Prechgold1180:


Biological

The man is broke
My mom singlehandedly took care of me
My step dad did nothing

The man is a lazy man
Even back then food stuff nah mumsi Dey pay

Right now
Nah me they sponsor e four children

Sch and work wise

Oh you see what I mean and what I said that its not because your dad was poor your mother left him ...how can she leave your dad cause of no money to take care of your late brother ordinary malaria money he didn't have ..and she went to marry another broke poor man. ... Your mother has a many serious questions to answer ..... The stories she told you are not true that is why she is refusing to show you your dad . ...menn.. You have to work on her call on her family members ... Ok .. Good luck on your journey finding your dad .

Prechgold1180:

More like there is sense in what you saying

But my step dad treated me so bad
I almost died more reason I won’t allow any woman take my child to whatever place

My life has been hell right from childhood
I left his house traveled to a different city when I was 16
From there God has been helping me
Mumsi has also been helping
I am no longer a boy

Lot of things has changed for good

Good and I am happy for you, see the reason your step dad treated you so badly cause you are not his biological child and your mother brought you to his house taking care of your needs and schools fees cause he was enjoying your mother's . V...

And he started getting angry with you and hating you when your mother started having kids for him and he wished you where dead like Junior or if you where never existing .. 80% of men will not be happy with the child their wife brought along to marry them .. ..who's name do you answer as your surname name ..your step dad or our biological dad ..

Prechgold1180:


I m 70 %. Sure it’s bcus of my elder bro death

Till date some people still addresses her with mama Junior
That’s my elder bro name
Some time Dey miss the name and address me as junior

She got angry that your dad couldn't provide the money for medicine to treat junior of the malaria that lead to junior death ... Meaning your dad has no money and was poor and your mother quiet know your dad was poor without money before she got married to him and had 2 kids while knowing her husband has no money. ..so my point your mother left cause she already have and meeting a man outside which she got married to and have 4 of your siblings for .. And junior death was a perfect excuse for her .. And that was the same reason the man ur step father accept your and her cause he was the one that told your mom out of your father's life ...go and find out about this ...

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Go and meet some of your mother sister's and brothers if she has any still alive , Explain to them your intentions of knowing your dad. ... I am not too sure the story your mom told you about the reason she left your dad is true ... I dont buy one sided story .... Sorry to say this dont be surprise that he is not your biological father and that may be the reason she left with you and don't want to take you back to him cause you may not be his son ..

Bro you have to tell us the other side of the story that you omitted ..we know that there are some things you are not telling us .. .. This your kindness is either coming out from something or going into something ...

Zonefree:
Any rich man going into marriage with a Nigerian girl is being unwise.

Oh bro comon ..there are few nice Nig ladies with Good hearts ...just the way we have Good, Bad and Ugly everywhere in the World ..

The Beauty of a WOMAN is inside her not Outside ... Only the wise men can see that inner Beauty ....

RIP. RUTH..... This killings is getting too much ....Nigeria is tuning to Land of the Dead ... The Crime rate in Nigeria is now 100% +

MADUBukar005:
I agree with Atiku Abubakar with what he says about ASUU Nigeria need a person like to clear all problem of education

Clear and pay all ASUU outstanding salaries and start owing Doctor's and Judiciary ... Just the way they always use balance some sectors and punish others ..

I would advise the INEC commissioners that are in those States where INEC offices have been attacked to carry their boxes and go to Army base or barracks for the distribution of the PVC's for security purpose . against more attacks ..

Who is Narrating what happened ... A stepson or biological son ... Cause I dont get it why referring to the Husband as THE MAN .. And he is one of the wife son's according to the reporter ....

Conner44:
Why are Inec offices being attacked mainly in apc controlled states these days?

If the Governors of the States INEC Offices that are attacked can not get the people attacking and reason for attacking the offices ...then the Governors are behide these attacks

LEXYNIL:
Morocco are very fast and aggressive in attacking line because they have so much ability in times counter attack which they can push France with that. And they are very rough and I dont see them winning the game because the Atlas lion of Morocco are well clinical with their front line.

It will be Great to see Africa win the World Cup

2023 General Election ... Northern total votes 70% + is going to Atiku , that is the game plan and some other party's member will work for Atiku (PDP) in the North ..that is why Atiku dont care and dont want to accept Wike and G-5 conditions cause he have a stronghold that will hit him high scores...that is why this Election is going to be Atiku Vs Peter Obi one of them is the Next Nig President

Who are the REAL Bandits.. Few hidden gunmen in the forest ?? Or FG that have Barracks & Base of ( Army's, Navy's , Air forces in all the states in Nig and they are trained and highly paid to secure the Nation ) and yet failed and refused to do the needful ... So the few Gunmen are more powerful that Nig Military?

jesmond3945:
best comment

Nice one .... Angel of DEATH have no Mercy and No Obstacle STOP him from Doing his Job ..not even CHARMS

What is really happening about this current administration... The FG has failed to handle this insecurity and killings issues ..why are the States Governors not protecting it people and handle the bandits on their own without waiting for FG .. This is making me to wonder who are the REAL Bandits ..