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nah. i think i've had enough

continue enjoying yourself mama

No one lied to me jare
no grudges
just laughing at myself for thinking . .
no mind me o

nevermind

Smile.

nkan lo nbe.  twas a show in naija.
not stubborn. just don't find fun in being played or lied 2.
how's your summer going . . .

me sef i go hmmm
nkan nbe

nothing. can't make you feel anymore guilty than myself, i no go worry you again.

okay sorry to bother you.

you snake

blah blah blah. yes i agree with him.

KarmaMod:
abi he should adjust his own wiring to be at least 80% my dream dude

your idea of matriarchy?

maybe she realised she was attached to the man who popped her cherry?
maybe she felt like she had to take him back after all the apologies?
it was all her choice to make, she made that choice.

by the way

When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it.

LOL

LAKANYE~:

EVEN A MAN WEY NO COME FROM NIGERIA DEY TALK ABOUT NIGERIA??

what's your point dumbass?

Ruby_Pearl:
You lost me at "Ms A".

Uhh I guess I'll help you out, whatever.

negro is saying the man's personality/mood will change relative to the type of person he's with at a given time.

Uche2nna:
Beats me

People treat life like a linear graph. If X equals this , then Y must be equal to that. Truth is that in life it is different strokes for different folks.

like a y = 100 graph where y represents the man's authority (on a scale with a range of 100) over his wife

then i'll say: why did you marry him

KarmaMod:
[/quote]I understand this TOH, but that's purely speculative.  Can we be sure they're not trying all the positions in the book?  Even if they have tried all the positions, her fears and guilt could hinder her satisfaction.

Hope she comes back to more info.


[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=85040.msg2549415#msg2549415 date=1216869503]*sigh* you and your wahala sha.
what is whatever now?

Don't worry o. just ignore what i said.

Ruby_Pearl:
Confess to the man jor.
He has a right to know.
Now what happens after telling him is your own wahala

I agree, but whatever.

motun, no mind the guy. he get small mental problem.


motun i have replied your email again today, making it two emails i have sent you.

KarmaMod:
maybe he's romantic?

I think some guys are so naive that they believe what works on one woman "should" work on others. Perhaps he's not considering what she likes or maybe there are just no sexual sparks between them

Or there's a psychological barrier preventing her from enjoying intercourse with her husband. This is most likely another reason she chose to test the waters with her ex.
She was fucking this man before she married him but it took until marriage to realize that she doesn't enjoy his penis?

Queenisha:
What effort is he making to have her enjoy intimate times with him?

How do we know he's not making the efforts to help her enjoy intimate times with her? Isn't the voicemail a sort of hint that he can perform?

Didn't you hear her say the man has a weapon of destruction ?
This girl is not made of wood,or is she?

This is more reason why she should clear her conscience and speak the koko.

I'm not excusing her cheating but clearly she's not getting it at home and it desn't look like he's concerned about that.
She cheated once (she says), it's only amatter of time and she'll have her undercover lover on a regular basis,he already has his.
na today?

She's getting it at home but if her mind prevents her from enjoying the intimacy, there isn't much to correct until she fixes her mind.

AnthonyKil:
Hey sexy. Waddup ?

back off

motun_rayo:
I'm loving this list. . . LOL Toooo funny. . . especially the punishments

motun see as you dey play me? after 100 years of email i no get ansa.

DeepZone:
For a LovePeddler is a deep pit And an adulterous woman is a narrow well.---proverbs 23:27

You can preach from dusk till dawn, you will not turn back the hands of time or undo what has happened.

DeepZone:
Didn't i also say that i'm not against confession as long as the physical and mental properties in her home remains ideal. Duh

But then you turned around and tried to rationalize her conealing the information from him because he hasn't suspected her.  When did suspicion become the only solitary reason to maintain marital honesty?

Sista don't get too distracted by the naysayers, at least your parents had that much needed mutual respect and understanding for one another.

KarmaMod:
Do their conscience EVER trouble them?

Why else hasnt her husband mentioned his own sin.

You can ask that question from now till tomorrow morning and never figure out the answer.  Why did she set out on a revengeful rampage thinking two wrongs will make a right?

DeepZone:
So you are saying that men should zip it anytime they cheat on their wives even if their conscience is troubling them?

Didn't you just say she should zip it because he's not suspecting her?

Orimili:
It's not fair, but neither was cheating in the first place. There is a time in all this where people have to stop worrying about each others feelings and start being truthful. The relationship is only going to get worse if you don't confess. At least when you do, you can now focus on where the relationship went wrong, and work on trying to fix that.

You mean after the guy decides the relationship continues, right?  Cos that's the only way she's ever going to have dreams of ever trying to 'fix it'

They say the truth hurts.  But lies can hurt more.  This example is no different.  The more you lie the more you pile on the hurt.  You will never forgive yourself.

nadda mehn

It's iight, don't worry about trying to appease me. we are not on the same page. you win some you lose some.