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0monnak0da:So what the original hebrew name of Jesus since letter J does not exist in the hebrew alphabet? |
laidelaitan:Aunty Laide e n paro. |
its a practice in cross river state. |
BY SAHARAREPORTERS, NEW YORKSEP 17, 2018 In Becheve, a community in Nigeria, girls are forced into early marriages in exchange for monetary favours and for settlement of debts. Becheve is a small tribe in Obanliku Local Government Area in Cross River. It is an eight-hour drive from Calabar, the state capital, and shares the same local government with one of the most populous ranches in Africa, the Obudu Cattle Ranch, now Obudu Mountain Resort. Becheve tribe is now infamous for its tradition of forcing girls into early marriages. In a video published on Monday by BBC, victims of the tradition spoke of how they lose their fundamental rights once being sold or exchanged for gifts. Narrating her ordeal, Dorothy, one of the victims, said people had to hold her down for the man she was sold to to sleep with her. She subsequently got pregnant before she clocked 12. She said: “The man said he’ll sleep with me. I said no because even his children are older than I am. They got people to hold me so that the man would sleep with me. “Three men and one woman held me down as the man slept with me. I got pregnant from there but I was not up to 12 years of age then and too young to be pregnant.” Another victim of the 'money wife' tradition, Happiness, aged 14, also spoke of her ordeal and the emotional abuse she suffered in the house of the man she was sold to. “The man is old. He has children and his grandchildren have also given birth. He used to fight and beat me. One day, he told me that if he kills me, nobody would talk because I am his ‘money woman,'" she said. Explaining why he was involved in the act, one of the buyers said the parents of the girls bring them to his house whenever they think they are fit for marriage. “They’ll bring their children to give you. Some they would bring might be about six or 10 years of age. That means those ones are ready for marriage. They know how to cook and do everything,” he stated. Pastor Akonam Richards, a child rights activist who has been involved in rescuing the children sold out in Becheve community, noted that the tradition gives the man the absolute right to do whatever he wants with the girl. “The culture of Becheve gives the person who bought a girl the absolute right to do whatever he wants with the girl and children given birth to from the relationship. The buyer is the owner of the child. The man can sell his own child; he doesn’t divide the proceeds with anybody,” he said. Maintaining that any child given as a 'money wife' is not allowed to go to school as they have become the man’s “absolute property”, he further stated that the man could give the girl out to another man. “Some of them are put into child labour; some of them can be pimped to other men and when they even come back home with pregnancy, the man is glad because that is money,” he said. Pastor Richards also spoke of one Monica who had had to sell her two granddaughters for her to fix her family juju. He said: “People were dying in the community and she needed more money so she had to give out these children.” Pastor Richards said the practice of 'money wives' is directly related to status acquisition in Becheve as “the more money wives you have, the bigger you are in the community”. He also stated that it is very illegal as there are existing laws both in the state and Nigeria criminalising the act. http://saharareporters.com/2018/09/17/unveiled-cross-river-community-where-girls-are-sold-pay-debts |
Nedfed:State? |
thatigboman:Simple majority can suspend him whilst he face efcc for all the kwara money he looted and police for his offa robbery connection. |
bodex196:Seems you are ok with the slavery for shielding the owners of the farm. How would nairalanders help you call out the management to stop the slavery? |
Charming:Please how did you resolve this? I need to legalise my documents as well. Please help. |
yomyjoe:Please have you been able to resolve this? Please kindly guide me, I need to do the same thing. Thanks |
Too dangerous to be free |
[quote author=Anikulhapo post=55260602][/quote]Your hatred won't remove him on that sit ![]() |
Anikulhapo:You need a brain check. |
9jatriot:Correct. Na u only get the gist. Those saying she allegedly stole 13bn pounds cannot understand the write-up. |
Click like if you think he should step down. Clkck share if you think he should sit tight. |
Ok. We are watching. |
temitemi1:Well, that's your own opinion. He cannot escape justice on this one. Stealing is now corruption and crime has no expiry date. |
All the legal fireworks at the CCT tomorrow would be on how to ensure Saraki does not spend the sallah period in detention which to me is a 50:50. Unfortunately for him, he played into the hands of his prosecutors by not utilising the grace of the CCT chairman to allow for his presence in court based on the undertaking of his lead counsel, Joseph Daudu (SAN)..... His declaration to appear tomorrow would be seen as a mere preemptive move against his arrest as his body language from the on set has shown clear disdain for the CCT. That's my opinion though...don't know how you guys view it. |
Story for the gods.... All services listed can be procured for less than 10million naira. Oga fash...u no try ooo. |
myhoodlink:Dont derail the topic. Bokoharam or insurgency was not mentioned in the report. All the report os asking for is the release of the pwc audit report on thr missing 12 billion dollarals. |
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Please, what do you mean by future development as I am not contemplating to use it for agric business in the future. [quote author=doctorisa]its better to plant cassava. Plantain will eat up the land. And discourage future development.. |
Hello everyone, thanks for your educative posts. Please I am contemplating to acquire 2 acres of land for future purposes. However, in order not to allow the land fallow and also to be able to secure the land, I am contemplating to plant either plantain tree or cassava on it. Please which is more beneficial. Thanks |
Finnish MPs' monthly salaries to rise by 20 euros (4,200 naira) by march next year. An MP earns about 15 million naira a year compared to an average of 40 million naira a month for Nigerian MPs plus all the kick backs and budget impregnation. This is one of the reasons the country can afford to provide all the basic needs of life for her citizens. What is basic to them is what Nigerians term as luxury living. Their salaries are determined by independent committees devoid of any membership from parliament. source http://yle.fi/uutiset/mps_wages_to_rise_--_by_20_euros/6982419 |
Where is Military zone in Ejigbo. Jim01: 1) IBA LOW COST HOUSING BLOCK 329, FLAT 3 GOVT DOCUMENT 4.5M |
[quote author=Bandit C.]I studied in Germany. Started from undergraduate school. I speak fluent German and know much about school and work in Germany. If you have any questions, be it about English or Deutsch in Germany, l would be glad to answer. For a starter, University education is free.[/quote]Hi man..pls shed more light on free education in Germany. How do I go about it and what are the requirements for undergraduate studies. |
It's time NAFDAC enforces the display of production and expiry dates on breads in Nigeria. It is very difficult to ascertain whether a bread is fit for consumption or it has expired. One cannot simply judge by the looks of the bread. I observe that it is the appearance of mucous that makes bread unfit for consumption in Nigeria. This is an health issue which relevant agencies especially NAFDAC should fix. Recently I bought a value bread from UACN thinking it was fresh until I got home and discovered it was as hard as olumo rock. I couldn't have known when it was produced because there was no production or expiry date on it. Ditto for other bread manufacturers such as LEVENTIS etc. I believe if NAFDAC can enforce production and expiry dates on food items such as gala, they should do same for bread which is a staple food in Nigeria except they are happy exposing 160 millions Nigerians to health hazard. |
pls house, what is the age limit for the graduate trainee recruitment. |
all of the above... oh my gosh... dat feather trickles a lot... I guess it's time to change |
iamlola: Next you'll think they are watching you in your bedroom.Just what I told you. It was just to remove or teduce the suspense... Now it has changed back to under review. |
I would be successful next time |
Same here too.. Glory be to the almighty. Atleast we can rest our minds knowing fully well that sooner or later, we wld be interviewed. I know they are following our posts here and decided to remove the suspense. Like if you agree |
