AMBODE'S PROJECT

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together.

Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august. He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them (parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend (girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy.

Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

The Truth is nothing will tell you that will change your mind, for you to ask such it shows the guy has money which makes it hard for you to leave him, is he the only man on heart? You are just 22 and he has never asked you when can he meet your parents, please don't full your self, have you ever gone to his place and rejected sex when you where serving?, my guess is probably u give him everything he wants during sex
Use your head don't let anyone turn you to a sex machine in d name of love

sadi78:
Senator Buruji Kashamu is dead!
He died today due to complication of Covid19, at First Cardiology Consultants, in Lagos. May his gentle soul rest in peace. I pray his family and loved ones the fortitude to bear this heavy loss.



https://twitter.com/benmurraybruce/status/1292146377468895232?s=19‬

VANITY UPON VANITY, EVEN MONEY CANNOT SAVE HIM FROM DEATH, WHAT IS LEFT FOR HIM NOW IS TO ACCOUNT FOR EITHER THE GOOD OR BAD THINGS HE HAS DONE

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

The Devil you know today is better than the Angel you have not meet...From everything you have said mark my words your relationship with this second guy will be worthless the moment he sleeps with and then you will now understand the value of who you are living for who you don't know but you think you do, if he is a good guy ask yourself this question
Why is he single?
Please don't let your selfishness take away your joy, u never added the guy is "handsome and rich"
But they are the key factors driving you to the second guy

ADAM AND EVE

gracegrace668:
Hello everyone. Please, I'm not a newbie on NL. I opened this account to protect my identity.

I never thought I'd use this word to ever describe myself. Sadly, I am an alcoholic. It has taken me a great deal of embarrassment and pain to finally come to this conclusion.

I'm a female in my early 20's. One of the first things people comment on when we have a conversation is how intelligent I am. Good enough, I fair well academically and have done so for as long as I can remember. There is this dark side of me however. I am an alcohol addict.

I've read about my condition, especially at times when I swear I would never indulge in excessive drinking anymore. A person like me is called a functioning alcoholic. I started drinking as a way to forget some emotional and troubles but as I see, this in no way helps especially longterm.

I drink everything from wine, spirits to liquor. I go out with friends that drink. I go out to drink alone. I buy some alcohol to drink at home. I go from laying on the bed to walking out to buy alcohol. I just drink, drink and drink. I'm very ashamed of this. Sincerely, I want to stop. I want to make more meaningful decisions and relationships.

Please, how do I go about this? What can I do? Is there someone/a Group that helps with this kind of condition? Please help me.

Please help me move this to the permanent site. I'll be reading for suggestions.

I think you need help, DM me let v a discussion 08120246353

This is a lie and a setup

As if I did not serve in Edo state, guess u are from Exo state I guess.

AutoReportNG:
Sometimes we really can't appreciate the beauty of a landscape until when we view it from the outer space. Edo state has been in the news lately and this is due to the road construction and beautification the state governor embarked on recently.

This is Oliha Market axis of Siluko Road... Ehaekpen/TV road is first dualized road project by Governor Godwin Obaseki's administration. These are some of the drone images of some major roads at Siluko, Edo State.

Images courtesy: OB360 Media

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Source:
https://www.autoreportng.com/2019/05/drone-view-of-some-major-roads-in-edo.html

isrecole:
OSUN RESIDENTS DIDN'T PROTEST
It wasn't Osun residents who protested, APC members in Osun state protested. If it were Osun residents, the protests would have been a spontaneous reaction to the Tribunal's verdict but APC took ONE WEEK to organize their members. As a fact, OSUN INDIGENES are indeed happy that ECONOMIC VAMPIRES and Godfather based in Lagos have been sent packing

I wonder what they have been doing since the judgement has been delivered

The solution is not to quit, mouth or body odour is not an incurable disease, if you do love your partner , advice her to take her bath regularly and use body spray and if it mouth odour tell her to brush regularly or see a dentist.... The truth is what if he or she is either your brother or your sister nko...

mosesbola:
Awwwwwnn...


This is so lovely, 2019 must not pass me by.... Any serious guy for date?

Just me alone

Cute, especially the white