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Forget that talk.

When it comes to sěx, most men have not done up to 10% what an "innocent" girl have done.

As a young medical student, hearing girls loosing their virginity by 16 years came as a shock to me.

Because I, like most of my friends lost our virginity in 100l or 200l.

Some are even still virgins up to now. It's a lot easier to find virgin guys than you'll find virgin girls. I've spent 5 years in this school and have only met 2 virgin girls

Diamond098454:
You think everyone is wayward like your estate girls that you carry everyday? Talking about sex style, one can easily watch it via sites without practicing it.
Knowing all the styles and pretend not knowing anything is also good , one needs to preserve herself, strength and energy for a man that is worthy of it.

Having seen the western women and how they are easily manipulated by the media, one cannot help but agree with him.

I mean look at them raising funds for a 3 child murděrer

DiamondsAreFore:
Imagine these words coming out of the mouth of a so called elder to a young woman.

Forget this shît of who has no sin.

She did bad. Very bad.

Secondly, she has an obligation and oath and covenant with her husband. His brother does not have any with him.

I'm not excusing the brother. The husband will deal with him as he wants

Thundafireseun:
Who has no sin should cast the first stone ..

Banish to where??

What about the husbands brother??

Gift is not demanded. Men will never learn

Those who are watching are not always online o. This igbo woman, anytime you go her shop, the TV dey on BBN except her husband dey or she no dey shop.

I'm sure there are millions like her, housewives doing the same thing

Rayjay45:
Pack it in, already

No one's watching.

Ned loves fair ladies not this chocolate type

Actress reveals the cause of rising cancers in Nigeria.

Actress o

Now you're adding variables and conditions ba?

brainycaleb:
If all the variables are in place and the situation allows, then yes!

You think because your brain tries to survive something means you'll survive?

brainycaleb:
Acid regurgitation and acid refluxes are very common phenomenon and this cannot kill you because once you begin to feel unrest while asleep, your brain either in your head or in your stomach(yes, I know what you're thinking!)would signal your body to wake up! The human body will always try to survive!

Yes sir.

Hassanmaye:
You mean women don't have brain and they are stupid people who can't think like normal human beings??

Why didn't they take malaria prophylaxis before entering the country or on entry?

Someone somewhere was negligent

Do you see them standing in line and supporting the woman who murdered three of her kids?

Do you not see them raising over $1m to support her?

I mean someone strangled 3 of her kids to death and millions of women are rallying behind her and supporting her.

Women are easily tricked. Their minds are extremely fragile and whatever the media wants them to do, that's what they do.

Today if the media want them to walk naked outside, they just have to post on numerous accounts on tiktok and you'll see women walking outside naked.

It's a pity because this is how they get to men. Once you control the women, you control the men as well.

It's a pitiful state currently.

Please I'm interested in importing a fridge for personal use from China to Nigeria.

But I'm totally confused.

I've been seeing some pre-order groups and those look like some scam.

I mean they offer cheaper shipping options but the way they are many, it's scary and all of them are locked, so you can't talk to any members of the group.

Besides, they promise to deliver your items in 45 days, so if you pay now, you don't know if you have been scammed until 45 days later

Looks like the perfect scam to me.

Other options like paying per kg is just too expensive.

The fridge I want to buy weighs around 20kg. Paying $8 per kg as often required will take shipping cost alone to around $160 which will be more than enough to buy a regular fridge of smaller size.

Please if you have experience with this importing stuff, please help a brother out

Vibrations

werisetogether:
This has to be "content"

What exactly is he "listening" for in that pic?

African mineral submit but in New York

Africans will do anything for Africa as long as it's not happening in Africa

Emmabyte:
Op how can you want to finish one park of makaron and ten cups of beans in one sitting

e no reach like that o boss.

But the hunger been wan kee me that morning sha

Una funny o. So because I grew up farming in the village I can't be in med school? Guy every holiday I still go back to the village to farm. Where u think say money for school dey come from?

VonScott:
Only you from farming village & went to med school ok
You slept (lay down) immediately after eating.. Is acid reflux a joke to you?
Never do this but if you must, do so on your back with head raised 30, 45 or 60 degrees short term.

Belurved1:
Expecially fake beans.

una no go kee person for nairaland. Which one be fake beans again

Glad you're working on yourself.

Honestly this is my first experience. We've been taught GERD in 400l med school but I never imagined it to be this way

meobizy:
I guess this is your first GERD experience. Welcome to the club. You were able to explain the situation flawlessly. I eat heavily so it’s commonplace for me. Almost ten years and counting now. A doctor said I should sleep four hours after eating. The thing catches me seven hours after eating sometimes. The only solution for me is exercising every morning while eating reduced calories or eating only twice daily.

I always per boil my beans. You know I'm from a farming village so I'm aware of the preservatives we use in cooking beans.

So I cook my beans alone first, drain that water out, then boil again before adding anything like rice or spaghetti.

I'm guessing it's the way I laid down after eating

SirCloudControl:
The beans caused the issue. You need to always perboil beans to remove toxins from it. Or else it would feel like you consumed poisoning.

I once have a similar experience. I cooked beans, unripe plantain, palmoil and some protein.
I ate to my feel. After a while trouble started.
Was taken to the hospital and admitted.

Always perboil some of those beans

U dey speak English o.

Both of them sweet just as beans sweet with spaghetti 🙂

bukitt:
Is beans not gassy enough?

I was but it was not comfortable as I was pressing my phone, so I switched. My worst mistake today

ZaRuleOfLaw:
You are supposed to lie on your side (especially left side) or with your head a bit elevated

What's wrong with macaroni and beans boss?

bukitt:
You cook macaroni with beans are you not dumb?

I learnt a big lesson today. Even till now I still dey fear to chop the remaining food just dey pot since morning

Realestt19:
Thank God for your life
Overfeeding is the major cause of most Acid reflux cases.

Like my dad will say” Always eat in the right proportion “ cause food can cause sickness too.

Seriously o

And sometimes it's silly little mistakes that kill more

showboy2301:
If it was easy to know what killed some people after it happened, many of us won’t make such mistakes. Thank GOD that you survived it, don’t do it again

Sometimes you hear of people who slept and never woke up and today, i almost experienced the same thing and honestly, if i had not woken up the time i did, i am pretty sure it would have been a sad story.

so this morning i was very hungry. I didn't eat much yesterday night or during the day, so the hunger was very intense. you know those morning hunger that comes with torture na.

i then decided to cook something. my initial intention was to buy noodles (hungry man) and cook but when i got to the store, i saw macaroni and i just thought to myself, it has been long i ate macaroni o. so i bought it and came home to prepare it instead.

i cooked this with beans and everything. Honestly i made it better than i expected considering the lack of fish. and the money was like my last card.

but it was delicious anyways. so i ate a good portion from the food. i was filled but had to fetch a second servings for myself because i really enjoyed it.

that was the mistake i made. that second serving. my stomach began to pain me not so much to call it stomach ache. but just enough for me to be in distress.

so i said let me lie down. i placed my phone on a phone stand and lay belle flat on the floor with my face down on the pillow. Combined with the overfed belle, omo naso sleep carry me o.
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only for me to wake up suddenly like 10 minutes later struggling to breathe.

I was shocked and confused at the same time and scared. very scared because my chest was burning, it's like the acid in my stomach all moved to my chest and lungs.

you know that pain that comes with something getting into your airway when you eating? that's exactly the kind of pains i was in. i could literally fill the food moving from my stomach back to my throat and almost in my mouth.

Till this evening i can still fill the taste in my mouth, my chest is still burning and i am still scared of going to eat the food even though i am currently very hungry.

sometimes, i just wonder, what if i hadn't woken up by the time i did? because the moment i woke up, i stood up and had to maintain that standing position for a while even though i was feeling dizzy and irritated. this helped to push the food down.

it took me a while to understand that i was regurgitating probably because i slept on a filled stomach. much like squeezing an air filled balloon, but in this case, the content of my stomach was been pushed out by the force of my weight on it against the ground.

honestly, the experience could have gone really bad because the food could have rushed into my lungs and caused severe respiratory distress with people coming it to find food acid rushing out of my mouth and nostrils

Why can't these ladies accept they are getting old?

You're at 40 for chrissake!

This is when you focus on being a better person not just physical beauty.

If at 40, your physical beauty has not given you all you want, what do you think the next 10 or 15 or even 5 years of life is going to give you again?

No matter what, this surgery will not give you any look better than you were in your 16 to 25. So how exactly will it help you again?

All she'll get now is a bunch of hungry friends acting supportive telling her what she wants to hear

I try not to pity thieves because these guys no go pity you if dem jam only you for lonely street at night.

This is why people beat them mercilessly.

You made too many mistakes:

1. There are hundreds of products without a human face in the market currently( people owning biscuits factories, restaurants, oil etc don't necessarily need to be known to sell their products)

2. Not all products require a human face (someone importing from China doesn't need human face. He buys in large quantities, sell directly to few wholesalers etc)

3. I didn't say Ochacho made his money legitimately. He may or may not have. I don't know. Aside nairalanders, how many Nigerians can link seun to nairaland and use it to explain his money?

4. Fame/popularity is not POWER. It's a form of power. Power comes in different forms. What Wizkid will get away with, you probably won't get away with half of it.

5. Connection is not separated from fame. But fame can be separated from connection. VDM is only connected today because he has fame. If you don't have connections, go for fame, connection will look for you then.

Lekan239:
What you said may be true only if the money was made through fraud or some other questionable means.

But legitimate wealth is different.

If you build a small commodity business and eventually sell billions of naira worth of goods, it means you are probably serving a very large number of people. Your individual products might only cost 2,000 naira to 10,000 naira, but millions of people are buying from you. To build that kind of wealth legitimately takes years of consistency, and along the way, you become known, respected and connected.

On the other hand, if you are dealing in large commodities where individual transactions are worth millions and you successfully build a business worth billions, you are probably dealing directly with wealthy individuals, major businesses and powerful institutions.

So either way, legitimate wealth can naturally create influence and connections.

That is why I would not confuse popularity with power.

Popularity is being known by many people.

Connections are having relationships with people who have access, influence and the ability to make things happen.

And in many situations, connections are power.

Money can open the first door. Your reputation and relationships determine how many doors stay open.

You are in Rome, better behave like the Romans.

Na small thing go cause your death, if you no wise or you over wise for this system.

If you have the money to bribe police, bribe them, no go dey form woke or educated.

Bullet no go differentiate o

Offpoint1:
Such n0nse is only applicable in Nigeria where nothing functions.

Money without power is useless.

If you are poor, you'll think money is everything.

But once you have money, you'll understand the importance of power.

It's easy for peller never to get arrested in Nigeria because he had influence. But last year, you could arrest Ochacho and no one would care.

But with increased fame, it makes it harder to just pull him out.

He has tasted money. And someone somewhere probably has given him a taste of power maybe denying him something or threatening him.

So he knows what he's looking for now. But poverty go make us think say "him get money now, why him no just siddon queitly and enjoy"

Na because dem never intimidate you before upon say u get money die.

BigYash:
Why is the man looking for so much attention,even with the kind of money he has?

He has been behaving for days now,like he just discovered social media.. his well fed kids aren't left out...