Devineee: Usually I don't normally do this but I don't have a stable job, that is why I I took this loan from fairmoney. I kept a very good record and a good reputation with them, I pay a day to their time but but recently they ruined my life. I usually pay them and collect another one so I pay on time. Recently I ran out of work almost a month now and feedings becomes a problem and my rent is overdue. I borrowed money from someone intending to pay back fairmoney loan app so that they will increase my loan then I will now pay back and then have more time to collect another one, I even called one of their agent customer care and he told me that I kept a good score and a good record that all will be well, so I borrowed 18000 from somebody and paid into the fairmoney and since weeks now they have refused to give me another loan just like that. now I'm having issues with the person that I took the money from, he's threaten my life but don't blame him, I gave him assurance that this will work because I have trust on them but it turned out to be another thing. please I have no freedom And reputation or rest of mind anymore , I'm not myself again,
how can I clear this debt and rest once and for all. please the heart bothers me and my heart is heavy too. I hope anyone can relate to this situation. I am finally in a big trouble. I tried selling my phone but it's broken and not worth even 10k because of the touch pad.
I'm owning fair money like #360k, I refused to pay, reason is because, there was a time my payment remain #600 which I don't know when I lost my phone, I couldn't access the app until I bought another phone, I noticed my last payment was charged additional #600 fee reason I can't tell. Fair money started charging #1000 daily late fee on #600 for 10days. After 10days, they removed #10,600 from my account. I reapplied and I collected #200k. That's the payback time. Now they've charged late fee up to #350k. It's over a year now. I will never pay back. Useless people.
I had my own share too, though it's long but I need your advice.
The episode started when the Suffocating and comprehensive ASUU strike is becoming more elongated.
My mum discussed with her boss if I can be working with them depending when ASUU will call off their strike.
Fortunately, they affirmed to my mum's request and I was employed to work as a secretary.
Note: They are both husband and wife running the organization.
My role is to write receipt for all payments entering the organization account, write and ensure all the payments of the day are updated before the next day.
As a result of the nature of my work, this give me access to the boss office as I may need some things to take there. Even if other staff want to access the office, they will inform me first, then I will collect the key and give them whatever they need in the office.
Things was going smoothly until a fateful Friday I was accused of stealing.
The scenario happened like this.
As the secretary of the organization, I do resume work by 7:30am and close by 5:pm.
Apart from the cleaners that tidy the compound. In most cases, I'm the last person that leaves the office. And whenever I'm leaving, I collect the key to the office and park the bags of the boss and his wife into their car, check whether they bought something and ensure everything is placed in their car.
That fateful day, as usual, His wife wasn't around, then I look for the husband to collect the office key and he told me that the office is opened. With no further delay, I moved into the office and carried their bags. As I was going, he stopped me and check the bag. He claimed that inside the bag, where he packed money, the money has been rough handled and the nylon bag that housed the money was found tore.
Then pandemonium began. He insisted that a person has accessed the money and I was the only person that has the privilege to enter the office. I was troubled and confused. My perplexity was so high that I don't even know what to say.
I tried to explain to the best of my knowledge. I tried my best to exonerate myself that I knew nothing about the money. I told everyone that I met the office opened and I ain't aware that the office was opened. Most times, if I see the office ain't closed. I will close it because it's close to my office. But on this day no one to bear me withness. Every odds look against me. We left there around to 5:30pm that day.
I even told my boss that he should count the money that I don't perceive anyone entering the office. But he kept saying that he didn't know the amount he put there and he can't give the precise amount that has been stolen.
Beforehand, I noticed that the environment is full of jealousy. The staff jealous themselves. They envy each other and there are lots of faction within the organization. To be on a safer side. I didn't join any caucus or faction. I play my role diligently and discharge my duty responsibly. I don't do favouritism as I make myself to be honest in all things. There are many evil things that I'm aware of that goes underground but I don't interfer in it or report it except the bosses know by themselves. With my altitude, well with this I thought, I was loved by the boss and his wife.
When I got home, I wept profusely because no one to bear me withness, everyone seems I'm the thief.
I explained to my mum what happened because she has left earlier. She pacified me and said. If I'm not guilty of the stealing, nothing will happen to me and they should use whatever they want to use to look for their money.
On Monday we resume back to work. What happened on Friday kept pondering my heart, the wound hasn't been healed yet another mysterious thing happened again.
My own office is at the front of the boss office. My table and chair are placed there but it doesn't look privately. It looks like a reception before entering the main office. I got to my office next day to find that #3,600 has been smuggled into my drawer.
Chaiii! No one to bear me withness again about the money I saw. All things look like I was the one that stole the money, and just hiding under the guise of innocency.
I was extremely perplexed, different thought were ruminating my mind. One thought said if you give them the money they will say you are lying that you just kept it there. Another thought said, who knows, perhaps they are putting you under integrity test. Well! I carried the money, luckily the wife was around and I explained how I saw the money and handed it over to her.
When the husband came, she told him exactly what I reported to her and the husband responded, he might be the money they stole on Friday. He continues, definitely the thieves has returned the money as a result of their actions on Friday.
The matter dies there and no one ever made reference to it again until today when the boss (he) asked me to prepare a bill for a customer. I've done that already and also listening to him and the customer while they were conversing. In a nut shell. I heard the customer telling him that he wants another bills too. Therefore I was preparing that too, unknowingly as I was preparing it, I have covered the first bills with lot of books on my table. As the boss arrived, he requested for the first bill he asked me to prepare. Unfortunately, it's no where to be found again, �♂️. I tried to explain to him that I was also preparing other bills the woman mentioned. I think that was the only mistake I made thinking that would make the work faster for the woman to collect the bills.
All of a sudden, I noticed that he has been seethe with anger. He shouted at me that I don't have regards for him, he said, he asked me to do something but I'm doing otherwise. Before I could utter any statement to clear myself out. Everything has already scatter, he remained deaf to whatever I wanted to say. He insisted that I'm not working with them again, he chased me out like a dog that I have to go back to take my phone.
Amongst all the turbulence, I kept begging him. I prostrated on the floor to show that I'm sorry. But he didn't even looked at me.
For the sake of my mother. I don't want to do anything that would affect her relationship with her bosses, I would have said. I'm not working again and not even bother to beg.
To cut it short. His wife signaled to me to meet an erderly man close to the place, possibly he might listen to his pleas. I did as instructed by his wife, "God bless that woman" The erderly man followed me but another thing bursted. He said apart from this, that he can't employ somebody that he doesn't trust. He made it known to the erderly man that I'm not trustworthy using the past money that was stolen as a case of study.
That moment, tears began to roll down from my face. I didn't know what to say in the midst of everyone. Everyone was just saying, please forgive him, he will change, he won't do that again. I looked at myself and said this is humiliation of the highest order. If I take any step, it might affect my mum too and lead to the termination of her appointment. I don't want her to be traumatized.
I remained calm and crying bitterly. Well! he accepted the elderly man plea for me and they concluded that this is yellow card, that if I do anything bad again, they will resort by giving me red card. Since ASUU is still on strike now and there's no way I can say I'm leaving there without having implication on my mum employment. Who knows, what will happen next that might get me roped and I will be given red card couple with humiliation. I want men with wisdom to advice me on how I can justify my resignation peacefully. I don't want anything to backfire on my mum. I don't want her to be traumatized and I don't want them to transfer their aggression on her.
I just want to leave there peacefully because I can't see myself working there again. Even all these things was written with my unbalanced emotions. I know I have been traumatized and accused falsely but I believe I will bounce back strongly and soon or sooner God will revealed the perpetrator in Jesus name.���.
I will be glad if this can be moved to front page.
you should stop the work now before worse happen, the man didn't like you and you can never please him. So resign, if your mum service is important to them, they won't let her go. This is the reason why I can't work under anybody. Those working under me are never experience bad treatment.
Coinwarrior: On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.
Op calm down, your wife is good oh, unless you decide not to stay with any woman again. Mine is more dissrespective but I I dey show her pepper but still stay with her for over 12years now. The last time I tried another woman, na run I run back come dey see my wife like Angel
MaDaRa01: Does the length of charging cable affect the speed of charging.... Is it inversely proportional to charging speed? The longer the cable the slower the speed, and the shorter the cable the faster the speed... And if it affect it, what causes it?
isn't it light current? The last time I check, the speed of light is 3.8*10^8 at constant speed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWM7VHYuj0A A woman has taken to social media to reveal that she just parked out from her matrimonial home less than a year after getting married.
The lady used a moving truck to pack her belongings and move to a new place, noting that she was married for six months.
She shared a video which showed the truck driving out of the premises with furniture and other household items loaded unto the back.
The video caption read: “Starting over!”
“Left my marriage after 6 months.”
In another clip, the woman was seen moving into her new home properly and arranging things.
I'm so happy for the innocent man, this one can never stay in a man house, she will instead destroy the man's destiny. She wants to show the world she has money and can afford expensive new stuffs. She must be very rude to the man and I trust the man is the real G to blow the bitch out of his house to welcome peace of mind
wwwkaycom: My wife's cousin is a student in a federal government institution, a monotechnic. I've always noted that the guy is naughty. Recently my wife told me the guy is having issues in his school because he approached his supervisor, a single female lecturer for a relationship. The lecturer warned him to perish the thought but this guy persisted.
Now the female lecturer has refused to continue with supervision of his project and wrote to her head of department to assign him to another supervisor. He just started afresh with a new supervisor while his colleagues have defended their projects two weeks ago.
He called my wife this evening to tell her that final results of his colleagues have been uploaded into the institutions portal while his name was placed under "non-graduating".
I have some questions here.
1. Did this guy commit any offense by "toasting" his female lecturer?
2. Is it right for the department to have denied him opportunity to graduate because of this?
3. Can he complain to the authority of the institution about this? What will he say he did to have been denied opportunity to graduate?
4. Has the department committed any offence against this boy as touching his fundamental human rights?
5. Can he seek legal redress?
Thank you all.
Hello sir, the boy suppose to be rusticated for failure to face his study instead searching for love
mystery22: Keep deceiving urself,apcshit supporter.we know your plans and it will not work.stop lying and support Tinubu the druggie with your full chest..I pity the zombies you will deceive with your lies.. Tinubu urchins always coming up with stupid and silly lies
Igbo cannever win election in nigeria mark my word!
This is democracy. You have the right to support whoever you want to. Nobody forced you to support Obi in the first place. Whether Obi win or loss, it is not the end of the world. I hope you guys will allow us hear word, as we support who we want to, not by attacking us with the usual blackmail of accommodation and free land, as has been the case.
mystery22: Tinubu urchin support your silly druggie candidate with your full chest and stop lying here.. BTW we know the real yoruba obidients who have brain and conscience. So stop lying, apc supporters claiming nonsense
I'm still waiting for your response oloriburuku bastard. With gragra, all of you will loose support since you think you can win presidency alone by attacking other tribe, most useless and stupid tribe in the world. Criminals, 419ners, drug dealers, armed rubbers is what you are known for everywhere you go, I will explain your plans to all my followers on all social media. Before December, we will make sure you loose 99.9% of South West, you know the moment you loose 80% of north, you can't even come 4th position. Awolowo was right anyway. Igbo can't be trusted in anything.
A lot of you didn't do your homework very well before jumping into this Obi nonsense. Good that you have seen the light... Now go and delete those posts on your FB and Twitter pages.
I've done that already my brother. No matter how worse, your own is your own oh. Infact. Tinubu is the next president. Iet him be a ghost. I will vote him.
mystery22: Tinubu urchin support your silly druggie candidate with your full chest and stop lying here.. BTW we know the real yoruba obidients who have brain and conscience. So stop lying, apc supporters claiming nonsense
aaaaah. Go and check many of my post insulting calling tinubu a greedy man, check my Facebook post where I posted Obi/dati support but I hate lies, that's what we're condemning TINUBU for, but now that you people started showing your true self I'm withrawing my support from useless people/tribe thinking they can achieve success alone, without others. It's now very clear that igbos are the most foolish people on the planet. Even when you come to Yoruba land and succeed, you will still condemn your host
Tinubu should call his wife to order, our politicians should refrain from fanning the flames of violence and hatred.
now this is how you people will loose, a good number of us Yoruba people are Obidients but if this is how you people want to play the game, you will loose forever in Nigeria. This show we can't even trust you people because igbos are the real people who carry hate. I watched the Vedio, Remi was joking with an Igbo woman telling her that her cousin marry Igbo man that Yoruba men will marry Igbo woman that's jokes that will unite us but because you people are always selfish, you always a looser due to selfishness. No region will ever win presidency without the support of Yorubas, it's only Yoruba who can win without Yoruba support like Obasanjo in 1999. Many Yorubas are insulting TINUBU praising Peter obi but lying like this is giving us a rethink. Igbos can't be trusted honestly.
Right. coming from a senseless individual, telling me some fake stories but all he got to back it up is with a picture of a road near his locality. who are you deceiving?? acquire proper Education brother, it'll help ya
all these insults is for your useless father who dropped you to be constituting problem to the society. Your father become homeless in life the moment he gave birth to you
Business / Re: This Debt Is Killing Me How Can I Regain My Freedom And Reputation? by hope4nigeria(m): 5:15am On Sep 08, 2022 