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Islam play the long waiting game. And this is something people don't understand.

Muslims don't fight when they are the minority. They are peaceful now.

What they are doing right now is the quiet stage: giving birth to numerous children.

They will keep breeding and adding to their population.

Once they are large enough, you'll start seeing them taking political positions and voting for themselves.

This is becoming more frequent now and it's almost like a new pattern or something.

People will accuse you of something and instead of sitting it out or trying to provide evidence, they resort to suicide.

This is to prove how much pains they are in or to prove beyond anything that they are innocent of the charge.

A few years ago, a young man on twitter was accused of rąping a girl by one of those feminists on Twitter.

And instead of taking them to court or debunking the issues, he took his life with a message saying hope they are happy now?

He killed himself to prove to them and to us that he was innocent and that the accusations was indeed painful to him.

But what was the result?

The false accuser merely disabled her account and went offline. Till date nothing happened to her.

The issue trended for a few months and that's it. Point proven. But at what cost?

Worst, he'll never know how the same people he was trying to prove a point to eventually judged him.

He lost in life and still lost in death.

More recently is this girl who said a man taped her. After repeatedly asking for money (from the screenshots allegedly from their conversations) and didn't get the money, she killed herself to prove how much painful the experience was.

The truth is people may care but they also have problems in their lives. Everybody get problems.

Me like this, I've resit all my exams in this medical school. Very soon another exam will come. To me this is my problem. I would only type RIP and move on by next minute or so.

Stop committing suicide to prove points to strangers. It doesn't get you justice. It doesn't serve you any good.

You end up dead. That's the only thing that comes out of that.

If someone offended you and it pains you so much, go to the right authority to address the issue.

If you don't get justice or it is delayed, then go for help and find better ways to live your life, learn the lessons and pick up your pieces and try to move on with your life.

Yes, it'll be hard but it's still your life. Rape is painful but it's not worst than those living with paralysis and pain every blessed day.

I'm not minimizing the pain of rape. But I'm telling you that there's a better way than killing yourself to prove a point.

If someone accuse you of something and you didn't do it, then ask them to provide sufficient proof and damn the public judgement.

And this is one of the reasons why I have refrained from judging the man being accused.

When the accused the Earnest guy on twitter, all of us believed the lady and joined her calling the boy a rapist until he killed himself.

I'll not be a part of that charade any more. If you're accusing someone of anything, go to court.

You be můmů

Omoawoke:
All shades of wrong


You all gone cracked in this country

Chai!!

Damn it motherrrfkerr

I’m so pissed off

How do I unsee this misery… sore to the eyes and irritating my thought process



Forcefully sir!

She said forcefully !!!

That’s rapppee

And I’d say again, taking advantage of a girls vulnerability even if force is not used, it’s still rape!

For instance , a girl is desperately in need of funds to sort out emergency situations like rent, medical bills, food, school fees and a man told her he would give her the money on condition of sex.. and the girl did it out of pressure, that’s still rape even if they both go to hotel to do it..

I think the law should be able to protect people who are exploited for sex even though no physical force was used

Why are you still using PayPal now. This isn't 2012 or 2015 anymore

Yugoslavia247:
Life funny oo

Person wey be pako go blow finish kon Dey try wetin dem use raise am

Life sha

Make God help us

na wetin dey my mind as I dey open the thread.

Wetin u grow up on. You come dey get reaction now when u don make money.

Make una sha watch out for my reaction when I go taste garri o

Is he saying this while half fool or half empty?

Nothing we never hear for man and woman relationship.

So, nothing dey new under the sun to gush about.

Leonard and him wife wey do gragra 3 Years ago don scream free at last

No be me love go shark again

I'm beginning to think that women are either robots or zombies.

Like seriously.

Ask any woman about a relationship problem today and you get the same answer from them as solution.

Their responses are always the same:

Take her out. Do more chores. Take her to a nice restaurant. Plan a romantic date. Buy her gifts.

And if those don't work, they give you the magical last option: go for therapy.

This is all the advice a woman will proffer once you explain your relationship problem to her.

And yet you amounted to nothing?

Suicideboy:
He should go rest. There are other kids like him. Some are way more intelligent than him but lack opportunities. At his age i was already writing my macro assembler for the motorola chipset, memorized hexadecimal and i can do differentials and polynamials without using a calcuator.

You know it's speculated that the 7/11 was done by Isreal?

I'm not saying Isreal did it. But let's reason this critically:

Iran and Trump signed a peace deal which Iran benefited massively from. The Americans were not even happy because it entails giving Iran a huge amount.

Isreal wanted Trump to continue the war even to Lebanon. Trump already said no to all the wars in the middle East.

But you know who wanted to continue the war? Isreal!

Now suddenly there's a bomb blast in the strait of hormuz and suddenly America is being drawn into the war.

This is the theory from 7/11 that people said Israel did. Bomb America, turn it into a news, of course America will need to prove it's strength by attacking back.

It's not siblings fight where you ask questions and investigate. If I'm bombed in your territory immediately after a war, I need to bomb back immediately to show I'm not weak.

This was certainly done by the Israeli but let's pretend.

Mattswaggz:
This is Iran proving Netanyahu right for always choosing brute force when dealing with their likes over and over again....Iranian supporters here won't see Iran's constant violation and disregard of the peace agreement now ooo but should the war resume and US/Israel chose a more brutal method to deal with them they'll start crying genocide,human rights violation blah blah blah to whomsoever cares to listen. .

When has good change ever started from the bottom to the top?

I no sure say you read my post sha o

CandyOps:
Speak for yourself & your Nurse Eliza.
Which one be say nurse no Dey see job abroad?
Those two words “nurse” and “no dey see job” no suppose dey the same sentence

Nursing na one profession wey AI no fit take over plus it’s hot in demand

Sometimes the market may look over saturated or already too captured.

But for the right product, the market is very open and unsaturated. It doesn't matter the amount of competitors already existing.

A good example is this xtreme toothpaste. Once you use it, you will never go back to buying Oral B, Closeup or any other toothpaste.

It takes just one try and you'll most likely never switch to another product again.

I've been switching between Oral B and closeup long before I said let me try a new product.

Closeup used to be too hot for me and oral b just wasn't it for me. We switched to dabur herbal then. But it just wasn't it too.

I've been seeing xtreme but it looks cheap (same as pepsodent) and is actually cheaper, so I avoided it at all cost.

Then one day I was short of money and decided to try this and since then over 3 years now, I've never thought about switching to any other product again.

And the best part? I've never seen their advert anywhere before. Not on TV (been long I watched TV sha), radio or on social media.

But it seems everyone is using xtreme toothpaste nowadays. Even in the school hostels, it's almost the only toothpaste students are using.

Plus I get a good toothbrush with each purchase, so nowadays I just change my toothbrush with each purchase.

Good products will always find their markets!

In your opinion what do you think about this?

Also what's a good product in Nigeria that you can recommend for others to try?

Na můmů dey go but TV for 5k on Temu and will be happily expecting real TV instead of a miniature TV toy

imagrg:
Many inferior goods are on Temu, so make your choice wisely.

Seriously o.

Nigerianxpress:
Ordering from temu with no delivery fees for years, Na only mumu dey use Jumia

What trap bro?

kaywhy09:
Enter Temu's trap at your own risk!

No. I have never paid for delivery for anything I bought on Temu.

WatchYourSix:
lol… TEMU has charged u for delivery and ensured u paid before seeing your goods….
Jumia offers u pay before delivery, u still dont want to pay delivery to your house??
If the delivery fees bugs u that much chose the option of their pickup station …

The guy thinks women are men.

I got the shocker of my life while in working in gynae ward and interacting with women.

Most women start their sex life from the age of 12. Like 12 o.

It was only in the university most guys even get disvirgined.

Now imagine starting at age 12, the body count go almost enter 100 for some women especially if you meet her at 30+ years.

At 30, she has been sexually active for almost 18 years. So in 18 years, let assume she has only 4 boyfriends. That's dating each for 3+ years.

Which is not possible. Now let's add random flings. Sex na water for women abeg.

Goo0dHardDick:
She told you she has 4 body counts and you believed? Lol

A woman of 31 has approximately 65 body counts, excluding other men who she knacked for fun and konji. Adding those ones will make it 87

A hungry girl is not and will never be capable of loving you. Believe this bro.

A 27 or 30 year old girl, most times, have been dating since the age of 12 or 15. That's almost 15-20 years of dating experience.

Imagine you have been doing the same thing for 15-20 years, you become so good at it, it becomes second nature.

But more importantly, it just doesn't impress you anymore. If you have been driving cars for 15-20 years, e no go "shark" you like the first time.

That's the position these women are in. Nothing you say or do is new to them under the sun.

Like for instance, What's something new do you think she hasn't seen in the dating pool? What kind of love language do you think she hasn't heard before? What kind of love has she not proffessed to another man before you?

Is it fvck? What kind of style has she not seen before in the bedroom?

My brother, the real issue is you're trying to make a retired player feel impressed with your dribbling skills.

It's like a child running to his father trying to impress the father by reciting ABCD. The father will 'act' impressed to keep the child happy but internally, the ABCD is nothing and he has seen all those things countless times.

My geography teacher in secondary school once said there's literally nothing you can write in my exam that will impress me, especially those of you that like to write long essays.

"I know more than you do, so writing those long essays will only take my time, just write the essential points"

This is the 30 year old woman you're trying to love. Love means nothing to her. She has given her heart several times to several men.

She don chop love tire. She don hear countless 'sweet things' for her ears.

So, each time you come go to her, telling her sweet things, doing romantic stuff, she has seen it long before.

Yes, she'll 'act' surprised and impressed like she had done countless times but at the core, in her heart of heart, those things mean nothing to her.

So if she must 'act' submissive (she's no longer capable of being submissive), it means you must be offering her what she cannot get by herself anymore: money.

So if you find a 30 year old woman acting submissive and pleasing her man, trust me there are two things involved, one she was desperate to survive (nothing is working well for her) or the man is spending.

Both of which involves the man having money.

The last time I tried buying something on jumia, the cost of delivery was almost twice the cost of the product.

Now if you are in Lagos or Abuja, your cost of delivery is usually N500 or N1,000. Which is usually reasonable.

But for us outside these cities, cost delivery has always been the number one reason why we cannot buy things from jumia over the years.

If you add the cost of delivery to the price of the items, it's already more than you taking a bus to the market and getting it.

Besides, if you're taking the bus to the market, it's not only cheaper but you get your item the same day.

Back then, it used to make sense to me that maybe delivery is not that easy or cheap and that's why jumia could not offer free delivery.

But here's a Chinese company selling directly from China at a much more cheaper rates, yet their delivery is always free even down to the remote state and village where I live.

Each time I buy my items, it comes about 10days later, always free with a delivery man calling me either outside my gate or somewhere very close to it.

So how's Temu doing this and jumia could not?

8.3m is not "all citizens".

8.3m is to vulnerable population and most importantly, makes less than a fraction of the over 200m population.

If you give everybody in Nigeria cash at the end of every month, more than 60% of the population will become dependent on it, have no motivation to work.

Production drops rapidly and the cash can no longer buy anything because prices will rise as well.

Leading to people demanding more cash and this circle continues.

This is because money is just a piece of paper. It has no value. It's value must be backed by effort which is made visible by production.

The value of your money is tied to how much goods/services you can produce. This is why banks don't just print money when needed.

Money is tied to productivity. You cannot throw it at your problems and hope it goes away.

Education is important.

naptu2:
Conditional cash transfer.

Over 8.3m Households Benefited From Conditional Cash Transfer Programme
https://www.nairaland.com/8673311/over-8.3m-households-benefited-conditional

These guys are funny. Let's see how they are going to sustain it.

You don't need immigrants out of your country to share money for your citizens though.

This is why you have identification documents.

Inflation will catch up with this so fast that they will demand more in 2028 and since they are dependent on this sure income, the already lazy population will find less motivation to work.

I honestly don't understand the obsession of igbo guys with nurses/nursing students.

Not like these nurses are paid much or something.

But igbo guys are obsessed with nursing girls like maad.

Even those in school if you investigate carefully, you'll find most of them are being trained by these guys in the hope of marrying them.

Even on matching sites, igbo guys will most likely request for a nurse.

Like this is just another profession, why the obsession?

I just do alwaysOn plan and forget about data for the month. 7k though

Nigerian girls believe love should start in a restaurant over a plate of food which they don't have to pay for.

Because na you love them, no be them love you.

And the můmů Nigerian guys agreed to this. Na them dey even carry am for head all for a crumb of pvssy wey she dey give aboki wey dry sell fried indomie and egg

This is nonsense and we all know it. You cannot "spice" things up with someone that doesn't want you or look down on you.

You can only spice things up with someone that wants the marriage to work.

For chrissake, y'all should stop with this spice things up nonsense talk.

And it's always the same thing. "spice things up, take her to a restaurant, buy her things" rubbish talk from shallow thinkers.

So until he spends money before his partner can be happy and willing to be with him?

Is she then married to the man or to his money? Na why most of una dey end up with badyart pikin be this.

Op if she's not willing to do those things that makes you happy as you're willing to do to make her happy then withdraw yourself from the marriage as well.

Oceanjagaban:
spice up the marriage , the little way you can. take her out sometimes .I didn't ask you to go and spend all your money .sometimes knack her well.e be like you dey pity her as if na your sister .