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Celebrities / Re: If Not For Music, These Nigerian Artistes Would Be Fashion Stars by Honesty001: 5:52pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Macsjebs:E no get money that is why.To be a fashionista you need money 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Dino Melaye Dancing To Majek Fashek's Song In Throwback Photo by Honesty001: 12:14pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
ConnectedMan:His problem was spiritual.He meddled into the occult and broke the rules.He was tortured.He took into drugs and alcohol as his solace. |
Travel / Re: Vibration On Niger Bridge: Motorists Worried by Honesty001: 5:36pm On May 27, 2020 |
Evilgenuis:keep waiting.That day you will be on that bridge. |
Crime / Re: TC Okere Stabs His Wife To Death by Honesty001: 6:25pm On May 25, 2020 |
Ghostmode2two:The reality is that a lot of couples do not invest in their marriage.Instead of settling their differences and improving their relationship,They prefer to spend so much time with their kids.They invest in their kids and themselves.They forget their spouses emotional needs.No ignition of romance and love.At least a dinner date could help.when the kids leave the home to build up their new home,the parents come back to square one.This time around no one to hide behind.All flaws once again exposed.Only to realise the incompatibility and lack of love from both. |
Crime / Re: Girl Arrested For Faking Own Death To Avoid Financial Pressure From Mom (Photo) by Honesty001: 2:22pm On May 25, 2020 |
Feyang:Go to Twitter and tag segalink and Nigerian police .Tag Adetutu Balogun(aunty tutsy),Dr Joe Abah, malachy odo. Create the ash tag # Justice for ... (insert your friend's name) narrate the story. |
Properties / Re: Please Help. My Apartment Is Being Haunted By A Ghost. by Honesty001: 12:44am On May 24, 2020 |
DenreleDave: DenreleDave:Kai I don laugh tire.fear fear.Nairalanders no go kill me o |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 3:27pm On May 23, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Thanks a lot |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 3:03pm On May 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:ok I will beg him, because I have never begged him.We have been married for 3 years. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:59pm On May 23, 2020 |
MMotimo:Gosh! I don't blame you!I came here for advice since I don't trust anyone enough to tell my issues to and this is what you can say.Who needs your stupid money. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:55pm On May 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:'Respect'means doing everything he wants me to do.I have asked him several times. |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:54pm On May 23, 2020 |
Starangel4321:I read up on narcissist disorder and that was why I refused to apologize any longer.what we do now is too keep to ourselves. He hardly talks to me now. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:49pm On May 23, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:Na wa o.It is well |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:48pm On May 23, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:It is not fake. |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:30pm On May 23, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:He will.He submitted my c.v.,also he wanted me to start a business but I was too scared to start as I felt I wouldn't make profit.when I gained courage to start the money was no longer there. |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:25pm On May 23, 2020 |
Beatswim:okay |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 2:23pm On May 23, 2020 |
Donald3d:Thank you so much |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 12:46am On May 23, 2020 |
Richy4:Your last paragraph is my reality |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 12:22am On May 23, 2020 |
Richy4:I am docile.It is just for peace of mind.I don't want trouble o. |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 12:20am On May 23, 2020 |
thorpido:He is hot tempered.A choleric.Do you know people avoid him because he talks brashly. He talks anyhow and dosent really respect people. |
Family / Re: Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 11:27pm On May 22, 2020 |
thorpido:I honestly don't know. |
Family / Is marriage worth it?I urgently need your advise. by Honesty001: 11:13pm On May 22, 2020 |
This is the story of my marital life.I need your advice nairalanders. please no insults. I married at the age of 23 ,that was immediately I finished nysc.I met my hubby while preparing for law school.He toasted me for a period of two years. I actually refused to date him because I felt he was short, not from a rich home,had an accent, and not really my class. Nevertheless I was sill in constant communication with him.I was very free with him which I regret. During that period he came to Lagos took me out we made out and he was so happy I had agreed. when he went back to his place of work(Anambra) I did not feel happy.I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship.He called my cousin to talk to me .I insulted him and told him I do not love him as he is irritating me,even with all the insult he kept toasting me. He was very sure I was his wife.He said God showed him in his dream. He told us to fast together so that God can reveal it too me since I wasn't sure.I fasted but nothing was revealed.I followed my sister to a church ,the pastor of the church told me that if I married that suitor coming for me I will regret it. I told him what the pastor said and he started crying begging my sister that he will forever love me. I told him that if in the next 6months we still communicate that means we are meant to be together. During this period I dated someone else and I was not in communicado with him. Suddenly I felt an urge to call him,even though I did not know that month was the 6 month.I called him and that is how we renewed our communication. He told me too choose between the guy I was dating and him.I choose him and broke up with the guy because I felt the guy was not ready for marriage for the next 5 years, while I was as he was still hustling. I agreed to date him and marry him on the condition that he will not use how I treated him and refused him to judge me. My ex and a male friend a toaster from nysc called me and I warned them to stop calling me.He picked up the call and told them to stop calling.Anyways My father wasn't happy because he felt he was from a poor home,but I didn't care again because I felt he had potentials and that he loved me dearly since he fought for me. He and my mum were close. We did introduction.During nysc I was not allowed to go for any event.He always wanted to know where I was every minute.If I didn't pick my call the series of explanation will be much. Even to attend my pastor's birthday was a problem.I had too beg but it all fell on deaf ears.He will cry when he is upset with me and he will start cursing and swearing for himself.i will beg .My roommate witnessed all these and told me that he was controlling me too much .When I had a quarell with him I told him what she said even though I did not mention her name. Before that I used to gossip about my roommate and neighbours with him.I was so naive,I told him about my past relationships,even about my toasters.I trusted him so much.I thought I was confinding in my best friend.Anyways he made me delete her number and disassociate myself from her after a 3 days quarell.He came down to my place of service and He made me swear with my womb that I never chatted with her after blocking her on WhatsApp.I refused to swear as it is against my principles.I walked out and he dragged me back to the room. Fastfoward to post marriage he judges me with the past.Talks about how I treated him badly.He doesn't trust me at all.He says I cheated on him by dating the other guy.He dosent like seeing me talk with guys or someone he dosent know.Meanwhile he has a lot of friends I don't know o.He flushed my sim inside toilet and made me change my line and leave Facebook and WhatsApp. He made me leave nairaland too after he saw the p.ms .I don't have any friends.I have no one to confide in. Anytime I talk and he dosent like my point of view he will shout at me and shut me up like I am a dullard,when we are watching news or movie.He hardly apologises or commends me .He is quick to criticize.When he is angry he will refuse to eat my food and I will beg.Even when I am wrong I will beg.He never accepts that he is wrong.I always beg and cry. when I was pregnant,I was down with malaria a lot of times and couldn't do any chore.He took me for deliverance and acted as if I brought the sickness upon myself.when I tell him how I feel he turns it around and puts the blame on me. He is good with words and manipulative, to the extent I use to think I need a checkup on my brain cos he makes it seem I am forgetful. The good thing about him is that he is not a womanizer.He provides and works hard for the family.We do not lack any food. Anything he says I must do it,if I don't do it due to forgetfullness he will say I forgot because I don't respect him and value his words.He is always frowning,even when he comes back from work.He hardly laughs.I am a stay at home mum. I do not have a job yet though I am searching as there are no law firms here as this is a village. I cannot even play with him or confide in him he won't even answer me.If I ask a question he will say why am I asking or ignore me.He says I don't respect him.I do everything in my power to make him feel like the head of the house to my emotional detriment. when I opened up to him that I wanted him to be more caring and loving ,at least to ask how my day was or commend me when taking care of our two kids or even say I look beautiful.He did not accept he was wrong. he kept me malice for almost 3 months giving me silent treatment and I kept to myself.During that period i told him I wanted a seperation as he always threatened me with a divorce.We decided to stay for the kids.when we tried to talk and settle .He slapped me and used a belt on me telling me not to talk while he is talking.He dosent respect me. please ladies before you get married have a good job or a means of livelihood.Even though he sponsored my masters in law .He dosent pray again as he says I made his spiritual life to deplete.He belongs to charismatic. I am scared of making friends as I feel he may not like it.I am lonely.only my kids keep me company. I have low self esteem.If you see me you won't believe I have masters in law. look soD timid.Do you know he shouts at me in public,in church. Note-I am very gentle,friendly and free spirited.I play a lot and I like laughing and gisting.He provides food and loves his children so much,he sponsored my masters.He buys me cloths and makes sure I don't lack.He works very hard. If I decide to leave now I have 0 naira in my account.He said he will take the kids.I will be left empty .mature Nairalanders what is your opinion? 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:39am On May 15, 2020 |
princessConfy:You are in trouble o � chai!nna men dey o.Tufiakwa spits! |
Family / Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:36am On May 15, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Go and sit down my friend. stop supporting bad behaviour.Even if she is making a billion dollars, that doesn't stop her guy from offering her money,paying for her Uber or cab even if it is small or showing her care. It is up to her to reject it or accept it. The Man is stingy, insensitive and thinks only of himself and that is a red flag. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:26am On May 15, 2020 |
spartan117:It is not easy.You need the guidance of the holy spirit to do that. |
Family / Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Honesty001: 1:24am On May 15, 2020 |
princessConfy:You are seeing the red flags,you won't adhere to it until it gets late and you start moaning. Cant you see you have financial problems already.He is stingy and hardly released money and that is why he said his ex was disturbing him for money.He doesn't want you to ask him for money the way his ex asked him.He is also unsupportive, insensitive and caring.Haba!your girl visits you and you can't even give her a little cash to show you care. |
Health / Re: Madagascar Cure:: Here Is The Plant Madagascar Use For Covid-19 Cure by Honesty001: 1:45am On May 04, 2020 |
Babaibejii:Dogoyaro that ooni of Ife proffered as the cure to Corona virus.aAnyways my husband is taking it.He mixed with lime .It also cures headache,pains and fever you know. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: My Humble Giveaway - Drop Your Account Details by Honesty001: 1:21pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
thanks |
Politics / Re: My Humble Giveaway by Honesty001: 12:21am On Apr 14, 2020 |
I am really in need.But please I want to ask you for a favour.please help that man that posted his family picture,(A man of wisdom) please with any amount you have.I almost shed tears reading his post because I understand how hard things are, especially for a family man.I wish I could help him but my account is entirely empty. |
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