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Danielkelly:
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DISHONOUR for a King, it's a treasonable felony, a betrayal, JESUS! A bruise to the Ego.
The truth is that this is the kind of end expectation you will have if you are a simp, a niece guy yeah.
i had another uncle my grandma called him the wise one among her three sons when we do our gossip wishpering chat.
Only marriage is standing strong.
When his wife misbehaved and hwhen he was ill and he had a specific time to take his drugs. She propostened the cooking until when she likes about 2hours later when she served him the food, he threw it a way and the plate even broke. She shit tested him(women will alwaz test your authority).
There was food full house, there was gas and 22/7 light, no excuse.
He took his ATM from her and took i and his kids out to eatery.
*NOBODY SHOULD EAT THE FOOD IN THAT HOUSE UNTIL I SAY SO.* My uncle said, bf giving us money to buy our own food 5K each.
The wife begged for three days and three nights before it was all over.
The pussy is 4KINGs,
Men know this.

Wow wow *3 I like this piece.

las las na Portugal Vs Argentina for final.
And Portugal to win 2022 world cup.
END!

Just imagine you went to a shop and bought a phone of ₦70,000 then you brought it home, then your friend was like nah I bought this exact phone for ₦30,000 and another one tells you nah I bought t it for ₦2,000 and another told you that I got it for free. You that bought it for ₦70,000 how will you feel ? Well his writing is not about phone.

LINSAR:
Here in the university, I shake my head repeatedly when I see some girls' lifestyles. You know why? It's one unfortunate man that'll finally marry them.

Imagine a girl that used her püssy to sponsor her education saying "I want a God fearing and responsible man."

A girl that is being passed around for s*x in her neighborhood will be saying "You're not my type."

Before marrying a lady, I'll tell her family "If I marry your daughter and discover she's not 'intact', I'm collecting back the bride price paid."

Bro you have said it all. I have already made it up to myself. To even marry a graduate fit hard me cos of their lifestyle. Come UNIBEN and you go see shege.

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Pukkalolo:
Asking this question actually shows you are an intellectual dude... because at the core, the ability to withstanding pressure and maintaining emotional control is one of the most important skill a man can have when dealing with women ( and life in general).
This skill is far more important than your physical fitness. It's more important than how smooth you are or how good looking you are.

Fews years back I was invited to a interview where there were about 15 candidate who were in attendance.

When it got to my turn to be interviewed, I was invited to the Manager's office(a Man) who would be interviewing me.

After scanning through my CV carefully, he looked at me and said, "Look, succeeding in this business is about taking control of situations that you encounter in your day to day sales activities, and to not allowing these situations to control you."

I said, "Ok?"

Then he looked dead in my eyes and asked, "So how do you take control of highly pressured situation that you'll encounter and not allow the situation to control you?"

There are many fancy and flashy answers to that questions, but at that point I just wanted say what I felt.

I said, "Well, I'll take control of the highly pressured situation by letting go of the situation."

I paused for about 3 seconds, trying to think if what I just said make sense to me. But then in my mind, I said, "mtcheew, Bleep it."

Then I continued confidently: " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation.... there are somethings that are just beyond my control... Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

After I made that last statement, there was an awkward silence between us that lasted for about 7 seconds or so. The man seemed to surprised my answer. He never predicted that answer.(well, I don't like being predictable)
I didn't say anything else. I waited patiently for what he’ll say next. After a long silence that seem like the whole world freezed for a while, he cleared is throat and said, "So why should we give you this Job?"

I said, "You should give me this job because bla bla bla bla bla."
I said some cliche answers I've crammed from the internet.

"Well, we'll get back to you," the manager said while gesticulating for me to get Bleep out his office.

Of course, you'd pretty much assume that they were never going to get back to me... because Obviously it looked like I performed very poor in the interview. Even me, I was a bit worried that i didn't came up with smarter answers.

But to my greatest surprise, 3 weeks later I was invited back to discuss the date it will be ok for me to start the job. Out of 20 people, only I and two other guys were invited back.

Although this my answers seem weak:
" I'll take control of the situation by letting go of the situation" and " I'll take control of situation by not trying hard fix the situation. there are somethings that are just beyond my control. Knowledge is knowing when to keep pushing for something. Wisdom is knowing when to respect myself and Walk away."

But that's actually the way forward.


Strangely, ability to withstand pressure and maintain emotional control requires no superhuman strength or endurance. It's just requires the ability to let go and not trying to force things go your way all the time.

So the question, how do one get emotional control from within your internal self, as in internal control not the external.

Obviously, the solution is to stop trying to get control from the external.

Here's is an example of trying to get control from the external: Trying to make a woman like you.

Trying to make a woman like you is an unhealthy goal because #1 you can't always control if a woman will like you or not--and since you can't control it, you’d always be ruled by fear.

And Because #2 you’ll only cause yourself headache and make things unnecessarily stressful for yourself.

You can imagine the kind of stress you have to go through to make her like you:

You’ve got to interact with her in a pleasant and cautious manner.

You’ve got to put up with het saucy and disrespectful behavior.

You’ve got to put up with her abusive behavior.

You’ve got to do things to impress her friends and family.

This put your emotions at the mercy of the woman. As long as she like you, you’ll feel worthy and confident about yourself. But the moment she act cold towards you, your whole world is shattered. You start trying hard to fix the situation.

And remember, in that interview, I said " I'll take control of the situation by not trying too hard to fix the situation."


The ability to let go of a woman when you want her the most—is one of the most important skills you can develop in your interactions with women.

The harder you try to persuade a woman to accept you, the less you succeed in accomplishing that goal.

Life itself is paradoxical. Avoiding negative experiences rejection, criticism or mistakes only increased your chance of getting those negative experiences.


Letting go doesn't mean you're weak; it means you understand that there are some things that are just fucking out of your control.

Letting go of things that are beyond your control, doesn't mean you're powerless; Is simply means you're mature enough to understand that, sometimes not everyone would like you or be interested in you.

When a woman reject you or show no interest in you, you might be tempted to try to convince her and try to force her to see things your way....but in reality you are only wasting your time and disrespecting yourself.

The solution is to simply "let go" by walking away and moving on the next available chick.

Many guys have the mentality of:

"What can I do to get this woman to like me so that I can feel great and confident about myself?"

That's a weak ass mentality. This is why you can't withstand the pressure of being disliked or being ignored by her.

My mentality is:

"What can I do to feel great and confident about myself so that it wouldn't really matter if this woman like me or not? "

This is how I get emotional control from within my internal self.

Because when you're focused on being liked or being accepted... she tends to have more power than you in the interaction.

This is why I say things like: having low tolerance for a woman's bullshit; Boldly expressing yourself; Immediately NEXTING a woman if she's not cooperating; not allowing her influence or manipulate you with feminine sexiness and so on....because those things are in your fucking control. This is how you maintain emotional contol regardless of the response you are getting from her. This is what makes you a confident and dominant man.

I hope this was helpful.

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One of the best piece I have ever read on this forum.

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MissOpe:
Done

Thank you. God bless you.

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1Sharon:
She's Nigerian.

I mean a core Nigerian lady

Nigerian girls can never behave this way

tosaino95:
They don't deserve pity in my opinion

Simple. Simply stay wicked.

SOZINN:
True that, that's why Rollo Tomassi adviced men to always keep their women on their feet. To always keep them excited. The moment you become boring she's off to fûck another dude that tickles her. This is the kind of bullshît men in situationships have to go through. I no get strength for that kind nonsense.

Simple. God didn't create me to thrill dem. I'm not a comedian. If they want to be thrilled let dem go and watch comedy. Even as at that when you over do it they will still see you as a boring person. Those genders are bleeping complicated to handle.

tosaino95:
Her decision might change when her options have milk her dry.

Such case happen everytime as they are the backup for settle down

Exactly. Na guys wey dey invest emotions especially I dey dey pity.

Bintdawood:
Na laidis dey make u fail jamb. Read am again *mentally unstable woman*

Na FTC dem dey drag. Dey no go read well before commenting

The biggest mistake you can make is:

Stay friends with the girl who rejected you.

Her decision won't change.

Move on, work on yourself and talk to more women.

Reno mumukry don drop quote

Baba wey no well he dey shout emilokan.

Incompetent removing incompetent. I see where he's going.

Today's love na pure scam. Never love with all your heart and emotions. Rather love with your brain.

Today's Ronaldo is like women. When in their 20's shakara go scatter their head any serious guy that wants to marry them will end up disappointed but when they are about to age or approaching their 30s they will start blaming the men for not being serious with them. Ronaldo's story will be the stories of some girls if they don't take care esp. those that are after money. Post wall will hit 'em the way it's hitting Ronaldo.
Learn or perish.

So even ashawos no don deh act movie. What a life

Maybe tiktok will follow suit

mariahAngel:
Nne, sharp sharp?
I admire your energy and consistency.
Well done.

I know. Onye usa.

HolyMan12:
Guy, just don't put your emotions in that relationship. before one day you go come here the give us epistle of how she serve you stale microwaved breakfast with plenty pepper and fresh onions.


Omo! Just take am as your fvck mate for now.

If he go even see Bleep