens: 2:44pm On Feb 15, 2023
navzla:
The other time ,I saw an oyibo simp licking the toes of a lady.This time is ,another simp getting on his two kneels to propose.
If a man will gets on his two kneels to propose to a lady how many kneels will he go on to pray to his creator?
Simps will keep on kneeling down to propose to a girl that he's doing a favour by bring her out of the Street or out of singlehood. I'm yet to understand the logic behind it.

Men marrying women, to me I consider it a big favour to the woman cos out of millions of women all over the world he chose you and still expect him to kneel down for you.

That's a pure WEAKNESS. West has deceived us big time.
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actress, Debbie Shokoya Gets Engaged On Valentine’s Day (Video) by Haydens: 2:41pm On Feb 15, 2023
She is semi out of the street.
Romance › Re: My Problem With Valentine's Day Celebration In Nigeria by Haydens: 6:24pm On Feb 14, 2023
😂😂😂.
Vawulence n**ga. They are coming for your head.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 6:35pm On Feb 10, 2023
How can you tell a woman the "next time we meet we will be keeping each other company" in a sexual way. I want the words to send a sexual vibes or signal to her.

Alphas in the house.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 11:00am On Feb 08, 2023
Don’t mention the red pill to women, just practice it. They will hate the ideas, but love the effects.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 10:54am On Feb 08, 2023
Remember this: You don’t get respect, credit or appreciation for helping entitled women.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 10:44am On Feb 08, 2023
Women lead double lives. She will project a strong outward good girl facade whilst engaging in acts of depravity in secret. We know whoring reduces a woman’s value. They know this too. But rather than simply not LovePeddler, they would prefer to deceive.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 10:36am On Feb 08, 2023
Always protect the core of your essence, should you choose to let her in, never let her in completely. See yourself as a castle, let her into the castle, but do not give her the key to the heaviest door.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 10:15am On Feb 08, 2023
Money is more important than women. Chase money, not women. You are more likely to get women chasing money than you are to get money chasing women. Without money or godlike genetics, you’re playing on hard mode. Money makes everything better, the quality of woman you can get is the epitome of such, not the exception.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 10:14am On Feb 08, 2023
Women are mercenary. They do whatever it takes to win. They will switch sides or outright lie to secure the man they deem their best option. That’s what you are to a woman. An option.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 8:52am On Feb 08, 2023
Women typically seek education to acquire status and increase their access to high status men, rather than to indulge any sense of innate intellectual curiosity.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 8:20am On Feb 08, 2023
The fact a woman dates a man poorer than her does not mean she isn’t hypergamous, he has something else going on either physically, socially or psychologically that makes her believe he is superior, if this wasn’t the case, she wouldn’t be with him.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 8:18am On Feb 08, 2023
Not all women are gold diggers who will only date millionaires, but many won’t date a man of equal or lesser net worth. Sure some women date poorer men, but such a man is likely to be highly popular or attractive. However you cut it, AWALT will contend women are hypergamous. Will hypergamy always manifest in one exact manner? No, of course not, it is not that “women are all the same” it’s more a case of “women all have the same instincts and are therefore predisposed to specific kinds of behaviour.”
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:58am On Feb 08, 2023
If you are not a high energy dominant man, you’re unlovable to women. Women only love men more ruthless than they are. Any arrangement made in absence of such a personality is one of economic convenience, not love.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:58am On Feb 08, 2023
Women are loyal to power at all costs, have it, and you have them, lack it, and they will betray you.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:57am On Feb 08, 2023
Women make great servants, but poor masters. It is ill-advised to give a woman power should you want the thing she has power over to flourish, or even remain intact and functional.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:53am On Feb 08, 2023
The less emotionally available you are, the more emotionally available she is – the inverse is also true.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:53am On Feb 08, 2023
Men seduce women into sex, women seduce men into commitment. Women pitch, men invest.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:51am On Feb 08, 2023
When you’re winning you can be rude and unruly and she will apologise for your mistakes. When you’re losing, she will blame you for her mistakes.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:50am On Feb 08, 2023
In matters of fertility and desirability, time is on man’s side, not women’s. From the male viewpoint, women appear to be in a rush to reach ever greater heights of commitment; the truth is, women are in a hurry because they more keenly experience depreciation.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:49am On Feb 08, 2023
As a woman ages, her capacity to attract a top-tier mate decreases, as a man ages, his capacity to attract a top-tier mate increases. In the relationship game women are smarter than men, for they settle as their value is dropping whilst men will settle as their value continues to rise.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 7:46am On Feb 08, 2023
A woman hates a man who won’t give her what she wants, but she absolutely detests a man who does, and without a fight.
Politics › Re: Fani-Kayode: Dog Emefiele, Witch Najaatu, Prepare For Battle, I Will Bury You by Haydens: 12:16pm On Feb 07, 2023
This man is a capital FOOL

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