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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 12:15am On Sep 03, 2022
Sauces oo. Please who is leaving on Sunday??
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:58pm On Aug 31, 2022
I've really missed NL BBN bants. Glad to be here!
HealthRe: USMLE Whatsapp Group by Helloflife: 10:42pm On Apr 22, 2022
ElPhoche:
I saw your mail. I have been really pretty busy for a while now. I would hopefully get in touch with you by the end of the month or early next month when I am done with my exams. I would send you a mail soon though
Hi Doc pls can I send you an email? I have some questions regarding the USMLE
CareerRe: Medical Doctors' Forum: Let Us Know You! by Helloflife: 8:32pm On Apr 22, 2022
practicalclass:
Please use the nairaland access to send me a PM. Will reach you through the PM. The bbm pin is still valid too.
Hello, I found your handle while searching up USMLE on here. Please could I Dm you, I'm a 500l medical student interested in taking the USMLE and I'd love to get advice from you. Thanks.
CareerRe: My Job Is Ruining My Relationship, How Can I Go About It? by Helloflife: 12:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Pls my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time. I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.
She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.
This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .
Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.
What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.
Hi Chief, I'm really sorry about your relationship but I'm a medical student in my penultimate year with intentions of coming to work in the US after school.
I would really like to link up with you so I could learn more about the process. Can I email you chief?
RomanceRe: Pouring Out My Feelings by Helloflife(op): 10:54am On Oct 31, 2021
Iyaebe:
Too much emotions for an ordinary boyfriend, never love a man truly or deeply till he marries you,go into relationship with your brains functioning well at it peaks,dump without remorse if you notice any red flag. The one's with too much emotions in any relationship are always at the receiving end.Men never appreciate women who are too emotional about them,it awakens some demon in them and you become a thrash and their play toy, they appreciate and love women who are hard and show less emotions towards them,they are weird that way.I have lost count of the numbers of men I have toiled with their emotions(especially the bad ones who think they are smart and players) but they won't still go,they still hang around keeping faith,that's how they are weird.So be strong and hard hearted when dealing with men else you become a play thing and a shadow of yourself in the long run while they move on like an eagle who has successfully conquered its prey.Be wise and strong so as to avoid making lifetime mistakes common with overly emotional women. Shalom
Thank you
RomanceRe: Pouring Out My Feelings by Helloflife(op): 10:34am On Oct 31, 2021
Palema007:
Well... Today isn't the last day of 2020.

Next time you copy and paste, please have some dignity to edit.
It's an original work posted in retrospect.
It was written in December 31 2020 but only posted now because I'm now ready to share it.
RomancePouring Out My Feelings by Helloflife(op): 8:13am On Oct 31, 2021
31st December 2020
I'm here sitting in my room watching a movie and all those memories come flooding back. 
Will I ever healhuh The one question I keep asking myself that I dont know if I'll ever get an answer to.
It all just comes flooding back. The heartaches, the gas lighting, the disrespect, the trauma.
I felt like I was losing it 2019.
I was so not my self. I lost myself that year and since then I've been trying so hard to find myself.
I really can't believe everything I did. The begging, the overlooking of obvious details,the constant questioning of what was wrong with me. If I had something that was preventing someone from loving me.
It's been over a year now,yet I still haven't moved on. I still cry when I think of the whole experience
I gave my all, I really did. I thought he was the one. I thought it was meant to be. He made me feel soooooo special late 2018.
What did I ever do to him to deserve that kind of treatment.  My heart hurts badly as I'm writing this right now.
I feel like I'm still lost,deep down.
Gas lighting; I learnt this word in 2020. I had no idea that this was the word for what I was passing through 2019.
Why did I fall so deeply?
I mean the subliminals were there.
He said a lot of undercover words but I didnt listen well. I actually thought that he loved me
He really toyed with my emotions. From not claiming me in public to letting me go so easily
I wonder how I fell so deeply. Now I can't even imagine falling in love again cause my heart feels like i was stabbed a thousand times.
How it feels to love someone and not be loved back?
I will keep on trying ,trying to heal
I will cry when i feel like,when I'm happy itll show.

I just hope that someday I will be healed, and I'll be able to open my heart to love again.

Today is the last day of 2020.

"I only settled for you" one of the most painful words to say to someone that loves you.
"I only missed it not you" Very painful.
I blame myself sometimes. Maybe I shouldn't have .maybe,maybe. So many maybes. I wish he had never been in my posting group.  I wished I had never talked to him. I wished I had  never believed all the things he told me
"I've tried,its not working "
"Its not you, its me"
"You deserve better than me"
All these words are words of a confused human.
"I dunno if you can wait till the feelings come around again"
Why me? Why cant I get someone to love me, to really love me and not just someone that'll keep me as an option.

Love; it's a very painful thing. Its beautiful when it works our but if it doesn't especially when you give it your all.
Especially when you invest your time,your emotions, your all and you find out that it all meant nothing to him. It really hurts. It really really hurts.
The fact that he just saw me as another one of his conquests, the fact that he probably never loved me all that while when I gave him my all. It just makes me very sad, very very sad.
How can I get this feeling out of my heart cause I dont think I can hold on to this for much longer.
I think I need to pray to God.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:42pm On Sep 29, 2021
Geezeem:
Your Juju pass patriots own? undecided
Make we test am see now cheesy
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:37pm On Sep 29, 2021
Ambber:
Pere is now leading, the gap is too wide for the fat Whitemoney to bridge.. we can afford to do charity now for Whitemoney, all patriots drop pity votes for Whitemoney. let's show them we are charitable.. Pere is leading already
As a patriot I will drop some pity votes for Whitemoney.
He has been cooking for my fave Pere all these while.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:34pm On Sep 29, 2021
To all Whitemoney haters and lovers in disguise;

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 10:14am On Sep 28, 2021
WMG!!! You all are doing great.

Pls let's keep pushing for Mazi cause 60% is the goal.

Whitemoney for the 90million!!! kiss kiss
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:22pm On Sep 24, 2021
padkan101:
From hot “sauce”

1. Pere

2. Whitemoney

3. Queen

4. Angel

5. Nini

6. Saga


Bookmark for Sunday

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:18pm On Sep 24, 2021
safarigirl:
1st- 50%

2nd- 20%

I just wan give una idea of wetin results fit be by next week
Ewooo. For realhuh grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 9:59am On Sep 24, 2021
Threebear:
Team Peré we are voting Peré in the finals .

Don't let them convince you to vote ogogorose .

She has as much chance as winning as Peré ...which is basically zilch .


We can't let Peré come out to an embarrassing percentage .
grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 10:53pm On Sep 23, 2021
WMG Dey scatter Instagram, twitter, Facebook and Nairaland this night. Only one fanbase oo.
Whitemoney Geng I hail una o grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:48pm On Sep 19, 2021
unyimecc:
To avoid going to bed hungry eat before the live eviction show o! e get y
This thing happened to me last year grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 2:30pm On Sep 19, 2021
Battle of the person with the accurate source going on between Threebear and Safarigirl.
We shall see who wins tonight grin grin grin
RomancePouring Out My Feelings by Helloflife(op): 11:10am On May 12, 2021
31st December 2020.
I'm here sitting in my room watching a movie and all those memories come flooding back. 

Will I ever healhuh The one question I keep asking myself that I dont know if I'll ever get an answer to.
It all just comes flooding back. The heartaches, the gas lighting, the disrespect, the trauma.

I felt like I was losing it 2019.
I was so not my self. I lost myself that year and since then I've been trying so hard to find myself.
I really can't believe everything I did. The begging, the overlooking of obvious details,the constant questioning of what was wrong with me. If I had something that was preventing someone from loving me.

It's been over a year now,yet I still haven't moved on. I still cry when I think of the whole experience
I gave my all, I really did. I thought he was the one. I thought it was meant to be. He made me feel soooooo special late 2018.

What did I ever do to him to deserve that kind of treatment.  My heart hurts badly as I'm writing this right now.
I feel like I'm still lost,deep down.
Gas lighting; I learnt this word in 2020. I had no idea that this was the word for what I was passing through 2019.

Why did I fall so deeply?
I mean the subliminals were there.
He said a lot of undercover words but I didnt listen well. I actually thought that he loved me
He really toyed with my emotions. From not claiming me in public to letting me go so easily
I wonder how I fell so deeply. Now I can't even imagine falling in love again cause my heart feels like i was stabbed a thousand times.

How it feels to love someone and not be loved back?
I will keep on trying ,trying to heal
I will cry when i feel like,when I'm happy itll show.

I just hope that someday I will be healed, and I'll be able to open my heart to love again.

Today is the last day of 2020.

"I only settled for you" one of the most painful words to say to someone that loves you.
"I only missed it not you" Very painful.
I blame myself sometimes. Maybe I shouldn't have .maybe,maybe. So many maybes. I wish he had never been in my posting group.  I wished I had never talked to him. I wished I had  never believed all the things he told me
"I've tried,its not working "
"Its not you, its me"
"You deserve better than me"
All these words are words of a confused human.
"I dunno if you can wait till the feelings come around again"
Why me? Why cant I get someone to love me, to really love me and not just someone that'll keep me as an option.

Love; it's a very painful thing. Its beautiful when it works out but if it doesn't especially when you give it your all.
Especially when you invest your time,your emotions, your all and you find out that it all meant nothing to him. It really hurts. It really really hurts.
The fact that he just saw me as another one of his conquests, the fact that he probably never loved me all that while when I gave him my all. It just makes me very sad, very very sad.

How can I get this feeling out of my heart cause I dont think I can hold on to this for much longer.
I think I need to pray to God.
CrimeRe: I Was Scammed By Someone Impersonating Kiddwaya by Helloflife: 9:33am On Sep 23, 2020
Sorry for your loss. But how would you even think someone like Kiddwaya would ask you for money sefhuh
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 8:16am On Sep 11, 2020
Sochieke:
God, I hope Kiddwaya doesn't go home on Sunday.

Very entertaining guy, why people don't like him, can't understand.
I hope you voted him cry
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 2:30am On Aug 30, 2020
akthedream2019:
The more I watch this Kiddwaya and Erica's palava, the more I like him..


Erica must be really daft not to have read and understood Kiddwaya.,.


By now, she should have made her decision..... But Kidd "billions" no make am get sense.


I hope Erica is acting though.... But if not, she is very stupid.
Vote for him next week plis dia kiss
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 10:34am On Aug 29, 2020
Threebear what's up with the bottom 4 results for this week na embarassed
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 1:37am On Aug 29, 2020
100naira:
Kidd for this night,


I gat your back next week grin grin
You're a darling kiss
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 1:35am On Aug 29, 2020
MizzD:
Kidd still taking orders

See their mouths

I ordered spicy cheesy

I ordered that

Selfless man. cry
You see it too cry
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 11:24pm On Aug 28, 2020
I heard housemates commending Kidds barbecue. Chef Kidd! cheesy cheesy cheesy
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 6:05pm On Aug 28, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
It was Kidd that I saw that mostly forget his lines ooh
Lucy did not even remember any of her lines grin
She also said she was disappointed in herself for forgetting the lyrics.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:25pm On Aug 26, 2020
Vee's and Tolani's performance for me.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:25pm On Aug 26, 2020
aduntemi:
At all o, why Wathoni no go even sing chorus at the minimum
She can like to dull things undecided
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:23pm On Aug 26, 2020
No energy in this group.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:18pm On Aug 26, 2020
Prince and Nengi seem like they are not free with each other...
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by Helloflife: 3:13pm On Aug 26, 2020
Lol, Ozo and Trikytees group is hella wack grin

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