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marvelck:
There are some ladies that before they eventually get married, they would have slept with several guys. to the extent that they may not even know the actual number of men they've slept with, remember all of them or even know the names of some of the men they've slept with. having met, wined, dined and done enough "roforofo" with enough guys while seeking for either love, comfort or fun.

So?
Do they end up being bad wives or what?
Marriage is not about how many cars have parked in one's garrage but about one's ability to keep a home and tolerate all the wahala that comes with marriage.

Very hilarious.

@OP
How do we help you? Or are you still in love with her or him?

Not a good idea. I wouldn't do it.
What if the company folds up and they are both out of jobs at the same time? Bad situation.
Being in eachother's space 24 hours a day doesn't sound very interesting.

Lol@MRbrownJ

If OP is disorganised and crying because his gf is having dinner with her course mate, I really wonder what he will do if he catches her having sex with a guy or if she tells him she is in love with someone else!

As someone has pointed out, that she's having a meal with a guy doesn't mean she is cheating. If you don't trust her then there's no basis for a relationship. Stop 'policing' the poor girl jor; allow her enjoy campus experience.

ikhideman:
@kennyisaac & hbabe:

Don't mind those who are talking ignorantly, you guys are right on point!!! Don't forget the Bible says , "people perish for lack of knowledge"(Hosea 4:6) If these ignorant critics (no apologies) knew better, they would do better and talk better. "The just shall live by his OWN faith"; not according to how people think he should live.

Enjoy God & His Blessings that make Rich & adds no sorrow with it! CHEERS,

Thank you jare.
Their arguement is like saying because my mai-guard/driver/househelp are too poor to send their kids to expensive schools then I should not send mine.
All fingers are not equal and whoever threshes the vine should eat thereof.
People forget that it is a church, a place for religious affairs and not the world bank or Unicef offering aids to all and sundry.
Church na business!

justwise:
That is not the issue, nobody is saying that pastors should be poor and beg food on the street but its immoral for a pastor to buy FOUR private jets and own houses in London and USA. Even if he was given those private jets and houses, its morally wrong as a man of God to engage in show of wealth while his follower are dying of hunger.

It has been argued that owning a string of jets and a house in every major city in the world is a necessity.  Also most of the these big MOGs have foundations/departments that help the needy.
TB Joshua pays school fees for fatherless children in his congregation and also gives allowances to widows; I am sure others do the same.
We can't help every one we come across and the fact that there are poor members in the church should not stop a pastor from enjoying the fruit of his labour.

@OP
I like ewa agoyin.
The recipe looks easy, I will try it out this weekend.
Thanks.

The power outage has been on for over a decade so why bother explaining! They should get on with the job of providing better power supply.
We need result and not reasons.

My faith

Christ became poor that we may rich so no harm in His servants being so rich.  BTW how many of us want to have a wretched man as our pastor or General Overseer?
Who wants his GO walking the streets of Lagos with tattered shoes and torn 1920's suits?

Ekpoma1:
Now i know the reason why this guy always smile while presiding as d then speaker. God go punish u dia.

He always had the thoughts of his 'loot' on his mind.

How embarassing!
I did wonder how we managed to beat them so much. Now I know.

Ground for level for that guy if no be winchi people dem

Engineering (electronics or mechanical)