Right from time past to this very age infidelity among couples has been present but it appears to be more prevailing as the day and years goes by. My questions are is it that the wedding vows is losing its grip on marriages, that is people are no longer regarding the marriage vows anymore or is it that the rate of promiscuity is getting higher by the day or maybe the present economy hardship is pushing many ladies to monetize their body at the detriment of their homes. There could be a thousand and one reasons why women cheat, well that would be a discussion for another day. Presently, too many couple out there today lives as mere flat mates instead of living as husband and wife, it is true that women are highly driven by their emotions and are attention seeking creatures; as a man you don’t meet up with their needs they most likely zap into the other man who is willing to provide Money, Love, Care and Attention (Common among the single ladies). As men we are called to serve women so the truth is that if your spouse exhibits eight out of ten of the listed characters bellow there is a great likelihood she is seeing someone else.


1. Becomes less concerned with her partners affairs
A woman who before now gets worried of your long absence away from her, calls you up to know where you are if you are not around right on time suddenly stops. Some mistakes that you would make that get her hurt before all of a sudden means nothing to her, man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions.



2. Makes Hidden phone conversations
A woman who when phone rings checks the caller and excuses herself to go somewhere else to receive the call or ignores certain calls in your present, most times she giggles, laughs out loud during the phone conversation but changes countenance sighting you. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions


3. Looking very flashy
A woman who dresses moderately and decent all of a sudden starts dressing up too flashy and trying too hard to look attractive even to the extent of putting on clothes that reveals her body assets without her partner consenting to it. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions


4. Sex Denial
A woman who for some reason or the other suddenly starts denying you of sex or your sex appeal to her suddenly depreciated is most likely that she is getting a better sex elsewhere or that she has lost interest in you. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions


5. She becomes more protective of her phone
A woman who on countless situations leaves her phone carelessly at home, suddenly becomes more careful with her phone, allowing no one to touch, she now goes to everywhere with it even inside the bathroom and the restroom. Someone who is less concerned about her phones security lock now draws a chemistry carbon bond for her security pattern. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions

6. Keeps too many friends and becomes more sociable
A woman who can barely maintain one friendship now has a crew as friends, they attend every big social parties and she returns home later than expected. She tries too hard to match up with her friends taste and she goes all out to buy materials clothing’s or jewelries with or without her partners resources that would make her fit into the friendship crew. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions


7. Excuses to stay out overnight
A woman who barely stays out after work now suddenly brings up stories that touch the heart of why she should stay out late or over the night. She cooks up stories like going to vigil if she is a Christian or going to ‘Nasfat’ if she is a Muslim, fake business related travels, going to see a relation that’s not looking for her etc. Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions

8. Always likes to be left alone
A woman who most times sticks to you like a lure now suddenly wants to be left alone most times, your presence now becomes a disturbance to her, she becomes touchy and uncomfortable around you. . Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions

9. She start comparing you with other men
A woman who idolizes you and even talks good about you to her friends and family now bolding confronts you and compares you with other men at the slightest opportunity, she begins to mention things you don’t have or do in a verbally aggressive manner. . Man the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions

10. Becomes very bold and disrespectful
A woman who is lovable and full of respect suddenly talks back at you, your suggestions now sounds stupid to her. She looks regards not your words or concerns, she flares up at the slightest obsession. So in all their getting get wisdom and money to be able that command that respect, so man like I always say the ball now lies in your court to make amends or take proactive actions

Anything worth doing is worth doing well; you are in a relationship try giving it your all, because if you don’t show how much you love that woman a thousand and one men out there are willing to. And for the ladies try employ patience and if you can longer bear the unhappy relationship quit instead of cheat.

Feel free to air your views…….

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/06/10-signs-your-female-partner-may-be.html

He is a young and a vibrant King

Outside is where the work lies not in your palace, so keep up with the good job long live the Kabiesi

Olasco93:
It's not what you don't have that limits you, it's what you have but fails to use.
Nice points from HerexG.

Thanks a lot Olasco93

EazyJ:
No 10-She wud probably send d pix thru bluetooth/flash share so hw wud he get her number?
Nice tips tho

As a sharp guy kindly say " May i get the pics via whatsapp"

1. When holding your drink in an event
When you are in an event always hold your drink in your left hand, that way your right hand won’t be cold or wet when you shake hands.

2. When you get caught
If your girlfriend catches you looking at another woman, employ some acting skill and turn to her to say “I’m glad you don’t dress like that”.

3. When arguing
Try to listen more than speak in an argument to avoid saying stupid things you don’t mean, remember you can’t swallow back spilled words .

4. When ladies uses the I’m busy antic
98% times when a lady tells you the reason for not coming to see you is that she’s busy; is simply because she’s not interested. I tell you even Lucifer’s chains cannot hold back a woman that really wants to see you. Never try to beg but make her also know that you are also busy that you are even trying to fix her into your schedule

5. When search for factual reviews
When reading online always look for the 3/5 reviews, these are usually the most truthful and unbiased. For example you got one of those fraudulent messages from those Networking firm, try paste the message online to see people’s reviews, 3/5 of the review has an element of truth in it.

6. When admiring
If you admire someone way too much, they have no choice than to look down on you, they might perceive a low self-esteem syndrome when you do this

7. When you listen to gossip
Always listen carefully how a person speaks about other people to you. This is how they will speak about you to other people!

8. When finding a true story
If you want to know if someone is telling a true story or not, the person telling the story makes a lot of hands gesture but if it’s a lie the hands will stay noticeably still.

9. When trying to get someone confess
The best way to get someone to confess something is to remain silent with a mean look. They will simply talk due to being uncomfortable.

10. When you need that number
If you sighted a beautiful chick or guy at the party and you want their number, take a picture with them and ask them to send it to you.

11. When your partner wrongs you
If your partner wrongs you don’t tell your parents about it the simple truth is you might forgive but your parents won’t.

12. When a girl tells you to go watch a movie
If a girl talks to you about a movie she wants you to watch, it’s most times a hint that she wants you to ask her out. Most times there are particular romantic scenes she wants you to watch, which may stair you up to make the move

13. When you are in a party and you need more alcohol
You are a party with people who rarely knows you and you want more drink than usual just tell people you have never been drunk before. (Drink responsibly)

14. When asking for a favor from people
It is best when asking for favors from people most especially ladies, always create a cloud screen or a decoy, this would loosen up their guards and deviate their mind from your real intent.

15. When you want to get the true intent of someone’s heart
You want to get the true intent of someone’s heart listen and focus more on the person’s questions than answers

lalasticlala, fynestboi

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/05/15-helpful-social-tips.html

New generation monarchs mixing our Deity with the White man's

SMH

Glamrock:
Great write up Henry

Gosh ! You let out my identity lol

lalasticlala please come see this

cococandy:

So it's a made-up story.

Can you tweak it so that the lady gets some sense and leave the asswipe husband who decided to disrespect their marriage by bringing someone else into it in the name of second wife?

That would be a better read.

I never mentioned that it is a made up story read properly, i said i could tweak to story to make it more interesting but for the fact its a real life scene i ve to just leave it the way it happened.

EfemenaXY:


So what's this fantasy story doing in the family section then?

Take it to the Literature or Romance section. More appropriate for surreal tales.

Why are you finding it hard to understand simple English ? I said i could that means i didn't, haba !

cococandy:
I see the point the poster is trying to make.
Still think it's a lame story

Not writing this to impress anyone, its a simple life experience which someone can learn one or more things from it, i could twerk the story if i want to but i dont wona deviate from the moral of the story. Thanks madam Sabi

Nigerians ain't loyal anymore the survival of the fittest syndrome is fast approaching that people might get stripped off their expensive clothing in a broad day light.

As an entrepreneur or a business person, you are called to serve only customers. Most times business owners do some silly mistakes that are very unhealthy for business; here are six silly mistakes business owners do that is dangerous in the business terrain.


1. Poor Branding scope

Branding in business covers a whole lot of areas but I will be talking about business name here, I laugh out loud most times when I hear or see most business name, I would most times ask myself did this people consulted anyone before choosing such business name. Most of them would try to sound very religious even with their business by naming their business according to their religious beliefs, just this most I finished consuming a bread and I decided to go through the bread’s wrapper and what I found was “God’s will Bread”, lol what a joke! Products that are meant for the entire public consumption should be 100% free from all religious attachments except your target consumers are of a particular religious group e.g. You want to manufacture an olive oil for only the Christian faith you name such product “By His Grace Olive oil”. Every business owner whose product is consumed by the entire public should be smart enough to remove all forms of religious content in their businesses so as to make their business appeal to all irrespective of their customer’s beliefs.


2. Impatient

Most business owners want to set up a business today and start making huge profits the next month, hell no! Business is no Abracadabra; it takes time for people to start noticing your business and a longer time for consumers to trust your business. For you not to wait too long for sales to come, you then need to apply an aggressive means of marketing e.g. If your kind of business is not out rightly new in the market, you will have to give consumers a good reason to leave Product A for your own new product B, this was the technique the Nigerian owned telecommunication giant used to break into the Nigeria market with the introduction of per second billing rate. If you have done a proper analysis of a business, started proper operations, the next thing to employ is patience.


3. Poor Customer Service

I walked into an International commercial bank recently to transact a business; I was like wow is this bank really situated in Nigeria? Though I wasn’t properly dressed from the gate the security personnel treated me like a VIP, when I entered the banking hall I asked for the banks teller from the security man standing in-between the exit and entrance of the bank and he politely showed me where to pick one. I observed that there was not a single seat in the banking hall, which simply means that they are not willing to keep their customers waiting and to be precise I transacted my business with the bank in an amazing time of less than 5mins. With that experience, I promised myself to open an account with them before the end of this year. That banks amazing customer care service has won them an additional customer, trust me I have transacted with other banks here in a Nigeria that I ended up having aches in my legs for standing too long. This is not only applicable to banks alone but all business ventures, always please yours customers like you are trying to woo Cinderella, make them feel more important than they feel they are and they will be stocked to your business like Ant and Sugar.


4. Going into Business for the wrong purpose

It is true that the purpose of every business man is to make profit but beyond making profit you must that purpose that would still make you stay in business even if the ascertained profit is not coming forth. Never go into business because you saw “Chinedu” making profit with his business and you quickly decided to go into the same business as ‘Chinedu”, you never might know “Chinedu’s” drive for the business. One thing is certain you will never beat the original business idea owner, instead of following “Chinedu’s” idea search and create your own purpose of business and become an healthy competitor like Coca-Cola and Pepsi.


5. Small Business Vision

When starting up a business on of the first thing that should come into your mind is seeking for ways to enlarge and remain in business, most businesses owned by Africans die immediately the business owner dies. I could mention countless businesses that went bankrupt because of the demise of the business owner; the business owner’s family would fight and fight for the business assets till they end up squandering the business assets and bankrupting the business. Have we asked ourselves why all these foreign brands standing the test of time even when the business owner is long dead and gone? The number one reason is partnership; those foreign businesses are not 100% owned by the business initiator, the profit and loss is shared among group of business like minds with the larger share belonging to the business owner or initiator. Instead your business remaining a one man business build it to a certain appreciable level that will attract investors to come in, be smart to sell out some percent of your company shares with you having the larger share so they won’t have an absolute control over your business. This would enable your business to grow bigger, better and more efficient because other investor’s interest is attached to the business. The business will also stand a better chance to stand the test of time even after the owner’s demise.


6. Focus more on product improvement than brand improvement

If your branding is outweighs your product your business story would look like a very beautiful lady with an appalling character. A perfect example of what I’m talking about is the two giant cocoa beverages manufacturing company in Nigeria. One is more concentrated in branding and advert but giving us chocolate dust for chocolate drink while the other is more focus on the product improvement than branding and hereby giving us a more delicious chocolate drink, the truth is that the later sells better than the former. Improve more on your product quality and it would speak for itself, I didn’t ask us to ignore branding totally because it is also a vital area in business.

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/05/six-silly-mistakes-business-owners-do.html

MrKong:
I'd like to piss on this thread but it would be a seen a criminal ordinance

Thank you, we have noticed you .

yvelchstores:
What can I say, stay away from a married wOman. If her husband touches her or not, she is someone's property, keep away pls. U almost led her to committing adultery. As for men, ur wife needs ur attention. There are thousands of ppl like op all around.

Did you read the story at all ?

Just recently I met with one of the virtuous and beautiful lady; I met her on the popular social media site Facebook. When we started chatting at first she was very reluctant in replying my messages, so as a Lagos sharp guy, I kept pressing harder wanting to gain her audience with all the skills I have learnt and acquired in the street of Lagos. One day I finally got her attention and she started asking series of all kinds of blabla questions ladies ask men they are getting attracted to, trust me I wouldn’t fail on that, I gave her all the info she needs to know about me. Our communication gained momentum and started getting more intense, we chat first thing in the morning and late hours in the night. After sometime I shared with her my feelings for her and to my surprise this lady snapped, she started lamenting about how Men are animals, cheats and ungrateful. I tried to convince her that I’m different and all that blabla psyching to get a woman fall for a man, we then invited me to her shop. To cut the long story short we finally met at and she broke the bombshell to me that she is married but not happy, she narrated how she married her husband when he was flat broke and when he became wealthy he married another woman being an ‘Alhaji’. She said her marriage has not remained the same since the new woman came into her husband’s life, one night we while chatting we disclosed to me that I’m making feel like a woman, that her panties is soaked.

She disclosed to me how she has been a celibate for good three years, and she typed “Make me feel like a woman again, lets hook up somewhere”, my eyes bulged and my heart faster when I saw it. Few seconds later she called and we started talking till 2am, we finally agreed to meet the next weekend. All the while we were on phone her husband was right behind the door listening to our conversation, the next day her husband picked up her phone and read me and his wife’s chats on Facebook. He got so mad and infuriated that he chased the woman all sort of names and chased her away from his house, the woman called me to inform me, I tried consoling her that things would get better. I suggested a place she could stay till the issue is being resolved but she opted to stay in her friend’s house, few days later the issue was resolved and the woman parked in to her husband’s house. That night she parked in, to the woman’s surprise, her husband came kneeling down to apologize for all the wrong he has done to her. He pleaded that he will try to make amends so the marriage will work and that she should cut all communications with me, in fact he blocked me from his wife’s Facebook account that night. The next day the woman texted me to inform me that she has reconciled with her husband and that we should remain friends (Friend zoning things), she thanked me for the attention, care and being an agent of change to her marriage.

Men, if you don’t love and care for that woman someone out there would, it is said that “You don’t miss your water till the well runs dry”.

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/05/how-met-pushes-their-spouse-outside.html

Fela has already called them animals

Anyone who doesn't consider the man next to him before taking decisions and actions is an ANIMAL

Glamrock:
Thank you so much

No place like home hun, come get back your Heritage

This is called taking Panadol on other peoples problem or maybe the SAN is fighting for his stomach infrastructure


Marriage no be by force !

Oche211:

All this ur philosophy can't work here. Take it or leave it, Nigerian police are brutally brutal, wickedly wicked.
They re quick to harrase, intimidate, maim or even kill within a second.
Carefully observe the police in your area for a week. Then form ur own judgement.
Bt be rest assured that whatever u find exist everywhere.
I've seen police dragging a man on the floor of a road after stripping him naked.
I've seen police coming to streets nd arresting anyone on sight. Bail out will be N10,000. Just like dat.
Trust me, naija police aint anyone's friend.

Did you read the part i suggested a mental check for the Nigerian police

Aragbesola came into power as a result of people allowing religious sentiment to cloud their common sense and thinking ability.

Until we push all these sentiments aside nd seek for who will do the job we have no place to go

Oche211:
The devil is black, naija police re black.
They must be d devil.
Important notice: police is nt ur friend

Common don't be delusional

Remove the D in Devil you have Evil

Add o in God you have Good

All these whole western ideology of God and Devil is a hogwash sold to us so as to limit our thinking ability.

And for the Nigeria police, i think the government should take them through a regular quarterly mental screening and we the citizens should know our fundamental rights so as to put these policemen in check if violated

She made Dance bankable in Nigeria


HBD ma'am

These the kind of people who made day light scam and looting fashionable by collecting 5k each from unemployed Imo graduates after looking their commonwealth mtchew

Looks more like a Rugby player to me though

I won’t dispute the fact that a lie will always be a lie no matter how it’s told or who is telling it and the reason is being told but when we look deeper, access or check properly “lies” are distinctively divided into three kinds. No doubt this ancient and famous act called “Lie” is practiced by almost all human races, ages, genders, sizes and figures with exception for the littles babies and the mute. To be candid, we can always try to reduce lies to its minimal but we can’t help but tell it consciously or unconsciously at times to safe matters. Bellow I will shed more lights on kinds of lies…

1 Lies based on Respect: Just like title goes, this kind of lie is told based on the respect one has for the person he or she is telling the lies to. Relationship is a very vital part in our own human social system, so this lies are told to protect relationships and integrity. If people were to be charged for telling this kind of lies most Husbands and Wives, Boyfriends and Girlfriends, Business associates would have paid heavily because these categories of people tells this kind of lies without repentance.



2 Deceptive Lies: No doubt this kind of lie are told mainly because of selfish interest, it is told not because you respect the person you are telling the lie to but because that person is holding an important thing that is of interest to you. They are most times desperate and desperate times calls for desperate measures and that measure is Deception, now let’s categories of people that hopelessly guilty of this kind of lies are the Politicians, Casanovas, Gold diggers, Swindlers and Con artist.


3 Pranks: This a kind of lie or deception practiced because of entertainment or laughter, it is an healthy kind of lie but some most times takes it to the extreme. A dose of this kind of lie or deception is good for our daily social activities in our homes, work , schools, parties and place of worship but WARNING “ Prank responsibly”.

Source: http://liteworld..com.ng/2016/04/kinds-of-lies.html

HBD Bro, wishing you all the very best , have fun

agarawu23:
lol
We are the gods gods don decide
Join the winning team or......

Yeah Bro We are the kings and Queens makers

Team Lanicky
I just can't help but love that hottie

layla129:
Your so called "good move" is a wrong move for me. Here is my good move...
Guy: good morning,how was your night?
Me: it way splendid, thank you. Yours?
Guy: it was cool
Me:
Guy: Just wanted to check on you and see how you're doing this morning. We'll chat better after office hours...take care of yourself
Me:I will. Have a lovely day

That you move will only work for me if a weekend what is my name is Ade on a monday morning?

It's just an illustration, it could be a weekend though.

Ladies all around the world be it Africa, Asia and America are almost the same, they share very similar feature not letting their guard off most especially when you are a stranger. The internet today is fast changing that every day, you could start with a word as short as “Hi” and end up hitting and keeping the price. But a lot of dudes go about this the wrong ways; these are 5 wrong moves guys makes online that that turns off ladies.

1. Unattractive DP: Images speaks more than a thousand words, it would speak for you and save you the energy of describing your physical features. You will find most dude taking pictures in front of a dirty wall or a shabby looking background with a funny pose and then upload it as their display pictures on their social media platforms. You will find some taking pictures with a blurry camera with a funny pose like bending beside flowers and shrubs like in the 60s. Dude step up your game this is the 21st century take decent with a mix of some raunchy good quality pictures, it goes a long way to give the ladies of what you would taste like.

2. Asking too much and dumb questions: This is a huge turn off for the ladies and many guys are guilty of this, they want to know everything about a lady the very first minute they start conversing and they most time get short of words and start asking dumb questions like “Are you a Christian or Muslim ? What kind of phone are you using ? Do you have light (power) blabla ? Even if you want to ask questions be creative about it, ask it in a way she will start to pour out her mind to you by that way you will discover her area of interest instead of directly asking her what her area of interest is. And finally when she finally start asking you questions, your jackpot is around the corner. Below is a brief example of what I mean

Wrong move
Ade: Hello Dear
Chika: Hi
Ade: How are you?
Chika: Fyn
Ade: How was your night?
Chika: Fyn ooo (this time the babe start losing interest, might even ignore)
Ade: You are so sexy and hot
Chika:

Good move
Ade: Hello
Chika: Hi
Ade: How are you doing today?
Chika: Fyn
Ade: Hope you had a great night
Chika: Yes I did and you?
Ade: My night was splendid; I’m Ade from Lagos and you?

3. Being uninteresting or Boring: This is where your explorative and creative skills is needed, try to explore her needs and desires and amplify it without making it look obvious. For example her desire is bread and butter; present those bread and butter as a hot delicious sandwich. Play with her imaginations, leave her with wild imaginations after each chat, and cleverly show off your knowledge most especially in the area of her interest. Most ladies admires intelligent guys, you don’t have to be a nerd to be intelligent, step up that sexiness and handsomeness with something in your brains. Don’t leave reading and learning alone to the nerds.

4. Stalking: After hitting a good start up chats, or maybe gaining little attention from the lady most guys’ gets overzealous and become the ladies monitoring spirit. They start looking up for the lady online almost every minute, gosh! Give it a break! Ladies needs some amount of space , in fact make them believe you are busy even if you are not, and not the other way around your last time on Whatsapp ,BBM,Facebook 2secs ago all day. Dudes give it a break, apply the law of demand and supply, make them miss you, this would prompt them to start looking for you, then your value increases.

5. Trying too hard to impress: At this point most guys allow the attention they are getting from their crush to get over there head, by making a fool of themselves, letting out way too much information that might in a way turn off the lady’s surmounting emotions Dude be a gentleman you be more of the reader than the typist


Whew! I hope I have been able to be of help to you my delectable readers, please always try to check back for some more informative and exciting piece from my humble self HerexG wink!

source: https://herexg./2016/04/13/5-wrong-moves-guys-makes-online-that-that-turns-off-ladies/

cc :Lalasticlala, Ishilove