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PoliticsRe: 10th Ojukwu Memorial: Biafra Agitation Won’t End Soon – Bianca by heyhey2016: 1:15pm On Nov 27, 2021
Holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour
PoliticsRe: Tundun Abiola: I Pray They Dont Kill Nnamdi Kanu same Way They Killed My Father by heyhey2016: 9:23am On Nov 26, 2021
stanluiz:
Nnamdi kanu is done and dusted. That one is 100% sure. He will pay for his sins in a bitter and a hard way.

I trust DSS and know what they can do. The nnamdi kanu that was arrested and jail in DSS prison will not be the same nnamdi kanu that will come out.

Kanu is already a living corpse lying Inside DSS prison.

Ipob bingos can continue living in fantasy thinking that their supleme dilector is Ok and fine. E go clear for their eyes.
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is your saviour
PoliticsRe: Tundun Abiola: I Pray They Dont Kill Nnamdi Kanu same Way They Killed My Father by heyhey2016: 9:19am On Nov 26, 2021
MadamVanessa:
Hear me and hear me well , Prophet Nnamdi Kanu is far above human destruction. No man formed through man's sperm and woman's egg can kill our prophet , the prophet of our time, who didn't nothing wrong against the terrrorist government but only speaking the truth and trying to free alot of people from the bondage of this terrorist government.


I heard Buhari is a tough man, i dare the dullard, i dare him again, let him just give MNK a scratch on the body, and see what will be fall this uselessss contraption.



God blessing be upon our very dear prophet Nnamdi Kanu.
holy holy Nnamdi KANU is another saviour...
PoliticsRe: Who Is Your Favorite Terrorist Group by heyhey2016: 12:24pm On Nov 25, 2021
Ipob: Best Ideology
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour
Science/TechnologyRe: Stunning And Rare Mammatus Clouds Form On Argentina Skies (Pics, Video) by heyhey2016: 10:06pm On Nov 23, 2021
Righteousness2:
The Signs of the times are Everywhere just as JESUS Christ said it will be.

And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring;

Very very soon! A Mysterious Mystery will Shake all the Corners and Nations of the Earth. The Rapture is upon us.

Repent , Believe the Gospel of JESUS Christ and be Saved so as to avoid Unnecessary stories and Wailings.
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour...
PoliticsRe: Why Do They Fear The Igbo Man by heyhey2016: 10:02pm On Nov 23, 2021
EmmaJnr1:
Why Do They Fear The Igbo Man?
There are reasons many finds it difficult to understand Igbo people. Some people fears the Igbo. Not that Igbo people are bad people, yet they fear them. It was this same fear that made slave owners to stop buying Igbo slaves even when they know that Igbo people are intelligent and hard working. It was as a result of this fear that spurred Britain in to working against the Igbo interests in Nigeria. It was this fear that plays against Biafra in 1967-70. There is this fear about Biafra becoming another Japan in Africa. So many refused to support Biafra as a result of this fear.

The understanding of the Igbo towards life is different when compared to Fulani, Hausa and Yoruba. In Igbo land, no one wants to know your father. You hardly see people say, 'Do you know who my father is'. What your father owns is nothing when you are being rated. An Igbo man is rated not with his father's
achievements, but with what he is able to achieve. Respect isn't transferable from Father to son in Igbo land. You need to rise up and climb the ladder of success yourself. No one is accorded respect because of his father's achievements.

Achebe in his classical work 'Things Fall Apart' presented the character of Okonkwo, whose father is not only poor, but also lazy. Unoka, Okonkwo's father will always go to the Priestest to lay sacrifice to the gods, instead of going to work like a man. But Okonkwo rose up to achieve greatness, irrespective of whom his father was. He got riches and was welcomed to the table of elders. Ọ kwa Igbo si na Nwatakịrị kwọchaa aka, o soro Okenye rie nri.(When a child has washed he hands, he can eat with elders). While others will choose to respect and honor children's of their elites, the Igbo will rather give every one the same opportunity to climb the ladder of success or be forgotten.

Zik of Africa, Nnamdi Azikiwe was the greatest of them all in his time, but today no one hears about his sons. It is a competition for the Igbo people. Igbo don't create gods among themselves. That's why it is very difficult to create someone like Tinubu among the Igbo people. Why others have same reoccurring names in their regional politics, the Igbo keep changing leadership.
Igbo people can rally round someone without money and make him king simply because of his dedication and sincerity. Mazi Nnamdi Kanu rose to power without drinking the dirty waters of Nigeria politics. He was never a governor, neither was he a Senator. But today, he is the most respected person in Igbo land. He got the greatest followership.

This culture or way of life of the Igbo encourages competition and the spirit of survival. A son of a poor man in Igbo land dreams of making it big in the future. A father that were able to learn machanic during his own time will deny himself a lot of things to make sure his son becomes a Doctor or a Lawyer. It was this spirit of the Igbo man that made them survive the war and recover within a short period of time. A lot have been said of single Igbo mothers that raised university graduates. Some of those that feared the Igbo accuse them of being domineering. One wonders how the Igbo is domineering when they are not invading peoples lands, or leading Nigeria. But a quick look at the resilience of
the Igbo tells it all.

An Igbo young man can travel to Lagos with nothing and yet become gradually rich. I have seen a Westerner who was trumpeting how Igbo business men engages in money rituals. It was actually an Igbo that went through Igbo apprenticeship system, got settled after 7 years of service to his master, started his own business, survived out of strict discipline, that were accused of money rituals. While his counterparts from other ethnic groups were enjoying parties, he sleeps in his shop, building his business. Soon he owns his own house, only to be accused of being domineering. Success they say attract envy. This is the crime of the Igbo. Succeeding where others failed.Igbo is never domineering. They are rather aggressively successful.

Credit: Elochukwu Ohagi
# igbohistoryandculturetv
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PoliticsRe: Can Tinubu Bow To Ooni Of Ife Or Any First Class Yoruba King Like This - Photos by heyhey2016: 9:59pm On Nov 23, 2021
PrinceOfLagos:
See how our dare jagaban nearly hit his head on the ground bowing to alhaji dantata in kano yesterday..

Can Tinubu bow to any yoruba first class king like this ...

Can Tinubu bow to Allah his creator like this?

Look at the first picture , Even governor abdulahi ganduje couldn't believe with his eyes how low Tinubu could go to be president in 2023

This is shameful from asiwaju that we respect so much

They said charity begins from home but that is not the case in Tinubu's line of thought

This is disgraceful

One can easily figure out the slave from the master .

This is not good
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour...
PhonesRe: Elon Musk’s Starlink To Compete Against MTN, Glo In Nigeria By 2022 by heyhey2016: 9:57pm On Nov 23, 2021
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU and elon musk is another saviour...
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid, Femi Kuti, Burna, Tems Get Grammy Nominations by heyhey2016: 9:55pm On Nov 23, 2021
Adrian9:
Essence must win an award for wizkid and tems!!
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour...
RomanceRe: Why Are Women In A Rush To Get Married? by heyhey2016: 5:19pm On Nov 22, 2021
BigBashiru:
a woman over 30 can have any number of children she wants but there are some caveats. biologically, it has been proven that a woman is most fit for conception and birth of the healthiest babies between 18-30..... this is also the same reason why guys disturb girls 18-30 the most.... nature has designed it all out. the reason why guys disturb girls 18-28 the most is so they can pick the best man to mate with.... the rate at which men show interest in a girl is directly proportional to her youthful look - the more youthful she looks, the more disturbance she gets because youth is subconsciously tied to mating....


yes a woman over 30 can have any number of children she wants but with increased risks in labor (God forbid)... men have biological clock too they just too proud to confess... i believe a guys biological clock is 40.... and 35 is the best age for a guy to have children... a guy can marry at 35 and have flings with hot girls the rest of his life but by 35 the girl is no longer pulling guys like she used to and even for her to have flings is difficult.

Any woman that accuses me of "cheating" after getting married is wasting her time - its becos her own bargaining power is gone; if not she would do the same....she cheated herself by not getting married on time.
healthiest baby relative to what? If I may ask...
PhonesRe: Can I Still Get These Nokia Phones? by heyhey2016: 3:18pm On Nov 22, 2021
selfdefence:
For where you wan see this one abeg? Just go look for tecno phone buy abeg
marketer
CareerRe: Young Graduates: What's Your Creative Idea That Requires Funding by heyhey2016: 1:38pm On Nov 21, 2021
NnamdiKanu:
This is the only true idea of every Igbo graduate, and all lovers of freedom!!!
holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another saviour...
PoliticsRe: Buhari Will Pardon Nnamdi Kanu, But The Implications Will Be Profound by heyhey2016: 2:34pm On Nov 20, 2021
Soulsymbol99:
I think itz a little too late for him to renounce Biafra. I mean, the guy lost both his mum and dad because of Biafra. And the worst was he couldn't attend the burial s. So I think the man is ready to die for the course.
holy holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another savior
FamilyRe: Help! Mine Jobless 18 Years Old Brother Just Bought A Car Worth 5million Naira by heyhey2016: 5:33pm On Nov 16, 2021
Rubbiish's , MONEY247 WOULD YOU GET OUT OF THIS THREAD
FamilyRe: Help! Mine Jobless 18 Years Old Brother Just Bought A Car Worth 5million Naira by heyhey2016: 5:20pm On Nov 16, 2021
How's everything now, sir?
TolaniLuv:
I'm related to this topic right here! Wow, well I am not surprised about your intentions towards your broda callin da police or efcc!

What made you think they re gonna do anything about it? Police would be happy to chop outta of da money and talk among em sef callin you a fool cus you re for even thinking to trusting Nigerian police by reporting your blood broda!

I remember when I was also in your brother situation ! When I was 18 , we had 1 brother overseas promising heaven and earth for our mom and us! Dad die long time along when I was 2 yrs things were so hard single mother with 4 children! I remember my brother travel out of 9ja with the money mom saved to take care of 4 children then, he kept calling when he got overseas promising heaven and earth! Sayin we should go to school after everything he will invite us to study / join him in the state! Well, he didn't call for 3 good years or return our calls! I remember my first hit I was 17/18 yrs many people were into Internet runs then, it was not about money tho, we were getting Laptops from state I got my 100 piece sold t! I was like wow! First then I did was move my parent to a 3 bedroom flat . Everything was goin smooth! Then I was into getting the money! When I hit my first big time money! I built a house for my parent, buy mi sef a nice Honda legend back in 2006 ! I was just 19 yr then,


I didn't know we had a big ass family member then when we didn't have anything , I meet alot of fam member wen things were starting to get better! Beefin start to come in, as an ambitious person! My focus was to make my parent really happy cus I knew wat we went tru! I am nt saying wha I did was good but, when I started it I thought t was a game it was fun. Well, as beef/hatred comes in t burst my moral to Never Fall Cus many people re waiting to see mi down fall' I kept raising up doing things I never thought I could do so soon! My brother travel abroad to study in UK I was sti home trying to make things right! Open a business for my mom and so on! Things were good! After 7 yrs we didn't hear from our brother he called suddenly one day.

Saying he's coming back to nigeria! Damn we were happy! Btw, I forgot to mention my other travel to the state to meet him, but, he tricked him not to overstay and go back to 9ja collected is btw money and sent him back to 9ja not knowing how much we spent to get the visa and airplane! Almost 800k plus!

As I was saying he came back to 9ja and saw all what we had accomplised he felt the jeaouly/envy that you the poster is feeling now towards your brother! We didn't care! We still took care of him as a brother ! I even gave him my new Toyota Rav 4 2005 model to drive around so e can visit his old friend in nigeria!

I also even sometimes give him some cash thru my mom so he can spend when he visit his friends here, well, he was welcomed I didn't know all dis things brought jealousy !

He went back to the state with a bad feelings! What e can't do his younger broda did t! It was kinda of shameful tin for him to stand wit t! I knw staying abroad is a bit kinda of hard, because I'm 24 yrs now studying outside 9ja doin legit stuff now! But, it's not as hard as not to call ur parent for 7yrs and come back home suddenly thinking we re still gonna be leaving in that 1room apartment we used to live before u left! U should be happy and embrace ur broda tell him Welldone ! Advice him! Be close to him! Don't stay away cus he need you! U wanna call police? Family member did that to me police got there share and told me who did t! It's rare to see a yahoo boi go to jail in 9ja!! Police you wanna call are also into yahoo! They will tell you clear to give dem link too! Don't be a fool! Be smart

I'm not pround of my past! But, I am proud of my self and my future. Studying abroad! My parent are happy! I'm happy, what more I want in life? My dream was to make my parent happy, and study abroad to be a better man in future I sti have time to change that!

Moral of the story!!! Your brother needs you! If you keep away, I tell you he doenst give a fck too! Dnt call police or efcc cus deh re gonna wanna chop toosmiley

Peace out
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by heyhey2016: 10:44pm On Nov 15, 2021
Your a very stupid woman tell your self that stinking pussy billing 500k...
TheOnlyUyai:
Better go and read your books.

You want to date your Auntie? What rubbish. God knows I don't give audience to little minions in your age group. There's one 23 year old that's been currently on my neck until I gave him the red card. I have told him countless times that we can't date. Friendship sef na even manage. Wetin we wan dey discuss? Joeboy's dreads or the new girl he just smashed? All these mummy's bossom boys sef.

I billed him 500K. He japa.

I like my men in their 30s-50s with good credit balance, and not all these children still wearing diapers and don't even know what their future holds yet.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by heyhey2016: 10:41pm On Nov 15, 2021
Solofresh2:
Thanks for that
Some of them are even shouting that I should go make money as if they know my worth
Am 100 sure some of them can't afford my lifestyle despite my age.
Don't mind foolish nairalanders. But op becareful of ladies in general.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A 26-Year-Old Lady And I'm 21 by heyhey2016: 7:35pm On Nov 15, 2021
Parizz:
are you into single moms?
yes
CrimeRe: Ataga's Murder: Chidinma Ojukwu Lied To Hide Her Identity - Witness Tells Court by heyhey2016: 6:50pm On Nov 15, 2021
Omicron007:
shocked


Vaginarians have nothing to offer. After sex, they may still end up destroying you.
Be careful out there, these vaginarians don't care about you. The society is even wired to protect them more than you.
No go de do pass yourself sad


holy holy holy manna has be banned thank God


In other news, akant has been banned. grin
PoliticsRe: Suffering In The East Is On Another Level by heyhey2016: 10:06pm On Nov 14, 2021
Holy holy holy holy nnamdi KANU is another Savior
jmoore:
You are allergic to truth. Every Igbo that doesn't agree with IPOB is tagged a Fulani.


I will not fold my hands and watch IPOBandits destroy my state. You can choose to destroy other southeast states, but once the madness of IPOB enters Anambra, you will understand that Anambra people will never allow Nnamdi Kanu from Abia state to destroy the engine of Igboland.


Nnamdi Kanu had called for boycott of Anambra elections twice but never called for boycott in his Abia state. IPOBandits should stay away from Anambra.
PoliticsRe: Suffering In The East Is On Another Level by heyhey2016: 10:02pm On Nov 14, 2021
DOTian:
Agitations come with a cost. And the people of Eastern Nigeria are aware of this. We're not going to accept the status quo just for the sake of peace. That's the peace of a graveyard! There were gully erosions in our roads before IPOB. There were policemen every pole before IPOB. There were corruption and lack of infastructure before IPOB. Actually IPOB became a phenomenon as a result of her desire to correct these. So when most of you none Igbos start to point to the negative effects of IPOB agitations, it is important to also note the Evil realities that led to the emergence of IPOB..
holy holy holy
RomanceRe: Have You Experienced This? by heyhey2016: 9:46pm On Nov 14, 2021
Smartiegurl:
Mind you......never dragged him to say hi ohh! Yeah....i wished for him to say hi because i admired him, he was cute, handsome and what have you.....but truth is......never knew he was gonna do more than i xpected......no regrets at allllll!!
fool
CareerRe: Should I Bet On Myself?; I Need Your Advice. by heyhey2016: 3:35pm On Nov 14, 2021
ILoveDemMANNA:
At the end of the day, nothing anyone says here will change your mind.
Your destiny is in your hands.
I wish you all the very best.
buhari has taken your destiny
EducationRe: Saheed Oladele: How I Returned ₦118,000 To A Book Store In Ibadan (Photo) by heyhey2016: 4:41pm On Nov 13, 2021
post=107583181:
A great honest Nigerian, he should be applauded.
Greed and Dishonesty, the two main problems of an average Nigerian.
Read along to understand our reasons for saying so......

(N.B : If you are a fraudster and criminal on Nairaland,
Skip to the next post or you may not survive reading this)


*HOME TRUTH*

I run a manufacturing business and a trading business.
The biggest challenge in my manufacturing business is not power, or infrastructure, the biggest challenge is getting honest staff. Everyone we hire appears to be on a mission to steal as much as possible. Inflated invoices, recording less than the actual number of units produced. The worst part of it all is that all the fraud we've uncovered is not done by a single person, it's usually many staff who collude with each other, from production, to sales, to finance, even top management. There was a year I overhauled management 3 times in a year.........
But me, I've found a solution sha, I now use Indian management. So competent, so honest and so straightforward. I thought they were expensive at first with all the visa fees, accommodation, house staff, but now that losses due to staff theft have been reduced to a minimum, and efficiency increased, the Indian management has turned out to be cheaper than the previous Nigerian management. Now, all sensitive positions involving money go to Indians. Nigerians are only allowed in non-sensitive positions. I used to criticize companies like Dangote Group that hire so many Indians when there are many unemployed Nigerians, but now, I understand their decision.

My biggest challenge in the trading business is the same, getting honest staff. The form of trading occurs in the open market, and involves staff having access to huge sums of money running into a few millions. I know how much I pay to security companies to provide escorts for the staff, not to prevent robbery, but to ensure that the staff go straight to the bank to deposit the money after the day's sales and not disappear with my money. This money spent on security companies is even enough to be declared as profit. We have to spend on CCTV, biometric scanners and other things that wouldn't be needed if staff weren't looking for the slightest opportunity to steal.

It got so bad at a point that my main criteria for employing staff was no longer competency but honesty. At least, competency and skills can be learnt, but once you're dishonest, you're dishonest.

We always complain of the economy and how there are no jobs. I know people abroad who would have loved to set up job creating businesses in Nigeria but they can't because they can't get any trustworthy person to run it.

I know people in Nigeria with so much money, they want to start factories and other job-creating businesses but they can't because they are occupied elsewhere and can't get any trustworthy person to run the business. So instead of investing in the real sector and creating jobs, they'll just buy treasury bills, while the thieves are shouting no jobs.

Many big businesses would have been born in Nigeria if we could engage in partnerships, but we cant because you can't trust anyone. This is one advantage the Indians and Lebanese have over us in Nigeria. They can pull resources together and do mega-business, unlike Nigerians that because only one person must do everything since we can't partner, end up with small, tiny businesses.

Start a poultry and they will be stealing your eggs. Some will even go ahead to be killing the chickens so that they'll be allowed to take them home.

Start an entertainment/viewing/game center and they'll be pocketing your money. On the days you're around at the business, the money realized will be x10 of the money realized when you're not around..... Because they're eating your money.

Lease out a vehicle to a driver to use and watch as he'll finish you.

Start a restaurant, the same thing will happen. More than half of the total food ingredients will end up in their personal kitchens.

Even ordinary provisions shop, they will find a way to steal.

You'll see them with that their evil, wicked saying "na where person dey work, na there e dey chop, na e make dem dey callam workchop/workshop"...... Just imagine, justifying theft at work.

And you'll see these people point their crooked fingers at politicians when they're not any different. I usually say the reason most Nigerians haven't stolen billions of government money, is simply lack of opportunity.

*On every level, Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria*.


If the truth wanna kill the online fraudsters and criminals we have on Nairaland,
you guys should better die now.
We will continue to hit your head as much as we can with the truth and be against your fraudulent lifestyle ALWAYS.
For all the scams you have scammed innocent people all over the world, and they end up committing suicide or becoming homeless, and y'all here thinking you are living large, kid you not, you will never enjoy that fraudulent money, it will lead you to your grave soonest. (You can keep hating honest, and hardworking members on this forum, but some of us will continue to kill you with the truth.)
Only if God doesn't exist.
Thieves, Barawos everywhere
.





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GREED!!!

When we say we are our own problem they start grumbling.....

Okay listen to these examples:

1. You sell chicken and add over 40% profit ,you are happy forgetting that the person that bought the chicken sells tomatoes and pepper.

2. The tomatoes and pepper seller has to recover the excess she paid for the chicken, so she adds her own 42% profit margin.

3. Teacher will come and buy these 2 items with what? She has no other alternative than to increase lesson fees or school fees.

4. You will go and rent house from a landlord who has paid excess for cement, sand, chicken, tomatoes and pepper, lesson fees, how will he meet up if not by increasing his house rent by 60%.

And the circle continues, it is not about dollars, dollars is just an excuse, abi wetin concern garri, beans and yam with dollars.

The problem is you and I and our excessive greed.



That is why you will forever remain the same way you are now.
No more shame to come to the public to say he's gonna steal people's money.
Lost generation!
Tueh!


Only a fraudster or criminal will be wailing about our above post.
We hope you ain't one of them kiddo?
If so, we understand your weeping about the honest truth.
No wonder you are your fellow children are always wailing and in serious pains reading our posts here.
The earlier, the better for you.
Advice from the elders kiss


Hmmmm, this is deep!


Sure we do get the good ones among the youths.

Addendum:
The below are screenshots from a very recent party we went to grill Barbecue for one of our clients we met on Nairaland,
And the below are the amount of meats the food caterer hired for the event stole, ready to take home with her.
After telling people at the party that beef has finished!
(After being paid close to 2 Million Naira for her catering job!!)
A picture speaks more than a thousand words.
Shame on her and her online criminals here.....
I like your answer
Music/RadioRe: Wizkid Sets Record -1st Nigerian Album To Spend A Year On Billboard Charts by heyhey2016: 2:44pm On Nov 12, 2021
Holy
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heyhey2016: 1:22am On Nov 12, 2021
Carchoice:
Most men are after free/cheap sex, sex that whenever they have an erection, the lady is readily available to do the job. They don’t know this is the most deceptive trick ever.

Here’s how it works;

At first you are happy the sex is cheap and ready whenever you want it. Your brain automatically starts using this particular lady or ladies to fill the gaps.. When you try another lady and She turns you down, you bother less because there’s a cheap one already filling the void. When you get high on substance and ring another lady, if She disappoints you, you bother less because there’s a cheap lady ready to do the job that same day or as early as the next day. No stress. No demands. It’s poison.


Free/cheap sex are always the best because you can fvck them for hours and they are never tired, they are ready to satisfy you, you can turn them 180 to 360 degrees they won’t complain. They are always dripping wet, they moan louder to massage your ego. Over time you stop using protection because you start to feel you own it (SOME GUYS ARE VERY GUILTY OF THIS). Some men don’t know when to withdraw after 2 to 3 sex meeting with the lady. They move to the 2nd stage of their fall.


Overtime, the free/cheap sex starts to become scarce. Why? Some woke ladies know the game they are playing while some are just fed up of the whole “free” thing. When it becomes scarce with different excuses as to why they can’t turn up as usual. Your ego becomes bruised. This is the second stage of the fall. The men unconsciously starts doing the chasing. grin You become more hornier with an intense chase. Common sense will not tell some men to back down. it was free initially, why is it becoming tough all of a sudden? They want to know why, then the free/cheap sex starts making demands directly and indirectly.

“When I come today, you will not touch me”

You will answer affirmative just to make her come, in your small mind you’ll think when She comes, you’ll have your way as usual. You are actually going deeper. While some agrees not to touch her, this is the trickiest part, because when She comes and you really don’t touch her for sex, this creates more room for chit-chat and bonding that was never in the sexlationship. She starts moulding you to her taste and preference. “Is it every time we will be having sex” becomes her new slogan. She starts fixing a date to visit you, making demands directly. And the idea of it being free from the beginning keeps deceiving you into thinking it is all an act from her which you can easily correct.


It is at this stage some woke ladies will now give conditions of “relationship or no more sex”. While some foolish men starts getting jealous because they think that thing they were getting free, another guy is probably now taking charge. EGO bruise.


The next stage is where some men do get lost, they start agreeing to some if not all of her demands, start acting caring and paying attention to the lady, treat her right, when She comes they won’t won’t touch her, they starts discussing more often, subbing stories starts pouring in to get the emotional side of the weaker men. from here some men will say “she’s a very nice and hard working lady, I should ask her to be my girlfriend”


Now the chase is now in your court. Something you were getting for free that was massaging your ego, that you used to boast to your guys when they see the lady leaving your apartment and sometimes they hear how she was screaming and moaning, now have a mind of it’s own but common sense will not let you reason clearly because of Konji.


My Redpill brothers, I can confidently tell you that a greater percentage of men in a relationship and those getting married started it this way. I was a victim of this, I lost to 4 ladies, one in 2017, one in 2018 and two in 2019 and 2020. My saving grace was at the last stage, they start asking and making demands.


The last lady in 2020, She came to my house, we were both naked and She was on top of me for close to 30 min, teasing her Vee with my Pee, She would use her Vee to kiss my Pee for me to feel the wetness. She had done this same thing 2x prior that day. I tried severally to position her well and slide in but She wouldn’t let me, She would raise her self up instead. I saw my sorry self begging her to let me in. She was laughing and said “Konji go kill you today”. Then She said “******, if we are going to start dating after, I will put it in”


I told her to get off me, She was still teasing, I gently pushed her aside and told her I don’t agree to manipulations because of sex. Immediately the table turned, She said I had been using her for free sex all along. That was the end of it.


Moral of the post, don’t think a lady is giving you free sex, that’s where it ends. If you don’t use your sense, there are so many ways for her to trap you. She can even go as far as getting pregnant and turn a wife or you even make her the wife while the reality is, you were manipulated into it with free sex.


Mind you, cheap or costly, they are the same but I’m just removing the veil beneath what most men don’t know about free/cheap sex. A free/cheap sex always comes with ease, calmness and peace of mind but it is the worse. If you think the redpill will get you free/cheap sex, be prepared because this is where the real test is.
Theres a word for this "coquette"...
Robert Greene dedicated a chapter to it in his book "art of seduction"

The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state of anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play with emotions swinging between love and hate.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Art_of_Seduction

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