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Alright, thanks to everybody that contributed to this. Surprisingly, my heart is beginning to heal really fast. It is really helping a lot as i don't think of her like the way i used to. In my mind now i do see her and myself as some of the things you guys called us here and it is really helping as i am now seeing her as a bad influence to me. My heart is healing really quick as all i'm having for her now is hatred. Like seriously she is beginning to disgust me just this past few hours. I wonder what i will feel towards her when my heart finally get healed.

All in all THANK YOU sooooo so much i really appreciate.....
Thank God she said 'no' to the blood convenant i suggested to her.
4reala farady Stacyomolola Jflex07 Frankicent way want finish me Tina001 Dobson43 Ade1bowale . If i no call your name abeg no vex na the fault of my button phone but just know say you dey my mind. You guys are the best THANKS

Naijacounselors:
Don't always try to impress her rather do anything you want to do for her by your own volition

Noted

4reala:
OK. According to the guy, you contributed in breaking d marriage. For what to do: pray and ask God for forgiveness, Tell him to help you erase your canal love for her completely from your heart, and let him show you ur true life partner, that is if you are ready to settle down o.

Thanks

farady:
I know stories like this happens. However, please walk away from that lady and forget about her. You screwed up. Yes! But she knows and saw that lack of focus on you and took undue advantage of your inexpensive/nativity.

At 25, you should think of building yourself up financially instead of wasting all that time with a lady that doesn't give a hoot about you. Lastly, you need to up your game in the area of emotional intelligence.

Remember, you can never end well if you continue with her. Go and make money and grow some balls. Cheers!

i love this thanks.

donbachi:
Nothing less about love...its either u're in love or out of love.

You think?. What of the ones that doesn't care even if he/she walks away?. Were they never in love?.

Franzinni:
The truth is we live to experience even though sometimes they are unpleasant.. Bros there is no silver bullet when it comes to relationship... But my advice is use the same techniques women have been using for men since the time of eve...

Basically just keep your heart away from your head but make it look like your heart is on your sleeves ... In other words .. Play the game ... And don't play to lose ..

Bad advice I know ... But when woman show you once you kinda learnt fast ...

Hmmm

So i'm still nursing the pain i felt when she called it a 'quit' for no good reason.
And i was wondering how to keep the large portion of my heart(feelings & emotions) in check and to myself whenever i decide to move on with another woman so if she decides to dissapoint me too i won't feel the kind of pain i felt in my previous relationship.
In other words "how do i avoid too much pain when heart broken?".
Note: i don't play games and i have a fragile heart. I'm a loverboy and i don't intend changing because of anybody. When i love, i love for real.



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Phenomenal16:
U want my sympathy
I ain't giving it u

Just say your mind please. Exactly as it is in your mind. No pity me abeg.... I know say i f-up but the feeling was strong. Though it reduced drastically today after the bashing and advice i received from some people in this forum. I beleive with time i'll completely 4get about her. Thank God i'm in a far away place for now, which will make it easier 4 me....

Stacyomolola:
Thanks honey forget about ur married first love and move on

Sure i will, thanks

Eulalia:
Its not something I can explain. Its mysterious and spiritual. Only God understands what really happened cos ours was made in heaven.
Gods' will be done.

Hmmm!

Jflex07:
Hazard please act like your name, let her be your past man, she doesn't deserve you, you deserve better.. But wait oh, you mumu sha, no be small.

Lol. Thanks

Stacyomolola:
Yea done reading, just dont know what to tell u, how can u allow a lady play u to such extent.
Many singles are there waiting for u but u choose to love a married mother of two and more loading(u just wanted a complicated life).
U have now seen her true colours, ur heart just finished its factory reset, now u are back to ur senses and just so u know, u shouldnt feel guity, u re not the cause of her marital failure.
U must not always be with who disvirgined u forever,if it works fine, if it doesnt find ur way. How were u even able to fall in love with a mother of two ...Hmmm
CONTINUE UR LIFE AND STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED WOMEN. SINGLES ARE MANY!!! U ARE UR BEST ADVISER.

Thanks honey.... Happy birthday once again to you, i appreciate.

Stacyomolola happy birthday to you

Frankicent:
I can't continue reading this D*mb ASD story from a St*p*d and desperate guy.


How can you be so so F**lish? Have you heard of white knighting??


You been used like a Tr@sh can.. go find your own b@be.. M*GU

Hian! Your own worst sha. Thanks anyway.

Eulalia:
His trunk calls His voice His lovely eyes His intelligence and kind heart.
Miss you Emi.

Why did u quit then?

BlackShit:
Please come and borrow my phone and finish this. We have other things to do.

Shit no vex . I'm done, please do your part

AarewaMafia:
OP come and continue

I'm done sir. What do you think?

bonnyhope:
There are alot of single girls outside
Go and find one, leave married ones alone

Sorry sir. The deed has been done already, all i need now is your advice biko.

Stacyomolola:
@hazardman please be fast am already filled with suspense

Hey! Have u finished reading? Come and tell me what you think

Emekaossai:
Receive sense

I'm beginning to receive it now bro. Come and impact more sense now

4reala:
Op, which one be this suspense nah?

Lol. Oga i don finish am

Drince:
But how is this possible? Are you not that "hazardman" slimcase like shouting before he starts a song? How come you are using button phone?

Lol! Oga my button phone served its purpose

immaq8:
oga hazard where are you? come & finish the story with your small button phone after several years in abroad.

Done and dusted please do your part

omooba969:
Strong thing loading...Op is probably churning out stuff playing in his head.
Early stage of schizophrenia.

Lol! Please it's real

Freelane33:
Hazardman indeed . May we not see hazardous hazard on this forum

I'm done bro

baralatie:

so because Buhari extended lockdown,

you decided to make yourself develop "mumu_19" symptoms Ba!

OK as you wish,do it.

I'm done

Teaveapoet:
What advice do you want?

I'm done

Easybela:
this boredom is really setting some people's brain upside down

Please I'm done

Tina001:
Just retrace your steps. It's never too late. Anything you do, DO NOT GO BACK no matter what even if she comes back begging, she will still take you for a fool las las.

I just pray you listen

Do i have a choice other than listening to the people that showed me the easiest route out of the tunnel? I go listen o. I've been living in darkness all this while.

Dobson43:
First of all, thanks for your candor.
Back to the matter at hand, I was a bit harsh on my submission concerning your relationship. But I want to point out something to you. Concerning matters of heart, you need to abide by some sort of selection process before you go ahead to date any lady. What do you look for in a lady? You have to give that much thought. Don't put emphasis on skin beauty.

If you give in to any lady without first studying her. You have yourself to blame. These points would come handy when you have done healing.


You need to develop yourself especially in terms of expressing yourself. You can't hide under the cloak of been shy and allow yourself to be feed Garbage. You also have to build your self worth. You can't be seen with an adulteress. Who doesn't know the father of her baby

Wow! Thanks, i'll work on all you've just pointed out to me....

[quote author=Tina001 post=88466330]If not that i have spent too much time reading this, i would have "waka pass". What kind of super story is this??

Should I say you are daft or mumu or what? Forgive me if i sound insulting but How can a grown up man of 24-25 be doing this to himself all in the name of love. What kind of love is that? So what if she defiled you? You gon eat her poo cos of that?. Guy grow up, sleeping with a married lady and pregnant girl when you are not responsible for the pregnancy. Haba na your dick dey control you, this is not love.

Go and look for a single girl and stay far away from the girl and her family, you didn't contribute to the failed marriage
Lol! Kuku kill me o. Chai!
You said nothing but the truth sha. I really appreciate...I'm just realising how foolish i might have been all this while. And what she might have been thinking of me althrough...

drizzy22:
which kind super story be this. op. you mumu sha

No be small and i just dey realise am [quote author=drizzy22 post=88460271]