₦airaland Forum

Is there any Nigerian aside our politician who doesn't think herdsmen = terrorists?

This type go claim say una brother răpe her and they will sentence him to life una go dey here dey happy dey do tribalism

The available data says you're lying though.

Lesbian marriage which involves two women have a higher failure rate than heterosexual marriage which involves a man and a woman.

These lesbian marriages also suffers more domestic violence compared to man/woman marriages.

Gay marriage involve man/man has the lowest divorce rate and domestic violence.

Each time you introduce women to the equation of marriage, divorce rate spikes.

But yes, let's blame men

Yes.

People choose their sexuality but think they are that way.

Let me ask you one simple question: how come we have more gays suddenly now than we've ever seen in any generation?

You don't think something is influencing this people?

Look around you, people become what they are fed on daily and they feel like they do not become what they are exposed to.

Look at most people, if you introduce 100 people to be any religion from childhood, 90% of them will maintain that religion and more than 60% will rather die than deny that "God" as a false one.

Even when they have no proof.

Our exposure is very very important. Why do you think they are forcing these things into children cartoons and TV shows and books?

Because early exposure gets these kids interested and changed. Today, we have 10 year old "coming out" as gays or wanting to be transgender before their puberty.

Exposure is important because the mind is easier to mould. People like you need to start understanding this.

Protect your kids from these things. But more importantly, protect them from these people who practice such.

If i tell you how people were "changed" in boarding schools, you won't believe it. It came as one person and when he was expelled, the people he was practicing this with, took it up and have become like him.

It's like a virus, and has been termed that a long time ago. It infects you and you infect others.

No one is born gay. There's no gene for that.

Yes some people can be born with genetic anomalies, such as hermaphrodites but they always have physical manifestations such as having two sexűal organs, having increased hormones of the opposite sex and so on.

For genetic anomalies, there are always phenotypical (physical, bodily) manifestation which correlates with behavioral patterns and these are well established.

But for gays, there's none of such. It's purely behavioral.

People are not born gays. Gays are made in the lab (or should I say by the media) and exposure.

Flangelo12:
I know you're an intelligent person.

Do you really think most gay people choose their orientation?

Think deeply without bias or religion or spirituality?

Do you really think they like the antipathy and potential violence that might be impos4d on them?

shut up abeg. you offend someone still want to force them to accept your apologies?

OLAADEGBU:
For Ian Wright not to accept her apology only shows him to be crude and unforgiving. Ian Wright is only exposing his hatred for Africans, especially Nigerians. If you know you know and if you don’t get it forget about it.

Didn't you grow up in Nigeria? How were you coping when you were here?

Una go just cross border small start dey form posh

OgogoroFreak:
You people can install sub meters. It's sold in the market. With that, everyone get to use exactly what they paid for.

ok this seems good. like how much does this cost and what's the installation like?

Zonefree:
But, how una go dey use four thousand naira for over 2 months? And 3 rooms


Na all these things dey vex Trump.

each of us pay 4k so that's about 12k and all we have is fans and phones. so I think its pretty reasonable

Zonefree:
The fault is not from your new neighbour. They've upgraded your Band level.

we have been on band A ever since

Hello guys

Please I'm having electricity problem with our new neighbour and I'm confused with what to do right now.

Here's the issue:

So we live in a compound where 3 rooms are connected to one prepaid.

So 3 of us donate to fund our prepaid meter.

A few months ago we were paying 4k and this usually last us for 2+ months. The reason I believe is that all we had to power is ceiling fans and charging of our devices (phones and laptops)

But ever since we got our new neighbor, the light bill has suddenly increased.

This month alone, we've recharged 8k+ individually and by my calculations, it'll cost each of us 12k+ for light to reach us for one month.

This is a significant jump from the 4k that will normally cover us for 2+ months.

I'm really not happy about this and don't know what to do right now.

I can't imagine paying 12k+ a month just to power my ceiling fans and laptop.

I have spoken with her and she told me she's using only fridge with the light, which I don't quite understand, how much our bill has jumped so significantly.

Please any suggestions on what to do will be welcome.

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I know one day I'll leave this country

MockingBird:
I'm a Nigerian and I currently live in one of the coldest provinces in Canada with no plans to return back to Nigeria any time soon as it is clear that Nigeria has become over 10 times worse since I left Nigeria about 4 years ago.

The current average life expectancy of Canadians is 83 years versus 55 years for Nigerians. The question that begs for answer therefore is that what are the factors that are responsible for this great difference in average life expectancy.

I may not be able to point to all, but from my close observation having lived in both countries, I have noticed that one major reason for this is DIET.

First thing I noticed is that Canadians have access to lots of fruits and vegetables and these are not just for a select few but they are available and affordable to everybody in the society. It might shock us as Nigerians to know that even though banana doesn't grow in Canada, Canadians eat way more Banana that Nigerians do. Banana (whether organic or GMO) is available to Canadians every single day of the year. Same with Plantains.

As a matter of fact, I learnt how to bake Banana bread because often times, you may have over ripe bananas at home which may not be edible but could be only be used for one thing - Banana bread. So without learning how to bake banana bread, you will have lots of banana getting rotten and thrown away at home.

On the flip side, as one who stayed in Abuja, Nigeria and driving through Berger I remember buying Banana from women and girls hulking banana around the Utako market. Back then it was usually for around N1,000 to N1,500 for a decent bunch. I don't know how much they may be now with the worsened state of the economy. In Canada, you can buy one or two fingers of banana if that is your wish. In Nigeria, you dare not as you will immediately be cursed by the sellers. There are far far more fruits and vegetables that Canadians eat that Nigerians would have no access to.

The second reason I think Canadians have better health compared to Nigerians is because of their access to proteins compared to Nigerians. By proteins, I mean eggs, milks, chicken, meat and fish. Their milk here is majorly a sugarless liquid in 1 to 4 liters compared to the sweetened powdered and tin milk we have in Nigeria. The average Canadian drinks milk like water compared to a Nigerian and you can be sure of the nutrients in the milk as their dairy industry is heavily protected and regulated with price ceilings specified by the government.

My summary therefore is that nutritious food availability is one of the major reasons why a resident of one country may live longer compared to a resident of another country. What do you think. Let me hear your thoughts.

Lolz.

You dey whine

louqas:
How much?
She will just use and dump your ass
She's way out of your league
Better ask her for money and connections to Bette your life

Money can also come from servicing

louqas:
Wetin dey worry you sef ?

You meet GMD of Zenith bank and na SEX be the first thing wey enter your head?

You no need money and connections? Thats what you should be thinking of

Get the money first, plenty Pussy go follow

And you couldn't come up with anything until he did

overall90:
D

This is all you can come up with.
Some people dey o

For her age, she looks good... I definitely would chew if I get the chance.

We should not look at women that way sha. Especially a woman like her who has put in the work to get to where she is right now.

E no easy to reach the top. I hope one day to reach the top of my industry just like her

H.orny nairaland men una hear me

Because I know as una see her, the only question in mind is whether she's pretty or not or whether you go chew her or not.

Women's success no really concern men and most women will never understand this

Seriously o.

Because how you go fight your oga wife?

I personally don't think it's ordinary oga and boy relationship de two of them get

MrBroke:
That boy dey craze

Oya na 🤝

When I marry you go know

NOETHNICITY:
Bro, everybody no be like una o
My wife can’t fight on the streets

This is what I'm saying. If it's your boss friend it's totally different.

This one is the wife...in a month's time. Even ordinary girlfriend or friends with benefits, you still treat them with more respect than this

ned009:
Boi wouldn't have acted that way if he hadn't been told some ill things about the lady..Knowing she's Ur boss's fiancee and still going ahead to humiliate her in such a manner is really huge...I'd advice my sister to leave

If I can't check your phone I actually can't date you.

That has always been my dating rule.

DeclanR:
Even at marriage, she still wouldn't let you into her phone.
Just hope your woman is not that type of woman.

These ladies claim their phone is their privacy, then sneak into your phone to check. You see the hypocrisy.

Any lady I'm dating and can't access her phone, I will gently breakup. Never!

Imagine your woman can't leave her phone with u to watch a movie or play Games or do something else? She will have to monitor you closely, so u don't check other stuff on her phone, she becomes instantly sweaty, nervous and gittery.

Most girls marry with empty pockets.

Feldie:
How come she didn't have 600 Naira for bike? She's not ripe for marriage yet. The boy should be arrested for assault if he struck her though. He could have let her into the store and collect the money at least he knows her and it's not a case of robbery or theft

Why will you be with a girl and planning marriage and can't access her phone?

DeclanR:
You think she will allow you access to her phone?

See nothing you fit call me go excuse the boys behavior.

I've been a sales boy before and one thing you learn is to respect your oga's wife and then his siblings.

She felt disrespected and reacted. Even for Bible, when potipher wife talk, dem potipher first follow him wife talk.

Everyone get place for this life and that sales boy dey forget him place.

advanceDNA:
Oh okayy…..now i understand why u nor see anything wrong in the dirty, classless behaviour of the woman..
So U seff na street fighter ….

Everybody na street fighter, just That your own turn of events never reach naim make.

Imagine say u dey emergency and unconscious and na the műmü dey control the shop

advanceDNA:
Everybody and their choice…Me i nor fit marry street fighter ooooo

If this happens, I'll sack the boy immediately I get back and even beat him if I can.

Him no get sense at all

advanceDNA:
Did i say its about money ??

Baba if he happen to you…. Sack your sales boy that u instructed not to give money to anybody and marry your street fighter

and yes, she's very right to be angry with the boy.

Though I'd have caution her about getting into fight but at the same time, there's a bike man waiting to be paid, so it's still understandable.

Tharmon:
Well, is the boy aware she is his boss Fiancee??

The boy was following his boss orders but slapping and tearing the lady's cloth Nahh

like seriously.

Even if I ask you not to give anybody money and my sister comes around with a bike man, I expect you to still use your head and settle it.

When I come back, you tell me and next time i go tell you whether or not you should have done it.

No be even say na big money.

It's not about the money bro.

If my woman comes to my place of business, I'd expect everyone to give her the best of treatment just as they would give to me.

advanceDNA:
Lol……protect you?? U wey dey fight for street nor need protection..u be werèy naaaa

.. broke and entitled…. Ordinary 600 naira, u nor get… u still dey fight small boy for public attempting to forcefully enter shop managed by an employee

shes lucky its not the man considering cancelling the wedding…..

All these fake stories seff..

Let me narrate something for you. I use to date this very gentle and lovely girl.

But there's one flaw with her. She loves to watch movies where the man maltreats his wife.

I wasn't even aware of this genre of movies until she came into my life.

Everytime she's watching a Nollywood movie, it's always this type of movies and you know what happens after she finishes?

She start saying 'this is how men are. This is how you guys are. The woman will be loving you and you'll be maltreating her"

In this type of movies the women rarely do anything wrong and any small provacation, the reactions of the men will be excessive and out of proportion.

So, each time she watches these sort of movies, I know one thing is certain: she will be angry with me over nothing and if I don't do things to take her mind off it or placate her, we won't make love that night.

So ladies are hugely influenced by what they read and watch on the internet.

Juice WRLD sang something "she was watching Jerry springer (a TV show where couples fight) and the next thing we are on Jerry springer".

So, forget what your girl posts. Most girls won't post unconventional stuff because their families are on social media as well.

Instead of checking her social media profile call her one afternoon or whatever time and ask her to open her Facebook or Instagram or tiktok and Watch what they watch, read what they read, and listen to their music.

Get into how they think because most times their thinking especially about their partner is shaped by the videos they watch. Check who they follow.

If your girl is constantly listening to "cheat back on any man who cheats on you" or "no girl should have one boyfriend unless she's married or engaged" such women form ideology to cheat on you.

So, check who your girl is listening to.

From there you go understand your woman and her ideas about life, God, yourself, marriage and everything else.

And if you like it, then continue.

Peace

When you check a girl's social media profile, don't look at what she posts.

This is the mistake most guys make just as the op made in this post.

The reason I say this is simple:

Most girls don't post anything incriminating on their profile.

Most girls don't even post anything at all on their profile except their pictures.

So, if you're looking at her profile, you're looking in the wrong place and won't find anything wrong.

Except for girls who are already bhadies. Those ones anyone can see them from a mile away.

What should you be checking?

Let me tell you: check her feeds. Yes, scroll through her Facebook feeds and reels, watch the kinds of videos she watches.

Open her tiktok, watch the kinds of videos she's watching.

This is important because these apps show you what you're agreeing with.

They show you the kind of ideology she have.

If she's a feminist and those ones who judge everything through feminism and trying to tell you, you can't do this or that, you'll see such videos popping up in her reels.

So before you think about marriage, get her comfortable and watch some videos together with her on her Facebook or tiktok account.

Don't let her skip some videos. Most girls will want to skip some videos that talk about things that will gas you up.

Let them all play. Watch for an hour or two and make your judgement.

Personally, I'd say no.

Yes, the sales boy maybe acting on the fiance instructions, but honestly he's supposed to also use his head.

As a guy, you give her the money and if oga comes, you tell him. If him shout or becomes angry, you call the woman tell her incase of next time.

Also, I honestly don't think that oga/sales boy relationship is ordinary or the man no rate the wife to be at all.

What would be your reaction if this lady was your sister?

This arrest can never happen in northern states.

There dem dey even chain them like animals, deny them food and beat them ontop

Women are the prize