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i opened a thread on family section why do male and female have hatred for each other and people were trying to paint me woman hater.......this is it here.....asap.

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ileobatojo: Please, kindly tell us the main reason why you hate females.

in tu face voice hypocritical, as if ur mood dont change when you see opposite sex

ileobatojo: ??

I don't see an answer to the question.

Why do you hate females?

where do you see where i wrote i hate females? wise up my guy, them tell u say i nor get fiancee. you do this thing everyday to opposite sex but come here they form saint.

Ewuro707: Thank you oh Nash. Very bad sweeping generalization. OP you better stop that thinking and gnat on positives.

Do I have fracas with specific people including men? hell yes, do I hate them , absolutely not.

my guy is not what i do but what i see everyday, why do you think there is feminism in the world today?, even they are here on nairaland.

i know there is no way it can stop but we should try not kill or molest one another no matter what happened. why do you think there is FEMINISM in the world today? they are even here in nairaland, i dont want to call names.

Nashville: Poster how can you use the word hatred. On the other hand I think some men are crazy about women and vice versa. Some men just cant get enough of women and that is why some marry four wives and have ten concubines. Some young ladies sef have husband, boyfriend, and aristo by the side. There is nothing like hatred.

The simple truth is that men often misunderstand women and women often misunderstand men. Men and women were not created the same and both sexes have to just accept that. Men and women think differently most times and get emotional/excited over different things. The duty of people getting married is to understand this and work around it. I promised my wife that this Christmas we were going to have two weekends of family outings and shopping. After the first weekend, I had to back out and apologise. Of course she was disappointed but me I don try. I just cant go through another 7 hours of shopping next weekend. Lailai. Shopping is just not my thing and for most guys its the same. But that should not be interpreted to be hatred.

And please ignore the gender warriors here especially those that just attack men without even reading the posts. They say things like Nigerian men are all useless, unromantic, cheats etc, but they will be very quick to tell you their husbands are the exception. They will abuse all the men but claim their husband and father are but the few exceptions. There is no hatred in marriage and love, and even those is bad marriages that are in unhappy are looking for a way to rekindle the love flame. Perfect love casts out any fear so the word hatred is completely inappropriate. The simple issue is that men and women are created differently and we just need to accept is and find a way to be happy. Most men cannot do without women and vice versa.

nashville read my post again were i stated that if not for sex and bearing of kids, that is what usually bring man n woman together but that dispute between both sexes is already there.

Ewuro707: Read my last response.

you dont expect it to happen everyday, but each day that passsess by men n women concieve hatred in their waiting for the right time to strike or living in pretends.

Amelian: Op wat uv just said this evening is exactly wat av bn pondering on recently. And truthfully my recent frnds whom are married , do av series of complaints afterwards.. And I ask, wats d hullaballo about am getting married, am getting married..ITs sad when I hear guys talk very negative about women and women, well they tend to be diplomatic on how they feel inwards.. But its just too bad.. Thank God, I av wat makes me happy @ d end of each day.. If not mehn, I. Won't mind staying single.. I dey tell u

abi my sister, this thing happen everyday but people are living in pretends

Ewuro707: ^^ But that's not 'Hatred'.

then tell me have you not seen husband kill his wife, wife poison her husband, boyfriend gang up with his friend to rape his girlfriend, and girlfriend bath her guy with acid. with your definition of hatred, is there any deference?

for those of you saying is not hatred and giving it another name, let me ask u this question, have u not seen husband killed his wife?,wife poison husband?,boyfriend gang up with his friends to rape his girlfriend? girlfriend bath her guy with acid?, and so many news like this. so define hatred and tell if all these things named above is not classify as one.

Amelian: Op wat uv just said this evening is exactly wat av bn pondering on recently. And truthfully my recent frnds whom are married , do av series of complaints afterwards.. And I ask, wats d hullaballo about am getting married, am getting married..ITs sad when I hear guys talk very negative about women and women, well they tend to be diplomatic on how they feel inwards.. But its just too bad.. Thank God, I av wat makes me happy @ d end of each day.. If not mehn, I. Won't mind staying single.. I dey tell u

thi is what am saying,it happens in d home,school,et al n i just say i should ask here cos i no people disagree cos here is a forum but inside them, they no what am saying is true.

greatgod2012: Talk about yourself, do you hate the other gender? If yes, then, that you are like that and some very few people you asked are like that does not mean everybody is like that.

As for me, i don't have hatred for anyone, regardless of the gender, but one fact that is certain is, respect begets respect, anyone who does not respect me can not earn my respect, if you want to be respected by everyone, whether male or female, respect everyone, be it male or famale, and no opposite gender will hate you.

As for those you asked question from, who claimed to get married, because of kids, i think or guess, both of them are yet to understand what marriage is really is.

May God help us all.

i understand ur view this hatred is general n internal one, i know u know what am talkng about. The hatred is not physical its secretive thats y u hardly notice it...thanks for sharing ur thought.

Am waiting for reply

I have notice something between man and woman,they have hatred for each other internally. If not for the sake of sex and bearing kids i think this two creature by God would have been great enemy internally n emotionally. They would have been war between the both, but physical appearance ie one is stronger physically than the other, one cant confront the other physically.I praise God for the different in strenght if not hmm. If you see were men gather they gossip about women negatively except when they re, when you see women gather their own even worse. I asked a married man the other same question he said if not for children he prefers not have married n i asked a married woman also same reply.
So i thought of coming to nairaland because i believe there re some psychologist in this forum or rather intellectuals.
Please fellow nairalanders kindy tell me your main reason why male and female have hatred for each other,? Why there is dispute?,why we re always free when we re with our fellows but immediately opposite gender come into our gathering,our mood n behaviour changes?.

I have notice something between man and woman,they have hatred for each other internally. If not for the sake of sex and bearing kids i think this two creature by God would have been great enemy internally n emotionally. They would have been war between the both, but physical appearance ie one is stronger physically than the other, one cant confront the other physically.I praise God for the different in strenght if not hmm. If you see were men gather they gossip about women negatively except when they re, when you see women gather their own even worse. I asked a married man the other same question he said if not for children he prefers not have married n i asked a married woman also same reply.
So i thought of coming to nairaland because i believe there re some psychologist in this forum or rather intellectuals.
Please fellow nairalanders kindy tell me your main reason why male and female have hatred for each other,? Why there is dispute?,why we re always free when we re with our fellows but immediately opposite gender come into our gathering,our mood n behaviour changes?.

Chai.. See downgrading for 2baba after all d good song him don do. Even Dbanj call him 2BABA....SMH

Even Dbanj call him 2 BABA, op u think they call him that name for nothing.....its like comparing R. Kelly to justin bibier.
I will prefere u compair psquare to tu face which he is still the BOSS. Go n make research almost all artiste in the industry have use his name in their music except d female artiste.
My guy, 2 baba na legend for naija ooo i still dey play his old album till date...i beg go listen to grass 2 grace album, unstoppable international version then come open anoda thread for apology for this compairising wey u do so chai...how many dbanj old song dey ur phone? But i no say tubaba song go dey.....OP u fall tuface hand for wetin u do so.


#Waiting for apology letter#

When you love, you get hurt.
When you get hurt, you hate.
When you hate, you try to forget.
When you try to forget, you start missing..and

When you start missing.................................

You will eventually fall in-love again.................True or False?

now i see reasons why ibo abi na igbo can not rule this country because if they do corruption will so b on high rate. their thinking faculty is questionable how i wish the rest of the country can come together n agree they should leave us n form their biafra it will be nice.though im from minority region but ive observe that ibos preach corruption n tribalism..........i want break up so we see who will do well after

Im not supporting any politician because of the setback they have caused this great country.

Each time i see president jonathan two things come to my mind that is synonymous to him.which are; 'setting up committee and organising dinner.Not that the man is bad but he is not fit to rule this country.Even as a number 1 citizen he is not bold,if you think im lying check his posters or billboard either he is waving hand or placing his hand on his chest.......in other word him nor get liver.
Guys una never observe am...

Didier drogba and emmanuel eboue faces fine by turkish fa after displaying vests bearing tribute to nelson mandela....

Beyonce changes her blond hair to bla

Source: GLOBAL GRIND STYLE

Oya naija babes una role model don change again oo....over to you

Nigeria movie industry is not creative @ all.they use artiste song title to name their low life n boring movies.

For example, celine dion n west life song title have been used in the past now is nigeria artiste song title...i just saw one now 'badoo' stupid movie, no suspense boring as usual n porous story line with no message....

Arrant rubbish....has anybody notice this too? What do you think of this lack of creativity in nollywood?..

Its for real my SA girl just confirmed it RIP legend not ds fools we call leaders in nigeria

as for me its yuzedo n andyblaze cos they have a way of getting attention which i like too

Mod please front page so that i have many response......and i have not taste front page since i ve been here.

I have been thinking of this for a while because the way some persons are been followed even if they spit nonsence they still get many likes.People like; onila, yuzedo,andyblaze,policewoman,etc.

Who do you think is the most popular indidvidual on nairaland? What did they do that make them known to that extent?.

Fellow nairalander i want to know.

E don do for all of una haba.....

3 or 4 zero in favour of nigeri i dreamt it last night

is it really true that light skin is an attraction cos almost every ladies i see this days are light in complexion........is this really normal.....bleaching cream is not suppose to be use in nigeria cos of our weather....thats why u see stretch mark everywhere when u want to bleep a girl......do u guys notice this too.

what is this one saying

Shaldre007: Are you high?
Okay sleep me her well

This place is not an english class as far as u guys can comprehend d message why bother about my english...onwan teachers....ok let me modify it...wait o is english my father tongue?mehn no need to modify