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ahnie:
To be candid,I don't see anything wrong with your mil sleeping on your bed o.dunno sha diff strokes for diff folks.

zaynie:
Would you let your mom lie on your bed?
If yes, den comot eye.
If no, be subtle in the manner in which you approach this matter.


When my MIL was alive, I would tell myself first, what if she was my mother because truth be told, my mama na fire and can criticise Jesus for dying for the world but I lived with her for years and love her to bits, so why won't I live and tolerate my MiL.
We dey para for each other o, but it is just as I would para for my mom.

ifyalways:
Take it easy please.

It's not like she marches to your bed and spreads herself there. . . She does that only when she goes to put baby to sleep there.
Its likely an involuntary action ; stress of getting baby to sleep, your bed is much firmer/stronger, softer, your room is more cooler/warmer and her old bones just giving in.

This is not worth a fight or battle. Have you checked out her bedroom, bed lately to see how comfortable or otherwise it is? If your MIL can carry your baby, she definitely ain't too dirty or unworthy to lie on your precious bed. Pick your battles wisely.

IF you really can't stand it, arrange to have mama go back or get a baby cot placed outside your bedroom so MIL won't have an excuse to get into your bedroom.

I'm angry sef

Zheemub:
heroinqc, this one pass me ooo.
If you have a baby stroller or bassinet, bring it to the sitting room or buy baby mattress.
This will help reduce her going to your bedroom to sleep.
Just take things easy.
E-hugs

Anugod:
In fact ehn, you deserve am

Anugod:
I love you like say tomorrow no dey

AlphaHandMaiden:
Fair point at the boldened, although you have till 5th of december to enter sha so that gives some time to clear eye small.

i will remove the BS requirement and just leave it as Birth Alert!

Anugod:
Upon say we dey complain say only one pack no go reach us, plus the way team December aka Lady25 are agitating to overthrow us you still wan cause us shortage?

I actually opened the link but as I see link to BA and BS, I just farabale... The procedure tight sha, especially with fresh vigilante.
To write BS alone dey stress some mamas sef, let alone providing links plus all the other information. So far, none of my teamies don qualify to register as na only one don drop this month and no BS yet.

Mama, this mama na senior mama, make she leave this one for us fess na

Anugod:
Mama relax na shey you're an October mama?

AlphaHandMaiden:
See what is should look like.

For the Birth alert and Story pages: you need to put the link of the NL page where it was submitted so we can find it to verify your entry. see pic below

You should receive an email which you should confirm your subscription or else it would not be recieved by us here.

For example the below is your birth alert and story pages:

Birth Alert link:
https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high/3610#61171859


Birth story link:
https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high/3651#61387020


If i click the link and scroll down the page, i will find your posts.

I hope this helps.

But, Technically you are an October mama, however if November mamas / Captain (cc. Anugod) will permit me i will add you to the entrants as your questions have been used to clarify how to enter.

toludimpz:
The package is for those who deliver in the month of November. However,it's possible you were on the October roll call and then ported I.E passed your edd or could be on the December roll call and your baby decides to make an early entry I.e before your edd thus making you port to the month of November.
I hope I'm correct.

AlphaHandMaiden:
October and december are mentioned so as to allow for those that their babies may be early or late and the birth fall into november. So if one is on either months roll call and ends up "porting" to November they qualify.

AlphaHandMaiden:
October and december are mentioned so as to allow for those that their babies may be early or late and the birth fall into november. So if one is on either months roll call and ends up "porting" to November they qualify.

FexCathy:
haa! Madam completey na woman I be o!

Pweetiebabe:
He has done it for me o baby
What no man can do

BA! BA!! BA!!!

To the glory of God almighty, Jehovah overdo, mighty man in battle, I announce the arrival of my sunshine,the strength of my home, my joy, charming prince that made his grand entrance today @7:45pm weighing 3.1kg through VD and lil tear. Mom, baby and daddy alive.

cc
all mamas
Cravingchic

AlphaHandMaiden:
The time is nigh!

Details to be posted shortly.

Registration link below just in case;

http://eepurl.com/c3NZqj


Good luck and happy bumping everyone!

AlphaHandMaiden:
Good morning/afternoon/evening/night, mamas and papas in the house.

Sometime back, I promised a little pressie or one November 2017 Birthing mama

This is to tie in with the anticipated launch of mima bear Cloth Diapers (Actual Launch Dates to be confirmed shortly!)

Therefore with just 1 or so days to till November, here is the final information on what is on offer:

1 Cloth Nappy Gift Pack (Worth up to N13,000 delivery inclusive) contents include:

1 one-size diaper/ Nappy cover
1 Pack Bamboo inserts - Containing a large and small insert
1 infant size prefold nappy ( up to 9 kg)
1 snappi fastener
2 cloth wipes (1 small + 1 Large)


TO QUALIFY:

you must be on either October, November or December 2017 EDD roll calls ( allowances for porters and late arrivals have been made)

You delivery dates must fall between 1st of November - 30th November 2017 - both dates inclusive

BA and BS on NL preggy thread

Only open to Nigeria Residents

Any interested mamas and papas that qualify can enter for a chance to win this gift pack please register your detail in the link below:

http://eepurl.com/c3NZqj


ENTRY DEADLINE:
All entries to be received by midnight 5th December 2017- this is to allow any mums with a November 30th delivery a chance to enter after a period of recovery.

Winner will be selected at Random and announced on the thread and via email shortly after.

Fift pack will be delivered after confirmation has been made. So please ensure that the address you use is a proper postal address.

PLEASE NOTE: if the winner happens to be a"recent Joiner" to the roll calls, proof of actual November birth may be requested.

I wish you all a smooth pregnancy and swift and safe delivery. I dont really understand. Is it only those that delivered in November will be qualified to participate? Why d mention of October, December. Mamas dat understood shld pls throw more light4me. My Oct. Cappo pweetiebabe u were quoted abeg hlp me2 understand. Thanks

AlphaHandMaiden:
Good morning/afternoon/evening/night, mamas and papas in the house.

Sometime back, I promised a little pressie or one November 2017 Birthing mama

This is to tie in with the anticipated launch of mima bear Cloth Diapers (Actual Launch Dates to be confirmed shortly!)

Therefore with just 1 or so days to till November, here is the final information on what is on offer:

1 Cloth Nappy Gift Pack (Worth up to N13,000 delivery inclusive) contents include:

1 one-size diaper/ Nappy cover
1 Pack Bamboo inserts - Containing a large and small insert
1 infant size prefold nappy ( up to 9 kg)
1 snappi fastener
2 cloth wipes (1 small + 1 Large)


TO QUALIFY:

you must be on either October, November or December 2017 EDD roll calls ( allowances for porters and late arrivals have been made)

You delivery dates must fall between 1st of November - 30th November 2017 - both dates inclusive

BA and BS on NL preggy thread

Only open to Nigeria Residents

Any interested mamas and papas that qualify can enter for a chance to win this gift pack please register your detail in the link below:

http://eepurl.com/c3NZqj


ENTRY DEADLINE:
All entries to be received by midnight 5th December 2017- this is to allow any mums with a November 30th delivery a chance to enter after a period of recovery.

Winner will be selected at Random and announced on the thread and via email shortly after.

Fift pack will be delivered after confirmation has been made. So please ensure that the address you use is a proper postal address.

PLEASE NOTE: if the winner happens to be a"recent Joiner" to the roll calls, proof of actual November birth may be requested.

I wish you all a smooth pregnancy and swift and safe delivery. I dont really understand. Is it only those that delivered in November will be qualified to participate? Why d mention of October, December. Mamas dat understood shld pls throw more light4me. My Oct. Cappo pweetiebabe u were quoted abeg hlp me2 understand. Thanks

cc Team captains: Pweetiebabe , Anugod, Lady25

sassyangel1:
Jst calm down n be doing sofiri sofiri backyard missionary style. I could remember wen I gave hubby cow girl style ontop one special stool v been keeping one corner(nt d dance o), d guy was jst saying "O BABY, DON'T BURST UR BIG BELLE O,I GO DIE INSIDE THIS UR PUSSY O, SO U R STILL CRAZY WITH THIS UR BIG BELLE? AYAM COMINGGGGGG OOOOO.... I was feeling like James Bond. My sister, Na d second day I carry myself all for myself go hospital n dt was Hw doctor kidnapped me say call ur husband to bring some stuffs for u cos u r gonna be placed on admission.

sassyangel1:
I'v been discharged but strictly warned to continue bed rest @ home. Thk u sis...

chrissyjay:
thanks for the response.
mama, I do all d house work, wash baby cloths, cook sweep serve her food pack her plate, wash the dish, change my baby's diaper, she only eats and sleeps. am so exhausted, i dont know what to do. my mom was around helping out with d work but from my mil's body lsnguage, she wanted my mom to leave. Immediately my mom left she started showing me me her true colors. Even when my mom was around she didnt help, she only managed to sweep.

ifyalways:
To eat, sleep and watch Africa magic.
When she's leaving you buy her a big box of wrapper, give her money and throw in some jewelry.

Thank you

chrissyjay:
Good afternoon mamas, pls o what are the duties of MIL during omugwo visit. Abeg help a sis. thanks and happy sunday

Roseey0:
Pls I need any PH mama to recommend a good gynecology clinic for me.
The hospital I registered with is worse than a govt hospital.
Am hoping to register @UPTH soon but I already know I can't cope with their bottlenecks and wouldn't want to deliver there. Just going there for the experts there

Pls I need a private Obstetrician with good rating in PH.
Help a sister

beatiegirl:
Hello house,
Can someone help me out here. It's my first preg, and I'm in my 8th week.
I have not been taking any pre natal vitamins or folic acid, I couldn't stand it as the smell of any drug just upsets my system.
Plus my mouth is bitter and I feel like there's something in my throat refusing to go down.
Is it okay for my baby if I don't take any pre vitamins at least for now? biko

hotmomma:
My dear we are fine by God's grace. How are you and yours esp your big boy? It is well with you my sister. Stay blessed.

proudmom38:
Thank you and God bless you ma'am completey! You are indeed a sister!

completey:
You are welcome ma. How is our baby doing?

hunniesuzie:
Great Mama, how are you and baby?