Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 4:23pm On May 28, 2020 |
Fredoallan: See what our leaders did to us. At 29, guyman stil single. All d people dah fought for Nigeria independence are below 29.
@op, take ur time sha. Nor be competition dou. If you knw dah you not ready to settle down now, don’t accommodate her. Baba I no dey reason am, I fit no marry last last, my guy of same age dey Yankee now, no thought of marriage anywhere, who want marry make he go ahead, I will be reading their story of breakup on NL. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 3:38pm On May 28, 2020 |
madgoat: Not planning to settle down any time soon and you are 29yrs old..... To be frank you seem kind of useless Lol, laugh wan kee me here, Bros I finished school 2018 after obtaining OND and Bsc, masters on my mind, now I have an apartment and a car, recently registered a business name to launch one of my ideas into a company before the year runs out, I don't know what you mean by useless but Bros, I won't even marry in the next 5years. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 2:51pm On May 28, 2020 |
Saltybear: [s][/s]
Where on the island did you find a self contained?
Please I hope you aren't one of those people who refer to Ajah axis as the island?
Was it in onitu estate you got the room?
What was the rate ? I am looking to help someone secure one
Now to the less important thing , well if at 29 you don't know what's good for you or your future then don't waste space by typing things like this I have to take out time to reply you, you don't have to be unfortunate with you reply, if ajah axis is not island, what then is it? Why try to stereotype everything? What is the meaning of island again? A place where rich people live? Now to the less important thing, being 29 doesn't mean I can't seek advice on something confusing, something I haven't done before and some other people have the experience. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:37am On May 28, 2020 |
Kobicove: I you do not have plans of marrying her then don't cage her in your house.
Let her use the opportunity of NYSC to meet other guys so she can weigh her options objectively.
As for you, at this stage in your life you don't need any encumbrance to tie you down...you need to sort out your finances first!  so going to serve in one village in katsina is where she will find her husband? Don't you think she will find a suitable person in Lagos than a village? And who told you I don't have plans to marry her? After NYSC the next thing you are suggesting for her is marriage, after you all will be clamouring for independent girls for marriage, what do you all really want sef. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:35am On May 28, 2020 |
Geeksamir: Hmmm Just kukuma tell us that u want free kpekus Lol, been getting the free kpekus or whatever for as long as I recall, it's not new, I'm talking about something serious helping her find her feet on something tangible. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:33am On May 28, 2020 |
chukwunweikeemi: My brother,co-habitation is a sin.If you love this girl and would like to marry her,then let her remain with her parents/guardians until you come and take ger hand in marriage.Then the both of you can live together.Runaway from premarital sex and don't put yourself in comprosing situations and God will bless you as you obey him. For now, sex with my gf is the only sin I can't run away from. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:31am On May 28, 2020 |
Ablyz: But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands i love that agreement and also agree not to have sex until u are finacially stable :PBut if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands i love that agreement and also agree not to have sex until u are finacially stable If she doesn't come to stay with me, sex will still happen, we are not doing it in exchange for money. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:30am On May 28, 2020 |
Kobicove: I you do not have plans of marrying her then don't cage her in your house.
Let her use the opportunity of NYSC to meet other guys so she can weigh her options objectively.
As for you, at this stage in your life you don't need any encumbrance to tie you down...you need to sort out your finances first!  Baba everything is not marriage, she is just 22 and going for NYSC, no career yet and that's why I want to help her find her feet, I'm not interested in marrying someone without a job or career, except my money becomes long. |
Romance › Re: Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 11:27am On May 28, 2020 |
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Romance › Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me? by Hightser(op): 10:08am On May 28, 2020 |
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.
Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.
My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet) So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)
But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.
My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.
But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.
Please I need advice and contributions. |
Crime › Re: Obinwanne "InvictusObi" Okeke To Plead Guilty To Wire And Computer Fraud by Hightser: 11:54am On May 25, 2020 |
Kizzygentle: 11 million dollar fraud and forbes recognised him. And jude somewhere is claiming that one Cynthia is owing him 40million dollar debt and no one knows him. See as celebs dey use us do yeye sha. 40 million naira not dollars oga |
Romance › Re: How A Bank Ruined My Relationship. by Hightser: 10:35am On May 25, 2020 |
TransflectTP: Don't get yourself confused bro. Move on.
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Politics › Re: Lockdown: Lagos Launches ‘food Kitchen’ To Feed 100,000 Youths Daily by Hightser: 11:12am On May 09, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Do I Build A Small House Now Or Keep Saving? by Hightser: 12:14am On May 02, 2020 |
covid2019: I am a graduate male of 29.
I have 11.4 million, inclusive of my working capital, plus a rickety car valued at 350k. Guy, wetin u dey do, I dey shame for myself, same age, graduates too, please tip me na, what's the way? |
Family › Re: Do I Build A Small House Now Or Keep Saving? by Hightser: 12:09am On May 02, 2020 |
Needy19: Definitely, I've wanted to do dis long time ago, but got no medium to do soo here at nigeria, am advertising my s*x business here on Nairaland, am a male young nd vibrant gigolo, if interested, u can send me an email message, am at lagos, Ajah Guy, how far na, I need accommodation at island oh, you no go help me? I do Uber BTW and the mainland is not a target market. |
Politics › Re: Lockdown: Ongoing Protest In My Area, At Ibeju Lekki by Hightser: 12:17am On Apr 28, 2020 |
Samdeejay100: Protest started this morning in my area from angry youths that were not allowed to move out freely........ Boss I greet you oh, please how is accommodation like at ibeju, like a self container to 1 bedroom, thanks |
Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Begging Mark Zuckerberg When He Was In $53m Debt (2016 Tweets) by Hightser: 12:14am On Apr 26, 2020 |
SaiRuiMall: A lot of you are condemning Sairuimall e-commerce business today. Just save this post and get back to it in a couple of years.
Better chat me up for the real deal Hahaha, have saved it, even the e commerce name will not allow it progress. |
Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Begging Mark Zuckerberg When He Was In $53m Debt (2016 Tweets) by Hightser: 11:43pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
codeminta: the same way I have been begging you guys please invest in my ideas
https://www.nairaland.com/5782775/start-up-business-need-funding
I will publicly acknowledge those who help me I have got the idea planned I have got the skill na only laptop be my problem now... fellow programmer,brothers and sisters, daddy and mommy help pls... Had to read your thread guy, I laughed, you are in the same mess with myself right now, I got 4 ideas that has to do with mobile application, I studied computer engineering for OND and Geology for Bsc, no cash at hand at all, there are places to get loans but the moratorium is the issue as you don't expect one to start paying back from the capital you he is using to run the business, my advice is, start small, on my own part, I contacted a mobile app developer and he gave me a bill of 1m plus to build the app, money for ads is not there oh, so I have resulted to make it a long term investment, I will design the UI of the app, register the company name, write a good business plan, send mails to our celebrities on IG and Twitter. Your proposal should include even the percentage share you want to give them cause them having the finances means they have an edge over you. I know you don't want to divulge your ideas, but those things you put up look like it's limited to a particular geaographic location and not nation wide or Lagos itself, cause no one would want to sponsor a business in abeokuta while he resides in Lagos, brush up your ideas more, on my own part, I have started learning mobile app development so that of eventually I don't raise money to pay for building the app, I can build it myself. Good luck to us. |
Politics › Re: Lockdown: Lagos Launches ‘food Kitchen’ To Feed 100,000 Youths Daily by Hightser: 9:20pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
coker007: Like if you yi imu
Anyone having a vehicle and wants to venture into the e-hailing platform? I am a registered driver on bolt and I need a vehicle owner partner that is available for rentals. Kindly quote me if interested. In this lockdown? |
Romance › Re: Last Fling Before Wedding Is Very Dangerous by Hightser: 10:12pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Chi59: I once liked a guy on nairaland. He stated his interest in me and we started getting to know each other. I noticed that this fellow was fond of uploading pics of his ex almost every other day. I called his attention to it. He flared up. Na so everything scatter. Good riddance. I never keep contacts or memoirs of exes. Once we're done we're done. I don't know the kind of spirit that possess many young people of nowadays. Once I found out you're still attached to your ex, I'm out. I'm not your rebound girl. Nne, imakazi, can at least follow you on Instagram?  |