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Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

What a wonderful development.
Congratulations to her
Wish her endless achievements.

Uhmm!!!
This forum get as e be.
Why insults and derogatory words all over this forum?
Only uncultured and immature people does that.


At op....... You don't need to mention anybody 's name before you can make a point.........and sorry to say, what you trying to figure out sound baseless.

You are not far from the truth though..... @op

Beebah2000:
I am comfortable with it.
I don send you my WhatsApp number.

OK seen.
I already sent you message on WhatsApp.

Beebah2000:
okay.

If you not feel comfortable with it..... Stop then.

Beebah2000:
I just tell u female, u kuku drop email address. Na wa ooo
Sharp Sharp guy

Nothing sharp about this.
OK you know what?
Share me your WhatsApp contact?
Wanna message you outside this forum.

Beebah2000:
Female

Can we talk outside this forum? If yes
You can send me your WhatsApp contact through my Gmail account Adewalemariam93@gmail.com
Let me know if you do so?

Jagaban of borgu.....
Nous sommes solidement derrière vous

Beebah2000:
Oga, be calming down small small nauh and don't take it personal.
Hahahaha!!!

Ain't taking anything personal, so relax.
I think is my first time commenting on your posts but before i proceed...... ARE YOU A FEMALE OR MALE,? you know we are in public forum?

chatinent:
You even have the time to maintain a chat with a Nigerian girl that's not your girlfriend or wife.

I don't do that. Nothing wey me and you wan talk...apart from business.

They are pests. Entitled pests!

I hail the 30% of Nigerian girls who aren't pests. Those who work hard! Because two minutes into a chat with 70% of Nigerian girls, the chat is prone to be heading to billing. I mean criminal billing.

If it's not her period that needs drugs, it's her birthday coming up every month, or her airtime/data needing you to recharge to keep the chat going. Same format she shares to all the guys on their list.

Little wonder you see that percent of entitled girls spending extravagantly, needing things their lineage cannot afford, and placing top celebrity priorities of their cheap selves that have zilch to offer. Because all they think they have to offer is their body. Brest and yansh na asset? So they think that before you pharaoh their red sea you must spend! And y'all girls who do these wonder why that guy wouldn't use you and dump? No bi you begin using him initially?


Na guys wey wan chat (probably sleep) with every girl sha dey experience this because I see no reason why when I neither collected your number nor chatted you for you to chat me and tell me to send you money. When your real life papa no dey craze.

Smile
Bro..... Be calming down.
Why para? Don't let them give you high pressure.
Majority of them are like that.
Whenever i sense that their parable is revolve around money , I will instantly ghost them or give them false hope.

Your write up is highly welcome
Sound sensitive and awareness for those that wanna enter relationship or marriage.
Second time taking 1st position to comment.

Beebah2000:
What can you offer apart from money??
Hmmm..... Nothing!!!
Any man way ask you say wetin u fit offer for relationship apart from sex, just know say na MUMU person him be.
80% of Nigerian men for this generation, no get sense at all.

Eh! Ain't sure if you are a male or female but just wanna tell you that be calming down small small nauh and don't take it personal.


What do mean by 80%......kuku make it 99% so we would know that you are on point, Gibberish!!

womenareapess:
event like this make idiots go critical unsimp mode

Good for ya simps who value those vagina entity.

We keep preaching that those piece of shiit called naija women are useless and worthless! An entities you shouldn't stress yourself on.


Never you put a woman first in this life. Value yourself more than those baboons and more over, those baboons got nothing to offer apart from opening their septic tank for various biders

The day you realize that those breast and vagina are nothing but a sack of decaying flesh, that's the very day you wake up to maturity that women are not worth your stress.

As a man you are 20x more valuable than 1000 woman.

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Eh bro! You are right though but
You know that woman private part you called septic tank we all came from?


Not all are evils minded or having bad intentions towards men. We have good girls while also we also have bad ones but majority of bad ones have overtaking good ones.

As for the O. P, it has learnt it lesson but in hard way, so he should stay strong and move on.

We are getting there.....
May God bless all the hard working Nigerians and those of us in Diaspora.

Brian47:
All these marriage wahala I read on Narialand everyday, I'm scared for marriage.

Guy..... Just pray May God give us our choicest spouse and Fruitful affairs/marriage.
No perfect marriage anywhere, people are covering theirs imperfections in marriage.

Jagaban of borgu
Tinubu - - - - - the masses's choice.
Je adorerai toi.......Notre nouveau président République fédérale du Nigeria.

pansophist:
I'll recommend the francophone African countries, between Senegal and Ivory coast. I'll recommend Ivory coast though. Firstly because they have a reasonable functioning government, so issues such as electricity, security, good roads and water, food and the very basic are guaranteed. You can earn and enjoy your money in peace.

But most importantly, you do not need a visa to stay there permanently since you're covered under the ecowas protocols. If you don't mind learning French, believe me you'll enjoy any of these countries. I've been there, so I know. But if learning French is an headache for you, consider Ghana or Gambia.

Hey bro..... You are right about ivory Coast.
I reside in Ivory Coast, Abidjan to be precise.
Base on their social amenities Abidjan is a top notch and let me use the medium to tell you this; things are costly in Ivory Coast, starting from accommodation, electricity bill, water bill, transportation, feeding, fun e.t.c.
To make this convinience for you, you have to be earning big or A big business man unless you go for lesser lifestyle/living you won't experience too much of what I listed above.
Talking from experience.... So O.p the ball is in your court.

Raalsalghul:
His wife?

Seriously?

Yes.... I am not talking about girlfriend.

No advise to give u again,
Just put yourself together and move on
She is not yours....
Lesson learnt.
Next time if you want to venture into another relationship,Use your sense not your heart.


You see my guy, focus on your life first and enjoy yourself to d fullest.... Life no get duplicate o!


The only people that will stand by you and love you genuinely is your parent, siblings and your wife.

Comradewhy:
STFU.
I repeat no lady will want to be part of your wretchedness.

OK.
Respect yourself youngman or woman or whatever you call yourself

I am not like other guys you can talk to irrationally.
Behave!

Comradewhy:
Leave that one,no reasonable woman should go for a wretched and futureless man.
Go for the best.

Hey guy or bae
You just constitute nuisance here and there.

As for the O. P......... In this 21 century you just have to work on yourself first before you look for reasonable hardworking lady to mingle with.

Ebakere:
Hi dearie I can't and will never ask a guy for Money in a relationship if he wants to give no problem but if he doesn't have to give no problems I will pay my bills myself my boyfriend is not my father

You are nothing but a damn wife material for every sane man looking for a lady to tie the knot with.........if truly what you just wrote up there came from bottom of your heart and not a slip of tongue.

Infact you deserve a medal for this wonderful statements.

Babe, don't change your way of reasoning and thinking.

A lot of gold-diggers out there this days parading themselves as feminist.

Good guys my foot
They are the ones that turns us to monster we are today.


Just apply sense when you are dealing with them because some of them just came to your life to distabilize your plans and destroy you.


May God no let us come across such ladies.

May you find favour

blackparadise:
nah wisdom I dey use for them, they are genuine ones, but the rest nah gold digger..

Even though they flaunt their so called sexy body .I ignore, I have those ones for pkanshing...no worry myself over them,

Like one I date sometime ago , thinking Me I am a fool, after she came to my crib, she said yes to date me, ok.. before she left she started telling me of her upkeep, that I should be giving her monthly stipend , I said in my mind , she is fooling herself... That need this that ..I just laugh..ok ..she quickly open pufzy for me to pkansh.. I bang hell out of that pufzy, after that I give her 1000 for bike ,she didn't mind expecting me to send stipend month end..

Nah him month end reach banny the disturb me with calls , sweet hear honey, sugar ..

She said baby wat of the stuff, I told nothing on ground that she should forget about stipend..

She said she will go do what I don't like, I still don't say anything ..she said she will look outside, I told her she should go, I can't kill my self over a girl, this is a girl that her father is a banker, her mum is working in FAAN, I wonder how they brought her up...


Me kukuma just ingore her, later she said me I don't have money, am a broke niga, I didn't alter a wird .. since then I blocked her line..

Later in the street I learnt my landlord friend do bang her in his crib even during the time we are dating...

I don't like those attitudes, because I toasted you, u started billing me..

You see bro..... That is where I am going actually, some of them don't have respect for themselves talkless of courtesy.


They don't care whether the relationship just started or not, their top priority is how to be billing you starting from day one..... Noo! That sound weird to me as a hustling type that hustling for his future and wellbeing......

My final conclusion is we guys should be using our brain when dealing with them.

Leeches everywhere nowadays.

blackparadise:
walahi I don tire for them, trouble makers, most guys that have high blood pressure is because of girls,.. all in the name of Love..me I just dey knack if the thin hungry me... relationship zero ..I just dey neutral my guy too...

Nnah money sure pass, even they see you with money Dem go flood your house ...if money go, Dem go japa

That is harsh reality about most ladies of nowadays.


All they cares for is to just spend on them lavishly.

Though there's some genuine and hard working ladies out there but all the same as a hustling guy you just have to apply sense when you are dealing with them.

blackparadise:
how do you manage them? Self hope they don't disturb you

My guy..... You see ehn!
I stay low-key with anything call relationship for now
Though I av experienced behaviour of some babes I dated before. As for me, I don't condone nonsense.

blackparadise:
God bless you my guy, you don talk ham finish, I love your write up...

Who girl help,

Me I dey pkanshing pufzy Wella, but at the end nah 2000 I go remit...

Nothing more than that,


I got no time giving banny huge money because of pufzy...bombom clatz gurlz

You welcome bro

For this life...
Just dey your dey, make I dey my dey
Nobody send anybody
All I know is that get busy with your life and and stop craving for attention.
People don't have time for shit, we all cares about money.

My advise to guys out there, we should be calming down small small on girls.... I don't say you should not spend on your girlfriend but spend with sense. The people that deserve your hard-earned money is you, your parent, siblings and your wife.