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YUNGLURD:
Kudos Op, 120 push up every morning, 160 squats and 100 push down (I don't really know the name given to that exercise whereby u straighten out ur two hands resting on a bench while u straighten out ur two legs then go up and down)

bench press

VeryWickedGoat:
I hate Nigerians DIE!

😂😂😂 Aswear over doing dey kill us for this country.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Filled with pathos...a real niggarrr is emotional now...grab my weed to puff gently with emotions

The mother died

There is only one true love and that is mother's love


Looks like a movie though but in this case the children didn't battle with anacondas, amazonian giant centipede and Colombian recluse spider
Can't wait for the movie to come out

What's the name of the movie?

Brenda fassi is from which tribe ?

Wisfem:
Hello!! Please is there any WhatsApp group for the redpill community or links I need to join..

Drop your WhatsApp number lemme send you a link to join.

CaveAdullam:
Random

The deregulation of the sexual market and all its inherent and absorbed absurdities will cajole or coerce or persuade you into selecting the minimal worst while expecting the best from you. Reject it.

You didn't stay in solitude for long to become rewarded with nonsense.

Choose the best, the one like you.

🤝🤝👑👑

The write up is very terrific and eye-opening. I will save it up for referencing. Thanks alot. I thought that u have even forgotten my reply. 🙌🙌🙌

Pukkalolo:
I'll drop #4 ideas on your question on escalating. From there, maybe you can learn something. I hope so.

#1 Idea
This police man stopped us...then he gesture to my guy who was on the steering to pull down the glass.

He looked at us dead in the eyes as if he was tryna read our thoughts. Then he ask for driver's license. When my guy showed him his license, the police man titled his head and looked him in a confused way as if, "he doesn't know what he's doing."

Kinda similar to what you say that when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying."

My guy quickly get the cue: he opened his wallet and gave him a thousand note. The moment the police collected the money, he smiled and said, "now you are talking!"

Then he gesture to my guy to whine up and get the Bleep. We zoomed off!!

Sometimes, like you said, if you want to escalate they will start forming and giving you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe. That's female manipulative game: she knows exactly what you are saying but she is acting that way to knock you of your game and see if you can get you to spend money on her

In a nutshell, women want you to "spend money" on them in your attempt to woo them, and just like the police officer, If you are not doing that, she might give you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe when you try to escalate.

Don't fall for her trap.



#2 Idea.

Escalating is fun and smooth when you dealing with the woman who has some interest in you.
There is difference between a lady who has interest in you AND a lady who's only enjoying the attention she's getting from you AND a lady who is only being polite and looking for an excuse to dismiss you.

The solution is to “test the waters”, to see if there's any interest, so you won't be wasting your time on the wrong chick.

They say, failure is the key to success...but it depends on the situation where the failure happens. Remember, people only want associate with success not failure... If you fail officially on life TV where the whole world is watching you, that might reduce trust and respect people have for you. But if you fail on a low-key, privately, you can quickly learn from your mistakes while still retain your respect and use what you learn to succeed in public.

That's why most companies test their products before launching it; they even give it to people for free and get their feedbacks before finally launching it.

I mean, it foolish to launch a big move, when you have not yet launch smaller moves first...

It's not rocket science, it's common sense.

For example, let's say I'm hanging out with a woman...then the idea of kissing her flash on my mind...so I think "this is an opportunity to escalate"...

So I boldly lean in to kiss her...but surprisely I'm soundly and harshly rejected by her... "Stop it, how dare you try to kiss me." she roared.

That's a big move, that ended in big failure: she consciously rejected my escalation(kiss).... She's clearly aware of it and her respect for me might reduce a bit (and it will continuously reduce if I keep trying to make attempt to kiss her.)

Speaking from experience, most girls know if they’re into you or not within the first few seconds of meeting you. So, logically, when meeting a woman, the idea is to quickly test the waters and see what her deal is.

With women, it's sometimes better she reject your escalation low-key, and still retain your respect and diginity. Using the previous example, when the idea of kissing her cross my mind...instead of drawing close to kiss her, I simply "test the waters" by softly touching her on the arm or hand, and watch her reaction. I observed how the she react...If she react negatively by quickly removing her hand or something... I might touch her again later when there is more trust. I still retain my respect.

What if she's comfortable with being touched on the arm or hand (and she even touch my hands too), then I can move on to keep touching her more intimately....then going for the kiss will just flow naturally.

A girl that reject my touch on her arms or hand, will definitely reject my kiss. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.


#3 Idea

Escalating is simply moving things forward with the girl.
Most men see escalation as a series of sequence they must conquer: talk to her and get her name, then get her digit; then chatting with her and get her to respond well; then get her to meet up..then get a hug...then get a kiss, then get the pussy...and boom... victory!! You are winner.
However, this is a sad way to view it.
Because, one, you are putting the pussy on pedestal. And Two, And you are creating win lose vibe.

What do I mean by win lose vibe?

Here's what I mean: when you escalate smartly and get the pussy, you feel like the winner...but then what does she feels like?

Well, you guess right!! She feels like the LovePeddler, the slut and the loser.

This is why many women don't want to lose: so while you are trying to sexually escalate the interaction using every seduction tool in your arsenal, she's also trying to financially escalate the interaction.

When a woman meets a man, subconsciously or consciously she’s analyzing the amount of resources he possesses. She's feeling you out to see how much money you would be willing to spend on her...and then she's start trying to manipulate you into spending money using any female tricks possible.


Getting the pussy...automatically makes her the loser. So when you try to escalate and move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle so she won't feel cheap. And the obstacle can be in any form. Just like in your situation-->when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying"... That's her own form of obstacle.


Some fellas would say, "yo, yo, this is where having a good "mouth piece" comes in.

Hmmm.....

I just remembered an incidence:
Few weeks earlier, my cousin visited me and while talking generally, he started telling me about a guy(his friend) in his estate who's smashing lots of chicks because he has "good game", "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or whatever.

Wow! I was curious to see this guy...he showed me a photo and a short tiktok video of him.

I was marveled to see that this guy is particularly tall, has an athletic physique and he has an handsome face, and he's a bit popular on ticktok because has great dancing skils.

I tried my best to convince my cousin that the reason why he's smashing lots of girls is plainly because of the above qualities he has, and not because he has, "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or any whatever crap....

But that's a topic for another day... let's me not derail this post.

It's natural that when you try to move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle... One way to handle this situation is to creating a win win vibe NOT win lose vibe.

Most term popularized by redpill community naturally create a "YOU vs the Girl" vibe.... terms like game, escalating, passing shit test, frame control...It makes the simple act of talking to a girl seem like you are entering a battle ground and a power tussle game. This naturally create a YOU vs HER vibe where nobody wants to feel like a loser.

To make the "escalation" happen smoothly and the interaction grow naturally towards sex (and maybe amazing romantic relationship), you want to create a YOU with HER vs the world vibe... that's a WIN WIN vibe. Basically, you want create a "cooperating vibe"....



If your behavior indicates that you are faking, playing games, being phony or being judgemental...that won't inspired cooperation vibe between you and her...That would create a power tussle where both you and the girl don't want to loose guard... and where you and her would be trying to outsmart yourself.

When you create a cooperation vibe, the idea of sex, won't be something you have to tactically escalate to, but rather it becomes something you and her are looking forward to have together.

Different women needs different level of cooperating vibe...Logically, Some women, especially those with past traumas and negative experience with men might require a higher level of cooperation vibe for the sexual escalation to progress.


Creating a cooperation vibe kicks in when you change the goal of your interaction from "getting" to "cooperating" ....

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to give me the pussy and not lose interest in me?" you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "what can I do to create an interaction where mind games, deception or disrespect doesn't exist?

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to like me and accept me," you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "What can I do to find out if I and this girl share the same interests and Intention so we won't waste each other time??"

These cooperative way of thinking doesn't sound sexy to the alpha wannabe junkies, but this kind thinking is what grow you into a mature, confident self-assured dude who naturally attract classy and high quality chick...

Classy and high quality chicks loves and respect mature, confident and self-assured dudes. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.




#4 Idea

Women are naturally program to resist a man's escalation attempt because they don't want to seem easy or cheap. However, the more attracted and interested she is in the guy, the less likely she is to resist him.

So if there's no much attraction or interest yet, it's natural that when you try to escalate, she'd put up an obstacle... One way you can possibly handle this situation is to prevent this situation in the first place by YOU actually putting up an obstacle first. So that the focus of the interaction will now be on your obstacle and not her's.

2 weeks ago, chatting with this lady; after congratulating her on her birthday. I was not that interested in her, but for experimentation purpose, I decided to move the interaction forward (escalate)....

Of course, I expected that she'd put up an obstacle because she's kinda cute, in her prime and getting massive attention from guys...

So I began with something along the lines of,
"you are my kind of girl, but I heard March born ladies are naturally self-centered and selfish... please how true is that?"

If you can interpret the above statement, you'd noticed I tried to escalate the interaction but I also put up an obstacle immediately on why I might not pursue any intimacy with her...

She started subtly defending and trying to change that negative idea I have about ladies March born girls. That is her own way of trying to neutralize the obstacle I'm putting up.

So now the focus of the interaction is now on the obstacle I created and not on the obstacle she should have created.

Most times, when a girl start trying to change the negative opinion you have about her, her interest for you gradually goes up..

In an attempt to create more obstacles on the idea of being self-centered and selfish, I told her, "I doubt if she has ever bought birthday gift for a guy before."
Of course, again she tries to remove the obstacle, telling me different situations where she bought gift for the guy she was dating in the past and the difference experiences she had with that...... Our interaction got deeper and deeper.

With her, I wasn't so much concerned getting the pussy, I was more concerned with testing the waters, creating obstacles (challenging her ego) and creating a cooperating vibe...

If you noticed that's the summary of the 4 ideas

When I tried to escalate by asking us to meet up, she enthusiastically agreed. Saying I'll be pleased to go out with you....The date ended up in my house.

I hope this was helpful.

All these f genders should leave this golden thread and move to their rusty boring pink pill that will soon die down.

You can't imitate original. Bunch of clowns.🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

Copy cats everywhere.

Which one is pin pill again ?😂😂😂😂

Bunch of clowns 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

I can’t imagine menstrual blood going into somebody’s mouth, it is unsafe. How will somebody put his mouth in blood when the person is not Dracula, it is Dracula that sucks blood.

Na this one sweet me pass 😂😂😂😂

zenithgroup:
Thanks, I had downloaded it but upon opening it was saying I can't open this file. Is there any other application to download to access such files?

Use epub app.

Regex:
I remember calling my ex girlfriend when we were dating and hearing sounds that looked like it was coming from a hand fan, she told me she was hot and was fanning herself when I inquired. However I did notice that she takes quite a moment to answer whilst we were talking over the phone.


When we broke up, I realised, she has been lying all along. She was being serviced whilst professing how much she loved me... 😂 😂 😂


Since then, if a girl tells me the sky is blue, I will have to come out and verify it's actually blue.

😂😂😂😂 The sky could be red.

Always verify it by yourself.😂😂😂😂👇

IyaebeTheGreat:
I’m jealous each time I see this people showing Obi so much love because he doesn’t deserve it. Obidients come for me please I’m just bored at home

You too like vawulence. When you see am make sure you withstand am.

Eazzii:
Omo. MOrroco at work.
I meant friend's wife.

😂😂😂😂

It's very disastrous.

Most women retire in church at their fading stage just to get men to marry them. I don't support that.

What usually gets me tired is that girls are kind of dumb when chatting to them via whatsapp, if you want to escalate they will start forming "I don't know what you are saying."

Is there any ways you can write or shed more light on escalation.

Your piece is great.

Pukkalolo:
I was recently asked, "Do you advocate cold approach or just wait to be choosen?"


Just like cold call in sales, i believe Cold approach is when you approach a woman who's totally unaware of you initially like on the street, bustop or something. While waiting to be choosen, is basically waiting to get choosing signal, as in, interest signs before making an attempt.

So do I advocate cold approach

When we think of cold approach, we think of a guy who basically set out of the house with the intention of wooing women, and then he's seen approaching a woman who seems generally NOT open to interactions. For example approaching a woman hurrying down the street heading to work or something important. When you approach her, of course you are gonna get a negative reaction. As you can see the problem isn't that she's not interested you, it's that she's not just interested in any social interactions at that moment.

If you are looking to start a serious relationship, you need to share things in common with the girl and you need to see her couple of times. With the typical cold approach, there's high probability that you aren't going to share things in common with the random girl you're cold approaching.

And in recent times, due to insecurities, most women would feel unsafe to be approach by a random stranger.

And aside that...when you cold approach a stranger, if you aren't asking for direction or time, then it's automatically assume you wanna beg for money. And by default you tend to get ignored or get dismissed quickly. It's difficult to overcome that stereotype unless you look very attractive. And even if you look attractive, she natural tend to find it weird and uncomfortable because you are a total stranger to her.

Many times, a woman defensive instinct is high when she's walking alone quickly down the street and as a result, she's more likely to reject you as default responses; it does matter how good your so called "game" is.


As a matter of fact, If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes around the streets trying to cold approach every girl he encounter.

My biggest beef against cold approaching is that it's a time wasting behavior...I value my time more than anything else. Time that you are suppose to spend learning a skill or building your business... instead you waste it, trawling the streets in search of pussy.


Ok, chill. Now, I've thrown lots of shades at cold approach,
you might think "since cold approach doesn't really make sense, so are you saying the way forward is just wait to be choosen"

Relax bro.

So do I advocate "just wait to be choosen."?

That is, waiting to get choosing signal (interest signs) before making an attempt to initiate a conversation with her.

One of the most common choosen signals is when she makes strong eye contact with you. Basically, she catches your eye and hold strong eye contact for few seconds. A woman who’s chooses you will often meet your eyes, look away, then look back again.


I mean, approaching a lady who gives you choosing signals is specifically always a great idea, and always useful.

My first issue with Choosing signals is that it can be tricky and can sometimes be misleading. Sometimes you can get choosing signals from a lady that actually has no interest in you. This happens a lot.

Another problem with waiting to be choosing is that you'll naturally tend to miss out on a lot of interest signs if you are inexperienced and you lack social awareness. This is because women are good at pretending and hiding their interest.
Women have a way of stylishly checking you out without you noticing, so sometimes she has already giving you choosing signals, but you didn't realise.

Just like we said earlier that If you have a reputation to uphold, then you don't want to be known as that guy who goes about the streets trying to cold approach every girl he sees on the road. This is even worse for choosing signals: you don't want to be that guy who goes about the streets desperately looking at girls eyes and trying to maintain eye contact with them because you looking for choosing signals. That's a low status behavior.



Another issue with choosing signals is that it mostly come from less attractive girls. A Lady who is very beautiful and sexy have big egos, and you will rarely catch her checking out a guy.

Most highly attractive ladies have more social value, and so they feel very "entitled" and they walk around wearing a saucy and "I don't care" facial expression; they expect you to be given them choosing signals and not the other way around.


I have said this before on this thread: the vast majority of the time, only 10% of men tend to get good amount of "obvious" choosing signals, that's the men who are famous, rich or very handsome and physically appealing.

But the rest of men will only get those "obvious" choosing signals once in a blue moon.

So if you want to get more "obvious" choosen signals from women, First, max out your looks, money and status... That's the best advice.

But in general, if you want to get more sexual opportunities, just waiting to be choosing signal isn't an efficient method.


*Takes a deep breath*


Now you are thinking, "you said cold approach is a waste of time but you are still beefing on ' just waiting to be choosen'..... Dude, seriously, what's your deal "

Ok, relax...tighten your seatbelt....we are just starting...

Remember, one big issue with cold approach is, you tend to indiscriminately approach a woman who's totally unaware of you. Worse, if she's a feminist or totally psycho, she might tag that as sexual harassment: and this might affect your reputation as a guy.

But approaching a girl is cooler and more natural if you are in an environment of similar interests with the girl, where being social is natural expected, so she won't find it weird to be approached by someone she doesn't know. For example, environment like club, school, church, higher institution, Seminars, training centers, party or any social gathering where networking and social interaction is expected and encouraged.

And remember we said cold approaching is a time wasting behavior, but you can make it more time effective if you can naturally fit it in your daily life. Instead of roaming the streets in a never-ending search for pussy like a jobless loser, you can simply approach girls while you go about your normal daily routine. For example, while coming back from lectures, office or work, you initiate conversation with that attractive girl who seems to also going your way. Or while shopping at the mall, you talk to that cute girl who's shopping near you.

If you noticed, I didn't say, wait to get choosing signals before you talk to the girl. Putting it bluntly: just waiting to be choosing is a submissive mindset.

Every time you meet a new woman, she's either one of these category:

#1. She interested in you. #2. She isn't interested in you

Most times, the guy who settle for the idea of "just wait to be chosen" is the guy who is greatly scared getting rejected by the woman in #2 category. He doesn't want to inconvenient or upset her. He doesn't want this woman to think poorly of him.

Dude, in a nutshell, you are huge pussy.

One reason why my behavior is highly confident and self-assured (and I'm enjoying romantic success) is because I don't mind inconveniencing and upsetting the woman in #2 category: I actually want them to reject me. Who cares if they think poorly of me. I need to get them out of the way as soon as possible.

The funny thing is, when you learn to face your (social) fears with women, you naturally learn more about women body language and non-verbal signals. Waiting for choosing signals won't help you understand women. Reading redpill advise won't teach you anything about women.

The rugged looking illiterate boy who has just spend 6 month at mechanic workshop as more experience and knowledge about car and automobile than 10 mechanical engineering graduate put together. This is because this because the mechanic illiterate boy, is getting going under cars, getting his body dirty and trying to fix cars.

I know buddy who's a totally cocky, he has smash more pussy than 10 repill community guys put together. And this buddy doesn't even know what redpill, game and shit test is. This is because this cocky buddy of mine isn't waiting for choosing signals from women before he take action. He's isn't waiting for permission.



Experience has taught me that women decide quickly whether they are interested in a guy or not... This why my approach (shameless approach) is to quickly take action and find out if she has any interest in me... once I see that there's some interest, I'll pull the triggers and build up her interest & sexual comfortableness.....

I'm not waiting for choosing signals(interest signs), instead I take action and provoke interest signs from her.

The lady I am currently seeing didn't give me any choosen signals; she had a tough "I don't care" facial expression, but as I confidently go over and start talking to her, she opened up and started giving me choosen signals.

When I ask her why she put up a tough/harsh looks initially, she is like "Wow, seriously?? I didn't know I was putting on that look"

If I was waiting for choosing signals, she'd be gone.

Life is all about taking calculated risks: you can not just wait for some sign from the universe to make your move. Let me assure you this: some of your peak experiences will come from girls who didn't give choosen signals at first.






Waiting = feminine = submissive.

Taking action = Masculine = Dominant

Feminine wait around and hope something happens....

Masculine take action and make something happen. The choice is yours.


There's a proverb that says, if you want women to lick your balls, you have to grow some balls.

Merch:
ogbeni one thing you should know is that girls don’t like niggas that treat them well, be her problems not her problem solver. you accommodated a bitch that isn’t submitting her pussy to you, so in what ways is she beneficial to you, tell that selfish bitch to leave your house tonight when rain is falling

Bro, you have said it all. I king 👑 you for saying this.

Girls are like cat. If you chase cat it will run away, but if you stay on your own they will come close to you.

Stay ruthless.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Tah.

😂😂😂😂😂

Impressive.

Emmanuel30a:
Can u tell me, how mad a person u are; or can be...? How mad&bad of a person are u...? U are as bad&mad as Simbad/Sinbad, or as bad&mad as Samad, etc... U are mad, or u must be mad...,etc? Lyk a bastard or lyk d bastards Samad&Simbad, etc; dat eating salad&drinking custard...? Are u retards, or u are a retards...? Wia is ur stand, or wia did u stands...? U are a bastard, or a retards/retarded bastard...? U are a dullard, or a Ruby Dollard,etc;...? U are a "rolling dollar"...?...dat is wearing collar...? How much is ur dollar or dollars, dat u want to holla...? Holla at ur boy/boys, or order at ur boy/boys,etc; dat are using...collar&cellular, or dat are not using collar&cellular...? Order/orders of or for ur boy/boys...? Moro boya oko ila...? Segun okola, abi femi okola ni oruko re...? Abi Adebayo Alao Akala...?...

Domino

Mtcheeew I have no R.I.P to waste.

Onye gbuo onwe ya ona eje.

luminouz:
Werey!!!!

This is some harsh truth!!!

😂😂 We are here to serve vawulence hot hot.

IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

yeyebrity:
You are so on point and I agree with this. These men think all ladies are the same and would just jump at any marriage offer. I have female friends who are in their late 30's and are still picky. There are others who don't care and are ready to settle for less. In the end, it all boils down to own's taste in men.

The woman in that video is probably chasing clout and trying to grow her page. Any woman of marriagable that wants to get married can get married in a jiffy but the question is, who will she be getting married to?

You are not staying with them old layers or evening newspapers so stop assuming what you don't know.

These are the people they look up to but at the end they will still settle down.👇

Men are still the prize if you don't know.

Even in their own so called state they are afraid of Igbos.

Where is that stupid Reno omockrey. He no dey talk again.

Power drunk f l

Thought that he's from kogi state. How come ?

No be LP logo I dey see there abi na my eyes dey pain me.