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Why Girls Lie More In A Relationship.
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I have always asked myself this question;
who lie more in a relationship?
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Observing different relationships and people's reactions tempted now to conclude that girls lie more in a relationship!
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Wait! Relax! Chill!
I am saying my opinion judging from what I
have been observing lately.
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Don't worry, you will get to say your mind in the comment box so save the opposition.
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This is not a general conclusion but a
personal observatio. So, here is why I said girls lie more in a relationship:
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1. First of all, I noticed Ladies keep a lot of
secrets and that is why they tend to tell more lies!
They don't want to start telling you about a
particular thing so they find a way to switch
the whole thing by saying something else!
A girl could have another date aside you; but she knows if you find out she has it won't be. pretty. So she would always try to play along and not let you suspect anything. Even when you begin to suspect; she is not. far with some lies she can use to turn your assumptions around!
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2. They stay longer on social media and this gives room for more lies!
An average female social media user can
check her phone twice the number of times
an average male user checks his!
They are either accepting/sending friend
request, replying a message or a comment!
They get more attention from the guys than
the other way round so it is easy to make
new friends who would want to chat with
them.
Usually, when chatting with these interested guys two things are involved:
Either she reply honestly Or she reply a little honestly with some lies to go with it.
Studies show that 60 percent of the girls go
with the second option!
This habit grows and may tend to expand
into the relationship! Okay, check this out.
Out of the 60 percent who lie, 40 percent will always claim they are single!
When such guys start making advances and she accepts, she starts looking for a way to keep the other guy in the dark!
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3. Some of them lie with their physical
appearance! I know a girl who has not appeared before her date without her makeup on!
Since I knew them and they started hanging out, he can't say what she looks like without makeup! I just can't cease to imagine the look on his face when he would suddenly visit her home when she is yet to apply her makeup!
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When asked why she can't face him without makeup, she would yell and ask you if you have seen the spots on her face? Or even the large pimples refusing to disappear!
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Most girls are like that! They finish a can of
concealer on their face while trying to hide
the dark spots or pimples on their faces and end up deceiving him into thinking they have a spotless face!
Ask them to go out without makeup and
watch yourself been nailed to a tree!
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4. They are always trying to avoid arguments or prolonged questioning!
Simply put, some girls believe lying their way out may reduce the length of the argument! It may work depending on who you are dealing with or it may only bring up new issues to make the already long argument longer!
How about when a girl goes out with
someone she don't want to be seen with,
and tried not to mention it to anyone; she
may think she has gotten away with it.
But when the other person gets to know and asks about the guy she went out with; she would simply say something else to cut an impending argument short.
Its only when a girl is in such a situation
that she starts explaining her family tree to
you!
She would tell you about a far relation and
narrate the relationship then claim the guy
comes from that side!
The unfair yet funny thing is that some guys know when they are been lied to so they either play along or let her know!
The only thing more important than love in a relationship is trust. So if you keep lying to him and allow the trust level to drop, you
may not like the result.
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So what's your own say
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Who do you think lies more in a
relationship

YOUR contributions on this issue matters a lot.

This question was asked by one of my Facebook fan. Though I did respond to the question but it wasn't satisfactory and that is where you come in.

HERE IS THE QUESTION
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Q. PLEASE SIR:  I was told that many girls love men because of money and many men love girls because of sex is it true? If yes explain and if no still explain into detail to my good understanding
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MY RESPOND
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THANK FOR THE QUESTION

firs you need to understand that the word love is beyond explanation, one can never dictate love, it come at it will. The issue of girl with money. and men with sex. I think whoever told you that must have said it out of selfishness, love has nothing to do with money and sex. It's true that we need money to grow our
relationship, but does't mean that many will go into it cos of money or sex. In the absent
of money and sex Those who truly love will stay back.
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Now over to you,

Movesz:
POOR FINANCING..you have to cut your coat accordine to your size. Dont date a girl you cant take care of her needs.

Thank you very much. Is one of the key major in a relationship.

JUST TRY TO AVOID AS MANY AS YOU CAN. bellow are the 10 Things that Kills relationship slowly.


1. {Issues not discussed}– There could be some areas you desire to have your partner change or get better at. If you choose to keep mute about it and you such keeps receiving your attention and you just can’t ignore, it kills relationships slowly.
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2. {Lies}– Well, this cannot be overstretched. The more you lie to your partner, the lesser he/she trust you, and when trust is gone in a relationship, that’s trouble!
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3. {Not sharing}– No one forms a relationship by themselves. It takes two to get at it. A balanced relationship demands the effort of the-two involved. It’s about what you-two bring to the center. The pressure would be one-sided if one person chooses to be greedy. Sharing is one of many things that powers a relationship and makes it balance.
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4. {Romance Wanted}– Absence of romance in a relationship makes it boring, Romance is sensual and not always sexual. Identify those things that could create an intimate moment, things that sponsors good connection between you-two and starting doing them. The importance is simply to keep the attraction alive.
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5. {Blaming Your Partner}– Yes! Keep blaming your partner for everything that’s wrong in your relationship and watch it die slowly. When you see more of his/her faults, there will always be something to complain about and the more you blame the more the relationship would lose its value.
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6. {Lack of Communication}– Not in the area of phone calling or text messages though also important but specifically in the awareness of things to do or how to do them. Both parties must be kept abreast of what’s coming. Make your moves, schedules, work or some family related details clear to your partner. Always keeping them in the dark brings about uncertainties that could cause regular misunderstanding in a relationship.
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7. {Cohabitation}– It’s one of the easiest ways to make your partner get fed up with the relationship. When you become too regular, so many things could lose its value and get lost accordingly.
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8. {Pretense} – You seem to be too cool at everything because you want to impress him/her, that’s trouble! Whatever happens to being you should be reversed. Your partner could take it as being nice or tolerant. In a real relationship, no one is a cell-mate, you just be you!
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9. {Poor Timing}– Whatsoever is sharing your quality time with your partner needs to be transferred on another time slot. Having the space for regular conversation strengthens your relationship and if it’s an LDR, you either could talk regularly on phone or pick a day or two in every week for this. Good time spent together reveals a lot, strengthens the bond, secures the relationship and it helps in no little measure.
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10. {Too Many Expectations}– You want him/her to know what you want without saying it? You expect him/her to remember almost everything even when he/she has got several matters demanding his/her attention? Yes, we are in love and you sure mean a lot to us but we are human as well. Expect more and see more faults, expect less and you will be able to appreciate your partner more.
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If there are issues not discussed in a relationship, it could make both partners keep hurtful secrets and in-turn produce beautiful lies. Blaming your partner while you appear to be without fault doesn’t make you in-charge but out rightly discharging the strength of the union. Cohabiting, though allowed in many countries is one major reason relationships will always lose its value quickly and another reason men and women would be used and abandoned. Some things do NOT go together with a relationship and do remember that the best of relationships comes with several sacrifices made.  THANK.

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Marriage has everything to do with the compatibility of the people involve.

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Ladies, don't force him to engage you or pay your bride price. Stay cool and do what is right to hypnotised him and give him the urge to do what you desire.
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Engagement or payment of pride price is not a guarantee that he will still stay if you put up certain behaviours and manners that are inimical to his success and happiness.
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My dear, concentrate your efforts on working your way deeper into his heart and find ways to engrave your name in his heart. Give him enough character reasons not to take a risk of losing you by unearthing the elements of marriageability in y

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Marriage is a scary enterprise for all men to dare. A reason even successful men.  sometimes stay single for very long time. They are afraid of the aftermath relative to their happiness inter alia. I can name you very successful young men who are not yet married or just got married a couple of days ago. Marriage is no picnic!
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However, ladies behave as if there are ants in their pants when they observe some signs of career and education progress in their man. They begin to entertain some fear and paranoia of their man jilting them for another woman, a hot cake, in the parlance of men. Hence, they pressurise them to do what the ladies term as "the right thing".

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Engagement and pride price relationship is not marriage - it is a mere formality. And if you think it is a concrete prison gate for your man till nuptials, then you are delusional. The last time I checked in my Oxford dictionary, marriage was nearly almost at air breadth synonymous to divorce. Marriages break up in a split of Usain's record. So, if stones are burning, what becomes of grasses.

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I m not saying you can't suggest to him to formalise the relationship - no coercion - it actually makes you appear desperate. Remember repetitive suggestion becomes coercion.

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If he paid your pride price or engaged you out of his own volition, then it is time to prove a point to him that he made the right decision. Don't for a second think you got the button forever. Any unbecoming attitude that might cause embarrassment and unhappiness to the man may compel him to change the game to 4x4 relay race.

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Force him to pay your pride price with your character but not your mouth. No matter how successful your man becomes, he can't forget the greatness in your character. Character is so powerful that we still remember the character of dead people centuries ago.

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Few unthinking men may fall for your beauty but remember it is your character they will live forever with not your beauty.

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I am telling you from intuition that how long you live will be determined by your lifetime partner. Choosing a wrong partner will make you live everyday unfulfilled.

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If he is not enthused paying the pride price, my dear, please take a thorough assessment of your character, lifestyle and associates.
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vicstar:
Bleep dat shiit mate , all dis trash is because ur dad dint get an alert ba?

Must you show yourself all time? You are more than this.

When there were receiving alert from DASUKI all of them were smiling and feeling on top of the world. But now they're wishing they never meet him in their life.
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If not greediness, how could a group of people shared the money that was meant to fight terrorist knowing the situation of this country? Did I just said greedy? No is worse than that. What were they thinking? wait! Wait!! Wait!!! Does it mean they don't feel the pain of loosing many lives to this terrorist all the while? So many questions. Will I be too wrong to conclude that they know something we don't know about this BOKO people?
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#Mytake. Whoever is involve should not only bring back the money but rot in jail.

teejaymiquel:
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If I submit before ma time finish will dis gimme additional score?

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Finalists Lionel Messi and Neymar Jr
to Zurich on Monday (TODAY) to attend the gala The Argentine is opting for the award for the fifth time in his career, while the Brazilian is going for his first
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The final touches are being put on at the Kongresshaus in Zurich, Switzerland, where on
Monday evening which is today at 6.15pm CET the 2015
FIFA Ballon d'Or Gala will be the centre of attention for the entire football world.
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FC Barcelona's Lionel Messi and Neymar Jr , who are two of the three finalists for the award, will travel to Zurich on Monday and will be in attendance when the envelope is unsealed and the winner's name is called out.
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For Messi, this is the ninth consecutive year he has been named a finalist for the award,
the most coveted individual prize in world football.
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Messi is going for his fifth Ballon d'Or, a jaw-dropping feat considering the fact that in the
history of the award, he is the only person to have won it more than three times. Four other players have won it exactly three times —Johan Cruyff, Michel Platini, Marco van Basten and Cristiano Ronaldo — while just five
other players have ever won it twice.
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Messi won his unprecedented fourth straight Ballon d'Or in 2013 and is now looking to distance himself from the pack.
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Messi's teammate at FC Barcelona, Neymar Jr., has been named a finalist for the very first time. The other finalist for this year's award is
Real Madrid's Ronaldo, who won the last editions.
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Messi and Ronaldo have scooped up every
Ballon d'Or for the last seven years. That number is almost certain to rise to eight on
Monday.
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The FC Barcelona expedition is scheduled depart from Barcelona-El Prat Airport at noon on Monday, headed by Club president Josep
Maria Bartomeu. Bartomeu will be accompanied by the Vice President, Jordi
Mestre ; the Football Director, Javier Bordas; the Professionals Sports Director, Albert Soler; and the First Team Technical Secretary, Robert
Fernández . Also joining the Club will be ex-players and
Ballon d'Or winners Hristo Stoichkov and Luis
Suárez Miramontes .
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The FIFPro World XI and other awards Aside from the Ballon d'Or, FC Barcelona is up
for several other awards as well.
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Ten FCB players out of a total of 55 nominees could be
named to the FIFA FIFPro World XI . They include
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defenders Dani Alves, Gerard Piqué,
Javier Mascherano and Jordi Alba ;.
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midfielders
Andrés Iniesta, Sergio Busquets and Ivan
Rakitic ; and
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forwards Leo Messi, Neymar Jr. and Luis Suárez .
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FC Barcelona manager Luis Enrique is one of
three finalists for the Coach of the Year award, along with former Barça and current Bayern Munich coach Pep Guardiola and Chile
national team coach Jorge Sampaoli .
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Messi is not only opting for the Ballon d'Or, either. He is also a finalist for the Puskás Award , for the best goal of the year.
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Messi was nominated for the award for his wonder goal against Athletic Club Bilbao in the 2015 Copa del Rey Final .
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The other two Puskás
finalists are Alessandro Florenzi of AS Roma
and the Brazilian Wendell Lira .
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Sourcec http://www.all4barca.com/2016/01/2015-fifa-ballon-d-awards-ceremony-time.html?m=1

Remember the time for the event is 6:15 PM. I'm leaving you with the question of who will be the winner?

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Hmm mm serve him well

Everyone gets drilled with certain lessons in
life. Sometimes it takes repeated demonstrations of a given law of life to really
get it into your skull, and other times one powerful experience drives the point home
once forever. Here are some fact about life.

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1. You can’t change other people, and it’s rude to try.

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2. It is a hundred times more difficult to burn calories than to refrain from consuming them
in the first place.
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3. If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well, you may be talking to someone who
knows way more about whatever you’re talking
about than you do.
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4. The cheapest and most expensive models
are usually both bad deals.
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5. Everyone likes somebody who gets to the point quickly.
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6. Bad moods will come and go your whole life, and trying to force them away makes
them run deeper and last longer.
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7. Children are remarkably honest creatures until we teach them not to be.
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8. If everyone in the TV show you’re watching
is good-looking, it’s not worth watching.
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9. Yelling always makes things worse.
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10. Whenever you’re worried about what others will think of you, you’re really just
worried about what you’ll think of you.
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11. Every problem you have is your responsibility, regardless of who caused it.
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12. You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time.
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13. If you never doubt your beliefs, then you’re
wrong a lot.
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14. Managing one’s wants is the most powerful skill a person can learn.
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15. Nobody has it all figured out.
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16. Cynicism is far too easy to be useful.
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17. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.
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18. Whenever you hate something, it hates you
back: people, situations and inanimate objects
alike.

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19. Ralph Waldo Emerson’s works alone can teach you everything you need to know about living with grace and happiness.

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20. People embellish everything, as a rule.

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21. Anger reveals weakness of character, violence even more so
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Like seriously

Dating can be a great way to have fun and
learn a lot about yourself and another person.
Healthy relationships are those that are
partnerships, in which you can laugh, feel safe
and supported, share ideas and feelings, and
respect another person, as well as feel
respected yourself.
Every relationship is unique, and you might
have your own way of knowing that a
relationship is right for you. Even when a
relationship is going well, it’s important to
work at it and not take it, or your partner, for
granted. The best way to keep a relationship
strong, healthy and growing is for you to be
aware of your needs and expectations and
communicate those with your partner. Here
are some more suggestions for how you can
keep your relationship strong:
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* Be honest and trusting. Learning to trust and
be honest with someone you just started
dating can take time, but honesty and trust
are two important ingredients in a healthy
relationship. As you spend more time with
someone and start to share experiences
together, your level of trust may increase.

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* Keep communicating. It’s a good idea to keep
the lines of communication open between you
and the person you’re dating. This might
mean talking regularly about what’s
happening in your lives and how you’re feeling
about life in general. When people share their
opinions and feelings, they develop a greater
understanding of each other’s likes and
dislikes. It’s also a good idea to talk about
your relationship every once in a while,
including your expectations.


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* Accept your differences. It isn’t unusual to
care about someone who has different ideas,
interests, and opinions to your own. These
differences are what make relationships
exciting! But sometimes it can be difficult to
manage these differences. It might be helpful
to calmly discuss those differences or agree to
disagree. By accepting someone’s values and
opinions, you might encourage him or her to
respect yours as well, and respect is an
important aspect of any relationship...
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* Voice your opinions and frustrations. It’s
natural that people sometimes argue or have
differences of opinion. Disagreements might
leave you feeling angry or frustrated with
yourself and your partner, but it’s important
that you let the person you’re dating know
about your opinions and frustrations. It’s a
good idea to express your opinions, but
remember to listen to the other person as well.
For more information on how to resolve
arguments, check out




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* Respect each other’s time and space. Hanging
out with your partner can be a lot of fun and a
great way to get to know him or her. But it’s
also important that you respect your partner’s
space-physically and emotionally, and that
your partner does the same for you. Maintain
the relationships that you have with your
friends and family, expand your interest, and
keep up with the activities that you were
involved in before you started your
relationship. This can help your relationships
continue to grow and be fun and interesting.
Spend time with yourself. Having alone time
can be fun and an important way to keep
yourself healthy and happy. It can also help
you understand yourself and your
relationships with others. Spend time getting
to know you. You might want to start by doing what brings you joy




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* Ending a relationship
Unfortunately, sometimes relationships turn
sour, no matter how hard you work at them. If
you’re in a situation where your relationship
isn’t a positive factor in your life, it’s a good
idea to end it.

Go to court and leave matter for Mathis.

Rest in peace

obiorathesubtle:
the speed wey I use scroll down probably broke a world record.

You don't mean it

Wow is dam true.

Problems in a relationship
Depending on the kind of relationship you share with your partner, the problems in a
relationship too could be just as unique.
But almost always, all problems in a relationship find their place in ten big areas.
At some point or the other, these problems have a way of creeping into your romance.
Keep an eye on these issues, and understand how to overcome it, and you’ll see how easy it can be to eliminate all the frustrations you experience in a relationship.
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10 big problems that need your attention
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Remember this, you can’t stop problems from cropping up in a relationship no matter how
perfect the relationship is. What you can do. instead, is eliminate the frustration as soon as you notice them.
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#1 Lack of communication. At the start of the relationship, conversations are exciting and
fun. Both of you spend a lot of time getting to know each other. But as time goes by, lovers forget to ask the same questions again.
We’re all changing all the time, in our preferences and the way we look at life. Don’t assume you know everything about each other or your romance will start to stagnate, or one
of you will start to confide in some other person who seems more understanding.
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#2 Trust. Do you really trust your partner?
There are two kinds of trust in a relationship. Firstly, do you trust your partner enough to
feel comfortable with them going out for dinner with someone else? If you don’t,
perhaps, you’re insecure or your relationship
is still too fragile.
And secondly, do you trust your partners decisions? Do you think your partner is
capable of making important decisions for the both of you? If you can’t trust your partner
with life altering decisions, it’s obvious that you don’t respect your partner or their opinions. And that’s never a good sign in a long term relationship.
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#3 Jealousy and insecurity. Insecure couples are forever locked in a cycle of jealously and anger. When you feel jealous about the
attention your lover’s getting or their recent promotion, you’re not helping them become a
better individual. It’s like a parent who's angry with their child because the child is
having “too much fun”.
You need to learn to have faith in each other and in the relationship. Instead of letting
negativity build inside the relationship, learn to enjoy each other’s successes. After all, your partner is your better half, and any accomplishments of theirs are your accomplishments too, isn’t it?
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#4 Incompatibility in love. Love at first sight and infatuation can last several months. And it does a good job of masking any differences
in a relationship. As perfect as two people may be, sometimes, they may just not be perfect for each other.
If you find yourself dating someone with whom
you have nothing in common, you need to decide on the next step. Try to find common
interests that both of you like, or walk your own paths instead of living in frustrations.
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#5 Loss of sex drive. This isn’t rocket science. Over time, both of you are bound to lose the
sexual urge of the first few months or years of a relationship. While both of you may have a hard time keeping your hands off each other
to begin with, now sex may start to feel like a chore.
This is a very common problem in relationships, and yet, it’s one of the easy ones to solve. Always look for new ways to
recreate the sexual high of the first few times, and before you know it, both of you may go at
it all over again like frisky bunnies.
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#6 Ka ching! Anyone in a relationship for long enough will know just how important money or the lack of it really is. If your friends earn a lot more than you or your partner, it’ll end up frustrating both of you. And on the other hand,
if both of you earn a lot more than your friends, there’ll be a lot of love and happiness
in your lives. It’s a stupid fact of life. But our own happiness is extremely dependent on the way others perceive us. If you’re having difficulties
in your relationship because of money, perhaps it’s time to change your friends and
see the difference.
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#7 Change in priorities. You may be in a relationship, but that doesn’t change who you
are. And that’s where the problem starts. As individuals, we evolve and change all the time.
You’re not the person you were last year, and you won’t be the person you are now next
year. And just like you, your partner too is changing
constantly. And every now and then, you and your partner may experience changes that will
pull both of you apart from each other. And soon enough, both of you may have nothing in common. Spend enough time with each other and try to evolve together in a similar
direction. Talk about your beliefs and your interests with each other and it’ll help both of
you grow together along the same path.
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#8 Time. Do both of you have enough time to spend with each other? These days, time is a luxury that most lovers can’t afford. When you start spending too much time away from each other, it’s only a matter of time before one of
you starts asking the big question,
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“Do I need
my partner in my life anymore?”
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Don’t drift away so far that both of you don’t
need to be with each other anymore. Find ways to indulge in exciting hobbies or spend
evenings going out on little coffee or ice cream dates. They make for great conversations and it’ll bring both of you closer
too.
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#9 Space and individual growth. Now this is contradictory to the earlier problem in relationships. But it’s still something to watch
out for. Too much of a good thing can turn out to be bad too. When you’re in a relationship, spending time with each other is very important. But at the same time, spending time away from each other is crucial
too.
By spending too much time together, you'd subconsciously feel isolated from the rest of
the world. And when that happens, you'd crave for any attention from other interesting
people just to feel better about yourself and your ability to communicate. And you know
what could happen when that happens, right?
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#10 Are you still in love? This is the biggest problem in a relationship, and one that’s
hardest to overcome. Falling in love is easy. Staying in love isn’t. Love is a delicate
balance between dependency and passion. How much do you need your partner? How
much do you love and want your partner?
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When the sexual excitement and the enthusiasm fade away, what do you have to hold both of you together? A relationship
should never be based on sex alone. It needs compatibility and understanding, and it
definitely needs dependability. Staying in love forever is not easy, but with a little effort, it
can give meaning to your life.
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Problems in a relationship can come and go. But if you ever come face to face with these 10 big problems in relationship, don’t overlook it. It could cost you the relationship itself.
http://honestgist..co.ke/2015/12/10-relationship-problems-that-needs.html?m=1

Many of them understand this.

That's life for you.

God have mercy.

As a girl who is in a relationship with a guy, there are things you need to do that will make
your man never thing of other girls. Don’t ignore these things if you want to build a
stronger relationship.
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Always appreciate him

So many girls are not aware that saying “thank you” to their man goes a long way
to strengthen their relationship. Anytime your man does something to impress you or
makes you happy, appreciate him.
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Love his Family

The easiest way to get to a man’s heart is to
love his family and when his family loves you,
that relationship will hardly fail. You should appreciate his parents for having such a
special son. You can buy gifts for his parents and siblings.
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Publicly Display Your Love

Take note that not all guys like it when you publicly display your love for them, but if your
Man loves it, do it. For example when out with friends, you can embrace him or say
sweet and romantic words to him.
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Love What he Loves

Most girls ignore this. If he loves football or a
pet, try to know more about his likes and develop love for it.
The key thing here is to know what makes him
happy and do it always. If you don’t do it and other female friends do it, you might gradually loose him.
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Do you need more of the above stated? Comment

Gradually we will get it right. Let them go

This not good at all. Well you can't blame them anyway

Do I care? www.nairaland.com/2848715/big-girl-according

WHO IS A BIG GIRL?

http://honestgist..co.ke/2016/01/who-is-big-girl.html?m=1

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This question was asked and bellow was the respond and you too say your mind. 

- The fact that different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl.

- The fact that you wear all the latest clothes  in the market, does not make you a big girl.

- And of the fact that you use the latest phone, big phones, ipad, blackberry, android
and different guys pay money into your account does not make you a big girl... It
does not even make you
smart! You are only eating up your FUTURE!

- The fact that you dress
half naked and you wear clothes that expose your cleavages and that make you look sexy does not make you a big girl. You are a
public figure.
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THEN WHO IS A BIG GIRL?!.

- A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money. The girl that
thinks of consequences before actions.

- She is not the one who flirts with all the men around her.

- She is the girl who respects her relationship and marriage.

- She is never heard but seen. You know her by what she does, her behaviour speaks a Lot about her.

- She is every man's queen, decently dressed... always good looking.

- A big girl respects the value of womanhood..

- She carries herself
with more dignity...
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Stop boasting about the number of men you've slept with my dear.. Remember, cheap products always have more buyers.. Sleeping with all
your male friends doesn't mean you are sexy.
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Build yourself into the woman people will always respect and admire. Never follow men
who will make a mess of your life.- but be humble, be Godly.. Be hardworking, respect
your relationship or marriage, Be ambitious but contented.. Be bold don't make men a
priority in life..
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Real men will seek after you when u build yourself into the woman men will always want
to take u home to their mothers. Not the one they only want to take to hotels and clubs.

TRUST ME, if you just trap a man with your body, he'll go one day.
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A lady without morals and dignity is like a pen
without ink!

Now according to you, WHO IS A BIG GIRL

Hmm.... Good luck

Good for for them.

I'm going to be there too.