₦airaland Forum

van der jo:
@heather,
I will advice you try and make ur relationship work,why is not working?it is not right heather expect you are not a Nigerian,.

BEING A NIGERIAN DOESN'T MEAN AM A PROF WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIP. AM DOING ME BEST BUT IT IS A TWO WAY THING IF U KNOW WAT I MEAN.

AM NOT SAYING BECAUSE THIS OTHER GUY CAME ALONG I JUST DISCOVERED ME RELATIONSHIP ISN'T WORKING IT'S BEEN THERE.

justwise:
@heather ,

Is he a distance uncle or very close uncle? U know in Nig we call alot of pple Uncle.

Well my  inlaw younger sister got married to her elder sister's husband younger brother and they are still married till now. Hope that makes sense

HE IS ME MA'S KID BROTHER {ME UNCLE} THE THING HERE NOW IS THAT HE HAD AN AFFAIR WITH MY COUSIN THOUGH SHE IS NOW MARRIED. IS IT RIGHT TO HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY

smooooooth:
incase you didnt notice, she is talking about her father's brother's wife's brother, who was her cousin's ex-bf. na wa o.

thanx for the advice

Lexiwhite:
If his hands go in his side pockets everytime u're around, he's probably hiding something

THAT'S JUST IN SANE

dose it ever happen

it really happens but let me ask this question HOW DO U KNOW WHEN A MAN LOVES U

u cant eat ur cake and have it. u said No cos of pride or maybe he is not ur kinda man .but he finds someone that likes him the way he is and happens to be ur friend LET THEM BE, like the old saying goes ONE MANS FOOD IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON. guess u don't have a choice

I think it is time to stop searching, concentrate on U. add value to ur self and the right man will come along.

well my dear it is better it happened now than latter, u are still courting and she still have a right to whatever decision she makes now. i guess u should actually give her time and u give ur self time as well i know both of u will come up with the very best of ur thinking

sweetheart, ur EX is in the past that's exactly y he is an EX. it is hard to let go but u just have to look into a brighter future {i have been there } and i know wat ur going thru. going into another relationship right away is not the best idea u have to think about it. u don't go into it becos u want someone to make u feel better about ur past relationship. if this new guy is actually genuine then he'll come around but if he doesn't sort ur self out, give urself time as well and prepare for the right man to come in.   

wishing u the very best.

Happily dating but complicated.

it looks like it is the order of the day now

sweetpain:
No idea. The moment I finished typing the I word. Thank God its not my hand that is frozen.

ur hand should have freezed with it

sweetpain:
It will make her heal, come to terms with what transpired and then move on.

Ritual thing? I thought that should come from any one of our many ijebu bro and sis in the house.

People strong o. My PC has frozen. Are you Ijebu?

y is ur PC freezing

sweetpain:
Ritual perspective all the way from ireland. Na waaa.

All you peeps castigating a babe for putting up pics, una they craze.Things must be different in a Nigerian forum.

NL used to have babes with nice pics. They 've all been pulled due to peeps making haunting comments because themselves are so ugly they dont want to be seen. Her pics is not what this thread is about.

@OP
Yes my dear, you are a prostitute. Take heart. You are not alone. There are thousands whether part time or full time here on NL.

in ireland though, but that doesn't stop me from being a Nigerian. calling her a prostitute is not just fair the deed has been done. calling her names will not help issue

the money is for a  job well done but also it is wrong for u to have collected the money, be wise,

what if u have been used for ritual

come to think of it u have ur pix on ur profile meeeeeen u done f****k up

thanks, i appreciate ur comment

am in ireland not in nigeria he being in the uk has nothing to do with this, i kinda like him but dont have any feelings for him, wat am saying is it right because he has dated my cousin

buy her a car

it is actually not working

^{Then why do those who do it do it?}


becos they are despirados

last yr my uncle got married and the wife's younger brother met  my cousin on the process of the whole show, they started dating they told me all about it i said it was nice that am in full support of the whole affair as long as the guy is serious and loves her. they call me on the fone sometimes. the relationship lasted for 4 months until wen the guy had a business set back and all, they broke up cos the guy couldn't cope with anything then even though my cousin was supportive. last month he called me and said he is now in uk we started talking exchanged e mail address and all now he wants to date me, do u think it is proper though my cousin is now married. although am in a relationship at the moment . THE BIG QUESTION HERE IS; IS IT RIGHT FOR ME TO DATE MY COUSIN'S EX EVEN THOUGH SHE IS NOW MARRIED.

have you tried samsung toco ultra

u shouldnt have a problem with that, it didnt work for u guys dosent mean it cant work for ur friend and her. where i think there should be problem is wen u guys are still together which u are not any more and that gives her every right to marry any body she so pleases. one more thing dose ur pal know she is ur ex i assume he dose and still dont have a problem with that then u should not

she dosent love u. she only needs u for her lonely day wen the other guy is not around besides he is not her ex cos if he is she wouldnt be having sex with him. u are just a side thing someone to talk to wen the main person is not around the earlier u figure this out the better for u. one more thing i dont think u can have her

common man be serious with ur self a 16yrs old gal. it is so very illegal to date a 16 yrs old gal not to talk more of u worrying about her seeing someone else, if it were to be in a mordenized country u will be jailed for 3 yrs. more over she is bound to meet people, but if ur relationship with her really means any thing to her u will still remain her num 1, u are just feeling insecure. sort ur self out first, become a better man , cos i think that will make u feel better.

i really think she is lying to protect her image before u, if u look into ur relationship with her she is not very open with u.