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Stelvin101:
Not just 2018 my broda, but till 2045.

.... And we will keep discovering more

Excuzeme:
The money should never be returned to Bayelsa or the Fed government.
Just use themoney to build a few Power stations and l will be happy if the people of bayelsa have uninterupted Power supply, lik ethe people of the U.K.

Otherwise, Seriake Dickson is already planning which other country (like Dubai), he will "return" the money to!

... Sooooooo true. Maybe a safer country for safe keeping.
That money will really go a long way in fixing the power issue in the country only if the UK government will oversee the project themselves

Looks like we have more of our money outside the country than we have within the country....

I'm sure the looted funds we have in different countries can take care of our 2018 budget..
No need to sell our National assets to fund the budget.

Lolz.... Serves him right.

I wonder why some men rush into marriage when they know they are not done flirting.

There is a reason why being single comes before marriage.
I think It's basically for us to first learn go be “single" before getting married. Being single is much more than a response to a bio-data form.
It requires a lot a discipline, self-control and staying faithful to one partner.

How i wish guys can learn this and save our future families the unnecessary trauma.

It's almost impossible for a single guy that has not learnt the act of self-control to stay faithful to his wife when married...

calberian:
Yeah, now the pressure on myself and Don Jazzy will be x 10

Lolz... Thank God you know you should get married now

Congratulations to them.
Thank God the day is finally over.
We can now see some other peope getting married.

Over to regular nairaland marriages...

We can only hope the new president is better.
Personally, i don't see the removal of Mugabe as a guarantee that things will get better.
I just hope the new president isn't just interested in power but democracy indeed for the good of the people.

They shouldn't get lost in the celebtation of Mugabe's exit........

I believe in Africa..

Frank is saying the same thing anyone in his right senses would say.

It is well..

kalvoken:
For the past two years, I have been loosing it when it comes to praying. I will kneel down for prayer, but would end up not knowing what to say. In most cases, I keep repeating same words over and over again.

Please how do I regain my power to pray. I know within me all is not well.

Several reasons
1. There might be a disconnection between you and God as a result of sin. Ask for mercy. Isaiah. 59:1
2. Lack of God's word that sparks up the desire for prayer. Study God's word more often.
3. It is the Holy Spirit that teaches and helps us to pray.
Ask for help from the helper. Romans 8:26
May the grace of God be released upon you

Nice points

It's only God that protects us in this country.
May his soul Rest in peace.

Same old story.
All of these are beginning to sound really boring

Above all, Let the Holy Spirit lead you.
He does it better..

Same people, same news, same problem.
One party sounding like they are saints.

They are always concerned about the politics and never the leadership.

When the opposition can't have access to the policemen for the evil acts like they used to, they scream “Foul play"

Namijee:
Thank You so Much,I have just received it. Am very grateful, God Bless You and Have a Successful Test, Recruitment and Career in the Oil and Gas Industry.

Please forward the past quetion to me.
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hayotundeh:
Check ur inbox..

Bro, i'll also need it too. Please send it to my mail.
Henroma4real@gmail.com.
Thanks a lot

Namijee:
Thank You so Much,I have just received it. Am very grateful, God Bless You and Have a Successful Test, Recruitment and Career in the Oil and Gas Industry.

Please bro, i'll need it too.
Help me send it to my mail..
Henroma4real@gmail.com. thanks a lot

No Nataniel Bassey?
No Freke Umoh?
Bassey should even be rated number one presently

Na who dey alive dey win election o..

lol...she got what she wanted. now she has more than enough suitors to choose from. We can only hope she gets a real proposal from this stunt.

the fifth picture though....

;D1..so the greed didn't start today.

Every man at his default state is greedy and self-centered.

Nice gesture. The quintessence of love.
while some ladies out there were planning to sell their virginity for a pot of porridge (temporal pleasure and satisfaction), Another lady was thinking outside the box.

These are the people that need to be shown the most love as we do for them what they can't do for themselves.
True love is expressed in our deeds and not sex.
#Lettruelovelead

Doesn't make him any less of a pastor with genuine interest in the propagation of God's kingdom.

Just an area of his life that requires urgent attention i guess. Talking about the little foxes that spoil the vine.

May God help him!!

wow..i felt the excitement in the atmosphere from the video clip. so touching

EngrNewton:
Thanks for this comment.. The Holyspirit is the best Counselor anyone can have, everyone should please make sure they have a relationship with Him. God bless you sir.

Ehen.. Izen Sis, don't preempt uncle, so he doesn't at the long-run feel you dragged him into the relationship/marriage, give him some space and allow him to make the decision himself to avoid regrets. Udo diri gi (Peace be unto you)

Thanks Sir. great advice too

Jesusgirl92:
Best advice ever.... Girl... Do as he says

Thanks ma'am. looks like we share similar perspective.

Izen:
Hi guys. I'm in an emotional dilemma and I think the pressure of yet another Valentine's day without a boo is getting to me. Please as much as my write up might piss you off, please try not to insult me. I'm trying to avoid a total meltdown. Thanks in advance.

So there's this guy, we've been very close friends for six years now. There has always been romantic feelings on my part and I used to have the tiniest bit of hope that it was mutual. This was until he started dating a mutual friend. What hurt the most was that he tried to hide it from me despite our closeness. He claims it wasn't his idea though.
Let's just say I borrowed myself brain after that or so I thought. I started avoiding him as much as I could but he wouldn't let me be. He eventually asked me point blank if I liked him and after much beating about the bush, I answered in the affirmative. Apparently, other friends of ours had had to call his attention to my crush on him cos dude was clueless, "according to him". I asked him if he felt the same way and he told me that I was like a little sister to him. Alas, I was sister-zoned. Note that the age gap between us is barely more than a year. He told me he wouldn't lose me as a friend because I was special. Why wouldn't he just let me go?
Fast forward to a year+, he broke up with the mutual friend though I remained friends with both of them. I had nothing to do with the break up o. I was more comfortable rekindling our close friendship then since there was no longer a conflict of interest. It took me almost two years to get over him so at that time, my heart had moved on to other prospective guys.
Years down the line, I had to change locations to another state. It was one he was familiar with and had and still has a lot of business dealings in. Let's just say I still get to see him a lot.
We both dated other people. I got badly burnt by my ex and he was there for me. The tough love kind. As we spoke about my ex, that was when it hit me. This guy has always and probably will always have my back. I felt so comfortable sharing details with him. I knew then that I missed him a lot. I've been wondering what could have been between us ever since then. In fact, I started referring to him as my best friend. I know it's only a matter of time before it's necessary to let go of that bond tho. He's gone get married to his true bestie one day.
The thing now his, he's changed a bit. I know this because we've been friends a long time and I know him well. The calls have been more frequent, longer, etc. He always tries to see me when he can, same with me. This has got me wondering if this is the way normal friendships between the opposite sex are. He now says things like, "You're this and that and it's probably why you have an issue with XX. You do the same to me but I've come to accept it, there's nothing I can do about it". I interpreted this as him sticking with me flaws and all.
At one of our discussions, he told me he would love to marry someone he's known for a long time and he used us as an example. I went on the defensive immediately and told him I couldn't marry him. That bothered him a lot and he didn't stop until he pressed me for a reason. I threw his question back in his face and asked him if he could marry me and he said yes. I pushed harder and asked if he would marry me (not as a proposal lol), he laughed about this. I eventually told him I couldn't marry him cos he hasn't proposed to me and I cannot propose to him. When he tried to form, "so you'll marry me if I ask you to", I just asked to drop the topic totally.
I know I'm supposed to be elated but instead I'm hurt. I feel like I've been emotionally played and I'm still being played in my best years. How can he do this now? Does he know how much it cost me to try to get over him the first time? Apparently, I never fully succeeded. He's toying with my emotions again and I believe he knows that. I wanted to remind him that he sister-zoned me but I held back. I can't do this again guys. Please, I just can't.
Do you think he now has romantic feelings for me but he's deliberately holding back. Do you think he's trying to give me hints? I'm tempted to shut this friendship down totally. I can't go through this heartbreak again. It hurt the first time and I'm sure it'll hurt more this time. I know shutting down this friendship will be like a break up for me cos he's been such a huge part of my life but I think that's the only way I can truly get over him. I may or may not tell him but I plan to gradually withdraw. No calls, no texts, until he gets the memo. I really need to heal cos my relationship with him has indirectly affected other relationships I have. I'm falling madly in love with him again and I need it to stop. So guys, please should I let go now or should I hold on to a little hope that he comes around based on his recent actions.?

I'm a guy and i've been in his shoes b4. Any smart guy knows when a lady is in love with him. and it only takes the grace of God not to take advantage of her feelings cos that's what an average guy would do. u should try to bring ur feelings under control and not move faster than the guy cos u can't force the proposal question out of his mouth. you're the Lady here, so be wise.
If he wants you, he should say it himself. don't let him get so much into you else you might find it difficult to recover if he never comes up with the question.
Above all, u need the direction the Holy Spirit to avoid mistakes in life. if you have no relationship with him, i can help you with that. if u do, seek his face. he's such a caring and loving friend.
SHALOM!

While some are hating, some are spewing trash and some are seeing from the right perspective. i still believe the young man withdrew his participation in the protest for some cogent reasons.

#GodblessNigeria

the difference is that Buhari isn't dead yet which we are not praying for.
Else, both are sick individuals occupying the spot of the first citizen in this prestigious Nation.
Both are from Katsina State.

On a more serious note, why is it that no one has spoken with him directly?
which President would abandon his duty without getting in touch wich the people who voted him into power at least to assure them that all is well with him.
it is well.
#QuickRecoveryMrPresident

CaptainBomb:
Please help my sister survive, she is on Oxygen in Lagos Island General Hospital, after lump was discovered in her breast 3 months ago, something in me tell me its a cancer that she may die , Her husband and i did series of test which says its just a lump. We went ahead and did the operation for her to remove the lump at military hospital which was successful but we didn't do the main test which is called BIOPSY because the doctor just wrote a letter for us and said we should carry out an xray to know if the breathing is still intact which we also did and the result says its okay. After the operation my sister could not sleep for 3 days. Her husband had to rush her to general hospital again and we did another series of test and she was diagnosed with liver failure.. She got admitted in Lagos Island General Hospital , i woke up this morning to read her husband message telling me that my sister is on Oxygen as at 11 PM yesterday, he told me not to tell my mum about it.. Does it mean i am going to loss my sister.. Please we need help and support .. Her name is Temitope Kareem... Dead nairalander please help my sister survive.. I don't another to die because if she do my mum will run mad...
Please Moderator : lalasticlala , Seun .. Please help me..

I have neither silver nor gold to give right nw. but such as i hav, i give unto u. in the name of Jesus, i speak life into her system. she is healed in Jesus name. Trust God and reply Amen in Faith.

jidxin:
says who? dont delve nd conclude wat u dont know....shez a powerful1 nd a god mother to some governors

well, if u say so. but we didn't hear much about her until she became the first Lady