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!!!!PLS I NEED ALL THE RESPONSE I CAN GET!!!!! What will u do if ur newly wedded wife was raped by armed robber on ur first nite in front of u after waiting for 3yrs to have her, since she was a virgin and planned on braking it on the wedding nite. Due to the the phycological trauma they could not have sex and After few months she found out she is pregnant and has been advised by the doctor not to have an abortion. What will be ur respose to this situation

I think it is kinda nice knowing that my man knows my lil seceat and is willing to live wit it more so it add a lil spice to our relationship

It is vey possible to fall in love with someone u talk to on the phone,when u talk on the phone with the person u just make up a picture in ur head and if the person is understanding u will fall with time

Baby daddy or not u have to be carefull about this man of urs or early grave awaits u

Well my dear sometimes love suks and it makes u do crazy things

tayo_ast

breathless:
Poster, for u 2 come 2 dis forum 2 ask, it seems u`re considering it already. Try make your current r/ship work. Take a pen n list d gd n not so dg things abt your partner. if the gd top d list then keep on wt it, if not, still try work out d differences. All r/ships av there own peculiar issues (including marriages) and urs is no exception. Does dat means if u were in a marital r/ship dat is having issues, u`ll be considering a luv advance(s) from any other man?
Poster, how `ll u convince your cousin or any other person close 2 both of u dat u`ve not had an eye 4 d guy in question? U `re only using her bn married as an excuse 2 fulfill dat fantasy. Pls do not consider his proposal, because wen nxt he has issues, he`ll relocate again n be toasting your mum (pls 4give my reference), Above pray 2 God 4 direction n use your head. Cheers

thank u very much it is posters like u we need here on this forum thanks for ur advice i appreciate it but the post is been very long and i have made it clear to the guy in question that we cant have any relationship together
so since then we have been best friends. thanks any way

obilizy:
, u are just a simple cheat, u "re in a relationship and have the shameless boldness
to tell us u "re indirectly having a hot pant for someone dat dig u wateva to his satisfaction
dont come here to make d story luk favourable, i know u type, u "re already jigging d guy
mumu

u are just about the the most silly person on this forum when u read a post and u dont have a meaningfull thing to add u just shut your mouth dont try to make people notice u by insulting others it only makes u foolish. and dont u ever comment on me post

would you marry a beautiful gal with attitude problem or an ugly gal with a gud heart

generally we shouldn't but when the gal in question is beautiful

i know it is difficult to brake up with someone u love and been together for yrs, but when it very obvious the guy doesn't want her any more then she should learn how to control her emotion and move on. but i don't get this part how can a man be dating a gal for 4 yrs not months or weeks and he doesn't even know where the galfriend lives then that's pathetic. the gal should av know from the on set that the guy is out to play her. u are her friend and i believe u want the best for her thats y u brought this matter here, but u should try point things ut to her tell the hard way i think thats the only way she'll understand.

well dear if u want to try other men to satisfy ur sexual fantasies definitely not with u man's friend it is very wrong and it makes u cheap.u should also try to control ur sexual urges.

let it out and u will be fine. take it easy, lighten yourself up. men trouble is not worth killing your self for, i know u are heart broken just look at it as it's not meant to be it is better now than latter.

i must say u need to stay off any relationship thing for now and work on yourself build up ur self confidence again cos am really sure u have not gotten over this ex man of urs and probably will see every other one as same. so i suggest u give ur self a brake a vacation or change of environment will do. sort out ur self by the time u get back u'll feel refreshed and gathered to start off any relationship if u so please.

what games can you play with your girl friend / boy friend over the phone.  suggestion please

i know what it feels like being in ur situation but anyways it is very obvious that the gurl doesn't know wat she wants yet. i just think u should move on find another gurl it mustn't be the room mate cos she might feel u just want to make her jealous or even create enmity between the 2 friends. i suggest u just let them be and find some other person with less pressure and all

u just said u cant marry the other gal then go for the one that u know u can. marriage is not wat u walk in and walk out make up ur mind and do the right thing cos u have the answers to ur question right in ur palm.

all u need do is help her build up her self confident u make ur woman what u want her to be and it takes love

doesn't look like u are needing advice from any one cos u got it all figured out, u said it was a mistake well i don't think so u knew she is her sister and u made ur move. u said u loved her i again dont think u did, cos if u did a little bit u wont think of cheating on her with her sis even if u needed to cheat on her. also i bet it is not a one time thing so u shouldn't call it a mistake .

it is very possible that he loves one very very much and cant do without the other one cos she provides most of his needs. he should get up and be a man, know wat he wants and go for it. i know people are different and u may like some personality in one person than the other but it is definitely not possible U LOVE 2 AT A GO

we spend at least 30 minutes in the morning and 3 hours in the evening and so i dont miss him much cos it makes me feel like he is always around

abasifo:
The Most Powerful 3 Words Phrases


The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just three little But Very Powerful words:




I'll Be There[/color]

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase " I'll be there. " Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.




I Miss You[color=#990000]

Perhaps more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."




I Respect You / I Trust You[/color]

Respect and trust is another way of showing love. Its conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships




Maybe You're Right[color=#990000]

This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting maybe "I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.




Please Forgive Me[/color]

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.




I Thank You[color=#990000]
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.




Count On Me[/color]

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."




Let Me Help[color=#990000]

The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.




I Understand You[/color]

People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.




Go For It[color=#990000]

We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."




I Love You[b][/b]

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words "I love you."

THESE WORDS ARE REALLY POWERFUL ONLY WEN U MEET A LADY THAT APPRECIATE U

U HAVE A RIGHT TO WHATEVER U FEEL AND IT IS BECOS UR HUSBAND IS NOT THERE WITH U. BUT KNOW IT IS ALL INFATUATION IT IS NOT REAL . TEMPTATIONS WILL COME BUT IT TAKES U TO OVERCOME IT. IT IS ALSO A MIND SET, TAKE UR MIND OFF IT START SEEING HIM LIKE ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE U WORK WITH. AND IT IS FOR SURE A TEST OF FAITH. BE WISE

u have to let go of the past and look into the future, many bad things must have happened in the past but don't let it affect ur happiness. it is ur birth right to be happy u owe it to ur self. start learning how to let go of the past and embrace the future . better still consult a therapist or a counselor it will do u a great good.

good luck

SERIOUSLY I JUST THINK IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE U MEET THE PERSON. IT IS THE PERSONALITY THAT REALLY MATTERS. MY FRIEND IS GETTING MARRIED WITH THE PERSON SHE MET ON FACEBOOK. IT WORKS SOMETIMES